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|Why Ladies Hardly End Up With Their Dream Men... by Kranediggy(m): 10:56am On Aug 02|
Happy Sunday homies
There's a thread I saw this morning here on NL; about a 24 years old retired soldier, who's now a millionaire & it really made me to understand & justify that most of the mistakes our ladies make, in choosing their potential spouse or people they make themselves end up with, are mostly their fault.
Actually hardship, economic crisis & poverty, have really twisted the mentality of most ladies largely in this part of Earth. The scope is immensly on ladies on the age range of 19-38 years. This is because at 40, it's really hard to master new things; as its said that 'life begins at 40', to justify this, at 40 a person must have mastered a particular lifestyle, again its also said that 'an old dog learns no new tricks'. This is the major reason why men find it difficult to settle down with a lady at her early 30's & worst at late 30's or 40's; its hard to conform such a lady to your lifestyle unless luckily you both share same views, which its chances...
|Re: Why Ladies Hardly End Up With Their Dream Men... by madone: 11:02am On Aug 02|
sooo what are u saying
|Re: Why Ladies Hardly End Up With Their Dream Men... by Kranediggy(m): 11:23am On Aug 02|
...are very slim. Also at such age men wonder why you're still single, even though you're successful.
I don't connote that at late 30's or 40's a lady shouldn't have hope of settling down. Actually dropping some old bad habits & self development can really make men want you at such age.
The 24 years old black American millionaire said that his wife is his strength, in fact she manages everything including his money, he said. Mind you he was not a rich guy or even a millionaire when they met, according to him she was still a student when they met & he's not usually into women as he's a serious hustler, but fell for her 'cause of her intelligence & her cordinated personality & after 6 months they got married; which got their family crazy, why they'll get married after knowing each other for just 6 months & his reply was that a man does not need 5 years to know if he loves a woman.
You'll be like, ain't they Americans? No its not about where you are, its about where...
|Re: Why Ladies Hardly End Up With Their Dream Men... by Kranediggy(m): 12:26pm On Aug 02|
...you're heading to. Actually what this thread is all about is that the journey to a successful life is not gender based. This thread's aim is to enlighten ladies that its not about attaching material things to their ideal dream man. Am not saying a lady should settle down with a man that can't feed himself, to say nothing of you, though few independent ladies have done that & it played out well as the utterly poor man they chose to love & even feed later picked up & became well-to-do; the chances of a lady being this lucky is slim but it happens. Once a man can fend for himself & for his woman, he is ready for marriage; unless he has other reasons to remain single. On the other hand ladies should wisen up & understand that, its not about getting married to a rich man you don't truely love just 'cause of money. Trust me if you as a lady marrys a man just 'cause of his money in this 21st century, you'll end up cheating on him once you sight your dream man, believe me...
|Re: Why Ladies Hardly End Up With Their Dream Men... by Kranediggy(m): 1:26pm On Aug 02|
...ladies disern their dream men from afar & they'll love to bring him closer to 'emselves. Because of this unfair mindset many ladies claim that suitable suitors are scarce but actually they've not been honest to 'emselves, time will tell tho. According to the 24 years old black American, he started his company from the scratch as soon as his wife's pregnancy test result came out posititve & she started surpporting him at once & the company became big & worth millions of dollars. According to her husband she too started from nothing but she took her education very serious. That's the power of self development. Ladies please while waiting for your dream man be educated, develop yourself & acquire skills. A woman is meant to help her man grow in everything, its not just about feeling entitled, nagging, s*x etc.
Once a man posess all the qualities you want in a man & he's capable just say yes to him & build your dream empire with him. Remember Michelle Obama's story...THANKS
|Re: Why Ladies Hardly End Up With Their Dream Men... by Kranediggy(m): 1:45pm On Aug 02|
madone:Read it and see
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