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Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 6:36pm On Aug 01
Guys I have this 18yrs old girl who I intend to marry as soon as I'm settled and she's done with her University.She's currently not in school yet.We love each other so much,she's perfect for me and I swear I wanna marry her.We are compatible on almost all facets of life.Though we have our differences but we balance eachother's negative traits perfectly and hers are traits I'm sure I can endure and keep up with.
Now the problem is that she is a virgin and I initially agreed to wait till when we get married,maybe 4-5yrs from now before I deflower her.But this girl is so so beautiful and perfect physically.She's a goddess of beauty and as expected she gets so many male attention.I got scared she may fall in love with someone else(I'm a realist),especially if and when she gets admission,so I talked to her about it and she agreed to give me her virginity tomorrow when she comes to my house.The thing is,as much as I want to deflower her,I still wouldn't want our sexual life to start now.I want it to start when I've officially engaged her and met her parents but I may lose out and end up not being her first.
What should I do when she comes tomorrow?
Advise me please.
I need to know what to do before tomorrow.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by ayesco202(m): 6:40pm On Aug 01
Do what you think is the right thing.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by dukeprince50: 6:41pm On Aug 01
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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by dukeprince50: 6:47pm On Aug 01
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she's done with her University.

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especially if and when she gets admission,
Advise me please.
wtf undecided
Life is always a teacher, do what on ur mind but have conscience, u could learn the hard way or things could work for u.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by JOACHINpedro: 6:48pm On Aug 01
Ewuawusa

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by nuelsam: 6:49pm On Aug 01
you'll learn the hard way......u better leave the teenage girl alone.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by WoundedLamb: 6:51pm On Aug 01
dukeprince50:
I think u should stop lying

You read him wrong. He never said the girl is done with her university studies. Read the post again.

OP, you know what is wrong and what is right. Don't come here to seek moral support cause that still won't subdue your conscience

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Dew04(f): 6:52pm On Aug 01
dukeprince50:

1.
2. I think u should stop lying
FamousMonk, how do you plead? grin
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by vincenteger(m): 7:08pm On Aug 01
Do you think taking her virginity will make you be fulfilled as a man?
My dear don't start what ever you know you won't end well with

Humans changes with respect to time
Don't be surprised if she finds someone that is better-off you tomorrow
Na woman she be ooo
Let her be
Them get manu date & Exp date

If you love her continue to love her and let things slide
Sex na just some minutes pleasures ooo
Tomorrow you will say, it's not your
that you poured it out

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by illicit(m): 7:08pm On Aug 01
Leave her flower alone sir

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by missjo(f): 7:12pm On Aug 01
If you have to ask, then it's probably best you don't do it. cheesy

Your doubts and uneasiness will make it too painful for her cos you're not in the right frame of mind to deflower her or any girl for that matter.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 7:17pm On Aug 01
ayesco202:
Do what you think is the right thing.
I really don't wanna do it. But I may lose out entirely..
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 7:19pm On Aug 01
missjo:
If you have to ask, then it's probably best you don't do it.

Your doubts and uneasiness will make it too painful for her cos you're in the right state of mind to deflower her or any girl for that matter.
I've deflowered quite a few but I really love this girl and would wanna marry. I really don't wanna have sex with her now till when I've engaged her officially. But still,I'm a realist.Shit happens,I may lose out entirely and never ever get to make love to her.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 7:20pm On Aug 01
illicit:
Leave her flower alone sir
ok thanks
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 7:21pm On Aug 01
vincenteger:
Do you think taking her virginity will make you be fulfilled as a man?
My dear don't start what ever you know you won't end well with

Humans changes with respect to time
Don't be surprised if she finds someone that is better-off you tomorrow
Na woman she be ooo
Let her be
Them get manu date & Exp date

If you love her continue to love her and let things slide
Sex na just some minutes pleasures ooo
Tomorrow you will say, it's not your
that you poured it out
Taking her virginity isn't a security measure.
She actually wants me to take it.
I'm a realist,she may fall in love with someone else and I may completely lose out and never make love to her.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by lograr(m): 7:23pm On Aug 01
FamousMonk:

