Have u ever felt like ending your life because of troubled world? How did you get over it?
Most times I feel like ending it all when I can't get what I want. I have really tried all possible best.

How did you get over this?

I've felt a degree of this pain too. The best way for me was to look at where I'm coming from and see how much I've grown from that former stage (No matter how little it is).

Then look for those little moments when you were really happy (especially pictures and chats with friends). Think of your family too and the pain it will cause them.

Eventually... You'll find your own lifeline

Stephenomozzy:
I've felt a degree of this pain too. The best way for me was to look at where I'm coming from and see how much I've grown from that former stage (No matter how little it is).

Then look for those little moments when you were really happy (especially pictures and chats with friends). Think of your family too and the pain it will cause them.

Eventually... You'll find your own lifeline

Thanks, life has really hit me hard severally, I still thought of leaving this country for education and hustle abroad , corona started again. I don't even know where I'm going as I de .

Brother, just take things one step at a time... Don't be too concerned about so many expectations from yourself, people around you and even society.

At this stage, you have to FIRST LIVE FOR AND FIND YOUR OWN HAPPY PLACE, THEN USE IT TO FIND YOUR BEARING

remember, so far person norva die, one day one day, stammerer to call him papa name complete

Stephenomozzy:
Brother, just take things one step at a time... Don't be too concerned about so many expectations from yourself, people around you and even society.

At this stage, you have to FIRST LIVE FOR AND FIND YOUR OWN HAPPY PLACE, THEN USE IT TO FIND YOUR BEARING

remember, so far person norva die, one day one day, stammerer to call him papa name complete

. It is well bro, stammerer may never call papa..no one really knows d future, whether its white or black. A young neighbor just died in my hood, I wish I was d one... I have some medicine in my room to do a painless suicide since last year, bt d spirit still told me to still hang on.... I don't think I can get to d age 40 if all this uncertainties continue.

Brock1:
. It is well bro, stammerer may never call papa..no one really knows d future, whether its white or black. A young neighbor just died in my hood, I wish I was d one... I have some medicine in my room to do a painless suicide since last year, bt d spirit still told me to still hang on.... I don't think I can get to d age 40 if all this uncertainties continue.

Exactly, no one knows the future.

So don't cheat yourself of the possibility of having a happy future by giving up so easy.

Trust me, there are people out there having it even worst.. But in life, we don't compare our growth or pain with others. Just hold on.

Listen to your Spirit My Chief..... Sometimes, we need to get better and see ourselves better for things to become better.

Yes twice, one when my ex scammed me, second one was exactly July 2019 when I was owing 7 months house rent, my landlord threatening to take me to court, I wanted to drink izal, but I thought twice about my loving mother and siblings. I gave life a second chance

Stephenomozzy:


Exactly, no one knows the future.

So don't cheat yourself of the possibility of having a happy future by giving up so easy.

Trust me, there are people out there having it even worst.. But in life, we don't compare our growth or pain with others. Just hold on.

Listen to your Spirit My Chief..... Sometimes, we need to get better and see ourselves better for things to become better.

thanks

many times,and the thought have totally gone yet,creeps in once in a while, haven't felt at home in this world

Brock1:
. It is well bro, stammerer may never call papa..no one really knows d future, whether its white or black. A young neighbor just died in my hood, I wish I was d one... I have some medicine in my room to do a painless suicide since last year, bt d spirit still told me to still hang on.... I don't think I can get to d age 40 if all this uncertainties continue.

My friend, do you mind sharing exactly what these challenges are?
I may not have answers for you but you can never tell some kind hearted member may be of help.

Please, I beg you in the name of God, no matter the challenge you are facing , never ever take your life. Never!

To him that is joined to the living there's hope. For a living dog is better than a dead lion.

Every new day is an opportunity to overcome! Don't throw that opportunity away forever!

I look forward to reading your success story soonest!

You have my best wishes and my prayers are with you!

