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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by NSK4U(m): 5:31pm On Aug 01
HuntSon:


The ability of queer people to recognize one another

......wow

dat must be some kinda special gift or how would one recognize another's sexual preference through mere looking.


some guys naturally behave and act like females, yet are not gays and there're also many girls addressed as 'tom boys' and behave exactly like the opposite sex yet they are still not gay.

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by j3r3myk3n(m): 5:38pm On Aug 01
WoundedLamb:
I wonder what the use of gaydar is in Africa. Here, it could help a gay guy know whether to approach someone or not but in Africa, the risk is too much. Please, y'all should be careful. I've read enough terrible stories online to know how dangerous it is to be queer in Africa.

#SayNoToDescrimination

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by NSK4U(m): 5:40pm On Aug 01
WoundedLamb:


Actually, what you've described is not cause of homosexuality but cause of society. Your family may reject you cause you're gay but that's a societal situation cause a lot gay people are loved by their families in many other societies. The very successful gay guys in Nigeria are probably closeted cause of society so you wouldn't know them. You are right, a lot of gay people are unhappy and even suicidal but then again, it is cause of the stigmatization from the society. For any unsuccessful gay guy, there's a million unsuccessful straight guys. So there's no logical link between sexuality and success. You can't possibly be coming from a religious perspective because the heterosexual people are obviously more promiscuous than gay people seeing that they aren't stigmatized in any way so it would really be ridiculous to assume that god would be so biased as to check the gender you're fornicating with before deciding your fate.

If there's anything that needs change there, it's the perspective of the African society. You can't be discriminating a set of people and then turn around to ask them if they are happy. Why would they be happy? This is exactly what happens to blacks here in the Americas. They are denied strategic and top level management positions and then the whites turn around to ask why most black people are poor and unhappy.

#SayNoToDescrimination

I think you're absolutely correct bruh

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by Higgies: 9:03pm On Aug 01
WoundedLamb:


Actually, what you've described is not cause of homosexuality but cause of society. Your family may reject you cause you're gay but that's a societal situation cause a lot gay people are loved by their families in many other societies. The very successful gay guys in Nigeria are probably closeted cause of society so you wouldn't know them. You are right, a lot of gay people are unhappy and even suicidal but then again, it is cause of the stigmatization from the society. For any unsuccessful gay guy, there's a million unsuccessful straight guys. So there's no logical link between sexuality and success. You can't possibly be coming from a religious perspective because the heterosexual people are obviously more promiscuous than gay people seeing that they aren't stigmatized in any way so it would really be ridiculous to assume that god would be so biased as to check the gender you're fornicating with before deciding your fate.

If there's anything that needs change there, it's the perspective of the African society. You can't be discriminating a set of people and then turn around to ask them if they are happy. Why would they be happy? This is exactly what happens to blacks here in the Americas. They are denied strategic and top level management positions and then the whites turn around to ask why most black people are poor and unhappy.

#SayNoToDescrimination
You obviously didn't comprehend my admonition.

The effects I enumerated are basically the spiritual and metaphysical effects.

Forget about societal perspectives, it's inconsequential.
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by tnerro1(m): 9:07pm On Aug 01
skyhighweb1:
a guy fucking another mans ass.
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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by WoundedLamb: 9:10pm On Aug 01
Higgies:

You obviously didn't comprehend my admonition.

The effects I enumerated are basically the spiritual and metaphysical effects.

Forget about societal perspectives, it's inconsequential.

And that spirit is not here in canada, right? It's only in Africa. By the way, who overseas the spirituality? God? You think he closes his eyes when straight people fornicate but becomes strict when gay people do? Unless you've never had sex in your life, you can't base your claims on any spirituality. What you call spirituality is a factor of society that is why gay people are mostly unhappy in Africa. If you're a nice person, you should be clamoring for gay rights. It is not fair to discriminate against people based on their sexuality. It is not different from racism.

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by HuntSon(m): 9:51pm On Aug 01
NSK4U:


......wow

dat must be some kinda special gift or how would one recognize another's sexual preference through mere looking.


some guys naturally behave and act like females, yet are not gays and there're also many girls addressed as 'tom boys' and behave exactly like the opposite sex yet they are still not gay.

Lol ..at times it goes beyond looking.
Yeah... sexuality is distinct from behavior because behavior can fluctuate due to external factors but not sexuality.

