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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Sparkyhayzee(m): 10:28am On Aug 02
Petyprincess:

You know who you should ask that when you get home grin
Ask her the same question you asked me nw because definitely not all girls are like your role models at home!
Shameless men everywhere,continue deflowering girls without marrying them just know same will be done to your sisters and daughters grin cheesy


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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 10:38am On Aug 02
Rgade:
Oga you better hit that shit now that you have the chance angry
4-5 years indeed,that girl is simply sticking to you cause she's not yet exposed. She's simply charmed and overwhelmed by your adult persona and poise, she's just swallowing everything you are saying about marriage and all that shit.
An 18 year old girl hasn't formed any opinion or idea about marriage. Much of that will happen from her university days.
And guy,if that babe enters school, with the way you described her, you might as well kiss her goodbye.
No be girl,what does it take to wash her brain,no be just lies,she go forget you like babies forget wetin dey womb.

Enter that p*ssy or another useless fvk boy will get the job done . at least you're being a now guy that is why ure here asking .. Half of these mother f#kers ure asking here have made worse mistakes in life than ure, watch them preach to YOU about the situation yet They masturbate,cheat ,lie , double date, have dirty scretes. Don't let people who aren't saints decide for u.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 11:00am On Aug 02
Ayemileto:
According to the story, the girl never wanted to have sex yet, till after marriage.

But so far, OP has successfully brainwashed her into giving in to his demands, and that's probably why his conscience is disturbing him, making him come here for "support".

OP isn't looking for advise, he only needs people to support/encourage him so he can convince himself that what he wants to do isn't bad.

But not minding how much encouragement you get from this forum, it's only you that will bear whatever consequence that comes after the romp. None of those who supported you will be there then.





Also, you appear to be a selfish self centred individual. It appears you are much more concerned about the "Virginity" than the lady herself.

All those ladies you claimed to have deflowered before, is it not someone that will marry them?

Then why should you be scared that you may lose out on this one, even if you really want to marry her?

Or you want to marry a virgin, or be your wife's "first" but you are going around deflowering as many ladies as possible, and making them hoes for their husbands?

You see, having sex with a lady who isn't mentally or emotionally ready for it is like loosing a nut on her head. That few minutes enjoyment will only make her a hoe, and she'll never be able to recover from it.

The reason is because after enjoying it, she will want to keep enjoying it and exploring as much as she can. And when you're no longer available, or able to keep up with her demands for it, she'll find an alternative. And the more alternative she finds, the more slutty she becomes.

And at the end of the day, you'll never marry her, because you'll catch her cheating on you over and over again, and on each occasion, she'll keep apologizing.

But not minding how much she apologize or regret cheating on you, she won't be able to stop the habit, because she's enjoying the slut spirit you planted into her.

Finally, you won't be able to keep up with the heartbreaks...

...And you won't marry her...

Dammn what a brilliant speech. U a boss !!
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 11:06am On Aug 02
FamousMonk:

I love this girl to the point of wanting to keep her till we are engaged. But this is exactly what I'm afraid of bro.

Yes its the truth, the current girl I'm dating had a boyfriend before getting into the uni, she was a virgin while with him , then unfortunately for the guy ,she got admission into Unilorin where badt guy like us exists,guess what ? I disvirgined her 1 month after meeting her . Now she loves prick like mad
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 11:14am On Aug 02
Petyprincess:

First ask your role models at home and ask the same question which is probably obvious what their answer will be grin
Birds of the same feathers flock together angry
Or let me make it easy for you
"mummy please did you loose your virginity at 18 b4 marriage? because I'm supporting a guy online to take a girl's virginity without paying her bride price and any lady that is against my decision i ask them if their boyfriend also pays their bride price b4 shagging her" grin

Preety princess , I'm sure a big bottle of hennesy can enter your puna, I,mean why y'all fckers gotta come to social media and act like saints , you wanna tell me you are a virgin? Act like uve never been scwred by multiple dicks and 80%chances ure not even married. Get the fcckkk !! Let anybody fck anybody
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Rgade: 11:34am On Aug 02
OmoAlakija:


Enter that p*ssy or another useless fvk boy will get the job done . at least you're being a now guy that is why ure here asking .. Half of these mother f#kers ure asking here have made worse mistakes in life than ure, watch them preach to YOU about the situation yet They masturbate,cheat ,lie , double date, have dirty scretes. Don't let people who aren't saints decide for u.
No mind that guy,nigga knows what to do but will still be asking stupid questions when he knows that 90% of the advisers will tell him one thing and do the opposite in the same situation.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by JOACHINpedro: 11:54am On Aug 02
OmoAlakija:


Yes its the truth, the current girl I'm dating had a boyfriend before getting into the uni, she was a virgin while with him , then unfortunately for the guy ,she got admission into Unilorin where badt guy like us exists,guess what ? I disvirgined her 1 month after meeting her . Now she loves prick like mad

Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Petyprincess(f): 11:56am On Aug 02
OmoAlakija:


Preety princess , I'm sure a big bottle of hennesy can enter your puna, I,mean why y'all fckers gotta come to social media and act like saints , you wanna tell me you are a virgin? Act like uve never been scwred by multiple dicks and 80%chances ure not even married. Get the fcckkk !! Let anybody fck anybody
All these new monikers lol grin cheesy
I go hand you over mynd44, lalasticlala nd farano for breaking rule 2
If you think i will indulge with you internet warriors that can't even face me in real life nd tell me shit grin
Simply because i discourage having sex with underage girls nw y'all want to eat me raw by slutshaming lol grin
Quoting me with different monikers shows you not man enough!!
Okay go ahead and sleep with virgin girls na,abi i tie your prick?

