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pansophist:


Victimising yourself wont make you a better person or attractive. The question you should be asking yourself is, why are girls having sex with other men and not me? Why are some men with varieties of women, while I'm stuck with a screen on one hand, and vaseline on the other ? Why I'm I not man enough to make girls attracted to me?

Why are no women checking me out? Justifying masturbation is like a poor person justifying poverty. Of course lots of people are poor, should that makes you not ambitious and aspire to greater heights ? If dwarfs like Aki and Paw Paw could score tall attractive wives, I wonder why normal men will settle with wanking their semen away.

Imagine the money you spent on data to stream porn, spent on soap, water and time, your most valuable irretrievably asset, for few mins of dopamine boost. Its shameful. Your ancestors didnt masturbate to bring you here, why do that to yourself?

Telling that porn and masturbation is bad is not the same thing as pointing a gun at you telling you to stop it. Of course keep masturbating, but it is bad. That is my point.

Damn. . . You’re dumber than I thought

Lots of married men masturbate. Do they also lack pussy ?

Nemesis504:
I don't know why the world has a way of hating whatever gives men joy and happiness women masturbate more but nobody says anything but a man does it and it becomes a problem I don't understand it's difficult for some guys to get a girlfriend and you all know how our girls like money a lot and at the end the sex is not guaranteed please allow us masturbate in peace abeg nah masturbate we masturbate we nor kill person

Bros nobody hold gun for your head make you no mastubate

Its just his/their own point of view/believe

It is left to you as an adult to do what is right or wrong

Remember Yaba LEFT fit be RIGHT it all depends on where you are coming from

pansophist:


Victimising yourself wont make you a better person or attractive. The question you should be asking yourself is, why are girls having sex with other men and not me? Why are some men with varieties of women, while I'm stuck with a screen on one hand, and vaseline on the other ? Why I'm I not man enough to make girls attracted to me?

Why are no women checking me out? Justifying masturbation is like a poor person justifying poverty. Of course lots of people are poor, should that makes you not ambitious and aspire to greater heights ? If dwarfs like Aki and Paw Paw could score tall attractive wives, I wonder why normal men will settle with wanking their semen away.
Look at you trying to use shaming tactics on me like a defeated woman which I can assure you that it won't work and one more thing you spend more time and resources chasing women than you do masturbating you can't even compare both of them
Imagine the money you spent on data to stream porn, spent on soap, water and time, your most valuable irretrievably asset, for few mins of dopamine boost. Its shameful. Your ancestors didnt masturbate to bring you here, why do that to yourself?

Telling that porn and masturbation is bad is not the same thing as pointing a gun at you telling you to stop it. Of course keep masturbating, but it is bad. That is my point.

Look at you trying to shame me like a defeated woman it won't work you can't even compare the time, energy and resources you use in chasing women with masturbation the difference is very clear

Nemesis504:

Look at you trying to shame me like a defeated woman it won't work you can't even compare the time, energy and resources you use in chasing women with masturbation the difference is very clear

I never thought I see the day when people vehemently defends masturbation, as oppose to having real sex

No wahala bros, different strokes for different folks. Keep up with your strokings.

pansophist:


Have you ever asked a girl out randomly before and ske asked for your instagram or Facebook instead of giving you her number? Well here you go, she is trying to check you out, to know if you're worthy of her. To see your lifestyle, and know your worth.

There is a psychological phenomena known as the "halo effect", which is, that we have good opinion of something we like and bad opinion of something we do not like. Approaching a random girl comes with the risk of being classified in a negative light, as lots of guys do it, from cat calling to hissing. Its not honourable. Also, it makes you seems superficial, because you're clearly asking her out because of her looks only, and she knows it.

You may try, but it is not advisable. Because it doesnt gives that chance for her to see you in a positive light, and deem you worthy of her. By default, the female sees themselves as better than most men, and to make yourself the boss, she has to think about you from the platform of your mastery. It has to do with something called personal branding.

Thanks bro. You are right

pansophist:




https://www.nairaland.com/5747406/how-alphas-shoot-shot/3#87640582


https://www.nairaland.com/5910696/how-eradicate-all-simps-society/1#90440224

Words from a wise pundit.

pansophist:


Now a question for you. Can you cite any scientific study to the opposite of stance? In other words, is porn good?

I concur. PMO is not good.

Mattfeuter, the absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence. That there are no scientific research done on the negative effect of PMO, doesn't mean PMO is not harmful.

If you would care to share with us scientific research on the pros of PMO...

Here are quotes from some popular books.

