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Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by ContractKiller: 10:22am On Aug 06, 2020
VIDEO: My husband abandoned my daughters and me because we have blue eyes – Risikat, Ilorin mom


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GFQZuiyLP0

https://punchng.com/video-my-husband-abandoned-my-daughters-and-me-because-we-have-blue-eyes-risikat-ilorin-mom/

'My husband abandoned my daughters and me because we have blue eyes' -Mum of viral Kwara girl with blue eyes narrates ordeal

A woman whose husband abandoned her and their kids because they have blue eyes has narrated her ordeal.

A student of the University of Osun, who travelled to Ilorin for the Sallah festivities, brought the family's plight to the limelight after she shared their photos on Facebook. Alabi Afusat explained that she met a family who is naturally blue-eyed and their eye colour made their father abandon them.

The family's story went viral and the mum of the blue-eyed girls, Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami - who is also blue-eyed - shared her story.

Risikat, a mum-of-two from Kwara State, told Punch that she was born with naturally blue eyes. She explained that since it was unusual, her parents took her to the General Hospital where a series of tests were done and it was revealed that her eyes are perfect.

She explained that as she grew older, concerned people kept commenting on her eyes and advising her parents to take her for a medical checkup.

While in primary school, she said her teachers invited her parents and asked them to take her to the hospital to check her eyes. She explained that when her parents took her to the hospital again, the doctors did tests again and told her that there is nothing wrong with her eyes and they are just naturally blue like that of a Caucasian.

She added that the doctors gave her lots of gifts and told her that they love her eyes.

"I can see clearly and there's nothing wrong with my eyes," she said.

A relative also explained how Risikat used to be invited to the General Hospital when she was a child just because they were fascinated by her eyes. The relative added that the General Hospital used to "compensate" Risikat for honouring their visit.

Risikat grew older and got married. She gave birth to three girls and all of them inherited her eye colour.

However, she explained that her husband, Abdulwasiu Omo Dada, had a problem with it and abandoned them as a result.

She said he loved her with her eyes at first but after she had their first child and she was born with the same eyes, their relationship changed and it became hard to have a conversation with her husband. It got worse when she had her younger daughter.

"When I had the first baby, it became difficult to have a conversation with him. Till I left with the children, we didn't have a conversation.

"Whenever I attempt to have a conversation with him, he would get angry and walk out on me."

She said that when she got pregnant with her second daughter, things were so hard for them that they couldn't afford food or medical care. She began going to her parents' home to eat and when it was time to have her child, her parents paid her hospital bills.

The second baby came out with blue eyes too and at this point, her husband's behaviour worsened. To make matters worse, his parents also expressed their displeasure with the eyes of his children.

Risikat said: "Even his parents were asking him if he was going to keep having children with blue eyes."

She said her husband began leaving home for days on end. Sometimes, he will be away for a whole week and wouldn't leave money for his family.

She said she began eating at her parents' home again. After the child's christening, she said her parents asked her to leave her husband.

She said that since she left, her husband has not shown up to ask after her or their kids.

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2020/8/my-husband-abandoned-my-daughters-and-me-because-we-have-blue-eyes-mum-of-viral-kwara-girl-with-blue-eyes-narrates-ordeal-video-2.html

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by GamalNasser: 10:24am On Aug 06, 2020
He didn't see the blue eyes before he knack U ni?

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Ulrich01(m): 10:33am On Aug 06, 2020
GamalNasser:
He didn't see the blue eyes before he knack U no?

Very useless man.

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Atigba: 10:34am On Aug 06, 2020

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by BlackfireX: 10:36am On Aug 06, 2020
Something some people are paying millions to get...

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by promotervickky(m): 10:40am On Aug 06, 2020
Uncivilized mentality

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by CzarChris(m): 10:41am On Aug 06, 2020
Some people's illiteracy is something else. Just take a look at this pretty lady with extremely beautiful eyes.

Heaven knows I'd give an arm and a leg to marry a lady this beautiful.

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by IamWonderful: 10:44am On Aug 06, 2020
That is nonsense

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Xisnin(m): 10:44am On Aug 06, 2020
That is not why the husband abandoned her since he stayed to make the second child.

One fraudulent spiritualist or cleric somewhere must have told
him that his wife and children's blue eyes indicates that they are witches and as an average Nigerian
he believed them without thinking.

