teetee2:

Im a woman of 42 believing God for Marriage. I'd a relationship about 11 years ago but did not work due to religion difference. We both loved eachother but i walked away because of my faith. Since i left this man, all men i'd met. i always have one reason or the other not date them or marry them. It could either be on religion or married and not ready to break any woman's heart. Now im ready for marriage which is my desperate desire this 2011. My challenge now, one of the men that wanted to marry me then called me recently that he wants to marry me. This man will become Imam of their mosque anytime and i have a strong faith in my own religion too which makes people to call me the daughter of my Pastor. Can this be the will of God? Im confused now that im winning more souls for God. What can i do. Thanks

teetee2:

Im a woman of 42 believing God for Marriage.  I'd a relationship about 11 years ago but did not work due to religion difference. We both loved eachother but i walked away because of my faith. Since i left this man, all men i'd met. i always have one reason or the other not date them or  marry them.  It could either be on religion or married and not ready to break any woman's heart.  Now im ready for marriage which is my desperate desire this 2011.  My challenge now, one of the men that wanted to marry me then called me recently that he wants to marry me. This man will become Imam of their mosque anytime and i have a strong faith in my own religion too which makes people to call me the daughter of my Pastor.  Can this be the will of God?  Im confused now that im winning more souls for God.  What can i do.  Thanks

Odunnu:

I heard the current wife of Pst Kumuyi is 65yrz old.
Stop acting desperate,even though I pray that everybody should marry,I still know its not possible. If at 42 you jump at marriage even to a non-xtian,I think your belief should be questioned.
Try relocating: i'm just wondering why you seem to be attracting mostly non-christians

Odunnu:

I heard the current wife of Pst Kumuyi is 65yrz old.
Stop acting desperate,even though I pray that everybody should marry,I still know its not possible. If at 42 you jump at marriage even to a non-xtian,I think your belief should be questioned.
Try relocating: i'm just wondering why you seem to be attracting mostly non-christians

My challenge now, one of the men that wanted to marry me then called me recently that he wants to marry me. This man will become Imam of their mosque anytime and i have a strong faith in my own religion too which makes people to call me the daughter of my Pastor.  Can this be the will of God?

Since i left this man, all men i'd met. i always have one reason or the other not date them or  marry them.  It could either be on religion or married and not ready to break any woman's heart

gfhotee:

Our faith should superceed our human desires and desperation, unless you want to dump your faith. Faith is total submission to your belief, meaning you are prepared to uphold and obey every rule in your faith, however, we have instances where some christians have married muslims and still keep to their faith and it never affected the marriage, but in the case of marrying a to-be Imam? Hmnnn!!! Think twice.
There are lots of divorcees and single Christians, just associate more with the singles programme and you will get the right person. Also I see a little rigidity in you, have this in mind, you can never get a perfect man for yourself, just look for one whose lapses or faults you can endure in marriage and 4get about being choosy.

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
lady, let ME be the one being honest to you here since many are just sugar coating shiit.
marriage is NOT meant for everyone and by the look of things, you wont find the ONE very soon. GOD didnt send these no good men towards you, you did.
as we can see by your track record, you are either looking at the wrong places or putting your standards too high, either way at 42yrs of age, i hope you lived life to the fullest and didnt expect a Marriage to make you A WOMEN.

the fact that you even started dating this muslim guy KNOWING FULLY WELL what happened in the past, shows that you obviously dont learn from your mistakes. at 20 i would understood, 30 too but at 42, you best take any man that has a full set of teeth and all his hair on top. this is no time to be choosy (or accept that it could be a long and lonely ride). . . . . .  . .at this rate you will be 80yrs old and STILL single lamenting on all the good guys that you let by.

btw, you said ¨NOW you are ready for marriage¨ werent you ready all along?!  

i am sure if you ask your pastor, he will tell you to PRAY, so since you are 6 god fearing like that¨ i suggest you PRAY until that RIGHT one comes along.

