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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by kizwid(m): 3:56pm On Jul 22
TheWalkingMind:
You have no right telling anyone how to live their life. You barely get yours right.

Humanity and complications.
the poor gurl never tell you how to live your life now..
she was advising and begging you at the same time

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by kizwid(m): 4:02pm On Jul 22
donbachi:
Its a normal thing...men does not have value for cheap girls..every woman should pride herself high.
don't say "men" please, say "you", in fact i detest that thing they call hard to get...
you telling me you are hard to get and one dude is there nagging your pussy..

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by kizwid(m): 4:06pm On Jul 22
gunners160:

Even if na over serious rlshp I wan form, I will never chase any lady for long. Chasing a lady for long means she just sees u as an option and nothing more. A lady that truly likes a guy will not let him chase her for long. I have learnt to give my self respect , respect
i belong to this school of thought
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Petyprincess(f): 4:10pm On Jul 22
I love how every guy on this thread is forming but in reality na dem dey woo lady for 5 years

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by SirMichael1: 4:24pm On Jul 22
Masonkaycares:
There's this girl that I only blame myself for falling for her.

Preview (How I Fell For Her)

Am not the type that looks at girls or even talk to them.(I think am a physco)But this girl really got me (lemme call her Lisa) . I went to play football in the evening with my buddies on my way I saw Lisa , dunno where she was coming from cos her house's way behind where I met her. Prior to that day she'd greet me and I'll ignore so most of the time I are her from a distance I start singing my favourite song (Mockingbird by Eminem) . So I did my normal routine as I walked past her but she held my hand and I was like wtf are you doing, she greeted me and asked me to answer her ( I reluctantly did) after that she struck a conversation with me that lasted as long as I don't know (but I was on the subs bench for the match)

She questioned me alot for snubbing and I was looking at her like a sheep(I wanted to slap her but I just kept smiling like that Man on the cabin biscuits pack)

3 months later we were very good friends (I lied to her that I don't like her albeit on the phone) But everything took a rapid spin when she stopped picking my calls till few minutes ago when she called me to say she was busy that's why she couldn't pick my calls. I acted normal but deep inside I had fallen for her . As I am typing this she called twice but I'll Never Love Again
Lol. Don't come off needy to her. Call twice and if she doesn't pick, stop calling her. Again, avoid some of her calls and pretend to be busy. E get why.

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Masonkaycares(m): 4:31pm On Jul 22
AfroKnight:


God forbid bad tin!

cheesy

OP you haven’t learned your lesson. You’re only sad because you haven’t met someone else who ticks your boxes. You will still play hard to get. It’s like a drug to you babes. It gets you high. Continue.
Like Seriously? But truth be told Nigerian girls aren't made for me
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by HomerTimpson: 4:35pm On Jul 22
donbachi:
Its a normal thing...men does not have value for cheap girls..every woman should pride herself high.
pride her self high? Until shiloh comes?

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Masonkaycares(m): 4:37pm On Jul 22
SirMichael1:
Lol. Don't come off needy to her. Call twice and if she doesn't pick, stop calling her. Again, avoid some of her calls and pretend to be busy. E get why.
Have you ever imagined strangling your pastor for taking the sermon for a long time? I normally do this. She just calls for 5minutes but when I call it can take 30 minutes before I disengage the line. She always hit the right spots
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Crownstar01: 4:39pm On Jul 22
Stargurl20:
It's truly high time we stopped it. Fine! We may play it for a while, but it mustn't be for too long. It's so...heart wrenching for me seeing someone I love with someone else cry. I pray this pains leave soon.... Because it's painful and I need my sanity.

# if you love someone as a lady and you can sense that the feeling is mutual, please stop the hard to get charade.
Hahaha. What a bombshell!! cheesy

Keep on playing hard to get. Some of you aren't really smart.
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by eaddyboy: 4:43pm On Jul 22
Jerkbaba:
The only thing I'm chasing is my lovely hands I use to jerk off! cheesy
Jerkbaba cool A round of applause for you.

