mariahAngel:

No matter how you sugarcoat it, there's a very thin line between dominant and domineering, that is, if they don't mean the same thing as you said.

bukatyne:


I am trying to reconcile your posts with the OP.

Red Pill doesn't have the monopoly of certain ideals.

And last I remembered, it is anti-marriage so it is not going to be same.

Red Pill doesn't have the monopoly of certain ideals.

mariahAngel:


Urgh!

Why would her mind need to be "tweaked" to conform to another? Does that seem right to you?
How about exploring her mind and what she's about to compliment yours?

mariahAngel:


You see? That is a man who's not on a quest for dominance, yet he knows who is and what he stands for

crackhaus:

At the point where the man is influencing his wife against her will and inspite of her objections, then he has moved into the realm of being domineering which is about control, not influence.

Influence and control are another two words that could easily be blurred, but are really very different.

A dominant man is a psychologically astute man, so it will never come off like he is being controlling.

mariahAngel:


That is exactly what it means!

That is a trait of a dominant man.

bukatyne:


On a serious note, both parties would actually 'tweak' themselves to fit into their partners to achieve that oneness.

mariahAngel:


Red pill! Red pill!! Red pill!!

What does that sh!t even mean 'cause I have bothered to find out? is it like a worm expellant?

bukatyne:


I have actually seen this play out and both parties adjust to the relationship especially when it was previously toxic.

crackhaus:

Tehehe... It's the cinematic effect of movies making you assume this. Don't be racist to your own self

I guess you would say French is a more romantic language than English, but let me trip you up a bit.
French is the official language of some African countries like Senegal and Cote d'Ivoire. Do you still consider French a sexy/romantic language when it is spoken by these Africans or does it only seem sexy/romantic when it's coming from the mouth of a white-skin person living in France?

Also, Equatorial Guinea uses Spanish as their official language, would you say it still sounds sexy/romantic when coming from the mouth of a black man?

bukatyne:


If you know, you know

A dominant man would not scream 'hey! I want to dominate you'.

Do you know some people you don't want to offend or do something wrong to them? It is innate.

Just a smile from them gets you to sit up and do the right thing or whatever you think they want.

mariahAngel:


Jesus Christ is the Lord of the church.

bukatyne:


You did not answer my question.

Is He dominant or not?

angelfallz:


The redpill isn't anti marriage.

Lol, my dear everything that was written in that article was stolen from the red pill and watered down.

mariahAngel:


You snake!
See how you wiggled your way out of that one

OK. Can a dominant mind be tweaked?

crackhaus:

Explain what you mean

bukatyne:


Snake ke? I don't appreciate that.

I did not wiggle out of anything. That line of mine is not new.

The stage you mean the dominant person matters. Again, there are degrees of dominance, the level of love the dominant person has, how invested he is in the relationship etc.

mariahAngel:


Errrrrrrrrrrr....

That would be my dad.

bukatyne:

Abeg, let's not compare apples with agbalumo.

Have you heard educated Akwa Ibomites speak English? They have this sweet accent.

mariahAngel:


Did the bible use the word dominant?

mariahAngel:


Oya sorry

Mo kan n ba yin sere ni

bukatyne:

Please.

A man wasn't assertive, wife ran amok, man re-invented himself and wife adjusted.

Wife was subservient, husband trampled on her, she woke up and husband conformed.

The scenarios took a lot of work, lots of physiological mind games and both parties still wanting the marriage.

bukatyne:


Toor.

Did he ever force you to do anything?

You naturally want to be Daddy's girl. I am sure you were assured of his love, that he would do anything to protect you, provide for you etc. etc.

bukatyne:


Does the Bible have the word 'Bible' or 'masturbation'?

crackhaus:

Lol, Akwa Ibomites ke.
The only sweet English accent I know is British and Australian.

So let me guess, the apple here is a french-speaking man from France, while the agbalumo is a french-speaking man from Senegal.
It's skin colour that is deceiving you.

I bet you won't be able to tell the difference if both french-speaking men spoke through a recording.

crackhaus:

And how is it now with them, are they still doing back & forth or finally found the right measure of dominance?

mariahAngel:


He set a very good example.
All my life, I've always seen him as a god.

mariahAngel:


Buka, I sweaaaaaarrrrrrr

Come off it!

bukatyne:


Oshe!

That is dominance in action

bukatyne:


I hope you don't mean you slept with the girl against her wish?

@ Your first paragraph, it is common sense.

bukatyne:

Does the Bible have the word 'Bible' or 'masturbation'?

mariahAngel: