Yesterday, I made a post with a picture of a woman who was kneeling down and asking the man "will you marry me?". I got quite a number of responses of those that supported and opposed such move.

However, this is my response to my yesterday's post on the subject.

TO THE MEN.
Any man who allows a woman to propose marriage to him, has lost his position as a man if he accepts the proposal. He has exchanged his position of headship even before the marriage comes into being. He shouldn't call himself a man again. He has sold his birthright like Esau and exchanged his glory for shame. He should hide his face in shame when the roll call for men is made. It is a disgrace to God's original ordination for him.

TO THE LADIES.
Any lady that proposes marriage to a man has lost her dignity, honour and value. She has traded them on the altar of desperation. She has demonstrated lack of virtue and has lost her sense of worth. She is nothing but a desperate lady seeking for a man's hand in marriage. It is an error by divine and natural order.

God, the creator of the ends of the Earth laid the standard when He said in His word, "He that finds a wife, finds a good thing (Proverbs 18:22). It is for the man to find a wife and not the other way round. A woman is to be found and not her finding a man. All she is to do is to provide an approachable or conducive atmosphere for the man to come to her. Her part is to make herself available for the man to reach her. If she does otherwise, then she will have to continue to play the role of a man in that marriage.

It is a total break down of divine order and enthronement of error for a woman to propose marriage to a man. I am not talking about what trends in the modern world but the order God gave to us as men. God's order cannot be varied by any man and that is where every child of God should stand.

Wherever and whenever this happens, it cannot be of God. Say I said so.
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if it OK she can

She better or else she will remain lord of the rings...

That is equality...

which stupid dignity and honour

As an introvert if any lady propose to me I will joyfully say YESS

Fellow Abomination crew, let's gather here food is ready for us.

Igbos will say ARU!!

I better remain single. Don't try it with Nigerian man at all, they will take you for granted and treat you like trash. Don't try asking a guy out talk more of marriage proposal, their brains are wired differently from other men in the world.

That is why I don't believe in feminism, we just can't be equal, they have roles to play and we have ours.

I wouldn't want my lady to propose to me buy while taking that ring, she will be on her knees.

Why not...




Whats good for the gender is also good for the goose.

Afterall most femine are fighting for equal rights so this too should not be a big deal

Which dignity??

Una religious people sha, I tire for una matter ooo.


LADIES, do what you think is right. The society has evolved past all the archaic rendition the OP is spewing. If you see a man you think will give you comfort and peace of mind, it is not a bad idea to express your feelings. It doesn't make you cheap or something!!