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by stare: 4:49pm On Jul 22
Petyprincess:
I love how every guy on this thread is forming but in reality na dem dey woo lady for 5 years
beleive it or not some of us don't enjoy chasing someone for too long.. Its a humiliating process.. I've always gone by the "don't ask more than twice mentality" it means u're chasing someone that doesn't like you. Until last year.., I blended with my roommates' skimping ways and decided to give it a go,. Let's just say I deeply regretted it and I'm back to by proper default state.. It gives you peace of mind

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by SirMichael1: 4:49pm On Jul 22
Masonkaycares:
Have you ever imagined strangling your pastor for taking the sermon for a long time? I normally do this. She just calls for 5minutes but when I call it can take 30 minutes before I disengage the line. She always hit the right spots
Lol. I understand. Cupid found you, a target. Use your more of your head than your heart.
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by HomerTimpson: 4:49pm On Jul 22
Petyprincess:
I love how every guy on this thread is forming but in reality na dem dey woo lady for 5 years
honestly i wish i could chase a girl like that,its not even abt my look or ego thing,just that am too emotional to accept defeat or been let down,so i just stay woke with RULE NO 1 of the game

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Masonkaycares(m): 4:54pm On Jul 22
SirMichael1:
Lol. I understand. Cupid found you, a target. Use your more of your head than your heart.
First advice am taking on Naira land

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by HomerTimpson: 4:54pm On Jul 22
stare:
beleive it or not some of us don't enjoy chasing someone for too long.. Its a humiliating process.. I've always gone by the "don't ask more than twice mentality" it means u're chasing someone that doesn't like you. Until last year.., I blended with my roommates' skimping ways and decided to give it a go,. Let's just say I deeply regretted it and I'm back to by proper default state.. It gives you peace of mind
LOL especially if you are a low budget guy, testing waters ain't for you,gotta stick to tha default mode bro
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Rickmann(m): 5:04pm On Jul 22
Stargurl20:
It's truly high time we stopped it. Fine! We may play it for a while, but it mustn't be for too long. It's so...heart wrenching for me seeing someone I love with someone else cry. I pray this pains leave soon.... Because it's painful and I need my sanity.

# if you love someone as a lady and you can sense that the feeling is mutual, please stop the hard to get charade.

One heineken for you girl...please tell them.
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Fmlao: 5:05pm On Jul 22
Everyone has their life to live.
This life is not a manual.
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by stanliwise(m): 5:07pm On Jul 22
TheWalkingMind:
You have no right telling anyone how to live their life. You barely get yours right.

Humanity and complications.
True but at same time this advice comes handy for some ladies who will run out of options later.
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by lefulefu(m): 5:07pm On Jul 22
why are u advising.let the jobless men who have the time to be chasing a girl for good seven or eight yrs cos she is forming hard to get keep on chasing,at least she will just be eating the mumu"s money until a man of her spec comes along.

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Rickmann(m): 5:08pm On Jul 22
[quote author=thesicilian post=91981937]The Bible says a time will come when seven women will be dragging one man. You girls should continue playing hard to get.

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by stanliwise(m): 5:11pm On Jul 22
stare:
beleive it or not some of us don't enjoy chasing someone for too long.. Its a humiliating process.. I've always gone by the "don't ask more than twice mentality" it means u're chasing someone that doesn't like you. Until last year.., I blended with my roommates' skimping ways and decided to give it a go,. Let's just say I deeply regretted it and I'm back to by proper default state.. It gives you peace of mind
chasing a girl for long isn’t a really bad thing but the said girl must worth the chase.

Secondly is that she should not be your only option, that is the biggest mistake you can make.

Also stop the chase if it becomes unproductive and it will not contribute to your life long plan any further. It is very difficult to know when sometimes but one should be vigilant.

