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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Brukx(m): 11:00am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin:Add some weight |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by ChikaSunday(m): 11:00am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin: No pictures? You're not serious |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by ArahaG: 11:02am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin: I see that you do not have any problem, your only challenge is inferiority complex, overcome that and you'll be OK, with that kind of voice you could be a musician singing circular songs or in a choir. But if you want you voice to change then: 1. Gather a collection of song from Rap Artists that have baritone voice (like Ja Rule, Jay-Z, Sticky Fingerz etc., play them and sing along imitating them exactly as they sing, I bet you 1 week is too long for your voice to change. 2. People don't take you serious maybe because you yourself don't take yourself seriously. No matter how your facial composure is you can learn how to command respect from people by being calm, talk play and laugh less (if and when you speak your contribution to whatever you want to talk about should accepted and valued by all the people present). 3. You don't need beards to be considered mature, but if you must get it then buy a bottle of raw spirit and apply at the places where you want to see bears grow, I bet you in 4 years you'll wish you didn't do it (ask people who shave 3 times in a week if they like it). I still feel you don't have any problems, just learn how to interact with people, that's all. 2 Likes |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by sulasa07(m): 11:04am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin:Do you know who Mike Tyson is?His voice is as thing as paper but still he's the baddest man on the planet 1 Like |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by anonimi: 11:04am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin: Read about confidence building and if you can, talk to a psychotherapist. You really don't have a problem. Take care and enjoy life. 1 Like |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by newoffer: 11:05am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Go n learn all Davido song. Come n thank me later with your whole commumity |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by SUXXI(m): 11:05am On Aug 22, 2020 |
I was in same situation. My voice sounds like a girl. My looks and shape looks like a girl I had no beard. In my late 30s I manage to get small beard. I still look like a kid when I shaved. When I married,ehen,I gathered body and looked more matured. Now I do not look like a kid anymore except my voice. 2 days ago was my 4 years wedding anniversary. Be patient. Get married. Have self confidence. 1 Like |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by bizhop01: 11:06am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Money Stop Nonsense |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by americaninja1: 11:07am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Hit the gym get some physique.. It help boost ur self esteem |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Solatium(m): 11:10am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin: Don't ruin your life by embracing artificial stuffs to meet up with societal expectations. Look at El Rufai and Oshiomole They are small in nature and they can move mountain |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Temitopemo6e6(m): 11:10am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin just be my friend |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by thesmallgod(m): 11:10am On Aug 22, 2020 |
You are an introvert. Not that the condition is turning you to introvert. You need to find inspiration from people such as Messi, Aki and Pawpaw. You can't keep on running away from your fear. You need to face and overcome this predicament. If you are on telegram you can reach me on ralph45. We can friend 1 Like |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by rolams(m): 11:12am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin: If you smoke weed and run mad, that's your business. You can't even reason properly and you want to be respected. Get a good job or use your skill or be creative, then you can start to earn respect for yourself. Again, is your younger brother folding arms when you are being disrespected? Not by thick voice but by achievement. 1 Like |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by lacasera14(m): 11:15am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin:show us your picture first |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by MondayOsunbor(m): 11:17am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin: JUST GO TO HOSPITAL NA YOUR HORMONES. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by joefengzy(m): 11:20am On Aug 22, 2020 |
My guy you fit start with weed Your voice go bad laslas But do it responsible then eat better food and much of water |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Naijaarchive(m): 11:22am On Aug 22, 2020 |
This is so irrelevant..... You have lost confidence in yourself simple... Your intelligence, maturity and achievement are what really draw respect to you not your thick voice or beard 1 Like |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by hardeyincah(m): 11:22am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Walk around with your date of birth, thank me later. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Naijaarchive(m): 11:24am On Aug 22, 2020 |
hardeyincah: Abi o.... Very immature |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by heendrix(m): 11:31am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Avast:Lmao |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by MajohBankz: 11:33am On Aug 22, 2020 |
At a time eh... I'm 26 but have to tell people that I'm 26 because I barely look it, but my mentality and level of reasoning make me associate with people in their mid 30s. Oga, improve your self esteem and your appearance and gait. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by bukxy: 11:33am On Aug 22, 2020 |
fati2001: fati2001:so there are teenagers in this forum there should be a special site/group for us. 1 Like |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by fati2001(m): 11:35am On Aug 22, 2020 |
bukxy:speak for yourself. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Karleb(m): 11:35am On Aug 22, 2020 |
addexx: I like this. Eminem should be 47 this year but baba still looks very young. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by steeltrust: 11:35am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin:bro it because u choose to act like a succour dat why every body plays u around even by ur kid brother. the position u re now many pple re looking for it and u re complaining all need to do start being an extrovert be bold wen u sense pple way younger Dan u re trying to snare u in dat very second put dem in der position by letting dem no u re not on same level with dem be it male or female. every tin has to do wit ur boldness. and for d weed u wan learn to smoke sorry bra it ll end in premium tears � |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Cmanforall: 11:37am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin:Please enjoy the moments now, and if possible marry. From your 40s, you may be ageing faster than your mates... E.g. grey hairs, bald hair etc. So enjoy this moment and remember this comment! You're blessed! |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Greatzeus(m): 11:39am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oldpikin:The problem is not your look,it's the fact that you are a broke a ss. Get money my ni gga. And stop worrying about unnecessary crap. Remember what Tony said in "Scarface"? " First you get the money,then you get respect" 1 Like |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Segzy19: 11:41am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Bro, forget that thing. No be person dem dey call BabyFace for American. He is am accomplished, wealthy and well respected. We even have our own BabyFace in Nigeria; Teju BabyFace. No be by face my brother. Don't let little things like this get at you. I'm also like that by face but whenever I talk people have no choice but to respect me... Oldpikin: |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by nedley(m): 11:47am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Believe me, weneva u start growing d so called beards, u’d wish u neva had it. Grow ur bank account & forget d beards. Girls wud prefer money over beards anyday & anytime. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by redsun(m): 11:53am On Aug 22, 2020 |
It is not the way you look that matter, it is how reasonable and responsible you are. You should take a clue from "mummy calm down" and see how common sense that is not common in Nigeria could be found among infants. There are no role models there, so whatever you do as a human being, you have to try to leave positive marks. |
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by WaterWalker5(m): 11:55am On Aug 22, 2020 |
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