That's why we have fem/masc straight people (guys and ladies) and still fem and masc gay people (guys and ladies too).

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by NSK4U(m): 10:05pm On Aug 01
HuntSon:


Lol ..at times it goes beyond looking.
Yeah... sexuality is distinct from behavior because behavior can fluctuate due to external factors but not sexuality.

That's why we have fem/masc straight people (guys and ladies) and still fem and masc gay people (guys and ladies too).


hmmmm...... I see

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by skyhighweb1: 10:09pm On Aug 01
tnerro1:


May your wisdom pot never leak grin
amen
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by HuntSon(m): 10:18pm On Aug 01
Higgies:
You all should repent in truth and get a life !
Homosexualism, just like masturbations brings backwardness and unproductivity to life.
It brings badluck, poverty, brokenness, humiliation and guilts.

Family and friends will be disregarding and disdaining you like you are nothing.

You will be lacking behind and you will be feeling comfortable.
Check your life... Are you where your mates are?
Are you where you suppose to be?

Homosexualism destroys destiny.
You can not even practice gallantly in the glare.

Sit down, give it a deep taught.
Turn a new leaf and change for good.
Return closer to the Almighty and seek true forgiveness.
You'd begin to see positive changes in your life.



1.Can u repent from heterosexuality??
I can tell you millions of homosexuals and LGBTQ accepting countries that are progressing more than your religious fanatic atmosphere. They're also many gay individuals that are doing a ton better than many straight individuals, what the Bleep is you talking about poverty and backwardness? Y'all so dumb to the extend you link a sexuality with numerous negativities just to sell ur stupid agenda!
Gays are even less promiscuous than heteros!

2. Excuse me sir, so does friends and family not accepting stop us from being what we are?? You think we'll chose to be persecuted and downtrodden by your likes if gays really had the power to change anything??

3.Sir, you just ended up spilling toilet water because i don't see how being gay affects how committed an individual should be to success! You should talk about you heteros that are imbubed with toxic masculinity and you never for once address the hoodlums you release into the society all in the name of culture. Hell, I'm way better than many of my peers, you think being gay is the only thing i do everyday like u chase women? grin

Why don't you ask yourself, am i mentally enriched and enlightened like my peers, is my mustard seed sized IQ, what i should have at my age?

4. It either you're an illiterate or a naive religious fanatic. TF you talking about destiny? Did you drop these as defence facts? cheesy yes! We can't practice it in the "glare" cos of ignorant and intolerant folks like you, who have sworn never to pick up a book when you know nothing about something!

5. Pfft!! Turn a new leaf?? How about you use the internet and garner recent facts rather than associating everything with the devil and spirituality, then going about embarrassing yourself?? How about you address the numerous hetero societal problem caused by illiteracy, religion and many more?? Y'all turn preachers and God's personal assistant when it comes to homosexuality but ignoring your main hetero sins cheesy

I already belong to the Almighty bro, and I seek forgiveness for my daily sins but MY SEXUALITY IS NEVER A SIN!!!! same way you never consider your attraction to women a sin!!

I advise you seek a learning institute cos ur blabbering reeks of religious bondage, extremism and illiterate brouhahas!

Sit Down and give it a good "TAUGHT" too cry

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by HuntSon(m): 10:28pm On Aug 01
WoundedLamb:


Actually, what you've described is not cause of homosexuality but cause of society. Your family may reject you cause you're gay but that's a societal situation cause a lot gay people are loved by their families in many other societies. The very successful gay guys in Nigeria are probably closeted cause of society so you wouldn't know them. You are right, a lot of gay people are unhappy and even suicidal but then again, it is cause of the stigmatization from the society. For any unsuccessful gay guy, there's a million unsuccessful straight guys. So there's no logical link between sexuality and success. You can't possibly be coming from a religious perspective because the heterosexual people are obviously more promiscuous than gay people seeing that they aren't stigmatized in any way so it would really be ridiculous to assume that god would be so biased as to check the gender you're fornicating with before deciding your fate.

If there's anything that needs change there, it's the perspective of the African society. You can't be discriminating a set of people and then turn around to ask them if they are happy. Why would they be happy? This is exactly what happens to blacks here in the Americas. They are denied strategic and top level management positions and then the whites turn around to ask why most black people are poor and unhappy.