Samcent:


My friend, do you mind sharing exactly what these challenges are?
I may not have answers for you but you can never tell some kind hearted member may be of help.

Please, I beg you in the name of God, no matter the challenge you are facing , never ever take your life. Never!

To him that is joined to the living there's hope. For a living dog is better than a dead lion.

Every new day is an opportunity to overcome! Don't throw that opportunity away forever!

I look forward to reading your success story soonest!

You have my best wishes and my prayers are with you!

thanks, the problem is majorly money, I have lost a lot, and still lost d job I was saving little from, still set up a biznes , competitors rose up at strategic places that's limiting my customers access to me. I have been knocked down severally in this life, and still managed to stand, I'm just thinking of just giving up, in d end I will still die .

Brock1:
thanks, the problem is majorly money, I have lost a lot, and still lost d job I was saving little from, still set up a biznes , competitors rose up at strategic places that's limiting my customers access to me. I have been knocked down severally in this life, and still managed to stand, I'm just thinking of just giving up, in d end I will still die .

Believe me, you should be very grateful to God.

Why?

You are facing a challenge that will go away with more or much money in your pocket, not one that all the money in the world cannot solve.

And there are quite a number of life hurdles that money can't help you scale. You will not meet such hurdles!

I'm not a businessman, but if you abandon the thought of giving up, and look carefully in and around you, you will get ideas on how to improve your financial or business outlook.

As it concerns money problems, more than 70 percent of Nigerians are in the same shoe as you.

No man will leave this world alive, but it will be pure cowardice to leave by one taking his/her life.

In life quitters never win and winners never quit!

Be a winner by not quitting!

Cheers!

Samcent:

Believe me, you should be very grateful to God.

Why?

You are facing a challenge that will go away with more or much money in your pocket, not one that all the money in the world cannot solve.

And there are quite a number of life hurdles that money can't help you scale. You will not meet such hurdles!

I'm not a businessman, but if you abandon the thought of giving up, and look carefully in and around you, you will get ideas on how to improve your financial or business outlook.

As it concerns money problems, more than 70 percent of Nigerians are in the same shoe as you.

No man will leave this world alive, but it will be pure cowardice to leave by one taking his/her life.

In life quitters never win and winners never quit!

Be a winner by not quitting!

Cheers!

thanks, I actually don't see suicide as cowardice act again, but I will yield your advice ,I will hang on.

Thank a lot .

Brock1:
thanks, I actually don't see suicide as cowardice act again, but I will yield your advice ,I will hang on.

Thank a lot .

Have you ever tried smiling for no reason? Like you're just in your space, minding your business and smiling to yourself?

Be happy. That's the only antidote to whatever life throws at you.

Be happy. And stay around gentle and sweet people. Avoid or ignore negative people who only complain and gossip. Their bad energy will bring you down. If you're one of those people, change.

If you have friends that only check on you to see if you have a job or to monitor your progress, block them. Stay on your own.

Be in charge of your mental health. Seek only those with positive energy and coldly block those with negative. Appreciate and celebrate even your smallest achievements. If anyone tries to talk it down, give them a brutal reply, that way, you give back the bad energy they are projecting to you. If you keep quiet, you'll have to fight for days to remove the bad energy and trust me, it will take a toll on your mental health.

Be in charge of your life. You're the captain of your ship. Only you with God's help can steer it. Fight for your right to be happy. Fight for your right to live a comfortable life. If something interests you, go for it. If it seems difficult to attain, persevere, fight for it, don't give up easily. That alone will give you more zeal to live.

Be strong, stay happy, protect your mental health, teach people how to treat you.

Nooil:


Have you ever tried smiling for no reason? Like you're just in your space, minding your business and smiling to yourself?

Be happy. That's the only antidote to whatever life throws at you.

Be happy. And stay around gentle and sweet people. Avoid or ignore negative people who only complain and gossip. Their bad energy will bring you down. If you're one of those people, change.