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
lady, let ME be the one being honest to you here since many are just sugar coating shiit.
marriage is NOT meant for everyone and by the look of things, you wont find the ONE very soon. GOD didnt send these no good men towards you, you did.
as we can see by your track record, you are either looking at the wrong places or putting your standards too high, either way at 42yrs of age, i hope you lived life to the fullest and didnt expect a Marriage to make you A WOMEN.

the fact that you even started dating this muslim guy KNOWING FULLY WELL what happened in the past, shows that you obviously dont learn from your mistakes. at 20 i would understood, 30 too but at 42, you best take any man that has a full set of teeth and all his hair on top. this is no time to be choosy (or accept that it could be a long and lonely ride). . . . . .  . .at this rate you will be 80yrs old and STILL single lamenting on all the good guys that you let by.

btw, you said ¨NOW you are ready for marriage¨ werent you ready all along?!  

i am sure if you ask your pastor, he will tell you to PRAY, so since you are 6 god fearing like that¨ i suggest you PRAY until that RIGHT one comes along.

zayzee:

Remember the Bible says do not be unequally yoked. Do not settle for less. Are you thinking of marrying him just because you are 42 and you think time is running out? God's promises may be late but they surely come. He alone understands His timing. But then, do you love this man? if you think about your future, can you see him in it 5, 10, 15 yrs from today? do you think you can have long term happiness and peace with this man? I'm not trying to discourage you. My friend's cousin married this January at the age of 51. She had never been married and everyone had given up on her. but she met a man who had also never been married and the rest is history. Hold God strong. At the time when we most feel like giving up, our breakthroughs are closer than we think. Don't miss it. If you are on facebook, join the group Covenant Singles and Married Ministries. There are loads of Christians to encourage you there.

Murphy G:

@ bolded 1: Is she about to commit murder?

How does getting married to a non muslim question her faith?

@ bolded 2: Maybe God wants her to be a muslim afterall. Who knows??

Murphy G:

So because Pst Kumuyi's wife is 65 yrs old that means she shld wait until she grows older before she gets married?

She turned down a muslim man's proposal because of faith believing a xtian brother will come along. Ofcourse they came along but she cldnt see her self getting married to one of them. I guess if one of them had enuf qualities, she wld be married to him by now.

[Dear poster, an Imam? and you a xtian if everybody will lie to you tell yourself the truth. He wants you to join him in his religion.God is not a man that he should lie,neither the son of man that he should repent has he said it and will he not do it? or has he spoken and will not fulfill it? numbers 23:19. also if we are faithless,he will remain faithful for he cannot disown himself. 2Timothy 2:13 Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen Heb:11:1. You have waited this long don"t give up on God no matter how hard it is. It is good that you desire a husband, it is what YOU want don"t let anybody tell you you are wrong to desire marriage now. While alive and kicking you have a right to have desires and thoughts, and even regrets it is part of being human.

You are winning souls for God now how will you feel with your kids being muslims? stay with God"s word and remember the expectation of the righteous shall not be cut off.

I know it is very hard for you right now to trust God, you are asking Questions but u knw the mind of God its in the scriptures and the scriptures cannot be broken.
and if you decide to marry the  imam no one can judge you except God.]



Properly put

Odunnu:

I heard the current wife of Pst Kumuyi is 65yrz old.
Stop acting desperate,even though I pray that everybody should marry,I still know its not possible. If at 42 you jump at marriage even to a non-xtian,I think your belief should be questioned.
Try relocating: i'm just wondering why you seem to be attracting mostly non-christians

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
lady, let ME be the one being honest to you here since many are just sugar coating shiit.
marriage is NOT meant for everyone and by the look of things, you wont find the ONE very soon. GOD didnt send these no good men towards you, you did.
as we can see by your track record, you are either looking at the wrong places or putting your standards too high, either way at 42yrs of age, i hope you lived life to the fullest and didnt expect a Marriage to make you A WOMEN.

the fact that you even started dating this muslim guy KNOWING FULLY WELL what happened in the past, shows that you obviously dont learn from your mistakes. at 20 i would understood, 30 too but at 42, you best take any man that has a full set of teeth and all his hair on top. this is no time to be choosy (or accept that it could be a long and lonely ride). . . . . .  . .at this rate you will be 80yrs old and STILL single lamenting on all the good guys that you let by.

btw, you said ¨NOW you are ready for marriage¨ werent you ready all along?! 

i am sure if you ask your pastor, he will tell you to PRAY, so since you are 6 god fearing like that¨ i suggest you PRAY until that RIGHT one comes along.