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Petyprincess(f): 5:15pm On Jul 22
stare:
beleive it or not some of us don't enjoy chasing someone for too long.. Its a humiliating process.. I've always gone by the "don't ask more than twice mentality" it means u're chasing someone that doesn't like you. Until last year.., I blended with my roommates' skimping ways and decided to give it a go,. Let's just say I deeply regretted it and I'm back to by proper default state.. It gives you peace of mind
Hmm nice

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Jerkbaba: 5:17pm On Jul 22
:
eaddyboy:
Jerkbaba cool A round of applause for you.
cheesy
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Psalmspsalms: 5:26pm On Jul 22
From 28-30 and above without a serious partner, they will be forced to think reasonably.

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by TheWalkingMind: 5:40pm On Jul 22
kizwid:

the poor gurl never tell you how to live your life now..
she was advising and begging you at the same time
Do I look like a lady to you?
Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Crownstar01: 5:45pm On Jul 22
Psalmspsalms:
From 28-30 and above without a serious partner, they will be forced to think reasonably.
That's right. I'm currently enjoying one and she's 28. The funniest thing is she rejected a lot of guys when she was at her early 20s. cheesy

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Tonymegabush1(m): 6:02pm On Jul 22
Me: babe I will like us to be frnds.

She: I will think abt it..


Next day..

She: good morning
Me: morning dear. Hope your nite was good?
She: yes n urs?
Me: cul.. Off to work have a nice day.
She: and u too.


One week.
She: good evening
Me: fyn evening Nne, How was ur day?
She: fyn. Are u back 4rm work?
Me: yes, what did u cook? My intestines are singing.
She: grin. Porridge yam, do u care for some.
Me: as if u knw that's wot I need now.


Two weeks
Three weeks.

One month. [Saturday]

She: good morning dear.
Me :morning pretty. How was ur night?
She: fyn. I hope you slept well too
Me: sure i did. Wot will be ur activities for the day?
She: nothing much, just house chores for now.
Me: darz nice will be doing mine 2moro.
She.mayb I sud come and help you out.
Me: will appreciate it. But its mostly jeans I dey fear for ur nails oo.
She: lol.... I don't fix nails..
Me: I know just playing around.
She:ok. Do you want to know the answer to what you asked me the other day?
Me: sure, but I can't remember all the details reason we have talked about a lot of things.
She: OK, you asked me out.
Me: sure, tell me.
She: if I tell u now, how will u react.
Me: good or bad life goes on.
She: good. I ave accepted....

Rest dey say na history.....

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Tonymegabush1(m): 6:07pm On Jul 22
Petyprincess:
I love how every guy on this thread is forming but in reality na dem dey woo lady for 5 years


For ur mind...

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Jack005(m): 6:25pm On Jul 22
I don't even have that strength to continue bothering a girl to date me, I go need use that time find means to make more money.. How will a young man keep begging a girl to date you when na only toto she fit give you? It doesn't make sense at all.

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by lefulefu(m): 6:28pm On Jul 22
donbachi:
Its a normal thing...men does not have value for cheap girls..every woman should pride herself high.
speak for urself biko. who has that time begging a woman for endless months and yrs to be with him.except such a guy has too much time on his hands.

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by lefulefu(m): 6:30pm On Jul 22
Jack005:
I don't even have that strength to continue bothering a girl to date me, I go need use that time find means to make more money.. How will a young man keep begging a girl to date you when na only toto she fit give you? It doesn't make sense at all.
then after 5 yrs the girl give in the same guy will come to nairaland to create a thread that a girl he was toasting for months and yrs has smelly pussy.money and energy gone down the drain.

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Re: Girls, It's High Time We Stopped Playing Hard To Get. by Jack005(m): 6:32pm On Jul 22
lefulefu:
then after 5 yrs the girl give in the same guy will come to nairaland to create a thread that a girl he was toasting for months and yrs has smelly pussy.money and energy gone down the drain.
Baba you sabi the matter. It gets me annoyed when I see grown up men begging a female to date them,like WTF!!, I don't just get it seriously.

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