modele2: I read all, becos i was so curious to know how it ended or solid advice that was given. Why? becos i have or perharps am still going thru this kind of situation, mines better becos its not an ex and its not one woman, but i am sure its just about messages text, BB, FB etc. I am sure becos there is really no room for physical fowl play, he returns home early and we spend weekends together.

Unfortunately i saw no solid advice or gameplan, i needed a man in the house to give me a good gameplan, i think the women in the house are just speculating no offence.

I have tried the viscious confrontation, that one backfired with the issue now being how insultive and physcial i was.On another expose, I then tried the begging crying comfrontation and that lead to an apology but no restitution, I finally tried the logical, matured conversational approach and no show. The result of each of this scenarios lead to him locking up his gadget saying i had no right to read his messages blah blah...that for me shows an unrepentant spirit. He tired keeping his phone clean, deleting messages that just arrived or records of compromising phone calls. The ones i saw i just stumbled on, i wasnt searching for anyting in particular.

HE feels justified becos he dosent sleep with them, but we all know thats how it starts and it makes me scared for him and myself in the future. After the last episode, where i stumbled on a compromising message i decided not to dwel on it. Am getting tired of the whole denial saga, besides i have a semblance of peace and happiness in the home. Basically i have thrown in the towel on that episode hoping feverently it doesent consume us in the future...but what can i do.

So long and short, men in the house can we get fresher, better game plans to break this kind of emotional bondage. For him he is having fun and feels he is immune to fallin headlong, hes just playing with fire.

jennykadry: I need a break from this family section. What is all these nonsense I am reading?

ALL OF YOU SILLY LOW SELF ESTEEMED AND NO SELF WORTH WOMEN HAVING ISSUES WITH YOUR HUSBAND SHOULD STOP DISTURBING US WITH YOUR STORIES COS I AM FORKING TIRED OF READING BULLCRAP, YOU COME ON HERE LOOKING FOR ADVISE, ADVISE YOU WILL NOT TAKE SERIOUSLY. DIE THERE JOOO. AWON OLOSHI

jennykadry: i'ke guru, agaba

jennykadry: I need a break from this family section. What is all these nonsense I am reading?

ALL OF YOU SILLY LOW SELF ESTEEMED AND NO SELF WORTH WOMEN HAVING ISSUES WITH YOUR HUSBAND SHOULD STOP DISTURBING US WITH YOUR STORIES COS I AM FORKING TIRED OF READING BULLCRAP, YOU COME ON HERE LOOKING FOR ADVISE, ADVISE YOU WILL NOT TAKE SERIOUSLY. DIE THERE JOOO. AWON OLOSHI

modele2: I read all, becos i was so curious to know how it ended or solid advice that was given. Why? becos i have or perharps am still going thru this kind of situation, mines better becos its not an ex and its not one woman, but i am sure its just about messages text, BB, FB etc. I am sure becos there is really no room for physical fowl play, he returns home early and we spend weekends together.

Unfortunately i saw no solid advice or gameplan, i needed a man in the house to give me a good gameplan, i think the women in the house are just speculating no offence.

I have tried the viscious confrontation, that one backfired with the issue now being how insultive and physcial i was.On another expose, I then tried the begging crying comfrontation and that lead to an apology but no restitution, I finally tried the logical, matured conversational approach and no show. The result of each of this scenarios lead to him locking up his gadget saying i had no right to read his messages blah blah...that for me shows an unrepentant spirit. He tired keeping his phone clean, deleting messages that just arrived or records of compromising phone calls. The ones i saw i just stumbled on, i wasnt searching for anyting in particular.

HE feels justified becos he dosent sleep with them, but we all know thats how it starts and it makes me scared for him and myself in the future. After the last episode, where i stumbled on a compromising message i decided not to dwel on it. Am getting tired of the whole denial saga, besides i have a semblance of peace and happiness in the home. Basically i have thrown in the towel on that episode hoping feverently it doesent consume us in the future...but what can i do.

So long and short, men in the house can we get fresher, better game plans to break this kind of emotional bondage. For him he is having fun and feels he is immune to fallin headlong, hes just playing with fire.

livapul86:
This is the most self conceited post that I have ever seen. What are you feeling like? Did someone force you to post a response Not everyone is like you and some women do not possess the mental toughness to confront such challenges. They come on this platform hoping that someone
that has passed through a similar situation, would be able to guide them right. You do not have to patronise them with your comments but at least be humane enough not to ridicule their circumstances. For Goodness sake, Modele2 has as much right as you to post her marital challenges on this forum and if you don't have anything to say to her, ignore her problem and phock off the thread. What makes you Jennykadry think that you're the Primadonna queen of advise on the family section? Phock off, if you're tired of givin advice, someone else would.
@Modele2: Am sorry for what you must be going through, but now is the time to stamp your feet on the ground and decide the way forward In your marriage. If talking to him to make him understand your challenges doesn't work then I advise that one of these weekends you leave him to stay with your parents or an elderly relative. Though before you go, write a clear and sincere letter of the pain you're going through. Detail the expectations and the joy you had hope to share in your marriage with him and how frustrated you feel that he isn't acting to the term of your union. In short, pour your heart in the note. If he TRULY loves and RESPECT you, he would come knocking. Take care.

jennykadry:

Bend your head down to your groin area and suck on your 1.5 inches d!ck

Johndoe100: @modele

You should listen to agiboma. She seems to have a good hea

d on her shoulders.

ifyalways: Hey,Johndoe Mr Internet Nigerians.I've missed you here,was just asking after you and Harakiri today.Richvcunt is still around and holding down the torch,obviously.

Glad to have around.

ifyalways: Hey,Johndoe Mr Internet Nigerians.I've missed you here,was just asking after you and Harakiri today.Richvcunt is still around and holding down the torch,obviously.

Glad to have around.

agiboma: @Modele in my expreince with this type of man confrontation does not work. I know cause i fight with mine for over 18 months straight and nothing good came out of it. We have been together for 9 years now,so for me i simply just focus on other things these days[b] and surprisingly he is more interested as i do this. He cares what i say, he listens to me now and i have a flashback of the man i once knew the hubby i loved years ago.[/b] Now all this change does not happen over night so have patience, it will work out in the end.

agiboma: @Modele in my expreince with this type of man confrontation does not work. I know cause i fight with mine for over 18 months straight and nothing good came out of it. We have been together for 9 years now,so for me i simply just focus on other things these days and surprisingly he is more interested as i do this. He cares what i say, he listens to me now and i have a flashback of the man i once knew the hubby i loved years ago. Now all this change does not happen over night so have patience, it will work out in the end.