I've deflowered quite a few but I really love this girl and would wanna marry. I really don't wanna have sex with her now till when I've engaged her officially. But still,I'm a realist.Shit happens,I may lose out entirely and never ever get to make love to her.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Rgade: 7:30pm On Aug 01
Oga you better hit that shit now that you have the chance angry
4-5 years indeed,that girl is simply sticking to you cause she's not yet exposed. She's simply charmed and overwhelmed by your adult persona and poise, she's just swallowing everything you are saying about marriage and all that shit.
An 18 year old girl hasn't formed any opinion or idea about marriage. Much of that will happen from her university days.
And guy,if that babe enters school, with the way you described her, you might as well kiss her goodbye.
No be girl,what does it take to wash her brain,no be just lies,she go forget you like babies forget wetin dey womb.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Rgade: 7:30pm On Aug 01
lograr:

grin
You no well I swear.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 7:31pm On Aug 01
lograr:
You want me to lie? Cos I could easily do that.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Petyprincess(f): 7:31pm On Aug 01
Please pay her bride price b4 taking someone's daughter virginity!!! If you dnt end up together then you not meant to be!!
Dnt take her innocence all in the name of i dnt wanna loose out!!
I doubt that girl is 18 she's probably underage.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Petyprincess(f): 7:35pm On Aug 01
FamousMonk:

I've deflowered quite a few but I really love this girl and would wanna marry. I really don't wanna have sex with her now till when I've engaged her officially. But still,I'm a realist.Shit happens,I may lose out entirely and never ever get to make love to her.
You dnt deserve her!! So you have taken many girls virginity and still want to take this one abi?
Hw i wish i can get that kiddo number and talk sense into her head!!
At her age you should be concerned about her education not taking her virginity!! Hw will you feel if she was your sister?

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by paulolee(m): 7:42pm On Aug 01
do wats on ur mind and jus put your daughter in her shoes before you make your decision..

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by JOACHINpedro: 7:44pm On Aug 01
FamousMonk:

I've deflowered quite a few but I really love this girl and would wanna marry. I really don't wanna have sex with her now till when I've engaged her officially. But still,I'm a realist.Shit happens,I may lose out entirely and never ever get to make love to her.
Virginfinder pls come arrest this man, he's making your job hard angry

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by lograr(m): 7:46pm On Aug 01
FamousMonk:

You want me to lie?
Cos I could easily do that.
Leave the poor girl alone and go look for one of the previous p***y you massacred and wife her biko. Thank you for your understanding

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by frozen70(f): 7:47pm On Aug 01
Stop playing smart game with your mind

For you to start talking about marrying her at this your present and future status is a game of chance

If you really knows that you will marry her after her studies and you mean it, go amd commit your family with her family

You can't leave a ripe mango on a tree by the road side, any one can pluck it

You have really made up your mind to have her, let your conscience be your Judge

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by lograr(m): 7:51pm On Aug 01
Rgade:

grin
You no well I swear.
The guy is turning girls to hoés
I once dated a girl that was deflowered not too long before i met her. She literarily cry and become restless when she is hórny when I'm not around. Sometimes i begin to think about the guy who deflowered her
"what has thou done to this girl"

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by jidamsel43(m): 8:01pm On Aug 01
You are seeking for our advice on how to destroy another person's daughter

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Rgade: 8:02pm On Aug 01
lograr:

The guy is turning girls to hoés
I once dated a girl that was deflowered not too long before i met her. She literarily cry and become restless when she is hórny when I'm not around. Sometimes i begin to think about the guy who deflowered her
"what has thou done to this girl"
Hoes will be hoes, the deflowering would have eventually come one day.
Girls are 100% responsible for their actions unless of course it's a minor we're talking about.
Don't attack him for his deflowering escapades grin
You must have enjoyed that yo girl cheesy

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by WoundedLamb: 8:06pm On Aug 01
Rgade:

Hoes will be hoes, the deflowering would have eventually come one day.
Girls are 100% responsible for their actions unless of course it's a minor we're talking about.
Don't attack him for his deflowering escapades grin
You must have enjoyed that yo girl cheesy

The grown up man who goes around deflowering teens is not a hoe. Only the young girl is called names.

#SayNoToSexism

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by chatinent(m): 8:16pm On Aug 01
After deflowering, what's next? You've won a trophy? I hate to reason with secondhand people.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by alexistaiwo: 8:23pm On Aug 01
Bros, talk true.
You, me and every other OGs on this thread know the babe never reach 18.

Murdafvcking pedophile!

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 8:24pm On Aug 01
jidamsel43:
You are seeking for our advice on how to destroy another person's daughter
Read my post again.
I love the girl,I want to marry her.
I still wanna be her first.
Not doing it now puts me at risk of losing that.

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