Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,760 members, 7,955,891 topics. Date: Sunday, 22 September 2024 at 06:00 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Jobs/Vacancies / I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice (26398 Views)
Advise Me On This Job Offer, I Am Confused And Sad / The Dilemma Of A Family man with mouth to Feed And Unpaid Bills / The Dilemma Of A Young Graduate With Many Job Offers. (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Ollyb10: 9:03am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Run from that job and that woman and never look back. She's a user 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by zeenaman: 9:04am On Sep 18, 2020 |
If she got you the prestigious job, who will be running around, doing her dirty jobs for her? You should know that humans are naturally selfish and wicked. Juts be bold and and take a walk, brother. Yours will locate you, but I really hate the pattern she's using to torment you. She's giving you unrealistic hope 7 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by zizzley(m): 9:16am On Sep 18, 2020 |
ubyways:Hope you don't mind if pm if that job you left is available |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by brandnprinting: 10:23am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Those people saying you should walk away knows nothing about life. You needed to be used to become something in life. To become a master you need to be a servant. Getting jobs in Nigeria you have to know somebody that knows somebody. Breaking into that inner circle is hard bros. Please calm down, accept the Junior job, finish your PHD, and when opportunity knocks again be on ground to grab it. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by chatinent: 10:24am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Learn one thing: never mortgage your happiness and conscience for anything. 5 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Nobody: 10:24am On Sep 18, 2020 |
first thing. go and pray and i mean it with all seriousness. Your story looks similar to what happened to a man i know. He only got his job after serious fasting and prayers 4 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by osejie17(m): 10:25am On Sep 18, 2020 |
God doesn't want u there. |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by luminouz(m): 10:25am On Sep 18, 2020 |
dingbang: You can see how humans can be selfish? She could employ her kids and the hod's but seems to think clerical work/adhoc staff should be what a masters holder should be doing? I went through this shiit and know how OP feels. Well,lesson is simple, no one owes you anything except what you take yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 10:25am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Tell Us More Please @Poster |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Mrsheff(m): 10:28am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Adonis86:Please don't settle for ssce work Please don't accept that silly offer... Get job outside that school .... What a wicked world ,, And she will be abusing Buhari 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by olarid01: 10:29am On Sep 18, 2020 |
brandnprinting: This type of mindset is why some people will never succeed. Of course, one have to start somewhere, but the wisdom lies in knowing when to stay and when to move. Nothing good will ever come from the OP's boss, I've been there before, the best he could do was to leave that environment entirely and start looking elsewhere. 16 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Rexymania(m): 10:29am On Sep 18, 2020 |
God, people can be manipulative. Get on your kneels and beg God |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by igahdavid(m): 10:30am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Adonis86: That woman doesn't want to help you. She wants to make you a junior staff so you can remain under her. REFUSE Find someone else that can help you and resign. |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Nobody: 10:30am On Sep 18, 2020 |
heykims:People prefer to help their family or friend's family. |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by jericco1(m): 10:30am On Sep 18, 2020 |
TBH I wouldn't accept such job offer.. It is denigrating of your person na |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by frozen70(f): 10:31am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Adonis86:I think at this stage she has no progressive plans for you Just finish your PhD and sort your self out and look else where Meanwhile don't accept that offer, it's a ploy to reduce the spead of your progress from her once you take that job it will affect your CV Leave her to her conscience 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by anonimi: 10:31am On Sep 18, 2020 |
BeSpect: You are very correct. No genuine intention, just like the Association of Past/Present Criminals, APC and their Barawo Bubu who promised us 3 million jobs annually in 2015. That would have been 15 million jobs. Has anyone seen up to 1 million jobs since 2015? Instead they are making plenty noise for N20,000 empowerment street sweeper work for three months. How do we get rid of Barawo Bubu and APC 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Rexymania(m): 10:32am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Fact: you probably would have gotten that Job if you never worked for her. Now sit down and take it up from there 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Nobody: 10:32am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Since you've started your PhD I'll advice you look beyond that institution and prayerfully reach out to other places. Also, networking for Job this days is 'multilinear': you don't just sleep on one source. Seek God and reach out to more people. I see you becoming a Prof. soon in Jesus name. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Angelfrost(m): 10:33am On Sep 18, 2020 |
