HE'S MY DAD'S IMMEDIATE BROTHER (DAD IS LATE) AND HE WORKS FOR THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT (COMMISSIONER),I'M CURRENTLY IN THE UK STUDYING BEEN HERE FOR ABOUT 2YRS NOW BUT I VISIT LAGOS FOR XMAS & NEW YEAR'S HOLIDAY, JUST LEFT LAGOS 3WEEKS AGO.

HE ASK HOW I WAS COPING IN LONDON & I TOLD HIM BEING A STUDENT AND WORKING IS VERY HARD AND THINGS ARE VERY TOUGH AT THE MOMENT,HE ASKED HOW MY WIFE AND KID IS COPING I TOLD HIM THINGS ARE HARD BUT TRYING MY BEST,HE SAID I SHOULD FOCUS WITH MY STUDY & DON'T THINK TOO MUCH ABOUT MY FAMILY BACK HOME & WILL TRY HIS BEST TO ASSIST ME.

THEN I LEFT LAGOS TO LONDON FEW DAYS AFTER,HE RANG MY WIFE ASKING HOW THEY COPING AND ASK HER TO SEND HIM HER ACCOUNT NUMBER, MY WIFE RANG ME ASKING IF SHE COULD GO AHEAD, I SAID YES ! THE NEXT DAY HE DEPOSITED 20 THOUSAND NAIRA INTO HER ACCOUNT FOR FEEDING AND TOLD MY WIFE NOT TO TELL ME COS HE DOESN'T LIKE PEOPLE THANKING HIM WHEN HE HELPS,MY WIFE TOLD ME & NEVER CALLED HIM TO THANK.

THEN TODAY HE PHONED MY WIFE ASKING WHEN SHE WILL BE ABLE TO COME SEE HIM COS HE HAS SOMETHING IMPORTANT TO DISCUSS WITH HER IN A PRIVATE PLACE,MY WIFE ASKED WHERE SIR,HE ASKED MY WIFE TO PROMISE SHE'S NEVER GOING TO TELL ME WHAT SHE'S ABOUT TO SAY AND THE BIG SHOCK OF MY LIFE GOES THIS WAY,

IN A VERY NICE 5 STAR HOTEL SOMEWHERE IN LAGOS & THAT HE'S GOING TO DO EVERYTHING TO MAKE SURE SHE'S LIVING LARGE AND PROMISE TO GIVE HER 50K EVERY MONTH THEN SOMEONE INTERRUPT MY WIFE ON PHONE & HE SAID HE'S GOING TO PHONE HER BACK & HANG UP

MY WIFE RANG ME IMMEDIATELY TELLING ME EVERYTHING I WAS SHOCKED, MY OWN IMMEDIATE UNCLE

PLEASE PEOPLE I NEED YOUR ADVICE,SHOULD I LET HIM KNOW I'M AWARE OR I PRETEND LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED, IF SHE PHONED MY WIFE BACK WHAT SHOULD MY WIFE SAY'S TO HIM ? HE'S AROUND 60YRS OF AGE

OP.
I understnad how stuffs go in that country . . .Infact thins are reallly getting beyond humanity down there.
My advice,
Act as if you didn't know about it,And never act strange to him.
However, You should tell your wife to stop recieving his calls and never to allow him into the house in case he visits.
That's all you get from me!

hank God for your wife just love her more.If your uncle persist warn him

You could also report him to a person you know can caution him and do your best to provide all your wives needs and explain well when you cant to her satisfaction

^^^^

I dont understand your point.
You are a poor dude with a wife, and possibly a kid, studying in Jand? And, you have an uncle willing to help take care of your wife pending the time you are able to do so as man and all he wants is for him to be able to shine your wife's congo?


Am I right? If so, I dont see the big deal. There is no free akamu anywhere you know?

