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Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by boom99(m): 6:31am On Jul 20, 2020 |
21. I vex change am for them. No apologies |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Juliearth(f): 6:31am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Mikkymilli: I have never been flogged/beaten. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Youngblackbro: 6:34am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Hmmm this life no balance at all my step dad stopped reasoning my matter when I rebelled at 22, it’s not like he beats me cuz am his step son as a matter of fact he beats his own seeds more my sisters face am no be small. African parents and their wahala now he his 70plus and believe no one wants to visit him regular cuz ondo agidi still Dey that man body. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Goloinu: 6:34am On Jul 20, 2020 |
I’m 24, my mom still beats me whenever I misbehave. I remember 2 months ago when she gave me a hot slap and followed up with cane not minding the engagement ring on my finger. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Nobody: 6:34am On Jul 20, 2020 |
magicminister: I tend to agree with you. But at the same time, flogging a child is, in my view a way of showing the child the consequences of bad deeds in a 'controlled way' so to speak. A child flogged for stealing would associate stealing with pain, then avoid stealing, then would grow up not to steal and avoid the consequences of being caught for stealing as an adult ..where parents cannot protect him or her.(in theory!...reality is a lot more complicated). Sadly there is no 'perfect' system of discipline. 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by NewDelhi(m): 6:35am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Stomoney:30 years old? |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by guru90: 6:36am On Jul 20, 2020 |
My parents stopped beating me, the first day I bought them 1 bag of rice and additional with one carton of tin tomato. I can't really remember the age...seems like round 17 or 18 years..... But the day I will never forget, back in my primary school days, my mom chased me with cane from house to school. My mom will flogged me in front of my teacher and my wicked teacher will joined hands the flogged me as well. I salute all the strong parents in this Nairaland. I give them my respect. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Farki: 6:36am On Jul 20, 2020 |
By 14. Notice that others will follow a similar trend most likely because kids either learn from their mistakes or parents can't use their size to intimidate them anymore. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Stomoney(m): 6:37am On Jul 20, 2020 |
I swear with heaven and earth bro NewDelhi: |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by tommy589(m): 6:37am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Edusouls: True, you came at a good time when government child abuse policy is there to protect you. In our own time, If you returned home late after hawking you chop beating, if you dont sell finish you chop double beating. As for me, i think it was between 13-14 but still received slap till i was 16 |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Starboytwo(m): 6:38am On Jul 20, 2020 |
My parents never flogged me... However my mum employed the service of a soldier one day to deal with me... I nearly died that day... Dem never beat me like that before, my mummy gan be like |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by airminem(f): 6:40am On Jul 20, 2020 |
I still flog my siblings on behalf of my dear parents. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Oghenerobo2002(m): 6:40am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Seerade029:Liar 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Chasdonblizz: 6:41am On Jul 20, 2020 |
I've always been a good child, can't remember being flogged. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by shinarlaura(f): 6:41am On Jul 20, 2020 |
My parents never flogged me. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by NewDelhi(m): 6:42am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Stomoney:Maybe because you still live with them. You do? |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Stomoney(m): 6:44am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Yeah bro for some reasons NewDelhi: |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by phemmyfour: 6:45am On Jul 20, 2020 |
magicminister:Leave story We were trained that way and most of us are doing fine and responsible today. When it comes to child training, no "one method fits all" approach. Study your child and use what works best 5 Likes |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by wman(m): 6:45am On Jul 20, 2020 |
I feel you shouldn't flog a child that has left secondary school. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Officer4: 6:45am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Burgerlomo:that's why you can't remember. They have damaged your brain for you. 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by NewDelhi(m): 6:45am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Stomoney:Na why. The moment you leave their roof all those bullshìt will stop. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by SonofLincoln: 6:46am On Jul 20, 2020 |
My parents never spanked us but there are other kind of punishments we went through like not allowing us to go outside the house (grounded) or not giving us pocket money nor listening to music and watching TV. That's more painful to us than spanking and that's the way I deal with my kids. 3 Likes |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by imanray37(m): 6:46am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Was there an age. For african parents if they don't flog you with a rod they are surely going to flog you with their tongues |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by toprealman: 6:46am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Mikkymilli:Hatred for parents is not as bad as the victim developing a sense of worthlessness which will affect the person's self-confidence and self-esteem ultimately destroying the person. It will take divine intervention for this type of person to fit in well into the society meaning that hatred for everything and everyone ( including parents and siblings) will be X10. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Kvvngkhalifa202(m): 6:50am On Jul 20, 2020 |
I graduate from flogging to physical fight @ age 17 Love my parents tho |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Seerade029: 6:50am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Oghenerobo2002: Oga, nah when I was in SS 1, I was 12yrs, I graduated at the age of 14. entered UNN at 16yrs |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by toprealman: 6:50am On Jul 20, 2020 |
I have come to realise that many have misconstrued the true meaning of the term rod in the popular proverb, spare the rod and spoil the child. Train your kids in such a way that nothing will be pared and the need for flogging will be unnecessary. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Kingkun69(m): 6:54am On Jul 20, 2020 |
TOPCRUISE:rubbish sha I know like 5 girls wey dey do beta runs but when we were in secondary school together see how their parents be church ppl like say Jesus make them Naija Christian ambassador every small thing beating them like goat no dey let them even enjoy small now see them 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Nobody: 6:55am On Jul 20, 2020 |
18 after Waec I have to leave village for Town. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by magicminister: 6:55am On Jul 20, 2020 |
phemmyfour: I beg to differ. Most Nigerians are not doing fine. The oppression that started at home has seeped into the society like an oil spill. E.g. SARs, Kidnappers, Corrupt leaders! Every Nigerian Alive has at some point in their existence ended up a victim of one, two or all of the aforementioned. Do you think it is a coincidence that a lot of Nigerians when granted even the smallest position of Authority or power end up being incredible Bullies!! If you are a job seeker, gateman go use you yeye If you are a student, teacher go use you yeye..... and so on and so forth!! While i am not against discipline, i am saying that there are so many ways to severely discipline a child without ever whipping them like a slave! The circle of abuse must end! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Burgerlomo: 6:59am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Officer4: I want you to help me sue them and the easiest way for you to get to where they are right now is to cross the busy expressway without paying attention.
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Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Phemostiga4u: 6:59am On Jul 20, 2020 |
segun18:hi |
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