Hello ma,

I need your advice. So, I am a relationship with someone. Its been like 4 months and I am already thinking this is a mistake. Why? Before we met, I used to in a relationship that lasted four years.

That relationship was the best time of my life. That was because we were best friends. We actually were planning to get married but something happened which I couldn’t get over. My ex is a producer and the major issue in our relationship was the attention he gets from other females.

However,he always assures me of his faithfulness. Until he made a mistake and got some hookup lady pregnant. I was totally broken and I could not forgive that. It took me almost a year to heal and eventually move on.

I met my boyfriend 6 months ago and he is into Finance but I think he is quite stingy. He is nice and kind but he also does not believe in spending money on things that he does not consider as necessary.

I make my own money so I really do not mind that he has his principles on finance. I buy what I like to buy as long as I can afford it. The only annoying part is,he makes you feel bad for spending money on luxury things.

I used to laugh at him that he is ijebu and he needs to change his perspective on life.It was my birthday last week and would you believe my boyfriend didn’t buy me any gift? His excuse was that he was broke and that he would make it up when he gets paid.

I felt he was just being stingy cos how can you not celebrate the girl you are with for the first time? I was upset ..not even a...

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/03/is-my-cheating-ex-better-than-my-stingy-boyfriend-pls-advise/

Na wa

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This life is not a do or die affair.

I've learnt to stop managing certain traits or attitudes in people especially when I feel unhappy and uncomfortable with it.

You can dump him or date him, this life is not a do or die affair.

Nigeria girls and entitlement so bf and gf don turn to profit venture for u... Na u work for the guy weh u go dey expect him to spend on u.. Madam go Find urself a job so u can stop putting eyes on ur bf finance.. Yeye dey smell.

I used to say it and I'll continue saying it, until Nigerian babes delete or stop this kind of habit my boyfriend is not spending on me and all sort, the proparbility of getting good husband will be very slim...
OP, just heard youself, you're thinking of leaving him just because he didn't buy u gift on your birthday!! , lemme ask u, are u going to celebrate only one birthday?? And this guy in question is not ur husband yet not even ur fiance
Well, dem no dey tell mad man say rain dey fall na, leave him and follow another person wey go spend on on ur birthday I'll be here counting them for u

dump him and date me...

You don shoot yourself in the leg

babe, if he didn't get you a birthday gift Biko get one for urself with your money. abeg this life no balance jare...