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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by PROPHETmichael: 10:34am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.


Oga relax, you will see the benefit of it when you turn 70.
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by aalex1: 10:34am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:

No one cares whether I have sense or something to offer. Everyone just disrespects me. Some will even be like 'no be ur kind we dey find for here' and my younger bro is even older than most of them. This makes me stay indoor at most of the times.
truly you dont have sense because if you do, you would have known that this is not your circle. The group you seek to be accepted into is one that smoke weed and live a thug life and that's why the judge you by your looks. You think by rolling with them, you will gain relevance in the society. Your circle should be a group of serious minded people. At 27, you should be discussing business opportunities.

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by yesloaded: 10:34am On Aug 22, 2020
kingsamosy:
This life no balance at all. Older people are doing everything to look young while people that have it endowed in them want to look old.

Bro, I dey tell you grin
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by tfash96(m): 10:35am On Aug 22, 2020
Y can't u make Wizkid your role model.. What concerns Wizkid with beards and big body and he's living a fulfilled life

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by addexx: 10:36am On Aug 22, 2020
Eminem is in his mid to late forties. He has a baby face and not until recently he started allowing his beards blossom. But he still looks late twenties.But his experiences and lifestyle from his lyrics shows he has an old soul. Be like Eminem.

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by SexytorresE(f): 10:36am On Aug 22, 2020
Picture of u looking small while 27 or ...

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Oizee(f): 10:37am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.
see you, when you see ur age mates in the nearest future holding walking stick up and down then, u will thank your Star, and them would be wishing they could be like u. I went to pick my kids up from school one day, when I was parking in d sch compound a man was telling me Hajia told u to come pick d children and u are playing with her car right? Me I kukuma no answer bcuz people were even there. When I was coming back from the classes with my kids, he started saying madam I'm very sorry ma, that he was just told that I was going to pick up my
Own kids, people were saying they admire my stature that day, so one day u will be so grateful to God for ur stature. Hustle and get money

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by ImpregnaTor(m): 10:37am On Aug 22, 2020
My own case is similar to your's
I have a baby face but my voice and body are ok.

But that's not exactly my problem.
my problem is I'm so broke right now, and is getting me depressed and miserable.

Hustle sef no gree pay again....

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by DCTrendy(m): 10:37am On Aug 22, 2020
Lol.... calm down poster.

When I got married at 29 in 2011, my wife’s colleagues in the office actually asking her why she married that “boy”. Cos the statue was just not there. But sense dey.

9 years down the lane now you do predict I am 40years old.

Don’t worry yourself. You re still gonna catch up. So... be calming down ok?

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Vicyace: 10:37am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?



Please help I'll really appreciate it.


Work on your mindset and how you carry yourself.
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by manlikevee: 10:38am On Aug 22, 2020
draw inspiration from pharell willams
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by wisdomkid: 10:38am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:

No one cares whether I have sense or something to offer. Everyone just disrespects me. Some will even be like 'no be ur kind we dey find for here' and my younger bro is even older than most of them. This makes me stay indoor at most of the times.

Get friends that will kick butts whenever anyone says things like that to you. That is the essence of friendship.

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by sophy17(m): 10:40am On Aug 22, 2020
What you have is actually a blessing but you don't know yet.
It is all about perception and how you make sure you are in charge or in control of the situation and you will be fine.
Latter in life you will be very happy with yourself when you see your mates looking very very old and weak while you are still looking sharp. I am a good example today. I use to feel somehow too but I conquered with my inteligence, wisdom, hardwork and achievements.

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by freshkpomo(m): 10:40am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.


Just hit the gym... Respect got nothing to do with age.... Don't smoke, just gaggle with cold water every morning for the next 3months.... Don't forget to gym for this period to and consume enough protein, fat and carbohydrate.



A united youth is an unstoppable force


#NYM
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by majormofor(m): 10:40am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.

Use black seed oil to grow hair on beards
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Firstnebo: 10:42am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.

I like being practical. So I want to give you the two best practical resources that will forever set you in life.

