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youngest85:
Wetin all these small small gals deh wear now sef na temptation

Being scantily clad should not be a reason or justification for rape. In the days of the old, scantily dressed ladies were stoned and mocked on the streets. If you read the story- you will read that they just finished their exams. Is it possible that they wrote their exams scantily clad? NO! our children have become sex addicts. Why? Because they have hard core porn on demand. Students carrying phones? What do they need phones for?
Lalasticlala

Dear Reader,
I write this incidence with lots of mortification and great concern for what the next generation will be like in Nigeria if we do not quickly get to work repairing and paying them attention. Our elders have led their lives and we the generation who follow the baby boomers must hunker down and correct the ills in our back yards and community. It's a common saying that evil prevails when good men do nothing. Today the 3rd of May 2017, I almost saw this evil happen. 'Almost' because I got so moved in my spirit with great indignation that I decided to speak up.

I am in my office about 4pm waiting for my driver to bring my older son from school so we can get home on time to prepare the younger one for his common entrance exams into secondary school coming up in two weeks. I called the driver and he said he was around and as I leave my nieces office upstairs, I hear a lot of shouting and commotion outside our office. I then ask the receptionist what it was about and he says it's the secondary school student who have finished their final exams tearing their clothes. I mumble to my self that if any of them were my children I will deal with them. As they don't earn money so how can they tear what was bought for them.
Suffice to say I give my older son who is helping me with my bags that speech and we head out into the car. As we come outside the noise is overwhelming and as my son kept saying when we were later discussing what happened, he described it as being very intense when we had a chance to discuss the events that followed as people were running and upon my looking closer I saw pockets of people actually students and then girls running with palpable fear in their faces. At this point I quickly enter my car to leave so one doesn't meet what ever the problem was and to avoid traffic too. And as we entered the car and I look a bit closely at a crowd of boys who have surrounded two persons on the floor who appear to be fighting. Their shouting overpowers any other sound and looking closely I see the most unreal thing. It's actually a boy trying to force himself on a girl with his trousers partly down and the boys are cheering him on.
People are looking and some persons the security guards in the office near us are recording it. I open my car in disbelief and shout on the boys to break it up while shouting at my security and the second driver to assist me. I walk towards them and as I make my way towards them I see another group and this time they have cornered one of the the girls who fell while running from them. In almost a surreal way I am looking but not quickly processing. I see her kicked down, she bravely pushes her self up and another guy tries to clear her legs and she lunges at him and then a guy takes a pair of scissors in his hands and with one swoop tears her skirt from the bottom and also a part of the black spanx shorts she has on underneath. All this happens really in a few minutes and he proceeds to push himself into her through her back. His trousers is open too and another one tries to do same from the front. As this is going on the crowd of boys are wild with frenzy, cheering the two boys on, while grabbing at her hair, breasts and she is fighting for dear life. I am still making my way towards the first group but they bolt when they see me coming and when I see them do so I move ahead and rush towards the second group this time shouting at the top of my lungs at my own office security, the office next door and thankfully mine follow me and when they see us coming they break up and run but there more girls running back. I reach the girl and we gather her things together. She ties the torn skirt around her spanx shorts like a wrapper and holds onto to me.

