You have seen a part of him, you can tell him to change his way. If he easily get offended, he might change his character and start acting different to you.

Localchampion:

Yea, he do say I'm local bla bla bla, which I believe its due to the fact that I'm not in city like him and I don't do things girls do. I'm somehow quiet and focused, but I can be very playful with him.
I don't wear beautiful cloths like other ladies, not do I have money to make up, I don't attend parties, I don't have friends, I don't wear good shoes, infact I don't have anything like the normal girls. But do I go and steal to buy? And I can't do bad things to get money as well.

Nor does he have money to give me to purchase stuffs. Plus I don't like demanding money from him nor anyone

Post your picture let me see you

Localchampion:
When you have a boyfriend that doesn't help during the time you are down, what should you do?
When he's down, I try to help, but when I'm down. He would see reasons to blame me, or abuse me in some ways and claim it's not abuse but the truth
For instance, he would say ''you don't think'', ''

It makes me cry that I have no one, I literary have no one
Can someone who treats you like that actually love you?
I believe that he's only with me because he's already with me and don't wanna break up.

Telling me he loves me and doing things in contradiction makes me feel he doesn't

In what ways have you helped him?
Are sure you ain't d local champion that keep disturbing him for money during this locked down period?
I will suggest u find another guy cause broke girls disgusts many modern men of this days

Localchampion:
When you have a boyfriend that doesn't help during the time you are down, what should you do?
When he's down, I try to help, but when I'm down. He would see reasons to blame me, or abuse me in some ways and claim it's not abuse but the truth
For instance, he would say ''you don't think'', ''

It makes me cry that I have no one, I literary have no one
Can someone who treats you like that actually love you?
I believe that he's only with me because he's already with me and don't wanna break up.

Telling me he loves me and doing things in contradiction makes me feel he doesn't

You have no one? What happened to your mother and father, brothers and sisters?

donstan18:
Where are your parents and family members?

Can't they volunteer to be there for you when you are down?

Localchampion:
When you have a boyfriend that doesn't help during the time you are down, what should you do?
When he's down, I try to help, but when I'm down. He would see reasons to blame me, or abuse me in some ways and claim it's not abuse but the truth
For instance, he would say ''you don't think'', ''

It makes me cry that I have no one, I literary have no one
Can someone who treats you like that actually love you?
I believe that he's only with me because he's already with me and don't wanna break up.

Telling me he loves me and doing things in contradiction makes me feel he doesn't

Some times I ask my self why do ladies waste their time dating boys who don't care, who ain't emotional fit to aid you when you are emotionally destabilized.

why do guys love a lady who has no regards for his parents or him his self.

I came to a conclusion that, the reason for the above questions is that, the relationship aint defined, it has no future and finally they allow infatuation block thier eyes in such a way they see it as love.

Nairaland suppose that screen people before accepting them into this site

You're obviously being abused and before you deny it, remember that abuse isn't always physical. It's quite possible that you might have a unique talent for getting yourself into untenable situations but his job is to correct, assist and encourage not heap insults on you. I'm sure you're probably telling yourself that you love him and that he'll change if you learn to make less mistakes. You're perfectly entitled to delude yourself if you want but I'll say this: He's not going to change, he's going to wear down your already failing self esteem and you'll get to the point where you'll no longer be able to imagine leaving him anymore. I might be overreacting of course but there's a clear difference between pointing out someone's mistakes and hitting them over the head with it. In the end, the decision is yours. I have a feeling that you'll continue to take the abuse though

Localchampion:
When you have a boyfriend that doesn't help during the time you are down, what should you do?
When he's down, I try to help, but when I'm down. He would see reasons to blame me, or abuse me in some ways and claim it's not abuse but the truth
For instance, he would say ''you don't think'', ''

It makes me cry that I have no one, I literary have no one
Can someone who treats you like that actually love you?
I believe that he's only with me because he's already with me and don't wanna break up.

Telling me he loves me and doing things in contradiction makes me feel he doesn't

Preshieben:
Move on babe
He's thinking you don't worth him..
Get up,find a handwork, improve yourself and work on your lifestyle.
Build up your self esteem and keep your pride as a lady.. then date someone more handsome and richer than him
That's it .

Na so e easy ?

What if guy is her limit in life ?

you are not local relax and improve yourself