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Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by AceRoyal: 5:56pm On Aug 10, 2020
Queenslander:
My dear calm down,. You don't have to insult me to get your message across.. Let's be civil in our conversation.. Okay!! Be a good boy!! cheesy
Hi

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Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by offset67(m): 6:03pm On Aug 10, 2020
cicodeblazzer:
Hmmmm.....na wa ooh. Arochukwu LGA abia state una well done. Are u selling ur daughters ni? Imagine a bride-price list of 1million naira(800k for items and 200k for bride price because she is a graduate). Is this not heartless exploitation of groom-to-be in nigeria?
let her marry her father
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by offset67(m): 6:04pm On Aug 10, 2020
Queenslander:
How is that your problem? If you can't afford it, marry from your own tribe, simple!! BTW I don't see Abians complaining..

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Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cicodeblazzer(m): 7:48pm On Aug 10, 2020
Chummynoni:

so, the child(ren) had out of wedlock should b killed?. so, are u saying tat d foundation of my marriage is faulty? even wen I Neva had quarrel of any type with my fiancee of more than 7years?.
I didnt say u should kill ur child....in david's case, GOD himself killed the boy with sickness despite the fastings of david for forgiveness. In ur case, just earnestly pray GOD and JESUS CHRIST to 4give you and do it no more until you guys wed officially so that the mighty blood of JESUS CHRIST will overflow and destroy that faulty foundations.
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by Chummynoni(m): 8:33pm On Aug 10, 2020
cicodeblazzer:
I didnt say u should kill ur child....in david's case, GOD himself killed the boy with sickness despite the fastings of david for forgiveness. In ur case, just earnestly pray GOD and JESUS CHRIST to 4give you and do it no more until you guys wed officially so that the mighty blood of JESUS CHRIST will overflow and destroy that faulty foundations.
no problem. thanks
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by obonujoker(m): 10:34pm On Aug 10, 2020
Queenslander:
nope!!

Shut it... You are from Abia...infact ftom okpolo umuobo ....that's y you are defending them...
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by Queenslander(f): 11:15pm On Aug 10, 2020
obonujoker:


Shut it... You are from Abia...infact ftom okpolo umuobo ....that's y you are defending them...
.. Okay, goodnight!!

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Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by frozen70(f): 12:17am On Aug 11, 2020
cicodeblazzer:
Hmmmm.....na wa ooh. Arochukwu LGA abia state una well done. Are u selling ur daughters ni? Imagine a bride-price list of 1million naira(800k for items and 200k for bride price because she is a graduate). Is this not heartless exploitation of groom-to-be in nigeria?

This is the major reasons they have spinsters all over the state and other places they are spread to

It has gotten so expensive that their men now prefer to marry outside the state

Imo state does the same too
As if their daughters are being sold out for life
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cicodeblazzer(m): 12:24am On Aug 11, 2020
Chummynoni:
no problem. thanks
u are most wellcome
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by Nobody: 12:26am On Aug 11, 2020
Fake story. Where's the list?
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cicodeblazzer(m): 12:35am On Aug 11, 2020
frozen70:


This is the major reasons they have spinsters all over the state and other places they are spread to

It has gotten so expensive that their men now prefer to marry outside the state

Imo state does the same too
As if their daughters are being sold out for life
i swear imo own na no go area especially mba5 that i know and hear about wella and in abia state(itaja umuelile olokoro). Am not sure about arochukwu own because na only one person confirmed it while others are claiming false. I pee for body when my paddy collect list and show me the 1million list his would-be in-laws give am. On top wetin? Na queen of the coast he wan marry ni?
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by frozen70(f): 12:38am On Aug 11, 2020
cicodeblazzer:
i swear imo own na no go area especially mba5 that i know and hear about wella and in abia state(itaja umuelile olokoro). Am not sure about arochukwu own because na only one person confirmed it while others are claiming false. I pee for body when my paddy collect list and show me the 1million list his would-be in-laws give am. On top wetin? Na queen of the coast he wan marry ni?

Honestly I pity their daughters and non of them has taken it upon themselves to write to their state House to reduce their demand in the list

It's not an inherited culture, its a system they formed and can be adjusted if the kins men wishes
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by Galactico4ever(m): 12:48am On Aug 11, 2020
It still amazes me how these parents and relatives set such a high bride price.

I can never forget the day we escorted a friend to traditional wedding and the kinsmen turned us back because we missed a few items in the list. All the plea by the parents were on deaf ears as the greedy kinsmen stood their ground.
My guy sha later fashi everything and discarded the girl.

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Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cicodeblazzer(m): 1:21am On Aug 11, 2020
Galactico4ever:
It still amazes me how these parents and relatives set such a high bride price.

I can never forget the day we escorted a friend to traditional wedding and the kinsmen turned us back because we missed a few items in the list. All the plea by the parents were on deaf ears as the greedy kinsmen stood their ground.
My guy sha later fashi everything and discarded the girl.
Na correct guy. The kinsmen are not to be blamed but the hopeless lady and her family. Whose day was destroyed and would be gossiped 4eva......her day and their daughter/sister day(not any kinsmen daughters day). I have seen where bride and family fought kinsmen(not physically) when they are standing their grounds on their greed-ladden exploiting list not minding the in-laws might vex and go.
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by obonujoker(m): 6:55am On Aug 11, 2020
Queenslander:
.. Okay, goodnight!!

Whoa!!!! Is that all you'd say?? Na wao
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by Queenslander(f): 7:02am On Aug 11, 2020
obonujoker:


Whoa!!!! Is that all you'd say?? Na wao
smh.. You want me to insult you back? Nah!!
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by obonujoker(m): 7:05am On Aug 11, 2020
Queenslander:
smh.. You want me to insult you back? Nah!!