I see the boys have run forwards and stopped, waiting for me to enter my car while threatening other teenage school girls still. I have a crowd of over 25 girls huddled together frantically telling me their various ordeal. I ask them to take another route back and am told if the go back from where they are coming there is another group behind and the our office road is a crescent so they are technically locked in. And most of them have their skirts ripped as they claim the boys in the various groups have scissors on them. Further questioning tells me the best way is to go out is towards the other side but since they are too scared to go I ask my security, some other men have come out to escort them too, with myself as the only adult female and there begins over an hours walk towards the obalende roundabout from off awolowo road in Ikoyi. We meet other girls who have had their clothes ripped as the boys fled once the boys realized I was not backing up. The boys would reach a distance and stop to taunt the girls. We now had a crowd of over 60 girls who needed to get safely to the bus stop and find their way home. We ( being myself and the other men escorting the girls) start talking about how to get hold of one of the boys so we can use him as an example. At this point I call a friend and ask for a Mopol to be sent to me. I describe my location. My attention is drawn to another girl who had just been manhandled by the fleeing boys. A woman warns the girls to beware as the boys have spilt up and are waiting as some live in that locality. We then break into three groups to escort the girls to their various bus or home points. I take the two girls whom I saw personally manhandled and begin to make careful inquiries.
Feedback shows that they go to a senior high school called Falomo Senior High School next to Ireti grammar school that these boys go to. Today was both schools final day after which they will come only to collect their results from Wednesday of the following week so the boys who had already started raping some girls last week now planned this brazen rape and manhandling activity. They had also stolen their phones and transport money. We then made arrangements to transport them home. By now the mopol has come. He walks me to obalende under bridge to put the two girls and their friends going to Yaba into a bus. This is not before I get the names of the boys as George and Abiodun as the main perpetrators, they are final year students of Ireti Grammar School SW Ikoyi. I call a friend and am told to take pictures but most of the girls have gone but we are able to take pictures of at least 7 girls with me who had torn clothes in various stages of disarray. I give my number to the only girl left with a phone and this was because she put it into her spanx shorts as she wore two and used one to roll her phone into it. I am amazed at this whole thing and we agree that they should come through to my office on Wednesday of the following week but I will go ahead and make a report to the two schools tomorrow and begin finding these evil boys so we can use them as examples to deter other from this abominable behavior perpetrated in broad day light. One of the girls says she can identify them. She gives me her number. I ask my security to ensure he receives them at 9am when we agreed to meet. I turn and leave but I will never be the same again. The evil is terrible. The lack of regard and the indignity. My mind runs through and is still running through all I have seen. I have a friend who normally stops to help distressed persons or attend to traffic situation and I always warn him to desist and he will say someone has to do it. Today I am most grateful I was that someone. I had other people join me especially a man who saw me and said madam a girl was raped last week by this office. Am tired of this. Removed his tie and followed me. They stayed with me till the last set of kids entered the bus and as they came so they left when we got done. I did not get to say thank you to them. My older son was like mum, they must be angels or Jesus. Actually he said the man that followed me first must be Jesus. I don't know who he was but if he ever reads this post my heartfelt thank you to him for that large hearted action. God is kind oh, that there are still good men but we must speak up and as such I am following up to ensure we do something collectively to help the boys of this school as I believe mentoring is required if this cycle is to be broken but the ones who committed this dastardly act must be brought to book first. I ask those in authority to look into this as I am told it's quite prevalent.

bajosky:
Lamido! lamido!! lamido!!
how many times did I warn you & your fellow stubborn governors during my reign
"If I go down you all will go down as well " though you guys didn't see me as a prophet then but I believe you guys are receiving lessons of your foolishness to back stap GEJ.

Is it lamido that told Jonathan to leave jega there. He was warned by the governors to remove jega. Ogogoro did not allow him do so. Dont allow cardreader. He could not. So he was depending on free and fair election - yet he made corruption an international enterprise allowed patience to insult the whole nation, kept straffing diezani evem with her cancerous breast. What destroyed gej lies within him. Is it not sad that as bad as buhari is people still believe he is better than gej?

eyinjuege:
I hope you also saw her children walking behind her, and her dancing with her son who's already taller than her.
She's forty, seems to have taken care of herself, and her husband still appears fit especially for his age.

Taken care of herself? Abi plastic surgeons have repaired her well. Na goal getter

elaigwusimona:
i dont really know whether its a curse or what, right from the days of King David and Solomon in bible. All a woman needs are prayers otherwise forget it.
Men will always want their third leg to walk around anyhw, sometimes its the cause of the house wife.
Some women after marriage stop their normal package, and prefer and to tie wrappers, they forget their husband got attracted to them as a result of the exposure of their laps and breasts back then.
And when the husband go out there and see fresh laps and smooth breasts, he will definitely give it a try.
women are advices to always expose their body to their husband. like i say, prayers will help Go6d keep ur man. women are dangerous.

