Dear men.

Have you ever dated a lady that was both beautiful inside and out,

I thought she was the one and then boom her friend tells me she has a kid and a guy somewhere.

And I checked the guy's Facebook page and realized it's true. The child is with the guy's parents. I saw her picture too an old picture of her taking pictures with this child. When he (the child ) was a baby.

I'm so shocked why she didn't tell me, at least I wouldn't have dived Into the relationship.

I don't know what to do anymore now that I've invested in the relationship.

I don't know her plans.

I need advise.
Before I take any step right now.

This is the life we live man




Whenever you meet a lady for the first time
just know that 70/100 words that proceeds from the mouth of that lady are lies

With time the truth unfolds

Now it is left for you to brace for impact

Buhari2023:
This is the life we live man

I'll gladly support you for 2023, I need help.

I believe she's linked to that guy for life.

2. She hasn't seen my kind of love.

Charleys:

I'll gladly support you for 2023, I need help.
I believe she's linked to that guy for life.
2. She hasn't seen my kind of love.

Have you heard this phrase
"Dem no dey telle person"

Charleys:


I'll gladly support you for 2023, I need help.

I believe she's linked to that guy for life.

2. She hasn't seen my kind of love.

Baba forget that thing with linking with which guy for life. There's no such thing biko. With d way society view single moms, don't blame her for not telling u. Besides how old is even d relationship that u expect her to spill such and lose the guy she probably likes?

Reason am.

Charleys:
Dear men.
Have you ever dated a lady that was both beautiful inside and out,
I thought she was the one and then boom her friend tells me she has a kid and a guy somewhere.

And I checked the guy's Facebook page and realized it's true. The child is with the guy's parents. I saw her picture too an old picture of her taking pictures with this child. When he (the child ) was a baby.
I'm so shocked why she didn't tell me, at least I wouldn't have dived Into the relationship.
I don't know what to do anymore now that I've invested in the relationship.

I don't know her plans.
I need advise.
Before I take any step right now.

are you saying that she is cheating on you with some other dude OR that the child's father is alive and well?!

if you really love the babe then having a kid isnt a problem, but the DECEIT is whats wrong here. sadly, as we all know how Nigerian men look down on single mothers, maybe thats the reason many women in this predicament lie to their partner.

since you still have hopes, go see the babe and ask her directly why she hid her kid from you AND what kind of deceitful r/ship she was trying to build with you... by hiding such a big deal from you.

many men out there cant handle the truth, so babes will only tell you what you can handle, in order to enjoy the r/ship.... even though its completely wrong.

Charleys:

I'll gladly support you for 2023, I need help.
I believe she's linked to that guy for life.
2. She hasn't seen my kind of love.

the above mindset is one of the reason why many women hide the truth... same misplaced ego with virginity.

At least you've not married her, so you are safe. Next time don't go for beauty. Beauty is one of the easiest deceit for men.

Besides, how did you not notice from the width of her vagina

Buhari2023:
This is the life we live man




Whenever you meet a lady for the first time
just know that 70/100 words that proceeds from the mouth of that lady are lies

With time the truth unfolds

Now it is left for you to brace for impact

Guy take one bottle, The one wey I hold for mouth......

Ask yourself, what is the motive behind the friend of hers telling u that .
Like seriously, you and her friend are that close , That is serious!!!.
Ask yourself, why will the friend tell you, if he/ she doesn't HV a personal motive ...

Believe me, this same friend that revealed her big secret will do more worse, just watch out , time will tell..., Shay bi u no wan get sense ni,, u will get by force...100%%%..

I hate nonsense , mummy's boy

Charleys:
Dear men.

Have you ever dated a lady that was both beautiful inside and out,

I thought she was the one and then boom her friend tells me she has a kid and a guy somewhere.

And I checked the guy's Facebook page and realized it's true. The child is with the guy's parents. I saw her picture too an old picture of her taking pictures with this child. When he (the child ) was a baby.

I'm so shocked why she didn't tell me, at least I wouldn't have dived Into the relationship.

I don't know what to do anymore now that I've invested in the relationship.

I don't know her plans.

I need advise.
Before I take any step right now.

Don't you guy talk about ur past?

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Anuoluwa1234:
Ask yourself, what is the motive behind the friend of hers telling u that .
Like seriously, you and her friend are that close , That is serious!!!.
Ask yourself, why will the friend tell you, if he/ she doesn't HV a personal motive ...

Believe me, this same friend that revealed her big secret will do more worse, just watch out , time will tell..., Shay bi u no wan get sense ni,, u will get by force...100%%%..

I hate nonsense , mummy's boy

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Eve if she fvccked her way to abortion will she tell you.

What ever happens, use your head oh no let too much emotions blind you. Forget that guy abi na girl wey dey talk trash about friend's intention.

I don't know why people hide their children Children are golden gifts from God, they can't be hidden, is it a sin What of ladies marring single father too That is why trust is good in any relationship, not telling you she has a kid is totally wrong or she is still planning to tell you later, who knows. It means she doesn't value her own blood Call her and ask her, if she lie, then I don't know what to say again.

I don't know if child bearing is now a plague.... What of my friend that had to leave her husband because of serious beating, she had two girls already, Bobo is married to another woman, won't she move on too

Abort mission

Charleys:
Dear men.

Have you ever dated a lady that was both beautiful inside and out,

I thought she was the one and then boom her friend tells me she has a kid and a guy somewhere.

And I checked the guy's Facebook page and realized it's true. The child is with the guy's parents. I saw her picture too an old picture of her taking pictures with this child. When he (the child ) was a baby.

I'm so shocked why she didn't tell me, at least I wouldn't have dived Into the relationship.

I don't know what to do anymore now that I've invested in the relationship.

I don't know her plans.

I need advise.
Before I take any step right now.

Oluromantic:
At least you've not married her, so you are safe. Next time don't go for beauty. Beauty is one of the easiest deceit for men.

Besides, how did you not notice from the width of her vagina

Bro her vagina is not wide. She's also slim so I didn't notice stretch marks on her stomach

Well, I'm more concerned about her friend telling you. There's definitely a motive for that.


Also, have you both ever discussed about your past with each other? And how old is the relationship?

You see, one thing will usually lead to the other for this kind of information to be revealed. You don't expect her to just wake up one morning and call you that she have a baby somewhere.

Some discussions will lead to it. That's why it's important to ask about the past of whoever you want to be with. Ask her how many guys she's been with, how many abortions she have done and how many babies she have.

Ask questions, and you will get answers.

It's only if she told you lies after serious discussion that you can conclude she deceived you intentionally.

The past of whoever you want to be with is as important as the future, so ask questions.

Forget about the nonsense "past doesn't matter" that most people say. It matters!!!

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