#SayNoToDescrimination

Christ! Sexuality and success?? This is really a new low!!
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by HuntSon(m): 10:33pm On Aug 01
NSK4U:



hmmmm...... I see

Even sex doesn't necessarily define sexuality talk of behavior undecided

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by NSK4U(m): 11:48pm On Aug 01
HuntSon:

Even sex doesn't necessarily define sexuality talk of behavior undecided
in all honesty,
yu actually got me rather confused o�
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by NSK4U(m): 11:59pm On Aug 01
HuntSon:


1.Can u repent from heterosexuality??
I can tell you millions of homosexuals and LGBTQ accepting countries that are progressing more than your religious fanatic atmosphere. They're also many gay individuals that are doing a ton better than many straight individuals, what the Bleep is you talking about poverty and backwardness? Y'all so dumb to the extend you link a sexuality with numerous negativities just to sell ur stupid agenda!
Gays are even less promiscuous than heteros!

2. Excuse me sir, so does friends and family not accepting stop us from being what we are?? You think we'll chose to be persecuted and downtrodden by your likes if gays really had the power to change anything??

3.Sir, you just ended up spilling toilet water because i don't see how being gay affects how committed an individual should be to success! You should talk about you heteros that are imbubed with toxic masculinity and you never for once address the hoodlums you release into the society all in the name of culture. Hell, I'm way better than many of my peers, you think being gay is the only thing i do everyday like u chase women? grin

Why don't you ask yourself, am i mentally enriched and enlightened like my peers, is my mustard seed sized IQ, what i should have at my age?

4. It either you're an illiterate or a naive religious fanatic. TF you talking about destiny? Did you drop these as defence facts? cheesy yes! We can't practice it in the "glare" cos of ignorant and intolerant folks like you, who have sworn never to pick up a book when you know nothing about something!

5. Pfft!! Turn a new leaf?? How about you use the internet and garner recent facts rather than associating everything with the devil and spirituality, then going about embarrassing yourself?? How about you address the numerous hetero societal problem caused by illiteracy, religion and many more?? Y'all turn preachers and God's personal assistant when it comes to homosexuality but ignoring your main hetero sins cheesy

I already belong to the Almighty bro, and I seek forgiveness for my daily sins but MY SEXUALITY IS NEVER A SIN!!!! same way you never consider your attraction to women a sin!!

I advise you seek a learning institute cos ur blabbering reeks of religious bondage, extremism and illiterate brouhahas!

Sit Down and give it a good "TAUGHT" too cry

yu responding out of bitterness and rage, I think you should control ya emotions when trying to let others understand why yu chose/like something.

some peeps can't say why they don't like something and they feel that trying to understand what they don't know might make them accepting what they feel they don't need to accept especially when the majority don't openly accept such thing.

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by choblak(m): 12:24am On Aug 02
am one of the community member over gaydar is worrying me

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by Higgies: 8:57am On Aug 02
HuntSon:


1.Can u repent from heterosexuality??
I can tell you millions of homosexuals and LGBTQ accepting countries that are progressing more than your religious fanatic atmosphere. They're also many gay individuals that are doing a ton better than many straight individuals, what the Bleep is you talking about poverty and backwardness? Y'all so dumb to the extend you link a sexuality with numerous negativities just to sell ur stupid agenda!
Gays are even less promiscuous than heteros!

2. Excuse me sir, so does friends and family not accepting stop us from being what we are?? You think we'll chose to be persecuted and downtrodden by your likes if gays really had the power to change anything??

3.Sir, you just ended up spilling toilet water because i don't see how being gay affects how committed an individual should be to success! You should talk about you heteros that are imbubed with toxic masculinity and you never for once address the hoodlums you release into the society all in the name of culture. Hell, I'm way better than many of my peers, you think being gay is the only thing i do everyday like u chase women? grin

Why don't you ask yourself, am i mentally enriched and enlightened like my peers, is my mustard seed sized IQ, what i should have at my age?

4. It either you're an illiterate or a naive religious fanatic. TF you talking about destiny? Did you drop these as defence facts? cheesy yes! We can't practice it in the "glare" cos of ignorant and intolerant folks like you, who have sworn never to pick up a book when you know nothing about something!

