If you’re in your prime either as a man or a woman, getting all the attention and praises..I need you to know that your 30’s and 40’s will be different. You won’t look as young and fresh anymore and guess what? The attention will dry up and if you have not married as a woman , it’s only God that will now help you. Your beauty will fade, your body will sag, and you will look like a desperado with 100 body count searching for a “mugu” to settle down with. You may not be desperate but your appearance will look desperate, men will wonder why you’re above 30 and have no man in your life, they will fear that there’s something wrong with you. Please young girls, stop doing too much shakara, grab your youthful opportunities, TikTok won’t be there to save you.

As a man you will be lonely to stupor. No girl will desire you because you’re over 30 and you can’t get girls with “fineboy” anymore, it will be all about your value , your net worth and your place in society. Teenage girls won’t want you because you’re too old for them and you have nothing to offer them, girls your age won’t want you either because you will be perceived to be a “failure” not necessarily because you are but society will tag you as one.

My point is, when you’re looking young and fresh, everyone wants you..job opportunities, career opportunities, easy attention, sharp mind, free accommodation for those still living with their parents, make use of these opportunities and build your life.

Your later years will be brutal, 30’s and 40’s will break you if you don’t get your life together on time.

For men, money will save you , for women marriage will save you. Stop all these unnecessary shakara, it’s not worth it..age will humble you.

EDIT: men at 30 don’t look like failures at all, it’s only when you don’t have money that it may seem like that. With money your 30’s will be the sweetest part of your life. I guess I didn’t add this part.

Men at 30 looking like failures?

Omo, you need Peak milk. Sense is not in you.

Wealthbrain22:
If you’re in your prime either as a man or a woman, getting all the attention and praises..I need you to know that your 30’s and 40’s will be different. You won’t look as young and fresh anymore and guess what? The attention will dry up and if you have not married as a woman , it’s only God that will now help you. Your beauty will fade, your body will sag, and you will look like a desperado with 100 body count searching for a “mugu” to settle down with. You may not be desperate but your appearance will look desperate, men will wonder why you’re above 30 and have no man in your life, they will fear that there’s something wrong with you. Please young girls, stop doing too much shakara, grab your youthful opportunities, TikTok won’t be there to save you.

As a man you will be lonely to stupor. No girl will desire you because you’re over 30 and you can’t get girls with “fineboy” anymore, it will be all about your value , your net worth and your place in society. Teenage girls won’t want you because you’re too old for them and you have nothing to offer them, girls your age won’t want you either because you will be perceived to be a “failure” not necessarily because you are but society will tag you as one.

My point is, when you’re looking young and fresh, everyone wants you..job opportunities, career opportunities, easy attention, sharp mind, free accommodation for those still living with their parents, make use of these opportunities and build your life.

Your later years will be brutal, 30’s and 40’s will break you if you don’t get your life together on time.

For men, money will save you , for women marriage will save you. Stop all these unnecessary shakara, it’s not worth it..age will humble you.

Cool

You get some good points here!

Anybody can just get up and post any rubbish on his/her mind on nairaland

As in ehn no single sense

chatinent:
Men at 30 looking like failures?

Omo, you need Peak milk. Sense is not in you.

Even a drunkard would have posted a more sensible write-up.

chatinent:
Men at 30 looking like failures?
Omo, you need Peak milk. Sense is not in you.

You are letting age cage you, my brother time is nothing and u are not a looser at 40

I thought you were making sense until you said men in their 30s will be looking like failures. You need brain surgery.

Most sensible women prefer mature men in their 30s and 40s because they see them more attractive,more experienced,and feel more protected been with them.


I am currently dating a young damsel of 21, beautiful,and can die for me.

Your narrative on Men at 30s is skewed, wack, irrelevance, unrealistic and greatly unfortunate.

I wan do ritual then

Nothing but the truth, brother.he who has ear,beta listen!

Without money,neat fine guy after 30s and 40s do work on older women

I think he was trying to pass a common opinion here....

But he ended proving that common sense is not common....

Guy... everyone can't marry when they are under 30..... especially men
We have our time and season...

You can say your shit to the Ladies...we got time....

Pierocash:
I thought you were making sense until you said men in their 30s will be looking like failures. You need brain surgery.

Most sensible women prefer mature men in their 30s and 40s because they see them more attractive,more experienced,and feel more protected been with them.


I am currently dating a young damsel of 21, beautiful,and can die for me.

I think i failed to add all these only applies to those without money, with money all you said is fact

Pierocash:
I thought you were making sense until you said men in their 30s will be looking like failures. You need brain surgery.

Most sensible women prefer mature men in their 30s and 40s because they see them more attractive,more experienced,and feel more protected been with them.


I am currently dating a young damsel of 21, beautiful,and can die for me.

I thought he was making some sense too
Dude must be high on some cheap motivational quotes...

Op you really need to know that....the Nigerian reality is bit harsh.. people really wanna get their stuff done quickly too but this is Nigeria...you can't rush things when some certain things aren't in place ...
Just chill

Starz825:

I thought he was making some sense too
Dude must be high on some cheap motivational quotes...

I actually didn’t pass the full message properly, all I said only applies to someone who is over 30 and still living with their parents and have no dime or direction

Sounds like a village man.

What a foolish post.
Men at their 30s are at their prime years in life. That is actually when life starts for a man.

And this mumu dey here dey write rubbish.

garriAndsugar:
Anybody can just get up and post any rubbish on his/her mind on nairaland

there's no rubbish here,the guy is ryt in all he said...

unless u are one of those peter obi supporters hoping on manner to fall frm heaven wen u are already 40yrs plus....

tommy589:
Without money,neat fine guy after 30s and 40s do work on older women

no be wen u fine or wen u see older woman wen go maintain u...

Wealthbrain22:


I actually didn’t pass the full message properly, all I said only applies to someone who is over 30 and still living with their parents and have no dime or direction

bros...no mind dis people.

make them they there dey use 30yrs to console themslf..

i got ur message 100% and i appreciate u for dis piece of advice...

Illegal1:


bros...no mind dis people.

make them they there dey 30yrs to console themslf..

i got ur message 100% and i appreciate u for dis piece of advice...

God bless you brother.

garriAndsugar:
Anybody can just get up and post any rubbish on his/her mind on nairaland

E be like say this one touch you

chatinent:
Men at 30 looking like failures?

Omo, you need Peak milk. Sense is not in you.

Comrade we know you've signed a vawulence accord, but please lower the volume of this vawulence

tommy589:
Without money,neat fine guy after 30s and 40s do work on older women

Is this a good situation to be in?
Do you know what it means for your livelihood to be at the mercy of an older,probably ugly and insecure woman?
All what this OP said is true.

Vaginarians are the worst hit. At 30, they are already going down the drain and if unmarried, may never get suitors again or will likely get offers from men they don't like. For the men, no time is late. Hustle hard and avoid single mothers and divorcees because what the other man saw and ran away will still pursue you. No man abandons a good woman except he is dead. That single mother or divorcee that appears so nice, look inward and you will see why her man left. Don't be a healer, even Jesus died and still no heal the world finish.

You going some good score here!

Bros e be like ur brain dn dhe leak oil, wetin u dhe cap so

SeaTrade:
Is this a good situation to be in?
Do you know what it means for your livelihood to be at the mercy of an older,probably ugly and insecure woman?
All what this OP said is true.

Not disputing the op. Just saying what I observed from
men that have made flourishing career from it. I am not sure they see the ugliness or beauty in older women since money is involved. Because you won't see them show any sign of shame or discomfort in public outings