Many men will never marry a woman who exposes her laps and breasts. I for one will not! It is post colonial syndrome that makes us feel that wrapper is not sexy. There is more to marriage than sex. Marriage is about commitment and obeying an injuction from the almighty. So when it is looked upon as a religious duty everybody will do their best to play their part. The bible says thou shall not commit adultery, it does not say thou shall not cheat on your spouse. When you go and meet your creator tell him it is because your wife cannot twerk that you cheated.!!!!!

SmellingAnus:
Most likely, there are still some faithful men but my experiences with two married pals of mine in less than one week brought about this topic..

The first pal, is a business Man that is not doing badly, he has at least two kids that I know of all attending the so called expensive schools... He is from the East, an elder in the Church and we were having some business related conversation when somehow our discussions went into the arena of women.. lol... I told him some of my experiences and he also told me how he almost sent his wife packing for losing 4 million naira in two different ponzi schemes namely donation hub and earnfifty... He then told me about an Akwa-Ibom girl that he came across and made love to and ever since he has been praying to God to help him leave her but instead he is getting deeper into her....

This Man has a very beautiful wife with light skin but he confessed to me how the Akwa-Ibom babe is very sweet and neat... Infact he talked about going home to sleep and snore each time he has his routine sexual exercise with her which invariably means that he may not eat and most likely not touch his wife. When his wife complains of his strange lifestyle, he blames it on working too hard in his office of which he is the Boss...

What surprised me most as we were discussing in his office was that , he said he will not lie to me, that if the Akwa-Ibom babe calls him now, he will leave what he is doing to go and meet her... Within me, I was scared for so many reasons knowing fully well that I am still single and will not want that kind of life but the greater fear was that is possible that this man never planned for this type of life but he somehow found himself with a strange woman....

My second encounter was yesterday night with another Pal who is younger than the Man from the East... This one is from the West, his wife is in the West with their Kid while he is in Port Harcourt... This particular one is not necessarily as successful as the other man but he mentors people in business/investment related affairs... He is the kind of guy you could call to talk to your staff on how they could perform better (Business Consultant). In the course of our conversation, I found out that he is actually waiting for one small girl that lives in my neighborhood that just finished secondary school in FGGC Okigwe I suppose....

While I learnt some things from him, I also told him about the importance of starving his distractions and feeding his focus and we both agreed that women are major distractions.. he told me , he discovered that spends more on accommodating women in hotels for days just to have a sexually nice time....

I'm conclusion I ask, why do many married Men cheat on their wives, how can we help our future/current wives to help us not to cheat on them? What are those things married need that will make them not to cheat on their wives ? (Note: not al married cheat)..

OP change your heading to WHY DO MARRIED MEN COMMIT ADULTERY. no woman can stop an adulterer. Only self restraint can.

This is the way. Marry old man after he has used other women to learn how to marry. Lucky girl. Sorry to the older wives. Life is not fair

WHERE IS SARRKI?

Yet super hero Buhari has shared over 1tr with his anticorrupt governors. Just imagine if he had declared a state of emergency in various agric sectors and pumped that money into the sectors. Instead he has enriched less than 50 people with such obscene wealth. BUHARI is a disaster!

Jeus:
No be the one wey marry Indimi be this o

This one na his late wife daughter. They have no choice but to stay out of the limelight as no be their mama dey d house.

PA to president - how much is his salary that he can afford this kind of elaborate wedding. If i hear gift........anti corruption fight indeed

soldierdollar:
Ft

Guy u jobless o... Every thread u must comment

This is an epic response to this never ending noise from sarki, the chief zombie of bmc. Na

Just imagine if that 1.75tr was pumped into agriculture and agroprocessing

fallout87:
Nonsense.

He lost because the media said he was. You people were confused by your media and followed it's script to the bitter end. It was very obvious Obama wanted him out, when David Axelrod's company was running Buhari's election using Obama's campagin mantra of "change".

You guys will soon learn the media is a big issue. Those who control it control the public thought process and influence the mob. They just influenced stupid Nigerians to vote against their own rights, lifestyle and progress.

This is the bitter truth.

Now see your lives. Is this government not stealing? Is this government not worse? Is anything better?