And to those who reason like the husband, blue eyes are a product of recessive genes, no spirits involved.

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by GraGra247(m): 10:50am On Aug 06, 2020
BlackfireX:
Something some people are paying millions to get...

You can imagine. Go to America and see actresses and supermodels paying millions to tattoo their eyes blue.

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by punisha: 11:30am On Aug 06, 2020
case of "some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but have no food... "

Ignorance is a disease.
I pray their rare features bring them fame and wealth eventually and have the foolish husband crawling back for a piece of their fortune.

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Unnerve: 12:20pm On Aug 06, 2020
Hot damn. shocked

Mehn nothing trumps a good education with a little bit of exposure.
Her husband is a tortoise, a good for nothing jungle tortoise.

Just take a look at how beautiful this woman is, her smile, her lips, and then those eyes... something which exposed city girls are using all the makeup they can find, in a bid to look half as good as she does so effortlessly.

I can't get over how beautiful she is, lawwd embarassed

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by NoToPile: 12:34pm On Aug 06, 2020
The woman is so so pretty kiss kiss


I hope they get lots of help, those children should be in school .

Its good she wants her children to get the education she didn't get.

Its ignorance that made the husbands family say that will he keep on having children with blue eyes, Its just genes naaw.

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Jesuisbelle: 12:43pm On Aug 06, 2020
Oh my goodness what beautiful people! God’s work is beautiful no matter what color eyes you have. Your husband is ignorant you and your children deserve better

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Minsk24: 12:51pm On Aug 06, 2020
Xisnin:
That is not why he abandoned you since he stayed to make the second child.

One fraudulent spiritualist or cleric somewhere must have told
him that your blue eyes means you guys are witch and as an average Nigerian
he believed them without thinking.
True

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by mariahAngel: 12:53pm On Aug 06, 2020
There's something about black people with blue eyes...

The woman's eyes look more appealing than those of her daughters, which appear like their eyes are covered with cataracts

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Nobody: 2:50pm On Aug 06, 2020
Tomorrow if they enter Guinness book of Record, he'll want to attach to them. I pray by the mandate of heaven, this eyes he rejected you for will take you into world record in Jesus name.

Such unique eyes. Human beings though.

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Ginaz(f): 3:06pm On Aug 06, 2020
The mom is a black beauty . So beautiful .

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by chingle5(m): 3:14pm On Aug 06, 2020
why do i smell lies everywhere

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Nobody: 4:39pm On Aug 06, 2020
How can we get the contact of this beautiful BLUE-EYED family, they need all the help they can get.

Cc Lalasticlala, Mynd44

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by ProfAmaben: 5:27pm On Aug 06, 2020
Beautiful woman

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by tammie24: 5:27pm On Aug 06, 2020
Wow beautiful eyes

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Jh0wsef(m): 5:27pm On Aug 06, 2020
Hahaha

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Valoa432: 5:27pm On Aug 06, 2020
Some people are dying to have what someone just rejected,you see in life one mans food is another man's poison.

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by jchioma: 5:28pm On Aug 06, 2020
shocked

Yeye husband! E no see her eyes before he decided to marry her? Was he also expecting to see a different offspring? I think they are beautiful and that the man may have abandoned them due to the arising stigma and ignorance.

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by money121(m): 5:28pm On Aug 06, 2020
Joker
Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by Mindlog: 5:28pm On Aug 06, 2020
Sad.
Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by poiunt: 5:28pm On Aug 06, 2020
Nice eyes.

Black people with with blue eyes is linked to an ancient genetic mutation, and a small fraction get their blue eye color as a result of a health condition such as ocular albinism, which affects the pigmentation in the eye.

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by freshkpomo(m): 5:28pm On Aug 06, 2020
Verdict: I dey fear women o, if not I for be advocate if certain law when dey abroad make them apply an here.. But them fit use am turn men to slave just like this false rape stuff. But on a serious note that man should be jailed, why you go put person pikin for suffer like this and your own blood too.... Make them collect all the man asset give the woman, thats if him get any.. Girls be careful who you open your promise land for o...


A united youth is an unstoppable force

#NYM

God bless Nigeria

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Re: Kwara Blue Eyes Family: Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami Speaks "My Husband Abandoned Us" by OloshoMan: 5:29pm On Aug 06, 2020
If they were my kids I'd adore them.

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