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There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 3:45pm On Sep 22, 2020
I know this thread wouldn't go down well with a lot of people, but the truth is: there are no Alpha Males on Nairaland. If there's any, then he should be a guest.

Reason? I have gone through several threads, observed people, and nothing Alpha was discovered.

What I discovered is that most dudes are just specialists in a particular area, which to me doesn't make them Alpha.

The Type of Men I Have Discovered so Far on Nairaland Are:

1. Beta Males. These ones are the most common. There are two types:

A. Woke Beta.
B. Sleeping Beta..


A. The Woke Beta Males are trying to transmogrify themselves to the status of an Alpha Male. This is good, but it won't come easy. They include some players, redpillers, misogynists and so on. The good thing is that they're struggling to elevate their statuses, which wouldn't come easy as they need the following to become an Alpha Male: intelligence(not just in a particular field), Money(not necessarily wealthy. But important to maintain your Alphaness), they need to be Courageous, Blunt, Sharp, Gat the Physique/ good body posture, feared and respected, extroverted, liked by at least half of the Nairaland hot ladies and they don't go about saying they're Alpha.

I don't think anyone on Nairaland has this yet.

B. Sleeping Beta: These ones are yet to realize what's going on. They are Nice Guys to the core and would do most things to impress the ladies.


2. Simps: these guys are dangerous. Like, very deadly. In addition to being extremely nice to women, like the Beta Guy, these guys are equally deadly and ruthless both to themselves and others as they can even kill if their goddesses(that's what they call women they're attracted to) ask them to. They can abandon their family, friends, career, everything to please their goddesses.


3. Real Men: These men are honest, both to themselves and to others. They don't believe in belonging to any movement or adopting any tag. They prefer being themselves. These men are the only ones, to me, closer to becoming an Alpha Male as they don't give a fvck. They're not simps, they don't act too needy around women, neither do they behave like bad boys to attract women. They are simply themselves. They're actually the realest.

4. Dissents.. These type of Male oppose anything and everything to impress women. They would say "I don't believe anyone should act like that" to anything, any ideology while doing the opposite of what they preach.


This is all I have. Silver and Gold I have not.

Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by BlueOrange: 3:50pm On Sep 22, 2020
Trying too hard. Spits angry

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Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Madibah(m): 3:54pm On Sep 22, 2020
I'm not an alpha male or a simp
I'm an alpha crazy male

If u fuvk up I go give your size

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Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by etrange: 4:01pm On Sep 22, 2020
One day, ya'll will outgrow these stuff, look back and laugh.

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Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 4:29pm On Sep 22, 2020
BlueOrange:
Trying too hard. Spits angry

Aww.. Are you an Alpha Male? Sorry if I annoyed you with this thread. But I am just being honest. My observation so far.
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 4:30pm On Sep 22, 2020
Madibah:
I'm not an alpha male or a simp
I'm an alpha crazy male

If u fuvk up I go give your size

Don't you think you should let someone else call you that? grin

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Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by BlueOrange: 4:34pm On Sep 22, 2020
SilverNorGold:


Aww.. Are you an Alpha Male? Sorry if I annoyed you with this thread. But I am just being honest. My observation so far.


I'm busy abeg. Enjoy
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by LedRock: 4:38pm On Sep 22, 2020
Ok. What other trash do you still have to spill undecided
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Columbine(m): 4:39pm On Sep 22, 2020
I don't believe in this alpha and beta male stuffs, is either one is introverted or extroverted, many think male introverts are simps(if their is anything like that) or beta males, while extroverts are alphas because of the ways they let out their opinions not minding anyone's feelings. These are personalities that are mainly hereditary, with environment also playing a role and I don't see it changing anytime soon.

Don't make people force themselves to live a false life, rather a balance should be made

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Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 4:40pm On Sep 22, 2020
etrange:
One day, ya'll will outgrow these stuff, look back and laugh.

Outgrow what, brother? That I shared my observations with the community? Come on, brother, this is a public forum. I read some members call themselves Alpha Males, did some research on them and came up with this observation.

Or is there more to this subtle outburst, good brother? Is it a crime to share my own observation with the community?

If you know of any Alpha Male on Nairaland, kindly inform me. I'll run a background check on him and if proven, I'll apologize and modify this thread.

But until then, I still maintain that there are no Alpha Males. If there are any, they don't chat or create threads.
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by LikeAking: 4:45pm On Sep 22, 2020
SilverNorGold:
I know this thread wouldn't go down well with a lot of people, but the truth is: there are no Alpha Males on Nairaland. If there's any, then he should be a guest.

Reason? I have gone through several threads, observed people, and nothing Alpha was discovered.

What I discovered is that most dudes are just specialists in a particular area, which to me doesn't make them Alpha.

The Type of Men I Have Discovered so Far on Nairaland Are:

1. Beta Males. These ones are the most common. There are two types:

A. Woke Beta.
B. Sleeping Beta..


A. The Woke Beta Males are trying to transmogrify themselves to the status of an Alpha Male. This is good, but it won't come easy. They include some players, redpillers, misogynists and so on. The good thing is that they're struggling to elevate their statuses, which wouldn't come easy as they need the following to become an Alpha Male: intelligence(not just in a particular field), Money(not necessarily wealthy. But important to maintain your Alphaness), they are Courageous, Blunt, Sharp, Gat the Physique/ good body posture, feared and respected, extroverted, liked by at least half of the Nairaland hot ladies and they don't go about saying they're Alpha.