karkinase: You should drop a little insult for him... It will be apt and deserving!!! How can a youth be so dull with all the education obtained??! Nigeria is in a poor shape, but it can't be enough excuse to totally sacrifice one's dignity and self-respect like this!!! God forbid bad thing!!! 5 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Angelfrost(m): 10:39am On Sep 18, 2020 |
brandnprinting: You have no dignity!!! What a shame!!! That's why this nation is where it is today... Keep managing mediocrity and slavery as a doorway to prosperity??! Who raised you on such nonsense??! You need urgent psychological rehabilitation!!! This is not an insult... This is a friendly response!!! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by nwosu35: 10:40am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Just run for ur life, don't accept the offer, leave that job for now and look for something else, you can't go anywhere with that lady, she is just using this stunt to get u working for her and paying u that 20k |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by brownemmanuel43(m): 10:41am On Sep 18, 2020 |
That's human for u, they will use u till nothing is left again. Bear it in mind that nothing will ever come from that woman. Baba I have been their before, I saw a lot, yours is even better baba, mine was horrible. 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Fiestafetta: 10:43am On Sep 18, 2020 |
I'm force to comment on this issue because I'm not the type that usually comment on every post. One thing I can say is that you put your eggs in one basket, I can't believe that you are in the system where recruitment are been carried out but you however failed to secure such. It is a pity that you missed this glorious opportunity because I have seen someone going through this same path but the difference is that he was flexible and spread his net beyond people he trusted..... The HOD that promised to help him due to his relationship to the DVC (administration) failed him to the extend that he did not even knew that they have compiled the names already.... But he got the job through the secretary that typed the list due to the fact that throughout the recruitment he was telling everybody that care to listen to him that he applied and needs their help...... He makes friend with everyone of them even till date self...... Trust nobody they said' but you rely and trusted her, she did not do you any wrong because the people that she helped were her family after all you are been paid it is you that failed yourself and not her.... My advice is that for you to take the available job to remained in the system, their is what they called CONVERSION, but I advice you to make more contacts/connection when working so that when such opportunity present itself you will just grab it. No much work for federal workers so you still have more opportunity to look for other jobs elsewhere...... My humble opinion though.... Remember that your salary will be higher than your previous 20k per month........... If someone can convert from non academic to academic, from security to administrative at least I witnessed this when I was schooling.. So it is possible... Remember this is Nigeria, if you don't take this offer, you might still be looking for job in the next 5 years but if you take it, their my be 1-2 conversion in the space of five years which you are such of if you press your bottom very well...... I rest my case ..... Good luck 5 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by ayenale1(m): 10:46am On Sep 18, 2020 |
If someone poison another person somewhere not knowing what transpired...bro reject the job offer and move on with your life. |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by MediMedi(m): 10:49am On Sep 18, 2020 |
God.....people are just too wicked. |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by ufotty2001: 10:50am On Sep 18, 2020 |
After I finished my B.sc I found out that Nigeria school system is a scam 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by jeswinner: 10:50am On Sep 18, 2020 |
The Hod is not wicked if you look at it. Imagine she has children that are looking for jobs, her sister or brother's kids need jobs, her pastor's kids, her best friend's kids etc. She will naturally feel the need to help this people you except there is a divine intervention to move you up her list. You will get something better very soon. That is the pressure most Senators, DGs, governors and those people face regularly. Please don't perceive them to be wicked and just see it as a way to continue praying for favor from God. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by micflo28(m): 10:51am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Guy you no smart. You for fire the daughter give her belle make you marry her. That way she must look for a good position for you 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by sulaak(m): 10:52am On Sep 18, 2020 |
brandnprinting: The best advise. Always focus on your long term objective. Your PHd should provide you with a wider window of opportunities. I hope you are involved in a STEM programme. |
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by politeme: 10:55am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Adonis86:Imagine the best student could not secure a job meanwhile they are engaging their children, please don't take that job, thank her for her effort and move on, she is not destiny, God can still bring another helper along your way of destiny, please be good and don't use the fact that she didn't help you to wrong her. All the best 3 Likes |
Should I Keep My Job Or Travel To The UK / CV/Resume Tips To Get The Interview / Apply For The Nigerian Bottling Company Graduate Management Trainee Program 2017
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 83 |