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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by golddare: 10:16am On Aug 22, 2020

Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.

When you get to 60 and all your mates looks 100 then you will appreciate God for the body he gave you. Your problem is not your body but your mindset and you better change your mindset before you it's too late, think of the good sides, oh because someone doesnt respects you because you look younger than your age, who beards help? For your information people respects success not statures, see Osinbanjo, see @elrufai and many others. You want respects? Earn it. If you smoke Igbo or drugs and you run mad or loose focus, your village people finally won.

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by kunle75(m): 10:16am On Aug 22, 2020

Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.

Go and develop yourself and better your life and see how big guys and girls will be falling at your feet.

I will be 45yrs by next month but only few people around/close to me believe me due to my look and voice.

I was like that before,so timid,very inferior to myself but now the case is different and everyone is at my beck and call.

am in the state with 5 digit IT job and no one cares about my size or looks anymore but what i have become of myself in the recent times.

When i first arrive in the state something like that also happened and i couldn't even approach an opposite sex but i later sat down and was sincere to myself on the need to invest in me and that is exactly what i did and now,everything has falling in to place.

my admonition to you is that work on your self and grow from the inside , you will thank me later.

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Anotherman71: 10:16am On Aug 22, 2020

Pls don’t let this disturb you, some people are created with late maturity.

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Nobody: 10:17am On Aug 22, 2020

Oh please! You are at an advantage!
Looking younger than your age is not a bad thing, at all. Please don't force yourself to look old, you might hate yourself after.
If you don't like your voice, there are a lot of voice trainings all over the internet. Dedicate yourself to practice training your voice, please.
I'm 29, and look and talk like a child most times... well yes, i learnt to moderate myself for business, and I trained myself to achieve this.
If i were you, I'll work at changing the image I have of myself. You appear to have a poor self image. No it's not people who will tell you what to feel about yourself! It is you who will create an image you are proud of and project it for others to catch along.
Btw, it's funny that you call yourself old, brother. Is 27 old?
You have what many people are looking for, and I hope you realize this asap.

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by buklarbest: 10:17am On Aug 22, 2020

Lastlook:
OP, I am 30 and looking like 19, what about that?
I don't have thick voice or beards. But from the beginning of my life, self respect matter most, even with my face, you dare not talk to me anyhow or disrespect me, because i don't put my mouth in what doesn't concern me or looking to mingle. People older than me give me respect like people of 50 yrs, 40s and so. If they got to see me. OP forget this mingle thing, when you have brain and something to offer, people respect you.

Funny, why do you need thick voice, Mark is there no thick voice, founder of Aliexpress no thick voice, but nah Naira Marley or what ever you like Ba?

Seems you're talking about me. I'm 30 bit I can easy pass for a seventeen year old. I've been through what op is currently passing through but if he can just follow this you have written, he would see the positive side of looking younger than your age.

You have given op the best advice

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Wearecoming: 10:18am On Aug 22, 2020

Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.

bro you are lucky.I look older than my age even people may senior me they call me bros. nobody want give me thier pikin to marry there would be like old man like you na my sister i go fit give you me in my own mind i would say God forbid but they would not say the same to my friend that we are age mate. am just 28

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Excuses: 10:20am On Aug 22, 2020

I hope u are not a dwarf....? U needed to show us pictures so that people here can do u justice!

Sorry I didn't mean it to say something careless or use abusive speech on you..

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by ibietela2(m): 10:20am On Aug 22, 2020

Oldpikin:

No one cares whether I have sense or something to offer. Everyone just disrespects me. Some will even be like 'no be ur kind we dey find for here' and my younger bro is even older than most of them. This makes me stay indoor at most of the times.

I am like you, 29 and small but I still relate with people

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by joyandfaith: 10:20am On Aug 22, 2020

Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.

just be yourself. say no to peer pressure!!!
it is hereditary, there is nothing you can do about it.

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by seanwilliam(m): 10:20am On Aug 22, 2020

Na until u get old, na him u go know the benefit of younger face and voice

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Originalsly: 10:21am On Aug 22, 2020

Hmmm...... people spending billionssss to look young.... of all the present hardships .... this one stressing to look old. Ajebutter for life.

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Onlinebar: 10:21am On Aug 22, 2020

When you see people you are better than doing bigger things, that's when you will know how much of your time you are wasting

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by PericomaNwankwo: 10:23am On Aug 22, 2020

Op post your picture I want to check something

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by proclinician: 10:24am On Aug 22, 2020

Pls you're talking about thin voice, bears blah blah blah bullshits. How much do you have in your bank account?