Hmmm... Ok... Sorry for the insult from me then. You are a cultured and mannered woman

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Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by Queenslander(f): 9:54am On Aug 11, 2020
obonujoker:


Hmmm... Ok... Sorry for the insult from me then. You are a cultured and mannered woman
Awwww, thats sweet. thank you cheesy

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Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cicodeblazzer(m): 10:11am On Aug 11, 2020
NobleDeSage001:
That's the correct price bro. In fact, you got discount sef.
My homie paid 850k plus bride price.
Wait o. U mean he paid 850k(list + bride price) or 850k(list) + bride price

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Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cicodeblazzer(m): 10:23am On Aug 11, 2020
Headlesschicken:
undecided Dear lil pig @Mr poster Arochukwu doesn't give unnecessary price list, put up evidence to support yuh claim or just shut the phuck up..
My man u dont have to condescend to using derogatory insultive words to communicate ur wonderful message/point across. Be civilised bro.
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by SavageResponse(m): 3:12pm On Aug 11, 2020
cicodeblazzer:
Hmmmm.....na wa ooh. Arochukwu LGA abia state una well done. Are u selling ur daughters ni? Imagine a bride-price list of 1million naira(800k for items and 200k for bride price because she is a graduate). Is this not heartless exploitation of groom-to-be in nigeria?

grin
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by NobleDeSage001: 4:19pm On Aug 11, 2020
850k list - bride price.
Bride price was paid separately on the day of Traditional marriage.
The 850k must be paid first before any other thing.
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cooooooks(m): 9:56pm On Aug 11, 2020
It's not a question of lack.

Some people have principles and I think it'd be good to use fundamental principles when taking milestone decisions.

Personally, bride price, especially when steep, is selling one's child. The worst part is that a lot of the money is not even for the immediate family of the bride but for those useless uncles that only remember you when you want to marry.

Even more, it seems (based on some published peer reviewed legal papers), that while bride price is not necessarily unconstitutional, stopping a marriage because of bride price is definitely unconstitutional.

In fact, your father cannot force you to marry someone or forcefully refuse a marriage proposal on your behalf. Those questions have been answered by the Nigerian Supreme Court.

Personally, I don't know what I'd do if faced with a bride list that seems like sale of cattle. I'm scared that I'd have to refuse to marry based on these yeye principles.

There's always the option of my partner and I marrying through the court or having a common-law partnership. Legally, there'd be no difference. Maybe some family members will frown at us bucking the customs but no be their life.



zangaozanga:
you nor get money you wan go marry.

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Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cicodeblazzer(m): 11:03pm On Aug 11, 2020
@cooooooks my broda, its not about been constitutionally or not...how many people still abide by constitution 2day? Constitutionally, groom and family handle list while bride and family handle feeding and decoration....are u not seeing grooms been told now that, feeding and decoration is still on them despite the long lists( that in some places, still contain items for such feeding and decorations)?
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cicodeblazzer(m): 11:21pm On Aug 11, 2020
Eastern nigeria bride price shouldnt and mustnt exceed 60naira only. It must be 60naira if no incidental expenses are incurred but if incidental expenses are incurred, it must not be more than 50naira. its an offence punishable by law for brides family to collect above this as well as for the groom to hear such and still pay it. (This is gotten from section 3(a) of the limitation of dowry law cap 76, laws of eastern nigeria). NB the incidental expenses was further explained by law to mean THE CUSTOMARY GIFT ITEMS IN THE BRIDE LIST. This is because the law knows that most people would stick to the stipulated price of 60naira but would greedily inflate the list. Now answer, HOW MUCH IS YOUR BRIDE PRICE: ABOVE 60 OR BELOW 60?
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by stanliwise(m): 11:24pm On Aug 11, 2020
ZINIBANKS:
PDudd please I want to ask something
Do white people pay bride price to marry
No they don’t. Bride price is majorly practiced in Africa and Asian country.
But for most Americans an Europe, they don’t
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cicodeblazzer(m): 11:29pm On Aug 11, 2020
lipsrsealed shocked shocked JESU. Am sure it would pass the 1million my paddy was issued
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by Nobody: 11:39pm On Aug 11, 2020
stanliwise:
No they don’t. Bride price is majorly practiced in Africa and Asian country.
But for most Americans an Europe, they don’t
How did you know grin

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Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cooooooks(m): 11:55pm On Aug 11, 2020
No such thing in the constitution.

Constitution does not delegate wedding ceremony duties na my broda. grin

cicodeblazzer:
@cooooooks my broda, its not about been constitutionally or not...how many people still abide by constitution 2day? Constitutionally, groom and family handle list while bride and family handle feeding and decoration....are u not seeing grooms been told now that, feeding and decoration is still on them despite the long lists( that in some places, still contain items for such feeding and decorations)?
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by cicodeblazzer(m): 12:34am On Aug 12, 2020
cooooooks:
No such thing in the constitution.

Constitution does not delegate wedding ceremony duties na my broda. grin

research on marriage rites, customs and traditions and know all u need to know bro
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by wowmagonline: 2:43pm On Apr 28, 2022
This is too cheap in abia state.
Bride price in abia state will who k you
https://www.immigratefly.xyz/2022/04/bride-price-list-in-abia-state.html?m=1
Re: Abia State 1million Naira Bride Price List by Nyascobar1414: 3:01pm On Apr 28, 2022
Bride price is mainly for Virgins with Hymens...
Non virgin, no bride price...
Real men marry damaged women and forget about their past... Real niggas marry virgins with their respective hymens Intact...


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