If you have friends that only check on you to see if you have a job or to monitor your progress, block them. Stay on your own.

Be in charge of your mental health. Seek only those with positive energy and coldly block those with negative. Appreciate and celebrate even your smallest achievements. If anyone tries to talk it down, give them a brutal reply, that way, you give back the bad energy they are projecting to you. If you keep quiet, you'll have to fight for days to remove the bad energy and trust me, it will take a toll on your mental health.

Be in charge of your life. You're the captain of your ship. Only you with God's help can steer it. Fight for your right to be happy. Fight for your right to live a comfortable life. If something interests you, go for it. If it seems difficult to attain, persevere, fight for it, don't give up easily. That alone will give you more zeal to live.

Be strong, stay happy, protect your mental health, teach people how to treat you.

thank you

Brock1:
Have u ever felt like ending your life because of troubled world? How did you get over it?
Most times I feel like ending it all when I can't get what I want. I have really tried all possible best.

How did you get over this?

Money is how I get over it, I do stuff to make money and boy let me tell you. The world is much sweeter when there is money in your pocket, you can explore every fantasy and vices you ever wanted. Alcohol, Drugs , women, hobbies, careers the list is endless. The value of life is too much to throw away, only a loser thinks of suicide.

pcguru1:


Money is how I get over it, I do stuff to make money and boy let me tell you. The world is much sweeter when there is money in your pocket, you can explore every fantasy and vices you ever wanted. Alcohol, Drugs , women, hobbies, careers the list is endless. The value of life is too much to throw away, only a loser thinks of suicide.

its constant flow of money I need too..with constant flow of money, I suicide thought will b disappear.

Brock1:
its constant flow of money I need too..with constant flow of money, I suicide thought will b disappear.

We all have suicide thought but to act upon it requires a severe push. For me I'm no Sigmund Freud but I can tell you this world is difficult so I understand why people turn to vices or spirituality for distraction. Its why I throw myself into hobbies and all. Else we'd all run mad. The world is fill of vast information to profit off, however it is not easy. Try online for jobs you can do or pick up a skill. I used to dwell on negative stuff and thought of suicide at a point too, but after seeing the value of life, and what life has to offer. I know I am a smart person so I will trade that smartness for money as much as I can. You write well and think of thought provocative stuff that's a skill too. Anyway take care

Several times. I still haven't know ways to stop the thought.

pcguru1:


We all have suicide but to act upon it requires a severe push. For me I'm no Sigmund Freud but I can tell you this world is difficult so I understand why people turn to vices or spirituality for distraction. Its why I throw myself into hobbies and all. Else we'd all run mad. The world is fill of vast information to profit off, however it is not easy. Try online for jobs you can do or pick up a skill. I used to dwell on negative stuff and thought of suicide at a point too, but after seeing the value of life, and what life has to offer. I know I am a smart person so I will trade that smartness for money as much as I can. You write well and think of thought provocative stuff that's a skill too. Anyway take care

. Thank you

Brock1:
. Thank you

You have interesting write ups, I'll follow and be sure to send you some things that might help out with making money but its not easy be safe.

Brock1:
Have u ever felt like ending your life because of troubled world? How did you get over it?
Most times I feel like ending it all when I can't get what I want. I have really tried all possible best.

How did you get over this?

Have i ever been down and broke? Yes
Did i ever think of suicide? No
Why? Theres always one beautiful thing or sometimes mere thoughts of all the good places and things of life, those thought are what keeps me going during the difficult times.

Life is really really beautiful. Alot of beautiful places to visit, things to do and try. Keep those thoughts in mind. And whenever u can, go on a trip, if its not international, within Nigeria is fine. Do new things, adventures, meet strangers( i didnt say befriend and give them your house address), just live and enjoy the moments. When you're down, those awesome moments will keep you going beclause you'd definitely want to get back on your feet, snap out of the sadness and enjoy more.

Long story short : Life is beautiful. Suicidal thoughts or suicide itself has never been an option