Do those countries care now? No, because it was all politically motivated

So who does jonathan blame for not knowing that the media is a big issue. This man has held public office for so many years. What a shame. He has only himself to blame for the election loss

The only part GEJ got correct was the part about hypocrisy of the loudest anti corruption crusaders. On the part of betrayal- his loss can only be blamed on hs incompetence and naivety. How does one use his own election to testrun a new piece of equipment( card reader). How do you allow your wife insult the section where most of the votes come from- votes you obviously need. Whoever appoints an activist as INEC chairman? Even mr upright buhari has not made that kind of deadly mistake. The IGP he referred to is a southerner. Jonathan's body language potrayed weakness. Does he truly believe that america would have invaded nigeria if he won the election? Utter naivety! All america would have done is evacuate its citizens. American cannot afford to start another war definitely not in Nigeria. Jonathan of all people should know that only interest is permanent in politics especially since he is a master of treachery. The story of how he backstabbed ex Gov Wada of kogi is story for another day.

Kogi governor is just plain wicked. He has collected over 60 billion in the two tranches of bailout and has refused to pay workers instead he is hiding under a never ending screening exercise. He has even arrested the only voice of opposition in the statte austin okhai for daring to confront him over the issue.

echelons:
I wish it's true and immediately achievable.

I wish all government workers could do training with private firms for like 1 year so they can imbibe the proper attitude of real work.

Imagine going to FIRS to process TIN, the officer there was just bitter that I came late (around 1pm), that she has been working since morning! Was wondering if she was supposed to be sleeping since morning.

Meanwhile, government agencies need younger staff as front staff. How can you have a 45 year old as a front line staff in a government agency, that wrong staffing.. that's like the age of most mid level managers in banks.. how can you expect the best from ppl like this.

Younger ppl, immediate graduates need opportunities like these to grow.

FiRS is the biggest headache for businesses. The stress and extortion that comes with obtaining tax clearance is hell. They can withhold your tax clearance certificate just because you refuse to settle. They have refused to release my friend company own because he has noy settled them with the amount they requested. He has given them up to 250 thousand but they want 1 million naira bribe.

mu2sa2:
When sls was busy ranting about the profligacy of northern elite, he probably didn't realise that those he was attacking know the skeletons in his cupboard. Here's a man that pretends to be riled about the level of poverty in the north, yet the hypocrite goes about displaying unprecedented opulence. He claims the Royce Royce he is using is a gift from friends, but even if that is the case, he shouldn't be driving such an expensive car in the midst of widespread poverty if he has a conscience.

The rot he left in CBN is horrenous and humongous but that does not mean that he is not speaking the truth. Buhari is too intolerant

thesicilian post=55874u006:
Why were they exempted in the first place?

Please ask them and also ask them whey government agencies are exempted from the cashless policy.

Adminisher:
70% of Nigerians know they have NOT made a mistake.
Nigerians know the problem of Nigeria is CORRUPTION.
Buhari is the only member of the elite class who has called it out and is tackling it . Before now it was the lot of social crusaders and activists.
Now you are having 'adult governance' where corporate citizens like MTN and Shell are compelled to face the law.

Who els could have shown the guts to take hard decisions like this?... Atiku?, El Rufai?, Jonathan?
None.

How is he tackling it? By preserving the same loopholes that allowed the corruption happen in the first place

admax:
One of the best news I have received today!

I was at a bank today telling a cashier that the policy is affecting the wrong sets of people.

The guys CBN were targeting have ATM machines in their houses. They have millions of Dollars in cash at home so they don't need banks!

The target was always the masses. The cashless policy originally exempted government agencies so they were never charged for withdrawing cash reason why they could withdraw trillions in cash and convert to dollar cash which is also supplied by cbn. Call it cbn assisted money laudering and you will be right

wirinet:
Meanwhile, at the same time, Goodluck Jonathan was borrowing $1billion (one Billion Dollars) to buy Arms to fight Boko Haram, and madam world bank was borrowing to pay salaries. Some people who are hell bent on destroying their own destinies will still come here and defend Jonathan and blame Buhari for our present predicament.

