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Fair enough, she was punished, disciplined. The thrust of what I'm saying is Jesus probably would have allowed her to remain in the choir and sing praises unto the Lord.

Please please please, How do you know what Christ would have done. You think Jesus Christ is a stupid gentlemen. The same person that scattered the market in the church and flogged them out, the same person that cursed the unproductive fig tree, Why did he not just have compassion?? What that pastor did was RIGHT. Admit it.

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So ALL these people bashing here her did not kiss, handle, and/or have sex in secondary school or early uni? Really?

I mean: how can you say she brought shame to her family and church, for doing the same thing we all did/do? Because she got pregnant? Ironically, that's when her family, Church, and friends should be giving her the most support.

Now that she's raised her child and is successful, folks want to start loving her.

My singular warning for my daughters is:

"Attraction is natural, sex is natural, and babies are a natural outcome. However, children are hard work, expensive, and a 24 hour responsibility. Ideally you should be in a position to take care of your child, which usually means having enough income, and/or and a dedicated partner who can share the burden. Being pregnant doesn't guarantee the father will stay, and many girls have had to raise a child on their own, so be wise".

No need for threats of fire and brimstone... just a simple logical explanation to guide them.

Who is the we all. PLEASE SPEAK FOR YOUR SELF, VIRGINS SURVIVE THROUGH SECONDRY SCHOOLS AND UNIVERSITIES, even though it's rare. It's bad enough that it's rampant, don't come and make it look acceptable.

perdollar:
who English help. how much dey ur acct. nonsenses

REEKS OF INSECURITY. Las las na this kain people dey spend pass on education for their children.

Gentle0wavez:
Please please please, How do you know what Christ would have done. You think Jesus Christ is a stupid gentlemen. The same person that scattered the market in the church and flogged them out, the same person that cursed the unproductive fig tree, Why did he not just have compassion?? What that pastor did was RIGHT. Admit it.

Well, I'm looking at the examples of how he treated individuals: the adulterous woman (cast the first stone); the sinful woman who washed his feet; and many others he showed compassion for.

Your first example illustrates his anger at the "supposedly holy people" ruining his father's house.

The second one is symbolic, and not directed against people (i.e. he has never once cursed a person).

Observing a person's behavior is a good way to predict what they will do, most of the time. There are exceptions, but as you can see, those exceptions are not indicative of what he would do in this particular situation of banning a pregnant girl from the choir.

Gentle0wavez:
Who is the we all. PLEASE SPEAK FOR YOUR SELF, VIRGINS SURVIVE THROUGH SECONDRY SCHOOLS AND UNIVERSITIES, even though it's rare. It's bad enough that it's rampant, don't come and make it look acceptable.

OK, I misspoke by saying all . Let me rephrase:

"So the vast majority of these people bashing her did not kiss, handle, and/or have sex in secondary school or early uni? Really?"

I apologize for including everybody - some of whom remain of the opinion that virginity is a virtue - in my previous comment. Virgins are apparently free to bash Waje inspite of committing other sins of their own.

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