"From a biomechanical
perspective, the indication is
that men who consistently
masturbate are essentially broadcasting their status as
Pheromonal Betas – and
women’s biochemical
mechanics subconsciously
registers this about them" — The Rational male by Rollo Tomassi.

"In fact, from an
evolutionary standpoint, the
Beta males of our feral
hunter-gatherer beginnings
would be more prone to
masturbation as a sexual
release since, theoretically,
they would’ve had less access
to breeding opportunities than
Alpha males. It would then
follow that definitive,
subconscious behavioral and chemical cues would evolve
to aid females in selecting the
best mate for parental
investment. " — The Rational Male by Rollo tomassi.

"P.S. I've been reading Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and I want to suggest something related. If you regularly masturbate, you can easily become addicted. This addiction comes in the form of daily regularity that curbs your desire to go out. It also does not allow you to harness your sex drive, which can be used to motivate yourself to work on wealth-building projects. If you aren't getting laid on a regular basis (which happens to all of us
from time to time), then don't just choke 'til you're broke. Set a date with yourself. Only jerk it once a week." — The Game by Neil Strauss.

Modified.

Freshly from Reno..Dude is Redpilled

ElasmoBranchii:


I concur. PMO is not good.

Mattfeuter, the absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence. That there are no scientific research done on the negative effect of PMO, doesn't mean PMO is not harmful.

If you would care to share with us scientific research on the pros of PMO...

Here are quotes from some popular books.

"From a biomechanical
perspective, the indication is
that men who consistently
masturbate are essentially broadcasting their status as
Pheromonal Betas – and
women’s biochemical
mechanics subconsciously
registers this about them" — The Rational male by Rollo Tomassi.

"In fact, from an
evolutionary standpoint, the
Beta males of our feral
hunter-gatherer beginnings
would be more prone to
masturbation as a sexual
release since, theoretically,
they would’ve had less access
to breeding opportunities than
Alpha males. It would then
follow that definitive,
subconscious behavioral and chemical cues would evolve
to aid females in selecting the
best mate for parental
investment. " — The Rational Male by Rollo tomassi.

"P.S. I've been reading Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and I want to suggest something related. If you regularly masturbate, you can easily become addicted. This addiction comes in the form of daily regularity that curbs your desire to go out. It also does not allow you to harness your sex drive, which can be used to motivate yourself to work on wealth-building projects. If you aren't getting laid on a regular basis (which happens to all of us
from time to time), then don't just choke 'til you're broke. Set a date with yourself. Only jerk it once a week." — The Game by Neil Strauss.

I’d like to think of this as a personal view aye? Because yet again, it is untrue.

Maxims don't need to be perfectly true to be correct, they need only be accurate most of the time. Therefore, generalisation is accepted if it is right most times, and should not be rejected if wrong some times.

Illimitablemen.

Pornography and masturbation is noxious to the men that indulges in it way higher than women when juxtaposed. So, for this reason we mostly concern ourselves with men like the way we concern ourselves with women when it comes to sexual promiscuity even though both genders are victims of each vices.

Rationalizing masturbation and pornography or discarding any notion against it because you indulge in the act will not eliminate its consequences. You need to identify how its benefits is far lower than the risks or final result. Think thrice!

We don't need any statistical data or research, because in our neoteric days, a truckload of scientific research and academias has been vitiated by corrupt government officials. Some even do research to support their leftist and absurd ideology-------so therefore, we will stick to observations on a demographical scale without ghosting the field of science.

Many of the things fealties of pornography and masturbation does are not scientifically back up, but yet they demand for it, because they have chosen to subject their fragile procreating tissue to intense hand tension and pressure for a disgusting amount of vague pleasure. I pity your d!!cks you fellows.

No scientific data does not mean it is false. It might be that the proponents of these facts who lack the data are light years above scientific scholars. And as science came to shed more light into observations that were formerly rejected, so it will when it comes to these various observations.

Say no to pornography and masturbation because for a short gain, you are literally consuming yourself long term.


Thanks.

pansophist:


Will you answer my question?

Lol let me help him an answer the Question.

Although masturbation is not something i will encourage(i have never masturbate) but it is not as bad as you made it to be.

Here is a link on benefits of masturbation
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/sex/masturbation/masturbation-good-you

pansophist:


I never thought I see the day when people vehemently defends masturbation

No wahala bros, different strokes for different folks.

Out of two worst kind of things to be between being a redpill, PUA, playboy or a masturbating machine.

People who masturbate are way better than people who spend all the days of their life chasing woman. I don’t think you understand how many of today’s youth have spend all their youth days doing nothing. PUA and seducer are the biggest victims. They Bleep a lot of women but at the end of the day their biggest achievement is fucking big woman and all sort of pussy. Later on they leverage on being a gigolo or scamming women. Most of them I know can’t get themselves focused on anything, from work or marriage life, everything is disorganized.

