SweetCunt97:
Why wasn't d baby breast fed?

Not the issue.

gracechellar:


Not the issue.

Indeed. Anyways, I'm sure d Op will go around it. Glad he's actively involved

newace:
Today, I told my wife to start feeding our 18 month old son sma baby milk once a day so he could take in all the necessary nutrients from the milk since he was never breast fed.

Note: he eats cerelac in the morning, yoghurt at 12 noon, Eba/Amala at 4pm and cerelac again in the night. I mentioned to her to find a way to feed him sma milk at least once a day but instead she started arguing with me.

What do i do?

Change eba from his diet.

Sma/NAN
Rice/Amala,Spaghetti or noodles
Ceralac
Peak cereal, milo drink,

NB...
Make a pap containing the following ingredients...
Redguine corn, soya beans, groundnut a little milk i.e peak 123.
It's nutritious and medicinal.

daddytime:
Patience and understanding my man.

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You're such a wise fellow sir, I appreciate you for this.

Your wife's reaction is as a result of accumulated anger over other things in addition to the 'sma' issue. If I were you, I'll sit to ponder reasons that could behind her outburst vis a vis my attitude towards her and the home. Thereafter, approach her in a loving way to find out what brought about her stand( I won't call it stubbornness).
You'll be surprised to discover what she has been coping with all these while.
My candid advice; make your home happy and you'll be better for it.

you still dey so?

Carchoice:
Just 18 months old baby and you are already tired of wifey?

Brace up for more impact sir.

Your wife might be suffering from post partum depression.

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WandaMaximoff:

It could also be post partum depression.

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WandaMaximoff:


But this is not her first rodeo now. Is this not her third child? Has she always been this way?

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WandaMaximoff:


That woman needs therapy or better education. She doesn't need her husband to be saying he's tired of her.

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WandaMaximoff:


A woman can live with her mum or respect her mum and still hold strong opinions that are opposite to her mum's.

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WandaMaximoff:


My previous comments were sarcastic, I hope you saw through it. Mothers go through a lot nursing their children and no mother will deliberately put her child in harm's way. Tbh, most kids would have stopped breastfeeding at that age and would be on pap or solids.

I'd suggest you talk to an elderly woman she respects or take her to seek counselling.

There are more issues to worry about in marriage than issues like this. If you're getting tired over this small issue, wetin u go come do if one wey big pass this one come?

You don't sound like you still love your wife. Is there a problem like that?

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Oga your baby doesn't need sma milk abeg, from 6months a child can take solid , like rice eba beans etc., You can add tea to his diet , as for his bowel movement ,introduce natural juice , one of my kids is like that , I extract the juice of 3 or 5 fruit for him to drink .
This issue never reach divorce at all . No matter how you try to paint your wise , the truth remains that a mother knows what's best for her child .
The fact that she doesn't want to listen to the doctor is because she knows celerac is not the child's problem .

When my son was 2 months old , he poos once in two /four days yeah it happens , they was a time I visited my sister in-law , she blamed me , I told her it's the baby's system ,she took me to her doctor , guess what ? The doctor said they will pump the child ( can't remember the term ) but they wanted to insert something in my baby's anus to make the poor come out, I DISAGREED , my in-laws tagged me stubborn . Yes I knew
My child better , my son was on Exclusive breastfeeding but they claimed it was lack of water that caused it . They were ignorant but I had no fear and knew what was best for him .

rali123:


Just because she did not give the child SMA milk? you will involve the whole community if she does worse then.

Please how much?