r231:

I don't know

rokiatu:

I must be honest and say, your comments crack me up at times

"I don't know" hahahhaha luv you manhh! ( I mean that in a witty way )

D-sense:

@r231 bros,
How are u doing . . .
I need your vote here
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-600804.0.html

r231:

I don't know

dady2011:

Yes and No depending on where you live:

in the West - Marriage is mostly considered old fashion by many, a contract that put restriction on the couple. if you divorce (so easy to divorce), everything you have (house, property, money, business, debt etc) is shared equally at 50% between the two of you. if you have Children, she gets custody and he is on the hook for paying child support until they are 18. He will most likely live the house (if they buy one - it does not matter who actually pays for the house). Her boy friend may decide to move in to the house with the children there. Some of this Children may be abuse by her boyfriend, drop out of school, do drug, end in prison, or in a street gang etc. And finally, she can call the Police on him and have him arrested and put in jail if he sleep with her without her consent.

You do know that CHILDREN WHO ARE FROM A WELL TO DO family with BOTH PARENTS are most likely to BE bleeped UP. The kid who shot up the school in Columbine Colorado was white and HAD BOTH PARENTS. The guy who shot a white senator and a white girl in a public event and HAD BOTH PARENTS.


In Nigeria: - Marriage is considered an achievement to some degree. if you divorce (not common), everything you have (house, property, money, business, debt etc) is not shared equally between the two of you. He will most likely take every thing and she get nothing unless those things/money that she has to her name. if you have Children, he gets custody and look after the children. She will most likely live the house (if they build one - it does not matter if he used her money to build it). His girl friend may decide to move in to the house with the children there. Some of this Children may not be treated fairly by the new woman. and finally, she can not call police on him and put him in jail if he sleep with her without her consent.

THAT SAD and I see why the women running to the white men. I have a question, you said that the children are raised by the father after the divorce and the girlfriend or the ho move in to take care of the children. BUT WHY ARE THERE SO MANY CRIMINAL ACTIVITIES IN NIGERIA? Who fault is that? It is clearly not the mother since she is left with nothing. Let me remind you, Nigeria is not in the WEST.

harakiri:

It's an achievement for women and a downer for men. It fulfills women temporarily (coz they are never satisfied with anything) and takes a man to his grave earlier than normal due to dealing with constant drama on a daily basis and living each day with a woman that reproduces a different personality at the whim of a second. She is incredibly happy this minute and just when you feel everything is alright, she has drifted into acute depression. You wake up every day not knowing what to expect