Masturbating machine or AFCs on the other hand are frustrated men who can’t get laid, frustrations is their biggest pain but they still do other things with their life and many of them so far are successful people even though women scam them a lot and cause them emotional stress. But they are great achievers

ElasmoBranchii:


I concur. PMO is not good.

Mattfeuter, the absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence. That there are no scientific research done on the negative effect of PMO, doesn't mean PMO is not harmful.

If you would care to share with us scientific research on the pros of PMO...

Here are quotes from some popular books.

"From a biomechanical
perspective, the indication is
that men who consistently
masturbate are essentially broadcasting their status as
Pheromonal Betas – and
women’s biochemical
mechanics subconsciously
registers this about them" — The Rational male by Rollo Tomassi.

"In fact, from an
evolutionary standpoint, the
Beta males of our feral
hunter-gatherer beginnings
would be more prone to
masturbation as a sexual
release since, theoretically,
they would’ve had less access
to breeding opportunities than
Alpha males. It would then
follow that definitive,
subconscious behavioral and chemical cues would evolve
to aid females in selecting the
best mate for parental
investment. " — The Rational Male by Rollo tomassi.

"P.S. I've been reading Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich, and I want to suggest something related. If you regularly masturbate, you can easily become addicted. This addiction comes in the form of daily regularity that curbs your desire to go out. It also does not allow you to harness your sex drive, which can be used to motivate yourself to work on wealth-building projects. If you aren't getting laid on a regular basis (which happens to all of us
from time to time), then don't just choke 'til you're broke. Set a date with yourself. Only jerk it once a week." — The Game by Neil Strauss.

I think this statements are somehow biased to those who masturbate (although i never masturbate)

Here is an unbiased view on masturbation

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/320265

mattfeuter:


I’d like to think of this as a personal view aye? Because yet again, it is untrue.

Yes it is a personal view but that doesn't mean it is invalid.

Let's take TRP for example. It has no scientific backing. It is basically hypothesis and observations. Albeit no scientific research, you support TRP because your observations correspond with the views of TRP.

I believe PMO is harmful because i've observed most of the negative symptoms people complain about. If you don't observe them, fine you can carry on.

ElasmoBranchii:


Yes it is a personal view but that doesn't mean it is invalid.

Let's take TRP for example. It has no scientific backing. It is basically hypothesis and observations. Albeit no scientific research, you support TRP because your observations correspond with the views of TRP.

I believe PMO is harmful because i've observed most of the negative symptoms people complain about. If you don't observe them, fine you can carry on.

Fair enough. . .

Kalatium:

I think this statements are somehow biased to those who masturbate (although i never masturbate)

Here is an unbiased view on masturbation

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/320265

There are pros and cons of PMO. Denying the negative symptoms is bias.

pansophist:


I never thought I see the day when people vehemently defends masturbation

No wahala bros, different strokes for different folks.

Oga pansophist, I admire your posts, but I'll fault them for not taking into account different timezones.

It's not a "one size fits all type of thing."

What is obtainable over there might not be possible in this part of the world.

When last were you in Nigeria and how long did you spend?

Raalsalghul:


Oga pansophist, I admire your posts, but I'll fault them for not taking into account different timezones.

It's not a "one size fits all type of thing."

What is obtainable over there might not be possible in this part of the world.

When last were you in Nigeria and how long did you spend?

What is that thing that can be obtained elsewhere but not in Nigeria? If you're inferring to masturbation, then it's an affliction that affects the male population globally regardless of geography.

The impression I get here is that masturbation is becoming normalised because Nigerian men are generally sexually frustrated, is that true? Regardless, it doesn't invalidate my stance about masturbation. Do it as much as you want, it's just not healthy for the mind, body and soul.

ElasmoBranchii:


There are pros and cons of PMO. Denying the negative symptoms is bias.

The article contains both pros and cons. Which negative symptoms are you taking about.

Nemesis504:

OGA there is a whole intimacy gadgets dedicated to women's needs such as vibrators, dildos and the rest of them such business are always booming infact it's a billion dollar industry round the world research for yourself

Okay, continue masturbating. Don't go and find woman to fvck.

This thread shouldn't stop. Ever.

GLYCOLYSISS:
--- If you’re not where you want to be in life, do not have serious relationships with women. Her perception of you will remain rooted in the former version of yourself and her needs/issues will hinder your progress. Whilst you’re trying to build your business and body, she will whine, spread negative energy, and burden you with her problems. Her negativity will infect you, hindering your growth. If you’re not where you want to be aspirationally, you have no need for a serious relationship.

