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She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Robisky001(m): 1:36pm On Aug 07
Kindly overlook any grammatical errors and give me your mature advice.

I don't want to bug you with long stories here and there let me just delve straight to the point.

So I met this girl during the lockdown via one of these social media sites. We actually started chatting from day one and from there phone calls and video calling. She's cute, ambitious and actually ticks most of my boxes of what I require in a lady. We finally met facially this July and discuss the aim of our relationship and how I want it to end in the altar as she actually ticks my box. She has this kind of innocent look that you won't even suspect she has had her own fair share of sexual escapades. Since my plan is to get married to her I started unearthing her past and all that, that's where I got the shocked of my life she told me she has been with seven guys worse of all is that she has had intercourse with cousin not once or even twice. That alone got me pissed off and shattered and I asked her to give me space for the now to ruminate over it.

Guys, what do you think? Is she actually worth it having her as a wife? What are the implications of sleeping with one's relative? These will help me make my decision.


Mod, please kindly push this to the front page for a wider perspective.
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by habsydiamond(m): 1:40pm On Aug 07
if shes sincere about it why not continue as long as they are not doing it again. in every aspect to you soon turn relationship if trust and truthfulness is absent i dont see such relationship standing.. it will fall like jericho wall.

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Marvyx(m): 1:44pm On Aug 07
Omoh... Kai. Ladies sha..
7 guys + male cousin ✖ x where x >2 shocked... Me go japa sha..

What if her cousin wears white agbada and comes for the traditional wedding to drink palm wine and brings friends to eat your rice during white wedding or even decides to pay you guys visit one day at home? Are you mature enough to handle those thoughts? If you are, no wahala but if not don't kid yourself and regret later.. RUN!!!!

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by DonBenny77(m): 1:46pm On Aug 07
I'm coming back to read comments.
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Angelacruz: 1:48pm On Aug 07
if she is willingly to change,pls give her another chance.
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Robisky001(m): 1:48pm On Aug 07
DonBenny77:
I'm coming back to read comments.
I think "male cousin" sounds better than "cousin brother".
modify
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by pharmagba: 1:49pm On Aug 07
Nowadays don't try to unearth a ladies previous sexcapade please
Just check her character, devotion to God, loyalty and love for you, your love and believe in her, check her HIV and hepatitis status and that the womb is still intact.
Cefene!

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Robisky001(m): 1:49pm On Aug 07
habsydiamond:
if shes sincere about it why not continue as long as they are not doing it again. in every aspect to you soon turn relationship if trust and truthfulness is absent i dont see such relationship standing.. it will fall like jericho wall.
She is actually remorseful
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by habsydiamond(m): 1:57pm On Aug 07
Robisky001:
She is actually remorseful
Being remorse means shes has moved on for that. my advice. just monitor her professionally cos it may be more than what u think. have u seen the movies ladies act they are professionals when we talk of pranks oo.
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by MEGA4BILLION(m): 2:06pm On Aug 07
This KIND can sleep with all your family members. What do I know sef?
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by gbami(m): 2:06pm On Aug 07
Wtf Op...If it was once..I would have thought it was a mistake..that they didn't know they were cousin...More Than Once, twice and more...guy leave her... Whenever she talks about any cousin of hers, your mind won't be at rest...Free her... People don't change, they find a better way to pretend and cover up..
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Ningen(m): 2:38pm On Aug 07
She was honest enough to open up, well then she's worth it and you should give her a chance.

Looking forward to your future threads. grin

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Wolgrace(m): 2:46pm On Aug 07
Are you interested in her past she regretted and repented from..?
OR
Transparancy (bedrock of endless love) with you..?
I'm waiting.
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by emmyN(m): 2:49pm On Aug 07
Sleeping with one's close relative is one form of perversion. Sleeping with a stranger/friend you are not married to is another form of perversion. Both are perversion.
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by paulolee(m): 2:53pm On Aug 07
same old story, same old mistakes, asking about the past when you dnt havd the balls to face it or the power to change it...my guy, everybody gat skeletons in thier cupboard especially girls, if guys keep asking and the girls wants to say the truth about all thier past, i swear no guy go get mind marry
i blame d girl for telling u such deep past because ur chicken heart gat no balls to take them..
the same bea wey tell you with her own mouth, naim u come online they cast....jus imagine.