@Op: ur uncle need deliverance from spirit of unforseen curses that is running through ur family blood,this may sound weird bt it true,you as a person needs prayer too to erase all those curses,this as happen to sm1 that i knw which i dnt want to talk abt until he went for deliverance he was never safe,that is all i av to say.

let ur wife play along but in another location that will not be too secluded. let her record all the conversation at that place with her phone as an evidence for future purpose, but she need to be careful. while ur wife is there doing all this u can then call ur uncle for normal chat, don't thank him for any thing. also ur conversation with ur ucle will be recorded.

this is just the beginning of the whole saga.

If you play dumb he'll take advantage of the situation, confront him with respect, use his conscience against him, most importantly act fast before he uses conji(juju) for your wife cuz most old men do extreme things to get what they want, lastly warn your wife to never be alone with him.

@ op, first of all tell your wife to return all monis she received from your uncle back to him. then wait for forther intructions.

fstranger3:

^^^^

I dont understand your point.
You are a poor dude with a wife, and possibly a kid, studying in Jand? And, you have an uncle willing to help take care of your wife pending the time you are able to do so as man and all he wants is for him to be able to shine your wife's congo?


Am I right? If so, I dont see the big deal. There is no free akamu anywhere you know?

Are you high on cheap beer Jeez!!!!where is your sense of reasoning?

^^^^

You mean my di-ck?

^^
nope, i think she's just wondering why you are so d[i]a[/i]ft

^^^

Am I?

^^

what more can i say?  In the post below, you do come across as an individual whose IQ is lower than an average student's account balance

fstranger3:

^^^^

I dont understand your point.
You are a poor dude with a wife, and possibly a kid, studying in Jand?  And, you have an uncle willing to help take care of your wife pending the time you are able to do so as man and all he wants is for him to be able to shine  your wife's congo?


Am I right? If so, I dont see the big deal. There is no free akamu anywhere you know? 

^

Take action Fast Naija old fools uses charm on young women. Your wife shold take a recording of their conversations for future evidence.

@Op.

Your wife is a decent woman, don't comfront ur uncle for ur wife's own safety since u are not in Nigeria but she should stop picking his calls.

Arosa:

@ op, first of all tell your wife to return all monis she received from your uncle back to him. then wait for forther intructions.

OP, this dude is ur uncle, he requesting that u return those money ur wife collected from him with immediate effect

Shock:

^^

what more can i say?  In the post below, you do come across as an individual whose IQ is lower than an average student's account balance
^

PMSL.

Some Nigerian men are so nasty sha. chei.

Just follow tell your wife to ignore him completely and try not to show it to him.If you try to fight it,he might finish your life with black magic.It is evident that this kind of things happen but most women hide it.As for me,I dont allow any family to be involve in my personal life even blood brothers.Son of a bi**h.

fstranger3:

^^^^

I dont understand your point.
You are a poor dude with a wife, and possibly a kid, studying in Jand? And, you have an uncle willing to help take care of your wife pending the time you are able to do so as man and all he wants is for him to be able to shine your wife's congo?


Am I right? If so, I dont see the big deal. There is no free akamu anywhere you know?

fstranger3:

^^^^

I dont understand your point.
You are a poor dude with a wife, and possibly a kid, studying in Jand? And, you have an uncle willing to help take care of your wife pending the time you are able to do so as man and all he wants is for him to be able to shine your wife's congo?


Am I right? If so, I dont see the big deal. There is no free akamu anywhere you know?

hmn hmn, are you done?

seedord247:

Call and tell him you really enjoy the way he's taking care of your wife internal and external

What a jerk he is. Op, keep the pretense rolling, how I wish your wife could record her conversation with him for records purpose because men like your funky old nasty uncle always tryna act smart, I mean trying to harm your family after been exposed. Your wife is a good wife and I'm proud of her. If your nasty uncle continues with his madness, don't hesitate to let him know you got clue of his shameful behavior towards your woman and let em know if he persist u got to let other family member's know about it or even the higher places. But your wife got to be very careful. These are the kind of men I make drink my pee. Like I said, ur wife got to be careful.