I don't think anyone on Nairaland has this yet.

B. Sleeping Beta: These ones are yet to realize what's going on. They are Nice Guys to the core and would do most things to impress the ladies.


2. Simps: these guys are dangerous. Like, very deadly. In addition to being extremely nice to women, like the Beta Guy, these guys are equally deadly and ruthless both to themselves and others as they can even kill if their goddesses(that's what they call women they're attracted to) ask them to. They can abandon their family, friends, career, everything to please their goddesses.


3. Real Men: These men are honest, both to themselves and to others. They don't believe in belonging to any movement or adopting any tag. They prefer being themselves. These men are the only ones, to me, closer to becoming an Alpha Male as they don't give a fvck. They're not simps, they don't act too needy around women, neither do they behave like bad boys to attract women. They are simply themselves. They're actually the realest.

4. Dissents.. These type of Male oppose anything and everything to impress women. They would say "I don't believe anyone should act like that" to anything, any ideology while doing the opposite of what they condemn.


This is all I have. Silver and Gold I have not.

LUBISH
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 4:59pm On Sep 22, 2020
Columbine:
I don't believe in this alpha and beta male stuffs, is either one is introverted or extroverted, many think male introverts are simps(if their is anything like that) or beta males, while extroverts are alphas because of the ways they let out their opinions not minding anyone's feelings. These are personalities that are mainly hereditary, with environment also playing a role and I don't see it changing anytime soon.

Don't make people force themselves to live a false life, rather a balance should be made

I think you belong to the Real Men category, according to this particular list(you will still insist you are not. Let me preempt you grin ) which is nice.

But the truth is that we are animals, like Apes, Gorillas, etc. So it sure does exist, at least, more pronounced in the past. These days, however, it's just traces of it. Now relegated basically to the business and relationship world.

If you study the animal kingdom, you'll realize what I have said. For instance, the Lion is the Alpha Male in his pride. We have the Silver Back Gorilla.

Similarly, we have Alpha Female, an example is the hyena. It has to do with social class and status.

As humans and society became complex, this definition too became complex and dynamic.
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 5:01pm On Sep 22, 2020
LikeAking:


LUBISH

I actually expected this. Check my introduction. I prophesied such an "outburst" like this. Lol

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Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by javaguru: 5:04pm On Sep 22, 2020
interesting
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by luscioustrish(f): 5:14pm On Sep 22, 2020
5. The stray puppies:

Their only purpose on nairaland is to continually bash and insult nigerian women, following them like stray puppies and constantly in their mentions calling anyone and everyone Olosho even when they were not originally mentioned.
They do not know how to argue or contribute to discussions intelligently without insulting all women including the ones in their family.

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Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by BrainRider: 5:19pm On Sep 22, 2020
Op which of the categories do you fall into please?
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by LastSamurai: 5:29pm On Sep 22, 2020
Another animal on the loose.
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 6:09pm On Sep 22, 2020
luscioustrish:
5. The stray puppies:

Their only purpose on nairaland is to continually bash and insult nigerian women, following them like stray puppies and constantly in their mentions calling anyone and everyone Olosho even when they were not originally mentioned.
They do not know how to argue or contribute to discussions intelligently without insulting all women including the ones in their family.

No bashing, please. Why nurture so much hatred for a fellow human being?
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 6:10pm On Sep 22, 2020
BrainRider:
Op which of the categories do you fall into please?

I leave it for you guys.
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 6:11pm On Sep 22, 2020
LastSamurai:
Another animal on the loose.

Brother Samurai, this is ad hominem. But it's all right. After all, science says we are all animals.

Stay blessed.
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by luscioustrish(f): 6:18pm On Sep 22, 2020
SilverNorGold:


No bashing, please. Why nurture so much hatred for a fellow human being?

Where is the "hatred" in my post? Or do you not see guys bash women all the time? I simply added that category to your list.
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 6:55pm On Sep 22, 2020
luscioustrish:


Where is the "hatred" in my post? Or do you not see guys bash women all the time? I simply added that category to your list.

Correct, but failed to add the category of women bashing men online, right? Now what makes you different from those guys you condemned?

Hypocrisy is a thing. Please let's stop the hate...
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by luscioustrish(f): 6:59pm On Sep 22, 2020
SilverNorGold:


Correct, but failed to add the category of women bashing men online, right? Now what makes you different from those guys you condemned?

Hypocrisy is a thing. Please let's stop the hate...

The topic/thread is about MEN..I pointed these set out, no need to keep up with this. Enjoy.
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 7:03pm On Sep 22, 2020
luscioustrish:


The topic/thread is about MEN..I pointed these set out, no need to keep up with this. Enjoy.

It's still the same thing. Nothing stops you from creating a thread on women and including that hate category. You don't have to wait for a man to create a "male" thread for you to drop your feminist outburst.

If you are all about fairness, you should have created a thread condemning abusive female just as you are condemning abusive male.
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by luscioustrish(f): 7:19pm On Sep 22, 2020
SilverNorGold:


It's still the same thing. Nothing stops you from creating a thread on women and including that hate category. You don't have to wait for a man to create a "male" thread for you to drop your feminist outburst.

If you are all about fairness, you should have created a thread condemning abusive female just as you are condemning abusive male.



Ok.
Re: There Are NO Alpha Males On Nairaland... See Why... by Nobody: 10:13am On Sep 23, 2020
luscioustrish:




Ok.

Stay blessed. cheesy

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