5. Pfft!! Turn a new leaf?? How about you use the internet and garner recent facts rather than associating everything with the devil and spirituality, then going about embarrassing yourself?? How about you address the numerous hetero societal problem caused by illiteracy, religion and many more?? Y'all turn preachers and God's personal assistant when it comes to homosexuality but ignoring your main hetero sins cheesy

I already belong to the Almighty bro, and I seek forgiveness for my daily sins but MY SEXUALITY IS NEVER A SIN!!!! same way you never consider your attraction to women a sin!!

I advise you seek a learning institute cos ur blabbering reeks of religious bondage, extremism and illiterate brouhahas!

Sit Down and give it a good "TAUGHT" too cry
There's no basis for comparison.
Homosexualism and Heterosexuality are two parallel lines.
Yours is an absurdity, a filth that contradicts logical reasoning.
Retrospect now before it's late.
That it is acceptable in other climes does not justify the act.
I thank God for my life and I wish you all the best too.
Bye!
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by HuntSon(m): 9:32am On Aug 02
Higgies:

There's no basis for comparison.
Homosexualism and Heterosexuality are two parallel lines.
Yours is an absurdity, a filth that contradicts logical reasoning.
Retrospect now before it's late.
That it is acceptable in other climes does not justify the act.
I thank God for my life and I wish you all the best too.
Bye!

Yes same way you and intelligence are two parallel lines.

Same way numerous hetero doctrines are an absurdities that contradicts logical reasoning. If you don't understand something, ask questions or study, instead of stipulating theories you deem fit. When something doesn't go your way, it's always the devil, demons and spirituality!

Same way y'all cry about development in Western countries and link it to the devil whilst your over-religious and hypocritic society rots!

That homphobia is acceptable in this climate doesn't justify the act too.

I also thank God for my life, and wish you break free from the chains of illiteracy and religious fanatism!

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by HuntSon(m): 9:45am On Aug 02
NSK4U:


yu responding out of bitterness and rage, I think you should control ya emotions when trying to let others understand why yu chose/like something.

some peeps can't say why they don't like something and they feel that trying to understand what they don't know might make them accepting what they feel they don't need to accept especially when the majority don't openly accept such thing.

"Chose/like" You think we chose this??

Dude rest! I honestly have no problem if heteros don't like us, you can be homphobic i personally don't care, anyone can wallow in ignorance in the 21st century for all i care undecided but if y'all wanna do it, do it literally and stop spreading false information! Be homphobic and smart with it!

The fucck is he linking sexuality and success?? That is enough for my rage! I'm not the type to play victim so I can make them "accept" me. Trying to play in their rules to garner sympathy!

You don't understand something why not ask or search if they're so willing to learn?? Is that an excuse to spew misinformation?? You that is willing to learn and have been asking questions here, did you start with saying illogical things??

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by HuntSon(m): 10:09am On Aug 02
NSK4U:


in all honesty,

yu actually got me rather confused o�

Behavior and lifestyle are subject to change and fluctuations but sexuality is not. Being gay goes beyond wanting to copulate with the same sex. It's emotional and systematic. We're emotionally, physically and romantically attracted to the same sex.

Sex is just "PLEASURE" and that is what it is. I still have sex with ladies if I want but that is just what it is...."Pleasure". I can never be emotionally or romantically attracted to a lady like i do to guys. A straight man may have same sex intercourse but it won't still make him love or be emotionally attracted to guys like he is with ladies cos it's just a momentary pleasure.

Most heterosexuals don't understand this concept because all they see women nowadays is as their sex objects. So when they hear "GAY" their minds immediately reverts to anal sex. "Guy go find better pussi f*ck abeg, you go turn straight" They don't know that having sex with ladies/men(lesbians) won't ungay people. If it would, gays wouldn't even exist again.

To most of them a relationship should be defined with Sex sex sex, they don't care if they wanna truly love the person. One day I'll make a thread about this.

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by NSK4U(m): 11:21am On Aug 02
HuntSon:


"Chose/like" You think we chose this??

Dude rest! I honestly have no problem if heteros don't like us, you can be homphobic i personally don't care, anyone can wallow in ignorance in the 21st century for all i care undecided but if y'all wanna do it, do it literally and stop spreading false information! Be homphobic and smart with it!

The fucck is he linking sexuality and success?? That is enough for my rage! I'm not the type to play victim so I can make them "accept" me. Trying to play in their rules to garner sympathy!