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Petyprincess(f): 12:18pm On Aug 02
OmoAlakija:


I knew ud try to sound so relevant, go pick a struggle !!! All brown no brains,
No more slutshaming? grin
You finally realized it won't make me cry tongue
See i have said it many times y'all aren't savage!! You think every thing is about puna nd talking razz like a tout?
Pervert with fish brain!!

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 12:44pm On Aug 02
Holyfield1:
This is not even about us misleading you or anything but my brother just do it... Don't waste the slightest of time, I've been in your shoes before, she was a virgin too and awaiting admission. Everything changed immediately she got to school, got deflowered and came back to me. Had my share though but the love was no longer there, she went back to the guy that deflowered her. We dated for a year and 8 months. If you don't do it now you'll be sad and disgusted when another guy does it. You'll be traumatized, save yourself that stress and the imminent emotional breakdown by doing it now.... A man gats do what a man gats do...
Thanks bro..
You understand my point.
Things change when girls go to school.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 12:47pm On Aug 02
OmoAlakija:


Yes its the truth, the current girl I'm dating had a boyfriend before getting into the uni, she was a virgin while with him , then unfortunately for the guy ,she got admission into Unilorin where badt guy like us exists,guess what ? I disvirgined her 1 month after meeting her . Now she loves prick like mad
Heartbreaking..
I don't wanna be the loser in the end.
Thanks bro.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 12:49pm On Aug 02
Petyprincess:

You know who you should ask that when you get home grin
Ask her the same question you asked me nw because definitely not all girls are like your role models at home!
Shameless men everywhere,continue deflowering girls without marrying them just know same will be done to your sisters and daughters grin cheesy
You talk as if it is rape..
This thing is consensual.
She wants me to do it.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Petyprincess(f): 12:51pm On Aug 02
FamousMonk:

You talk as if it is rape..
This thing is consensual.
She wants me to do it.
Okay sir
Have you accomplished your mission?
It's Sunday already cheesy

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 12:52pm On Aug 02
Petyprincess:
Okay sir Have you accomplished your mission? It's Sunday already cheesy
Chill mam..
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Palema007: 12:53pm On Aug 02
FamousMonk:
Guys I have this 18yrs old girl who I intend to marry as soon as I'm settled and she's done with her University.She's currently not in school yet.We love each other so much,she's perfect for me and I swear I wanna marry her.We are compatible on almost all facets of life.Though we have our differences but we balance eachother's negative traits perfectly and hers are traits I'm sure I can endure and keep up with.
Now the problem is that she is a virgin and I initially agreed to wait till when we get married,maybe 4-5yrs from now before I deflower her.But this girl is so so beautiful and perfect physically.She's a goddess of beauty and as expected she gets so many male attention.I got scared she may fall in love with someone else(I'm a realist),especially if and when she gets admission,so I talked to her about it and she agreed to give me her virginity tomorrow when she comes to my house.The thing is,as much as I want to deflower her,I still wouldn't want our sexual life to start now.I want it to start when I've officially engaged her and met her parents but I may lose out and end up not being her first.
What should I do when she comes tomorrow?
Advise me please.
I need to know what to do before tomorrow.
Being her first is your only concern! Ahhhhhhhhh You guys can be so self-centered. Just imagine this nonsense you wrote.

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Palema007: 12:57pm On Aug 02
missjo:
If you have to ask, then it's probably best you don't do it. cheesy

Your doubts and uneasiness will make it too painful for her cos you're not in the right frame of mind to deflower her or any girl for that matter.
Exactly! The motive is very wrong, not borne out of love or mutual desire. Do people love at all in this part of the world or they only play games?

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Fourwinds: 1:04pm On Aug 02
FamousMonk:
Guys I have this 18yrs old girl who I intend to marry as soon as I'm settled and she's done with her University.She's currently not in school yet.We love each other so much,she's perfect for me and I swear I wanna marry her.We are compatible on almost all facets of life.Though we have our differences but we balance eachother's negative traits perfectly and hers are traits I'm sure I can endure and keep up with.
Now the problem is that she is a virgin and I initially agreed to wait till when we get married,maybe 4-5yrs from now before I deflower her.But this girl is so so beautiful and perfect physically.She's a goddess of beauty and as expected she gets so many male attention.I got scared she may fall in love with someone else(I'm a realist),especially if and when she gets admission,so I talked to her about it and she agreed to give me her virginity tomorrow when she comes to my house.The thing is,as much as I want to deflower her,I still wouldn't want our sexual life to start now.I want it to start when I've officially engaged her and met her parents but I may lose out and end up not being her first.
What should I do when she comes tomorrow?
Advise me please.
I need to know what to do before tomorrow.
RUBBISH..she is through with her university yet she seeks admission
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 1:28pm On Aug 02
Petyprincess:

No more slutshaming? grin
You finally realized it won't make me cry tongue
See i have said it many times y'all aren't savage!! You think every thing is about puna nd talking razz like a tout?
Pervert with fish brain!!