They are:

(i) Find Jehovah's Witnesses. They will help you find a real purpose and hope for your life. A hope so strong it transcends every current situation. (go to www.jw.org)

(ii) Find Jordan Peterson online. He is one of the most effective psychologist in the world at the moment. He has helped many people in your shoes. He is from Canada but he is accessible online. (Find him on YouTube, podcasts, and on his website https://www.jordanbpeterson.com/)
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Crazeworld(m): 10:43am On Aug 22, 2020
Jayboi:
Try and raise ur self esteem. physical body features tho may be a major factor but the inbuilt stuff is the most important.
Take up on responsibilities. Don't run away from the small leadership roles assigned to u.
Watch movies that boost ur confidence.
Never be scared to fail. Don't even visualise failure scenario before u do something. just do it and tell ursef that u can.
The best of confident people at some point get scared too but their experience help them pull thru.
You can even stay in ur room and practice.
Take ur phone and record a ten minute monologue and listen to it again and again. These help.
Mind I ask, how did u do ur final year defence?
Kindly recommend some movies please
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by nams77: 10:43am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:

I'm tall but I have a baby face and voice
Sometimes when I see some people's problem or what they regard as problem, I just laugh and shake my head incredulously. U no get problem. When you are 40 and above, you will begin to appreciate this rare gift.
I really wish I could be you right now. Even my papa age dey almost greet me when I enter any office. I cut the image of a boss. Even in my branch, new clients presume I am the branch manager on sighting me. Even the security men dey call me BM for where my ogas dem dey.
Its not easy. E fit bring hatred, jealousy and even problem.
I am not fat or huge or old. I just have this aura of a big boss
I went for an interview and one guy saw me. He said to me, if I where you, with the presence and body, I no go look for work, na just to enter big business. Lol

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by temi1290: 10:43am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.

Is that y u used oldpikin as ur moniker
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by majormofor(m): 10:44am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:

I'm tall but I have a baby face and voice

Be positive my friend... That all you need!! Find what u can use with the voice. Helen Paul that has baby voice talent used hers positively. Dnt follow what the crowd is saying, follow what you are saying.
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by KingAlabi: 10:47am On Aug 22, 2020
When baby face don become bad thing grin
During my NYSC, I had a bad baby face but I still date girl wey old pass me on 3 occasion grin.
All in all just co-ordinate yourself, most beard guys older na me though I was older than them with my baby face because things I dey do cool.
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Samfloxin(m): 10:50am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.
Wey the pinshure nah ?
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Onlyfrozenjim(m): 10:51am On Aug 22, 2020
grow your self-esteem bro, try hitting gym, at least when you no get beards, you go get body
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by puppiluv(m): 10:52am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:

No one cares whether I have sense or something to offer. Everyone just disrespects me. Some will even be like 'no be ur kind we dey find for here' and my younger bro is even older than most of them. This makes me stay indoor at most of the times.

Get busy with something lucrative and change your circle you'll have this people famzing at the end!
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by zrocky: 10:53am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.
My brother you are blessed, don't force yourself to grow old. I'm 29 and I still look like a 19 year old boy, my brothers, sister and mum that is over 60 still looking younger than their age. It a gift from God. Be proud of yourself. People will do anything to be like you.


You are wonderfully made.
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by kingbee90: 10:54am On Aug 22, 2020
DCTrendy:
Lol.... calm down poster.

When I got married at 29 in 2011, my wife’s colleagues in the office actually asking her why she married that “boy”. Cos the statue was just not there. But sense dey.

9 years down the lane now you do predict I am 40years old.

Don’t worry yourself. You re still gonna catch up. So... be calming down ok?

Boss! How come you now look 40 within 9 years as a married man who married at 29?
Hope marriage and wifey ain't stressing you oh!
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Hisxlency01: 10:54am On Aug 22, 2020
You are simply ageless, you will enjoy the benefit of not aging quick in due time
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by wolebest: 10:55am On Aug 22, 2020
Don't do anything stupid.

I am turning 52 soon and I look way younger than my colleagues by the grace of God. I can still play street football with young folks in my area.

God knows why you look so, don't give in to peer pressure or social pressure.

Please enjoy your look, just count your blessings.

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Nobody: 10:55am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:

No one cares whether I have sense or something to offer. Everyone just disrespects me. Some will even be like 'no be ur kind we dey find for here' and my younger bro is even older than most of them. This makes me stay indoor at most of the times.

How can you be tall and people disrespect you? Do you have low self esteem?
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Nobody: 10:56am On Aug 22, 2020
Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.



All advice is useless without seeing your face.
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by juman(m): 10:56am On Aug 22, 2020
Lucky you.
Be yourself.
Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by creatorpikin(m): 10:58am On Aug 22, 2020
Read books. Never underestimate the power in knowledge.

Your mind is where the work must begin. Once you start to believe some negative stuffs said about you there is no beard nor thick voice that'd save you.

Therefore read up on books that'd help reshape your mind and see yourself beat this situation.

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