LutherSanchez:
All good bro

all good man.

ubunja:
girls can be confusing. But the golden rule when dealing with women giving you mixed signals or confusing you in any way is this: ALWAYS WATCH HER ACTIONS. No matter what a lady is saying , always go by how she's acting. Actions always speak louder than words. A woman will be telling you she has a BF meanwhile she's giving you her number. A woman will be telling you she's married and has kids meanwhile she's taking off her panties for you. Always watch what she does.

And in the same way, if a woman is telling you sweet things but acting contrary to her own words , if she's talking a big game promising heaven and earth but at the same time being indecisive, uncaring, dismissive, cold and unresponsive in her actions-- again ,respond to her actions. Discount her words.
A woman's actions will always be how she truly feels about you . Cause talk is cheap, it's actions that take effort.
And the best scenario is when a woman's words and her actions are in agreement.

If anyone wants to understand better what I'm saying, watch these two YouTube skits.
The lady is purposefully SAYING one thing but ACTING the opposite. The guy is confused as hell but all he has to do is ignore her words and WATCH WHAT SHE'S DOING. Actions are what you watch. Play the videos first with the audio on then play them again without the audio, on mute, to see how different everything is when you discount words and focus on a woman's actions.

https://youtube.com/shorts/9vLDwXADukY?feature=share


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0SYUcjIPaIE

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LutherSanchez:
That's why i said BROTHERS SHINE YA EYES ��� where i object was in your first statement where you said if it happens to be your sister,you would tell her to lie to her husband too and take the secret to the grave.. I would never do that,even though the husband doesn't find out eventually,i wouldn't Live my life with guilt knowing what transpired and knowing that the man,my supposed Brother in-law is raising a child that's not his ...... It's better than i don't know about such grevious act,than i knew and kept quiet without saying anything.... What of he eventually finds out that the kid ain't his?

this is one notable ish with men, always dealing with women and relationship from moral lens. I bet you women would always consider first whether letting the cat out of the bag be beneficial to her or not before even thinking of the moral consequences

ubunja:
nice one brotherman. To women sex is just a game. And they have sex for a billion reasons depending on the circumstance. As a man you just gotta stay alert . Stay in predator mode. Ready to slay. Don't let puccy catch you unawares.
And Women LOVE fuccing strangers. For a variety of understandable reasons. The top most being that around a stranger A WOMAN CAN BE AS FREAKY AND AS FREE AS SHE WANTS TO BE WITHOUT JUDGEMENT cause she's telling herself after this you're you're obviously never going to meet again. So there's no burden to maintain an angelic facade. She has nothing to lose. And correspondingly a man will generally get the best sex from some girl who's a stranger than from her own GF or wife. Cause the way a woman fuccs a stranger is different from the way she fuccs a man that she loves. A woman will always hold back during sex with a man she loves and who loves her cause she dare not come across a hoe. The man must get constant confirmation that his girl is an innocent prude who has indeed slept with 3 men at most and who doesn't know a lot about sex and is in the process of learning. That way a man will invest limitlessly on her because he sees her as a safe bet.
But with a stranger, all that flies out the window. The freaky slut comes out in all her shining glory and she'll suck and ride that dicc to oblivion. And even if she and the stranger keep in touch, because they started the sex on a freaky note , there'll be no need for her to act a prude going forward. Since in sex and relationships HOW YOU START IS HOW YOU FINISH - the impression you give at the start is the impression that you have to live with for the rest of the relationship. Eg if as a man you meet a girl that you like and you give her money to sleep with her, even if the two of you do catch feelings and start dating she's always going to want you to give her money for sex cause that's how you started. Also Eg If as a woman you cheat on your BF with some dude and eventually dude and you catch feelings and you drop your BF for dude, dude is never going to trust you cause the way you started was as a cheat he'll always expect you to cheat. How you start matters.

I ended up off topic, but hey! Have a nice week ahead.

get it from the horse's mouth gents...

Pukkalolo:


If you've actually hang out around Falz (or few other naija Rappers), you'd know they are actually bad guys.

The thing is, Falz wasn't the director of the video. It was the director that scripted the video that way. Falz was simply acting. That's not really is personification in real life.

Most of the musicians that sing love songs aren't really simp in real. Wizkid that sang, "I fit die on top you matter"... Do you think he actually meant it.

Or Justin beiber that sing love songs everytime....

Most of the Rappers and singers are actually bad guys and assholes in real life: they treat girls like trash and poo.

Don't be decieve by what they portray in their music.

Falz was actually passing message if no be falz wet i know I for say na simp but na na falz Can't be simp

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You are hungry and you get to the restaurant, and they say they don’t have any food, you simply look for another restaurant. You don't stand there arguing with them or trying to convince them to have food for you. You just simply move on to the next available restaurant.

Same thing with women. If a woman, doesn't have what you're looking for or she's not interested in you, you simply bounce to the next available woman. If you start becoming too persistent or start trying to plead or convince her, you're reducing your value in her eyes.

Martinez39s:
Nothing wrong, but you no suppose dey shalaye for people like this. Just simple "No. I have no money to give you" and you are okay.

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Like. Let it go. He dey write story like say him be martinez.

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Seeker3:
this is one notable ish with men, always dealing with women and relationship from moral lens. I bet you women would always consider first whether letting the cat out of the bag be beneficial to her or not before even thinking of the moral consequences

I've seen alot of posts about "Men and Morals"..
See, it's one thing to have the knowledge, it's another thing to know when to apply it...
If as a guy, you decide not to consider "morality" because the other gender doesn't, then get ready to dance to the beat..
I'll keep it short with this example
If a female (married) is caught cheating, highest she would collect is slaps/divorce, but the guy 99% of the time would be beaten to stupor/disabled/jailed or even killed...

tldr; Like i said, application is everything.. The society would react to, judge or punish a male and a female in the same offence differently.

@ubunja you asked for update on Benjamin Mendy's case. He's been acquitted but everyone's keeping quiet even tho they rushed to tarnish his image.

Oyin2212:
@ubunja you asked for update on Benjamin Mendy's case. He's been acquitted but everyone's keeping quiet even tho they rushed to tarnish his image.

devastating to say the least. as long as men don't do anything to save themselves as a group sadly these things will not stop. A

But a glimmer of hope is that men are starting to awaken to a sense of the danger they're potentially exposed to, I was on a comment section of a video on Paternity fraud on YouTube and really men are starting to talk about standing up and pushing back. Eventually something will have to give and the backlash will start against all this misandry.
It used to be isolated cases of men abused by the system so no one cared enough cause there was this "it wouldn't happen to me" belief among men, but as these cases become more and more and people closer and closer to them start getting targeted all men are getting a reality check.