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How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by blizard44: 10:39pm On Aug 11
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Mrevildoer(m): 10:43pm On Aug 11
By getting her off your mind



Modified you see one mistake guys kept on repeating is that our heart is too fragile when it comes to the opposite sex.
Once a girl breaks up with a guy,
give her a week or two... Guess what?
Onto the next available guy, damn it! Why can't guys do same? A guy will cry like a baby once he's dumped by some girl with a list of sharp guys greasing her borris.
Why can't guys do same? How many people love don help?
If you know you won't marry her, please don't throw your love at her like she's gonna be that bride you'll walk to the alter.


I have seen worst bro, all I do is move on.. Move on bro!
Go out there have some beer, live life and don't dare think suicide.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by dollytino4real(f): 11:01pm On Aug 11
old tinz have passed away, so focus on the present more and read ur bible

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by romenna: 11:03pm On Aug 11
Try to get anoda girl who's more prettier than ur ex.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by luvyaself95(m): 11:04pm On Aug 11
You just need to concentrate on myself and things around me probably new ones....

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by MrWTF(m): 11:06pm On Aug 11
romenna:
Try to get anoda girl who's more prettier than ur ex.
Teenagers thought.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by MrWTF(m): 11:07pm On Aug 11
luvyaself95:
You just need to concentrate on myself and things around me probably new ones....
wetin you they talk?

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by luvyaself95(m): 11:09pm On Aug 11
MrWTF:
wetin you they talk?
What are you not understanding...

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by IamPlato(m): 11:10pm On Aug 11
Watch Porn Bro.

Go To Xvideos and Check Out Girls Like Brittney White, Vanessa Blue, Joslyn James, Amy Anderssen, Dominican lipz, desire5k, blackraw, Kendra Sundaland, they Were Born To Make Men Forget Their Wives.


Thank Me Later

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by GiantParrot(m): 11:10pm On Aug 11
Hang in there. You are not the first to go through something like this and you won't be the last. Many before you have gone through something similar and came out stronger. Time will take care of everything.

Muster the strength to put all that negative energy you feel into improving something about you...hit the gym, or learn a new skill, etc.

I'd say you shouldn't go into another relationship anytime soon. You need to heal before starting anything.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by ABCthings: 11:11pm On Aug 11
1. Get a new girl even if it just for the main time. � you will discover that girl is not special and you're just obsessed

2. Attach some thing negative to her. e.g a nickname like goat so when you think all of her you remember goats. For me I can just decide to say your hole stinks horribly and that kills all my attraction to you. Later I may even remember how I stopped liking you sef � .

Make sure you punish her by not thinking of her
All the Best. smiley

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by rosy1992(f): 11:12pm On Aug 11
Be creative and get yourself busy with creative things. Don't rush into relationships but keep healthy friends that will motivate you. As time goes by, you will get over her.

Trust me she isn't worth this stress. Because if she loves you like the way you felt, she shouldn't have cheated on you.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by chigoziri2403(m): 11:14pm On Aug 11
Please stay clear off sniper, we don't want to read your news on Nairaland
Surround yourself with your friends and family
Don't be idle
If you are konjified, Vaseline and nubile.com is your best friend

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by ABCthings: 11:28pm On Aug 11
chigoziri2403:

If you are konjified, Vaseline and nubile.com is your best friend
Stop promoting rubbish na..

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by chigoziri2403(m): 11:29pm On Aug 11
ABCthings:
Stop promoting rubbish na..
you called a life saver rubbish

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by 40secondsMan: 11:37pm On Aug 11
I think the biggest issue is the fact that you are colleagues, and you see her everyday.

Mehn! It's gonna be hard truly...@op, can you change your job?

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by dayo2me(m): 12:04am On Aug 12
have you had sex with the said ex?
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by yarimo(m): 12:13am On Aug 12
IamPlato:
Watch Porn Bro.

Go To Xvideos and Check Out Girls Like Brittney White, Vanessa Blue, Joslyn James, Amy Anderssen, Dominican lipz, desire5k, blackraw, Kendra Sundaland, they Were Born To Make Men Forget Their Wives.


Thank Me Later
which branch of vaseline crew are you from? I am the chairman vaseline crew SAMBISA forest branch.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by BlackIvory(f): 12:41am On Aug 12
[color=#990000][/color] going through the same thing too. I hate the fact that he's 90% of my thought.

focus your energy into more positive things. Improve an hubby, read a book, stuff like that.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by BlackIvory(f): 12:43am On Aug 12
yarimo:
which branch of vaseline crew are you from? I am the chairman vaseline crew SAMBISA forest branch.
are women allowed? Can I know if there is a branch in karu, abuja?

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by blizard44: 8:09am On Aug 12
IamPlato:
Watch Porn Bro.

Go To Xvideos and Check Out Girls Like Brittney White, Vanessa Blue, Joslyn James, Amy Anderssen, Dominican lipz, desire5k, blackraw, Kendra Sundaland, they Were Born To Make Men Forget Their Wives.


Thank Me Later
grin grin

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by blizard44: 8:11am On Aug 12
40secondsMan:
I think the biggest issue is the fact that you are colleagues, and you see her everyday.

Mehn! It's gonna be hard truly...@op, can you change your job?

I can't , at the moment.

I would be a financial wreck if I do.

I would have since done that.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by blizard44: 8:13am On Aug 12
BlackIvory:
[color=#990000][/color] going through the same thing too. I hate the fact that he's 90% of my thought.

focus your energy into more positive things. Improve an hubby, read a book, stuff like that.
This is helpful.

Thank you.

I hope you be free of him too.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by blizard44: 8:15am On Aug 12
chigoziri2403:
Please stay clear off sniper, we don't want to read your news on Nairaland
Surround yourself with your friends and family
Don't be idle
If you are konjified, Vaseline and nubile.com is your best friend

Lol.

Ese!

Konji is no issue .


There is no way I'm killing myself by myself though.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by blizard44: 8:17am On Aug 12
dayo2me:
have you had sex with the said ex?

In a two-year relationship?

I no be Kumuyi nah.

Sex was on a regular.
But it isn't the sex I can't do without.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by blizard44: 8:19am On Aug 12
rosy1992:
Be creative and get yourself busy with creative things. Don't rush into relationships but keep healthy friends that will motivate you. As time goes by, you will get over her.

Trust me she isn't worth this stress. Because if she loves you like the way you felt, she shouldn't have cheated on you.

Thank you.
Thank yooou!
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by millionboi2: 8:22am On Aug 12
blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

Lalasticlala , Would you be kind , please? The needful!
wat u miss is her pussy


Go to a brothel......u will see different class of gal,pick young girl among Dem bcoz she is another person's girlfriend.

Pay and do till u fade,u wouldn't remember her again

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by millionboi2: 8:25am On Aug 12
blizard44:


In a two-year relationship?

I no be Kumuyi nah.

Sex was on a regular.
But it isn't the sex I can't do without.
stop lying na taste of her pussy u dey miss or maybe she gives u mouth.


Local man knows

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by blizard44: 8:47am On Aug 12
millionboi2:
stop lying na taste of her pussy u dey miss or maybe she gives u mouth.


Local man knows
OK.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by carter009(m): 8:53am On Aug 12
I know is not easy getting over someone you truly love, but you have try bro.

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Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by Nobody: 9:31am On Aug 12
blizard44:
This is helpful.
Thank you.
I hope you be free of him too.
thanks too.
Re: How Do I Get My Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Off My Mind? by iLegendd: 9:43am On Aug 12
I'm finding it difficult to read posts relating to relationships nowadays. It's becoming boring to me.

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