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Nobody: 10:24am On Aug 22, 2020

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by ggood: 10:26am On Aug 22, 2020

Fati am worried I think your my type of woman

fati2001:

no worry God go bless you ur heart desires.

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by richieray: 10:27am On Aug 22, 2020

Work on your self-esteem

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by byinks(f): 10:27am On Aug 22, 2020

You don't know you're blessed 10 years from now you'll understand

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by cezarman(m): 10:27am On Aug 22, 2020

fati2001:
I'm 20something but people put me under teenagers.

Your own might be because of your childish attitude, not your looks

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by fati2001(m): 10:27am On Aug 22, 2020

KevUnique:
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inakuwanah, arkii barkair geile, Na gaba.

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Nobody: 10:27am On Aug 22, 2020

fati2001:

yeah sure, based on ur conclusion of my handle.

Fati, kwana biyu. Ya kike? Hope ur morning is goodie-goodie..Which of the ladies is you in your DP? Ka che wallahi you are married? Kut! shocked

Y'all look so young.

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by flokii: 10:27am On Aug 22, 2020

@Op you don't want beards and the problems associated with it, trust me.. having to cleanup and look fresh every now and then with fear of cuts and wounds. I'm sure some guys won't mind trading their beards for smooth face.

Have you tried Whey protein or protein shake, although expensive, they work for some to add flesh and build muscle. You can try boiled eggs too (up to 3 per day) with normal balanced diet.

Don't try weed.. SAY NO TO DRUGS!!

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by jericco1(m): 10:28am On Aug 22, 2020

Something way people dey pay money to get

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Decimus: 10:28am On Aug 22, 2020

Oldpikin:

No one cares whether I have sense or something to offer. Everyone just disrespects me. Some will even be like 'no be ur kind we dey find for here' and my younger bro is even older than most of them. This makes me stay indoor at most of the times.

The problem is your mind and self esteem. Regardless of how you look, the way you carry yourself is very important.

If they always tell you to get away because you are a small boy and then you always obey them. It will continue to follow you like that.
There are matured looking people with beards going through what you are going through now.

So the best thing is to work on your mind and you can achieve that by reading.

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by fati2001(m): 10:29am On Aug 22, 2020

cezarman:

Your own might be because of your childish attitude, not your looks

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by Texty: 10:29am On Aug 22, 2020

Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.

You too like play na make people no de take you serious..
Avoid those your playful attitude and improve in your dress sense... I feel you still de dress like teenager...
No be beards and voice na de define if you be teenager or not na your alignment...people de reason some small children as adult cause of how them present themselve.. stop using that your phone buy a mature phone..

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Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by ujluv(f): 10:29am On Aug 22, 2020

CAPSLOCKED:

BABYFACE LOOK AT TOMAS SANGSTER, PHARRELL, PCGURU1, AND A LEGION OF US THAT HAVEN'T AGED MORE THAN 13. WORRYING THAT YOU LOOK SO YOUNG WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR YOU.
WHILE YOUR MATES ARE LOOKING 50 AND UNWANTED, YOU'RE LOOKING LIKE A 30-YEAR OLD WELL PACKAGED PROFESSIONAL WHO EVERYONE WANTS TO ASSOCIATE WITH. IS THIS NOT A GOOD THING?

I wonder ooo

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by letilex: 10:30am On Aug 22, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rcSVXBx4o_4

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by sisisioge: 10:33am On Aug 22, 2020

Dont worry, you will be the hottest 40yrs old eventually. Dont ruin your blessing!

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by cybriz82(m): 10:33am On Aug 22, 2020

Go check out teju Babyface he is still alive n making more money ..cus he doesn't give a f**k about iz statue.

Re: I Look Too Young And I Find It Hard To Relate With People by soleexx(m): 10:33am On Aug 22, 2020

Oldpikin:
I'm 27 and a graduate. But I look so much like I'm still a teenager and it turning me to an introvert. And my voice isn't helping especially when I'm on phone. I wanted to start smoking weed for a thicker voice but someone told me that it doesn't work for everybody.

I was about to start using some stuffs for my beards to grow but I'm scared of the side effects. Do you know how I get a thicker voice in few days? Do you know how I could get beards in few days using organic combinations?

Please help I'll really appreciate it.

Be proud dude
People spend millions to make themselves look young again
Don't smoke weed, its addictive.. You won't be able to stop.. And if you refuse to eat good for with smoke.. You will look like a meths junkie
Try and focus on your career and make some cool cash...you will be fine

I'm older than 27 and I look like a 25 year old. But I know my age and I focus on my maturity... You will never see me around girls... I mingle with mature ladies...

bonne chance

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