Sheew go play with your neighbours kids !!
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 2:21pm On Aug 02
Fourwinds:
RUBBISH..she is through with her university yet she seeks admission
Read again.
This time try not to embarrass yourself.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 2:22pm On Aug 02
Palema007:
Exactly! The motive is very wrong, not borne out of love or mutual desire. Do people love at all in this part of the world or they only play games?
Mutual desire?
You skipped where I said she wants me to deflower her
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 2:23pm On Aug 02
Palema007:
Being her first is your only concern! Ahhhhhhhhh You guys can be so self-centered. Just imagine this nonsense you wrote.
What should be my concern?
You didn't see my reason for it
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by CsRockefeller(m): 2:30pm On Aug 02
FamousMonk:

You've made a lot of sense bro..
I really love this girl and won't wanna lose her.
I totally agree with you and I take every word seriously.
But bro,someone else might do it..
That is my fear..

Shut up!!! Before I slap you. angry
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 2:37pm On Aug 02
CsRockefeller:

Shut up!!! Before I slap you. angry
Are you ok?
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Palema007: 2:47pm On Aug 02
FamousMonk:

Mutual desire?
You skipped where I said she wants me to deflower her
According to your story, you told her your fear (changing after getting admission and losing her virginity to someone else) you told her this and she agreed to having sex with you, if that's isn't blackmail from your part it is sacrificing her virginity as a sign of assurance on her part. Well a lady when a guy to take her virginity voluntary, she ask for it directly or indirectly. She doesn't GIVE IN. That's what your girl did, she gave in to your pressure.

Now as for you, I think your problem is you think you own this girl, you see her as your property and her virginity your collateral. You are so selfish. To you once you have a taste of her cherry, you won't lose, which means whatever happens next, you don't care. You may think you love her, but you r words and actions speaks otherwise. You don't have the right to be do determined to be her first, It's her body! Be selfless enough to allow her give it to you willingly with you having to cajole or manipulate her. Do you even understand what the Love you claim mean?

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Fourwinds: 2:51pm On Aug 02
FamousMonk:

Read again.
This time try not to embarrass yourself.





She's a goddess of beauty and as expected she gets so many male attention.I got scared she may fall in love with someone else(I'm a realist),especially if and when she gets admission,so I talked to her about it and she agreed to give me her virginity tomorrow when she comes to my house.



Read that portion of your statement... What is admission doing there?... You are to cover yourself in shame
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Mrlucky81(m): 2:52pm On Aug 02
FamousMonk:
Guys I have this 18yrs old girl who I intend to marry as soon as I'm settled and she's done with her University.She's currently not in school yet.We love each other so much,she's perfect for me and I swear I wanna marry her.We are compatible on almost all facets of life.Though we have our differences but we balance eachother's negative traits perfectly and hers are traits I'm sure I can endure and keep up with.
Now the problem is that she is a virgin and I initially agreed to wait till when we get married,maybe 4-5yrs from now before I deflower her.But this girl is so so beautiful and perfect physically.She's a goddess of beauty and as expected she gets so many male attention.I got scared she may fall in love with someone else(I'm a realist),especially if and when she gets admission,so I talked to her about it and she agreed to give me her virginity tomorrow when she comes to my house.The thing is,as much as I want to deflower her,I still wouldn't want our sexual life to start now.I want it to start when I've officially engaged her and met her parents but I may lose out and end up not being her first.
What should I do when she comes tomorrow?
Advise me please.
I need to know what to do before tomorrow.
Op which one you dey gan?
"she's done with her University or especially if and when she gets admission"

Note*
A man who plants a mango tree will wait for it fruits to ripe but guys like me will be busy plucking the fruits even if they are not yet ripe
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by ymstar(m): 3:10pm On Aug 02
JOACHINpedro:
Ewuawusa
grin grin grin
I don laugh tire for dis ur meme
Especially d way d guy holding d mic is smiling and d way d goat dey look.

Thank you, u made my day

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by peterangelo(m): 5:28pm On Aug 02
I love ur Lying style
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by positivevibez: 5:31pm On Aug 02
When you pour you will come back to your right senses grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 5:35pm On Aug 02
The deed has been done..
And I'm sure I won't regret it.
As long as she stays loyal,I'll most def marry her..
Aside from the blood on my bed and bloody condom I just flushed,all seems to be well.
She's in a little pain but I'd buy her some pain medication.
Dont mind the cheap condom i used.
Thanks for the moral.
OmoAlakija
Holyfield1

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