You don't understand something why not ask or search if they're so willing to learn?? Is that an excuse to spew misinformation?? You that is willing to learn and have been asking questions here, did you start with saying illogical things??

I gat yu.....yu doing well bruh
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by NSK4U(m): 11:30am On Aug 02
HuntSon:


Behavior and lifestyle are subject to change and fluctuations but sexuality is not. Being gay goes beyond wanting to copulate with the same sex. It's emotional and systematic. We're emotionally, physically and romantically attracted to the same sex.

Sex is just "PLEASURE" and that is what it is. I still have sex with ladies if I want but that is just what it is...."Pleasure". I can never be emotionally or romantically attracted to a lady like i do to guys. A straight man may have same sex intercourse but it won't still make him love or be emotionally attracted to guys like he is with ladies cos it's just a momentary pleasure.

Most heterosexuals don't understand this concept because all they see women nowadays is as their sex objects. So when they hear "GAY" their minds immediately reverts to anal sex. "Guy go find better pussi f*ck abeg, you go turn straight" They don't know that having sex with ladies/men(lesbians) won't ungay people. If it would, gays wouldn't even exist again.

To most of them a relationship should be defined with Sex sex sex, they don't care if they wanna truly love the person. One day I'll make a thread about this.

hmmmm datz a logical submission, yu r well educated on it to argue your way out ��


.....however, yu need to play it down for as long as you are in Nigeria, jungle justice is Nigeria's nickname on it for now.
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by JOACHINpedro: 11:58am On Aug 02
HuntSon:


How do you even live and find love?? cheesy
I live my life to the fullest. grin
I don't do love
PS: -ve means I'm straight like a standing cigar cool
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by HuntSon(m): 12:03pm On Aug 02
JOACHINpedro:

I live my life to the fullest. grin
I don't do love
PS: -ve means I'm straight like a standing cigar cool

grin grin
You can't escape love wink
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by HuntSon(m): 12:07pm On Aug 02
NSK4U:


hmmmm datz a logical submission, yu r well educated on it to argue your way out ��


.....however, yu need to play it down for as long as you are in Nigeria, jungle justice is Nigeria's nickname on it for now.

It's not about the argument, I'm spitting facts, check it up.

They're thousand of problems facing Nigeria for me to be bothered about an ignorant homophobe, an enlightened generation is coming up already so what's the need? Everyone don't need to like something same way with racism and atheism i understand, but never spread falsehood about it.

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by JOACHINpedro: 12:16pm On Aug 02
HuntSon:


grin grin
You can't escape love wink
Filial love is assured but relationship love is not my spec
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by HuntSon(m): 12:58pm On Aug 02
JOACHINpedro:

Filial love is assured but relationship love is not my spec

Eyaah cry
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by FuckHomophobes: 11:03pm On Aug 02
See as I barged in here with annoyance when I saw the topic. cheesy

Gaydar Gaydar, I never really knew what it was while growing up but it was the strongest I have ever felt and at all times , it is always 99% true.

Now I'm all grown and the thing isn't strong like that again, let's say 70% .

Biko I don't like misleading headlines o tongue . Lemme Goan watch Max Konnor

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by RichieMichie: 3:45pm On Aug 03
WoundedLamb:


Actually, what you've described is not cause of homosexuality but cause of society. Your family may reject you cause you're gay but that's a societal situation cause a lot gay people are loved by their families in many other societies. The very successful gay guys in Nigeria are probably closeted cause of society so you wouldn't know them. You are right, a lot of gay people are unhappy and even suicidal but then again, it is cause of the stigmatization from the society. For any unsuccessful gay guy, there's a million unsuccessful straight guys. So there's no logical link between sexuality and success. You can't possibly be coming from a religious perspective because the heterosexual people are obviously more promiscuous than gay people seeing that they aren't stigmatized in any way so it would really be ridiculous to assume that god would be so biased as to check the gender you're fornicating with before deciding your fate.

If there's anything that needs change there, it's the perspective of the African society. You can't be discriminating a set of people and then turn around to ask them if they are happy. Why would they be happy? This is exactly what happens to blacks here in the Americas. They are denied strategic and top level management positions and then the whites turn around to ask why most black people are poor and unhappy.

