Just saw a thread where a guy is complaining about his friend not telling him about the fact that he was building his house, and I see a lot of comments complaining condemning the said friend.

https://www.nairaland.com/7892469/he-completed-house-without-uttering

Funny how people exact same thing happened to me last year, this time it wasn’t a from a friend but a blood sister who I thought loved me the way I do for her.

This woman was building her house while pretending to everyone that she was broke.

Funniest thing is, few weeks to moving to us getting to know about the house, she was asking me to lend her 300k as she has plenty debts to pay. Almost sent her 100k, but then I remembered how she prefers to party with her women associates more than she’s willing to buy anything for my parents. This is someone that my dad built and opened shop for.

If a friend do this to me now, walahi I won’t be surprised.

She's a wise woman. Some family members are obstacles. Chaii..

Shalommy:
She's a wise woman. Some family members are obstacles. Chaii..

A wise woman you say. Lol

Second time I'm hearing this type of news today.

Even me will certainly do thesame, some siblings are seriously bad these days.

Shalommy:
She's a wise woman. Some family members are obstacles. Chaii..

No wonder you turned this way...you got obstacles as family members.

My family members are blessings and I appreciate all of them.

babaYIBO:


A wise woman you say. Lol

She's now a landlady. So, try and build your own.

Shalommy:
She's now a landlady. So, try and build your own.

Building ur own place secretly is one thing ...thats fine...it ur success ...

But pretending to be broke, building ur own house and telling ur folks to give ur money is another thing ....That's exploitation of family ties and the church mind ur family members naturally have towards u..... It's wickedness.

Ok, *continues eating sushi and drinking blueberry juice*.

Sometimes it's good to.use your head

Is this the new trend?

advanceDNA:

Building ur own place secretly is one thing ...

pretending to be broke, building ur own house and telling ur folks to give ur money is another thing ....That's exploitation of family ties and the church mind ur family members naturally have towards u..... It's wickedness.

You can't be a cheerful giver and expect better achievements. She did well. Congrats to her.

Things like these no longer troubles me.

Why is this a problem and why are some of you feeling so entitled and wanting to be in the know of other people's private life and plans?

The other day it was a friend complaining that his friend didn't tell him he was building a house. Abeg, Shey Dem collect money for una hand take build the house nii?

A person has the right to conceal his plans from the public until he has accomplished it and you have no right to condemn him for it. He even told you people after successfully completing his project and instead of you to be happy for him you're angry. for what? Did you have plots to t.wat his plans.

Please, never divulge your plans until it is matured and successfully accomplished because some people are dream killers and will destroy your plans even before you accomplish it..

Be happy for him. He owes non of you any explanations. When you too build your own don't tell him.

There is more... Dig deeper.


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wow

Inasmuch as you're not her father nor husband. Kindly rejoice with her!

May the blessing go round!

Ok

At least she for tell one person among her family members, what if something had happened to her badly or she go further (God forbid o), the whole of her plan and the building for be another stranger inheritance. Let's learn to keep somethings out of secret abeg, family is one.

She is an adult, so respect her opinion. You will only know how to deal with her henceforth.

Everything should not be kept secret in life. A man was building a house secretly in felele area, Ibadan without telling his wife or any relation and suddenly died due to an accident in 1996. Because no one knew his family, that land remained fallow for over 20 years till 3 years ago when some omonile fought over the land as one set of omonile sold the house to someone else without settling the other side, that's how people knew about the reason why the land has been idle for a long time. However the matter was settled but the family of the man that owned the land remains unknown and the said land has been resold to someone else.

It's fair enough to hide some things to friends, but family? Noo

Her decision and it shouldn't bother you.

Maybe the environment no conducive for her to divulge her secrets or she's doing it for selfish reasons.

Personally I don't see things like this as big deal

Sense of entitlement. Wetin u wan use the info do?

Always know this in every Relationship, friendship and even family. “No be as your mind be another person own be ooo!” You will treat some people good and they will treat or pay you with evil. No be dem, na so life be e no balance

Your write-up gives serious migraine.

babaYIBO:
Just saw a thread where a guy is complaining about his friend not telling him about the fact that he was building his house, and I see a lot of comments complaining condemning the said friend.

https://www.nairaland.com/7892469/he-completed-house-without-uttering

Funny how people exact same thing happened to me last year, this time it wasn’t a from a friend but a blood sister who I thought loved me the way I do for her.

This woman was building her house while pretending to everyone that she was broke.

Funniest thing is, few weeks to moving to us getting to know about the house, she was asking me to lend her 300k as she has plenty debts to pay. Almost sent her 100k, but then I remembered how she prefers to party with her women associates more than she’s willing to buy anything for my parents. This is someone that my dad built and opened shop for.

If a friend do this to me now, walahi I won’t be surprised.

you are a witch. You just confirmed it so go to hell

Sometimes you got to lay low, we dont even know who the enemy is now. Talking from experience though.

babaYIBO:
Just saw a thread where a guy is complaining about his friend not telling him about the fact that he was building his house, and I see a lot of comments complaining condemning the said friend.

https://www.nairaland.com/7892469/he-completed-house-without-uttering

Funny how people exact same thing happened to me last year, this time it wasn’t a from a friend but a blood sister who I thought loved me the way I do for her.

This woman was building her house while pretending to everyone that she was broke.

Funniest thing is, few weeks to moving to us getting to know about the house, she was asking me to lend her 300k as she has plenty debts to pay. Almost sent her 100k, but then I remembered how she prefers to party with her women associates more than she’s willing to buy anything for my parents. This is someone that my dad built and opened shop for.

If a friend do this to me now, walahi I won’t be surprised.

If she told you, she would be risking more bills from the family.