MichaelBlake40:

I didn't know you have met all the men in this world, to know that they have an "oat to cheat by default"

eni4real:
You are talking in the Rubbish

EngineerBode:
As a newly married person, you should keep less single friends. Same or opposite sex. Focus on your family

Don't mind those flirts that are manipulative. They will say you are not matured enough for them to keep friends of the opposite sex. Cheating is not only sleeping around. Comparing your partner to your friend of the opposite sex is cheating. Ignoring advice or instructions from your partner because the opposite sex friend said otherwise is cheating. Your husband or wife plan something with you, you go tell your opposite sex friend about it. The opposite sex friend says he/she does not like it, then you go back and tell your husband/wife that you are not going with the plan is cheating

Kenstufez:
Male colleagues lol, be saving money for DNA test okay because e go happen. I guess you're trying to feel civilized and all, probably showing how you're more like Oyibo haha but e go shock you!

Keji1012:


U are never a marlian

Slimsly100:


Bros make I ask again
ARE YOU FOR REALLLLLLL

justsaypeter001:


Oga, are you sure something is not already going on between you and that Nurse. I wouldn't have said this, but when you said she was somebody you should have married in the past. That calls for concern o.

The truth is that, that previledge can be abused by either party. So, I will say NO. I will never allow my wife to have bestie of opposite sex and I won't have too. Shikenaa

paparazi1:
Oga you sure say you no de do like that with the nurse at the back of your wife.

ojuu4u:



Go back for my last paragraph......we know type, even if wife bring concubine, its normal because of trust u guys had built, even when you watch pants and do house chore, it is kind of love and feelings you had developed for her, if she says she don't want to see ur people, ......wife must has says in marriage.

Oga u free ur wife while you entered cage.

ojuu4u:




Bastard kid u re taken care will cut off ur head one day!!!

PHIPEX:
They can be familiar or close colleagues but not friends. There is a difference between a colleague, acquaintance and a friend. Friendship runs deep and I can't allow that for my wife neither will I keep one.

A friend is someone you can easily run to at your moment of happiness or weakness which are the most vulnerable moments, why should it be an opposite sex whose intentions can change any moment?

dodelight:
And let me answer again. Yes I Am. This life is simplier than me been worried about someone cheating behind my back.

paulolee:
not even alllwed for my girl to try that when we are dating not to talk of courtship or marriage..
the only male friends that my girl or wife is allowed to have are my brothers and her blood brothers and also her cousins aint allowed too..
Reasons- girls having male friends and besties have done more harm than good in relationship...thats my opinion, thank u

dodelight:
I was actually expecting a comment like this since. I know someone will talk about DNA bla bla bla... But understand: we may live in the same country, same state, same town, even same street, yet we do not live in the same world- our realities are different. I'll respect you for the world you live in; I hope you'll respect mine. Thanks.

abysirius:
Hi Nairalanders,

Greetings to everyone in the house. Trust we are all enjoying the weekend. As regards to the above-mentioned subject. What is your take on this? Would u allow your partner have a close friend that is of opposite sex? Briefly give your reason (s) and state what you believe should be the ideal arrangement in a family setting.

I was listening to a program on the radio earlier this morning on Raypower FM before power outage. However, I have to put it on this platform out of curiosity to know how we feel about it. Personally, it is a capital NO for me. But of course, one of the 2 callers that called in before power cut termed it as insecurity as nothing seems to be wrong with the idea. Do you agree?

Mod pls help push this to the front page. Thanks.

frozen70:

Now you know

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Not really a problem sha if your husband or wife have a close friend of the opposite sex

But just that most women can abuse it anyday anytime twice on the day they are emotionally traumatized or rather when they have little or financial problems in thier marriage

Because most times when women are facing little problem and emotional issues they tend to be vulnerable and quickly find comfort, solace and consolation from that close friend.....and as a result they can easily succumb to sexual advances from that male friend

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Not really a problem sha if your husband or wife have a close friend of the opposite sex

But just that most women can abuse it anyday anytime twice on the day they are emotionally traumatized or rather when they have little or financial problems in thier marriage

Because most times when women are facing little problem and emotional issues they tend to be vulnerable and quickly find comfort, solace and consolation from that close friend.....and as a result they can easily succumb to sexual advances from that male friend

Awesome01:


Same here bros. If you like follow your spouse around like a bodyguard, person wey go cheat go cheat. Toto and kondo no get meter.

Having an opposite sex friend is not a yardstick for cheating. Many saying No no no here thinks by not allowing your spouse have opposite sex friends guarantees they will stay faithful?

What if your spouse is bisexual and you didn't know? Means same sex friends too are not allowed?

Abegi!!! Know yourself and know + trust your spouse, and expect same. Like someone said earlier everyone that is in a committed relationship must maintain a boundary with all his friends, colleagues, religious members, families etc.

Life is too short to me to get hypertension because of woman o.

dodelight:
And I'll never be.

Billionsclub:
it is a capital no. There is no vacuum in life. cheating does not happen in a day. it begins from friendship.. once you are already preparing for marriage, develop a continuous flow of communication with your spouse

Destinylink:
It's a no no for me.!
This life nor balance at all.
Before you know now, them go dey gbegbesuegbe for my back.

abysirius:
Hi Nairalanders,

Greetings to everyone in the house. Trust we are all enjoying the weekend. As regards to the above-mentioned subject. What is your take on this? Would u allow your partner have a close friend that is of opposite sex? Briefly give your reason (s) and state what you believe should be the ideal arrangement in a family setting.

I was listening to a program on the radio earlier this morning on Raypower FM before power outage. However, I have to put it on this platform out of curiosity to know how we feel about it. Personally, it is a capital NO for me. But of course, one of the 2 callers that called in before power cut termed it as insecurity as nothing seems to be wrong with the idea. Do you agree?

Mod pls help push this to the front page. Thanks.

dodelight:
Nothing is going on between me and her, and nothing will. She's taken me like her own brother and that is a trust I must protect by all means. I said I intended to marry her. We didn't actually get to date at all as she turned down my advances. She too is married now with a kid.