This is by far the best post I will read anywhere on the internet this year.

GLYCOLYSISS:
---The reason why some Redpill men are still bitter and angry is because they are angry that women aren't what they thought they were. They refuse to accept female nature and maximise it. Maximise on hypergamy.

Some men want be stuck on the bluepill fairytale of finding the "special one" that's going to love them for who they are, unconditionally,for the rest of his life.
The earlier your accept female nature for what it is , that's the moment you start living freely .

Good stuff

GLYCOLYSISS:
--Hating women in response to feminism doesn’t hurt the movement, it justifies the movement.

The key to feminism’s downfall is to love and respect women as equals ... treating them no better or worse than you expect in return.
Treating them like you will treat a fellow guy.
If they protest,ignore them !

No words have been truer!!!! Great one Man

GLYCOLYSISS:

First and foremost,I want to state without mincing words that no redpill teachings advocate battering of women as means to ensure dominance and mitigate her dramas.
These is a deadly misconception of what redpill stand for.
Redpill rather teaches men to focus on their mission and purpose,gain control over self,your emotions and equip men on how best to relate to women and their true nature.
One of such natures is the innate disposition to be dramatic and create chaos,even without a cause, to shit test her man,and these is where an average man fails woefully when dealing with women. And they pay ruthlessly for their incompetence.
They try to engage in the "communication is the key to a healthy relationship". They try to " spice up" the relationship by going on vacation and buying HER gifts to calm the storm she consciously or unconscious created to serve a very important purpose for her; to know if you're still the dominant man she was attracted to.
Shit test is a psychological attack on your person ,believe and most importantly ,ego,going physical is not the way to go about it in passing these shit test.
Going psychological is .
When your woman provokes you to go physical, if you do,like by beating her up, you have failed the shit test.
Though beating her up,especially when you're dealing with women with low self esteem,women from dysfunctional home and women with baggages and highly dramatic than an average girl out there,may work,but not effective in the long run. You end up creating a monster for yourself and the next man she's going to deal with.[/b]
You can't even build a healthy relationship under these condition.
The more effective means you ask ?

Men,at the onset of any meaningful relationship, though covertly,always communicate to your woman you got options and you're not going to put up with her excessive dramas and chaos.
When she does things you're not comfortable with,like discussing about her EX and their qualities,you make it known to her that those shit don't fly here. You can do that by maybe standing up and leaving her when ever she start that kind of conversation or you can outrightly, though calmly with a bland expression ,looking dead deep into her eyes ,telling her to keep her ex stuffs to herself.
You're creating healthy boundaries, and that's where the nice guy loses out.
When ever she goes psychological, especially by initiating dramas and chaos,don't go physical, go psychological with her.
It's more effective, more ruthless and more healthy for a long term relationship, especially if you're dealing with women who genuinely have high self esteem,not talking of an average girl with over inflated ego.
That's why I will not cease to talk about you working on your emotions,you can't be ruled by emotions and go psychological with women.
It doesn't work that way.
Work on your emotions and focus on your purpose,the more effective the weapon to use will come to you instinctually when dealing with women,but going physical should not be in the equation with a woman you plan having long ,lasting and healthy relationship with.

Honestly I own a drink bro!!!! This is the best thread on game you've seen so far on Nairaland.

-- An untested allegation is all a woman needs to destroy a man's career & livelihood in this #MeToo era.
Men,always watch your back.

--Toxic masculinity is bullshit term coined to emasculate men. The most dangerous man isn't one who's strong, aggressive or successful. But one who's Depressed,Hungry and Unable to earn a living. A dangerous male is one who feels POWERLESS not the empowered.

---Compliments breed complacency. Critique breeds conciliation. A woman will never work as hard for a man’s approval as when his approval is most elusive.

---The more expensive or thoughtful the gift you give a girl, the greater the risk that she will subconsciously begin to think she is too good for you.

Corollary ;

If you are dating "out of your league", or you are dating a young hot babe in her prime, you should do the exact opposite of what everyone will tell you to do — *don’t* buy her expensive gifts. Be particularly wary of advice from women. No woman in the world is capable of thinking clearly or impartially on the matter of “acceptable” levels of male provisioning. Even old, fat ugly looking women will expect mountains of jewels in offerings from men.

---As women’s bodies age and weaken, their rationalization hamsters grow bigger and stronger. Eventually, the hamster is powerful enough to take control of all higher order consciousness.

The more cocks that have ravaged a woman, the less any one cock will mesmerize her.
You're just another guy in her perversion.