Your Uncle is a man-LovePeddler. Has no respect. Don't call him your uncle again; just say "that man"

heryyy:

HE'S MY DAD'S IMMEDIATE BROTHER (DAD IS LATE) AND HE WORKS FOR THE [b]FEDERAL GOVERNMENT (COMMISSIONER),[/b]I'M CURRENTLY IN THE UK STUDYING BEEN HERE FOR ABOUT 2YRS NOW BUT I VISIT LAGOS FOR XMAS & NEW YEAR'S HOLIDAY, JUST LEFT LAGOS 3WEEKS AGO.

[b]HE ASK HOW I WAS COPING IN LONDON & I TOLD HIM BEING A STUDENT AND WORKING IS VERY HARD AND THINGS ARE VERY TOUGH AT THE MOMENT,[/b]HE ASKED HOW MY WIFE AND KID IS COPING I TOLD HIM THINGS ARE HARD BUT TRYING MY BEST,HE SAID I SHOULD FOCUS WITH MY STUDY & DON'T THINK TOO MUCH ABOUT MY FAMILY BACK HOME & WILL TRY HIS BEST TO ASSIST ME.

THEN I LEFT LAGOS TO LONDON FEW DAYS AFTER,HE RANG MY WIFE ASKING HOW THEY COPING AND ASK HER TO SEND HIM HER ACCOUNT NUMBER, MY WIFE RANG ME ASKING IF SHE COULD GO AHEAD, I SAID YES ! THE NEXT DAY HE DEPOSITED 20 THOUSAND NAIRA INTO HER ACCOUNT FOR FEEDING AND TOLD MY WIFE NOT TO TELL ME COS HE DOESN'T LIKE PEOPLE THANKING HIM WHEN HE HELPS,MY WIFE TOLD ME & NEVER CALLED HIM TO THANK.

THEN TODAY HE PHONED MY WIFE ASKING WHEN SHE WILL BE ABLE TO COME SEE HIM COS HE HAS SOMETHING IMPORTANT TO DISCUSS WITH HER IN A PRIVATE PLACE,MY WIFE ASKED WHERE SIR,HE ASKED MY WIFE TO PROMISE SHE'S NEVER GOING TO TELL ME WHAT SHE'S ABOUT TO SAY AND THE BIG SHOCK OF MY LIFE GOES THIS WAY, 

IN A VERY NICE 5 STAR HOTEL SOMEWHERE IN LAGOS & THAT HE'S GOING TO DO EVERYTHING TO MAKE SURE SHE'S LIVING LARGE AND PROMISE TO GIVE HER 50K EVERY MONTH THEN SOMEONE INTERRUPT MY WIFE ON PHONE & HE SAID HE'S GOING TO PHONE HER BACK & HANG UP

MY WIFE RANG ME IMMEDIATELY TELLING ME EVERYTHING I WAS SHOCKED, MY OWN IMMEDIATE UNCLE 

PLEASE PEOPLE I NEED YOUR ADVICE,SHOULD I LET HIM KNOW I'M AWARE OR I PRETEND LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED, IF SHE PHONED MY WIFE BACK WHAT SHOULD MY WIFE SAY'S TO HIM ? HE'S AROUND 60YRS OF AGE   

What I find odd about this story aside from your uncle being a federal commissioner in Nigeria in 2011 is that a guy who has enough dough to hire a Lagos 5star hotel room for an afternoon tryst will and cannot be offering 20k to sign on a babe. More like 200k. That will be a real temptation and I hope your wife would have told u.

Are u sure u did not go asking this your Uncle for help in feeding your family b/c things are difficult in London (not that this is an excuse for what he did but it becomes a mitigating factor)?

I have heard of cases where women with dubious fidelity try to gain a husband's confidence by maligning the reputation of an innocent person to suit their imaginary design while keeping a sugar boy some where.

Only a stupid husband will accept a story like this as true without some kind of investigation.

only God knows d truth and only he can help us

The uncle didn't get to finish his proposal cos I don't see where he said your wife has to service his sexual needs.
Just cut all forms of communication btw you, your wife with the uncle. He will get the message respectfully.

where is the poster so we can get an update