Buhari is to be blamed for not blocking the loopholes that allowed the stealing in the first place.

seunmsg:
The fact that GEJ gave approval for such a huge and unbudgeted amount of money to be withdrawn in cash and spend within the country should make any reasonable Nigerian very angry. Apart from the corruption involved, the negative effect on the Naira and our economy is unimaginable.

Nigerians can now see why the Naira practically collapsed when Buhari took over. Jonathan dipped his rotten and corruption infected fingers straight into CBN and depleted the foreign reserve in a desperate attempt to win the election. Only God can adequately punish that guy for what he did to this country.

What evidence is there to show that buhari is still not approving money in cash? There is nothing on ground to show that the loopholes that allowed the stealing in the first place have been blocked

@andelasmith is the scorned wife. It is crystal clear!

IF OKE MONEY HAD NOT BEEN DISCOVERED, WILL BUHARI HAVE SACKED BABACHIR ? Capital NO! SGF was only suspended because pmb wanted to send oke who was a southerner away! Simple

Gaddafithe2nd:
Lol. .. You make me laugh. I know you just typed this gibberish just to make a point. Since I am an open minded person, I will give you an ample time to give me the chapter(s) and verse(s) where Prophet Muhammed (SAAS) said it. I know you can state it.

The image below is for infants like you who see your islam as an unlimited license to bleep. Go back to your holy books and learn.

EbolaParasite:
No need deceiving ourselves. Pastors, Imams, Religious leaders all cheat in this naija. Of course it is impossible for EVERYONE to cheat. The staggering number of men that do makes it a good assertion. The Nigerian men that don't cheat fall into two categories : Those that are too shy and don't have the balls (They would cheat but are simply too shy and hide under the pretext of being religious or born again) and , Those that haven't found the right girl that will make them do.

Point of correction - the nigerian men that dont cheat are in hospital with a terminal illness. Apart from that- all nigerian men are nurtured to commit adultery. Not i used the word nurture not nature. All these giberrish about men being naturally polygamous is just a lame attempt to justify nonsense. God who created mannsaid thou shall not commit adultery - do you claim to know the nature of man more than his creator?

Gaddafithe2nd:
Well done Musa Ahmed, you are a good man and a good muslim. You detest cheating that is why you followed the Islamic doctrine of getting married to another wife since you are capable to do it financially and physically.
As for his ex-wife, she is the loser. Once you are muslim lady, you can never compel your husband to marry only you. Is only a selfish muslim lady/woman that would go against what almighty Allah says in the Quran. All other muslim ladies should learn from this. I don't know why our muslim women are now selfish like their western counterparts.

She is as much a loser and as selfish as the daughter of your prophet. Go annd read your Koran, Mohammad banned his daughter's husband from marrying another wife because it will hurt her. So what are you saying. The person that is selfish is the hypocritical man that is takinh advantage of a verse in the Koran which is meant for the care of orphans not as a license for men to have harems.

[quote author=hedonistic post=55636383]Then what is it about? I don't see the need for all this long talk. A wealthy Northern Muslim Nigerian man chooses to marry multiple wives. Let's pause for a moment, take a deep breath, and ask: what is strange or unusual about this? Why do some girls of nowadays turn to unreasonable monsters simply because they managed to get an 'education', such that they begin to have unrealistic expectations? It really rankles! 90% of the popular elite Northern Muslims and perhaps up to 50% of Yoruba Muslims we know are married to more than one wife, so what exactly is the basis for the annoying entitlement mentality that the defunct wife is killing herself with?

Every girl getting married to a Muslim man (especially a Northerner) can't claim not to foresee a situation where he might choose to marry another wife someday, sooner or later, which is the man's right and entitlement in our culture! What is this damn fuss about, for goodness sake? [/quote
You are actually the one making a fuss. The lady in question left because she could not tolerate the cruelty. Big deal- why do you feel she must stay. Marriage comes with a mentality of entitlement from both sides- the man demands some rights and the woman some rights. The man might be entitled to his harem but he is definitely not entitled to force an unwilling wife to be part of the harem.