#SayNoToDescrimination
This right here kiss
Can we get married already kiss
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by RichieMichie: 4:16pm On Aug 03
Higgies:

There's no basis for comparison.
Homosexualism and Heterosexuality are two parallel lines.
Yours is an absurdity, a filth that contradicts logical reasoning.
Retrospect now before it's late.
That it is acceptable in other climes does not justify the act.
I thank God for my life and I wish you all the best too.
Bye!
Homosexualism and Heterosexuality grin
So I have been laughing, hard, reading all your comments,the incredulity of it.

It is easy to believe a man walk on sea, fed 5 thousand people with 5loaves of bread and 2 fishes, turned water into wine, etc, all you didn't see but read from a book written by men 'under the influence of the hoely spirit' but 2 men loving each other is ridiculous and absurd to you? Lol, the clownery of this grin

Dear Rainbow Jesus, I thank u for making me pass that stage of feeling hurt while reading comments like this but just laugh at the stupidity of it grin

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by RichieMichie: 4:25pm On Aug 03
HuntSon:


"Chose/like" You think we chose this??

Dude rest! I honestly have no problem if heteros don't like us, you can be homphobic i personally don't care, anyone can wallow in ignorance in the 21st century for all i care undecided but if y'all wanna do it, do it literally and stop spreading false information! Be homphobic and smart with it!

The fucck is he linking sexuality and success?? That is enough for my rage! I'm not the type to play victim so I can make them "accept" me. Trying to play in their rules to garner sympathy!

You don't understand something why not ask or search if they're so willing to learn?? Is that an excuse to spew misinformation?? You that is willing to learn and have been asking questions here, did you start with saying illogical things??
How do you expect these men to research on the idea of something they hate? How? grin
Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by RichieMichie: 4:52pm On Aug 03
HuntSon:


Behavior and lifestyle are subject to change and fluctuations but sexuality is not. Being gay goes beyond wanting to copulate with the same sex. It's emotional and systematic. We're emotionally, physically and romantically attracted to the same sex.

Sex is just "PLEASURE" and that is what it is. I still have sex with ladies if I want but that is just what it is...."Pleasure". I can never be emotionally or romantically attracted to a lady like i do to guys. A straight man may have same sex intercourse but it won't still make him love or be emotionally attracted to guys like he is with ladies cos it's just a momentary pleasure.

Most heterosexuals don't understand this concept because all they see women nowadays is as their sex objects. So when they hear "GAY" their minds immediately reverts to anal sex. "Guy go find better pussi f*ck abeg, you go turn straight" They don't know that having sex with ladies/men(lesbians) won't ungay people. If it would, gays wouldn't even exist again.

To most of them a relationship should be defined with Sex sex sex, they don't care if they wanna truly love the person. One day I'll make a thread about this.

Anal sex, the thought of it, I believe, is one of the reasons for homophobia. I mean look around, all of them is focused on it. The bases of their disdain is anal sex.
The idea of it is so gross , they can't imagine ever indulging in it, so why should another? grin
What these folks don't know is that not all gay men are keen on anal sex. There are Sides and all the rest that just prefer to kiss and cuddle or add a little felatio. No penetration.
But no, homophobia is all gay men are sexual beast that loves anal sex. They'd be shaming us for loving sex, something they do albeit being hypocritical of it,the result of a f*cked up society that makes u feel shame for loving sex,something homosexuals clearly refuse to conform to.


It's hard for them to grasp the fact that homosexuality is way more than sex. Yes, sex is a huge part of our sexuality like it is some other sexuality like our very patriarchy heterosexuality . They totally don't want to believe in the romantic attractions involved. God forbid 2 men loves each other beyond sex.

I mean it's ridiculous, their mother and teachers told them it's a man and woman, where did all these aliens come from grin
It's hard to erase years of indoctrination these guys received from the society. Indoctrination is such a powerful tool,hard to unlearn. Same way these guys believe their God is the Supreme one and the Gods of other religions and her followers will burn in their Alpha's hell. How do you change that? grin

Homophobia is what is learned and not homosexuality. Grow up babies.

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Re: Being Gay Is Very Wrong! by RichieMichie: 5:01pm On Aug 03
NSK4U:


hmmmm datz a logical submission, yu r well educated on it to argue your way out ��


.....however, yu need to play it down for as long as you are in Nigeria, jungle justice is Nigeria's nickname on it for now.

Jungle justice kwa, most of your brothers have upped their came and capitalize homophobia. Kito is now the new lucrative business for jobless homophobes.

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