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Chii59(f): 2:55pm On Aug 07
Just make sure that "cousin" doesn't father your first child. undecided

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by davien(m): 3:05pm On Aug 07
You met her on social media during lockdown.

You think she's cute, ambitious and ticks all the boxes.

Kept in touch through calls and messages.

Met her in July.

Told her you want the relationship to end in marriage.

Assuming she accepted this condition, she was honest to tell you her dirty laundry.

You're chickening out.


You see why people ease into relationships instead of jumping steps? Now that more boxes are opening up your eyes have opened.

You have standards and that's great but if you decide to go marry this chick, know that you won't have anyone to blame when she travels and you can't reach her for a few days and then start suspecting something that may/may not have happened.

She may or may not have changed, are you ready to gamble your money, time and care? Are you ready for her to sleep over at her cousins place when she goes to visit her family? Can you relax when one of your kids looks like him? Woman plenty, na wisdom to make good choice scarce.

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by hollarunji08(m): 3:16pm On Aug 07
To my own perspective bro, I think she worth it because there's no bae that can willingly explained her past even her sexcapade if She doesn't love u
So bro, I think this bae love u by telling u all this secrets, u can still give her second chance and see how it goes

NB.... Remember every saints has a past and every sinners have a future
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by LKTJ123(m): 3:38pm On Aug 07
Having Sex With A Family Member Wen She Is Not A Kid It's Something That Is Very Bad. But Telling U Her Pasts I Thing She Deserve A Second Chance.
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by RealEzee(m): 3:58pm On Aug 07
Na u won unearth am na, wat u found dey do ur eyes wanawana now, well Sha she even tell u grin just know da even if no b u marry her someone else will.

Las Las we go dey aiit grin

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by DaddyRochie1642(f): 4:08pm On Aug 07
Ningen:
She was honest enough to open up, well then she's worth it and you should give her a chance.

Looking forward to you future threads. grin






I saw what you did there grin

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by DaddyRochie1642(f): 4:10pm On Aug 07
Oga I can assure you, it will end in WEEPING and SINCERE WAILING and gnashing of Teeth grin grin
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Raeheemwayne: 4:38pm On Aug 07
Op, for starters; did you also recount your dirty mischiefs in the past to her?
If your answer is yes, what was her reaction?

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Kondomatic(m): 4:40pm On Aug 07
What a lady has done with her life before I met her is not my business. I don't ask who she's been with and I won't show interest if she decides to tell.

I am new in her life so she should open a new chapter

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Incandescent(m): 4:45pm On Aug 07
Na you go find trouble dey ask too much question.

What do you now want the girlfriend/wife of her cousin to do?

What if she never opened up?

If you're too holy for her, leave her and her past.

But sleeping with cousin tho? For how long & is it when they were kids or as adults?

God epp us
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Incandescent(m): 4:46pm On Aug 07
Raeheemwayne:
Op, for starters; did you also recount your dirty mischiefs in the past to her?
If your answer is yes, what was her reaction?

Very important question.
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by ibkonekt(m): 5:01pm On Aug 07
7 guys....you mean 700 guys. you better drink the redpill. simp
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by UndauntedYOCA(f): 5:26pm On Aug 07
Marvyx:
Omoh... Kai. Ladies sha..
7 guys + male cousin ✖ x where x >2 shocked... Me go japa sha..

What if her cousin wears white agbada and comes for the traditional wedding to drink palm wine and brings friends to eat your rice during white wedding or even decides to pay you guys visit one day at home? Are you mature enough to handle those thoughts? If you are, no wahala but if not don't kid yourself and regret later.. RUN!!!!
Lol, shall we do the body count of most men?
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Idowster(m): 5:26pm On Aug 07
As for me RUN!!!!!!!! if she could sleep with her cous next is ur relative bestfriends and others
Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Idowster(m): 5:30pm On Aug 07
Idowster:
As for me RUN!!!!!!!! if she could sleep with her cous next is ur relative bestfriends and others
if u re a virgin run if u re nt dont condem

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Norman4real: 6:00pm On Aug 07
If she says she's only been with 7 guys then those are the guys she liked and actually dated. The real body count if you're to include hookups, one night stands and exchanges for favours then the real number is probably about 20-30.

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Re: She Slept With Her Male Cousin Is She Still Worth It by Papadoh(m): 6:04pm On Aug 07
Sex with cousins is actually more common than people think. Not saying it's right, but there are worse things.

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