hi guys i urgently need your advice,have been with this lady for over 2years now and we had baby girl together she already had 2daughters to different dads and my little girl she is the last one and now she is 1year and half,we had been having issues arguing all the time and she always raise her voice on me,i have my own place that i live,due to her health and social service want me to stay with her and look after her and my own little girl plus her second born of another dad,on this particular day she was hoovering up and am trying to stop my own little girl playing with hoover cable,and she is expecting me to leave my own little girl and attend to her second born to another dad,she want me to go in kitchen and make some toast bread for her second born i said no cus am watching my little girl,then she started shouting i will do it my self and then she said you may aswel park your bag and go and she was shouting while saying leave now then her oldest daughter and her oldest daughter boyfriend listen what she was saying,i did explain the situation to her oldest daughter that she will find out her self if i was wrong or her mum, but me and her oldest daughter we dont like each other for the simple reason,she is lazy smoke in the house also when ever she had issue wit her boy friend everyone else in that house has to be punished she normally banging on the wall to get people attentions,this lady my partner that told me to leave her house i have done alots for her,i lost my job because of her and her children,and i left the house on the 2nd of this month and rang me on 8th to come back to her for one day my birthday and to see my daughter,so she want us to talk about the issue and all wat she said sticks to my body like glue and i really dont want anything to do with her anymore but we got baby together,what should i do now i need advice......

I have noticed fake stories are normal posted late in the night from 10pm,12am to 6am.
Nice story op.
You should consider literature section.

Different daughters for different men. First daughter smokes. Nawa, this kind family na drunkard fit settle the wahala o. You no get ur own apartment as man weh u be? She's been sex starved, that's why she wan reconcile with you. So far u get ur own apartment and u get job, ur daughter can be coming to ur place too so u no need fear. You can go to her, let her beg small and give her some hot rounds thru d night.. na wetin she miss be dat. Abroad life sha.

See nonsense stories we read on NL nowadays... Seun just dey let every person create account.. Chai

Akata matter?? Thank God say she never pull a 9mm on you.... my guy....if u still got some naija left in you...Japa!!! Settle amicably how you’ll share custody of your girl..

Are you in South Africa

In uk with white lady

Which kind write up be this op ... You no try at all, no be u say na only 2children she get..
Where did the oldest daughter now came from..abi 2yrs old pikin dey smoke Etc..

If u keep writing Ur stories like this, u may not enter best selling novels.
And next time, don't jam pack your write ups, u get.. and use appropriate punctuations.

I know with time, Ur writing will improve, shallom

Which kyn jigolo be this sef

Oyibo wahala...

Sorry

I'm sure it'll be one obese white woman doing this to you.

No she is not obese lol tall an skinny not skinny skinny

You have your own house. She doesn't live with you and you don't live with her, you only share a child together and visit each other sometimes.

Then she kicked you out of her place, so what exactly is the problem here

Simply take your little girl and go back to your house, she can come get her when she's done being a disrupter of peace.

Norano:
I have noticed fake stories are normal posted late in the night from 10pm,12am to 6am.
Nice story op.
You should consider literature section.

wetin make me open this thread ?

johnman40:
hi guys i urgently need your advice,have been with this lady for over 2years now and we had baby girl together she already had 2daughters to different dads and my little girl she is the last one and now she is 1year and half,we had been having issues arguing all the time and she always raise her voice on me,i have my own place that i live,due to her health and social service want me to stay with her and look after her and my own little girl plus her second born of another dad,on this particular day she was hoovering up and am trying to stop my own little girl playing with hoover cable,and she is expecting me to leave my own little girl and attend to her second born to another dad,she want me to go in kitchen and make some toast bread for her second born i said no cus am watching my little girl,then she started shouting i will do it my self and then she said you may aswel park your bag and go and she was shouting while saying leave now then her oldest daughter and her oldest daughter boyfriend listen what she was saying,i did explain the situation to her oldest daughter that she will find out her self if i was wrong or her mum, but me and her oldest daughter we dont like each other for the simple reason,she is lazy smoke in the house also when ever she had issue wit her boy friend everyone else in that house has to be punished she normally banging on the wall to get people attentions,this lady my partner that told me to leave her house i have done alots for her,i lost my job because of her and her children,and i left the house on the 2nd of this month and rang me on 8th to come back to her for one day my birthday and to see my daughter,so she want us to talk about the issue and all wat she said sticks to my body like glue and i really dont want anything to do with her anymore but we got baby together,what should i do now i need advice......

How old are you? How old is your wife?

This woman you called your girlfriend has a grown up daughter who smokes. She would soon be a grandmother o

..better go and present your case on a foreign forum, maybe quora and the likes. Most of us are not used to this kind of life so we can't advise you appropriately.

Anuoluwa1234:
Which kind write up be this op ... You no try at all, no be u say na only 2children she get..
Where did the oldest daughter now came from..abi 2yrs old pikin dey smoke Etc..

If u keep writing Ur stories like this, u may not enter best selling novels.
And next time, don't jam pack your write ups, u get.. and use appropriate punctuations.

I know with time, Ur writing will improve, shallom

You sef no try. Read his post again - this time slowly.

Norano:
I have noticed fake stories are normal posted late in the night from 10pm,12am to 6am.
Nice story op.
You should consider literature section.

Chaiiii

You just made me burst into laughter

That's a black American lifestyle.

Some men go just see wahala still carry their lives dey enter.

johnman40:
In uk with white lady

How did you get yourself entangled in such a relationship? For papers?

Acidosis:

This woman you called your girlfriend has a grown up daughter who smokes. She would soon be a grandmother o

..better go and present your case on a foreign forum, maybe quora and the likes. Most of us are not used to this kind of life so we can't advise you appropriately.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

I swear, it was just so...unfamiliar

Na only Trump fit settle this one

So you live in a first world country where the President called the whole of Africa and it's citizens Shi t hole. And yet you couldn't compose your thoughts into simple well detailed grammar. No capital letters,no coma or full stop,no paragraphs? I guess you are the prototype they used in labeling Africa a Shi t hole.

This stuff is made up

But the truth it,this is the average life of a good number of black Americans,and some white people too.
Wetin cause am?
Baby mamaism/baby papaism/refusal to settle down and marry
Now it's slowly happening in Africa.
Why would a guy impregnate a lady he's not ready to settle down with?
Why would a lady allow herself get pregnant for a guy that will definitely not marry her?
Las Las,the children will most likely be affected

Norano:
I have noticed fake stories are normal posted late in the night from 10pm,12am to 6am.
Nice story op.
You should consider literature section.

U can kill person with laff

@OP - I did a thread on red flags for single mothers. Read this.

https://www.nairaland.com/5144553/men-marriage-how-pick-wife

You have to dissociate yourself from this woman. Pay your child support, try to get visitation rights to see your daughter. Do not have sex with her anymore or bred more kids with her. Focus on your life and get your priorities straighter. She is a USER and when she has no more use for you, she will discard you like she did her other baby daddies.

Be guided.