|Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New|
Stats: 3,109,362 members, 7,673,052 topics. Date: Monday, 11 December 2023 at 11:01 AM
|The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by Moneysoldier007(m): 7:07am On Sep 26, 2020|
Sitting here on my toilet sit this chilling morning , dragging my S.K, journeying down memory lane when men would cross the seven seas because of 'LOVE' and after doing the silliest of things for example like washing a girls pant and still chest out with pride like Brad Pitt in Troy and shout at the top of your voice " is there no one else? , IS THERE NO ONE ELSE?", does anyone remember that advert on Silverbird just a lifetime ago?
Oh that?, of course I fuckinggg! did too, I am not a hypocrite, a lot of us did or did a random silly thing during our naive days so when Ozo was 'nzuzuing' over Nengi and Neo washing Vees pant, when I came across that topic on Nairaland I struggled to Shalaye not to click it, thanks to Nairaland my BBN TV, I like to save mb but this particular video, if I no watch am wetin I come gain?, I needed to see it with my eyes , that guy went international with that shittttt! on Live TV, I couldn't have done any better so for that he deserves an award, one word, Epic.
I'll rather spend my time scratching my balls than watch BBN, I'll prefer staying tuned to Urban TV, listening to gbedu cos to me MTV 9ja is overrated, I have only saw it once since it started and a female visitor forced me to, you are my guest so the remote is yours, d'amnnnnn dem babes?, they live for that shiiiiiiii!
Snapping back to reality, I was wowed watching that video but experience will always humble you, so I was in no place to judge cos I have sailed that ship, you won't even know you are acting stupid but that's what happens when you allow your emotions control you, it makes you powerless. I believe once if you kill your emotions in your dealings with people then you've solved 99% of your problems because in every decision making of your life you'll act with a clear head, fact over feelings. There's every possibility we can still love and control our emotions, it's reality or facts first and this is where self love or self interest comes in.
It's not a bad thing to love but from what love has taught me, I'll never put a woman first or on a pedestal again, it's not if you are happy I am happy, it's instead I have to be happy enough to make you happy, I need to love myself enough to be able to love some else because any other love you get out there is conditional, even parents. Be the most successful in the family and you are mom and dad's favorite child aka "The Asset". Both sexes practice it but I'll rather do a favor for a guy than a for girl, niggas appreciate things way more.
Buy a guy you are meeting for the first time a bottle of beer and your face is stored in his head for a lifetime, meet him 5 years after he'll remember your face and reciprocate the gesture but give a girl the world and watch her throw you out of it when things go wrong, afterall it's hers, you gave it to her.
"Before you give a girl the world, make sure you have a world of your own". Ken 1651 AD.
Like I said in my dealings with both sexes in my 33 years of existence guys appreciate things far better than a woman ever will, especially in this present age and this part of the world.
Give her the world without having a world of your own, she'll still ask you one day when things go wrong ,
"Manchi, what have you even done for me?"
E go shock you.
Regardless, speaking for myself, ofcos I still want to marry and have yellow pawpaw kids like me, I might not be as handsome as Oshoimole but I be spec in my own way.
Would I love to get married?, of course yes, Am I ready to settle down? damnnnnnn! right I am cos to even top it up I am an only child but I have studied women, adding their drama to you, it's a course on its own, I am not in a haste abeg, plus It's hard with our present generation of Ladies,
To most of our present day Ladies, relationship is nothing personal, it's just a business in disguise. You give me sex under "we are dating", and I reciprocate with giving you money under same "we are dating" . Sad to say but it's the fact, then I compare it to marriage and realise its just a tushed one waiting in front for me, you add someone else to your life you are compelled to protect and take care of them, it's handling a whole new responsibility but when you are comfortable and have stayed single for too long, the definition of Peace of mind becomes glaring ,but a quick question?
"Can a woman tag along and give you this kind of Peace?",
For me, I still don't have an answer.
I am single and I believe I get more sex than some guys in relationships, especially the ones in long distance relationships or the other kind where the babe is not a virginnn yet put the guy on a 'no sex before marriage' terms and still cajole him into investing heavily in her and the dead man go get his sex elsewhere because you didn't put the term, she did, you were just st! upid enough to buy it (That's the Oga kpata kpata of dem all). She's in a serious relationship but sending nudes to another guy while another somewhere else is dying over her(Aka The LOMLs crew) , meanwhile we both know our dealings are sexual , it's a f'uc'ked up shhhhitt, me sef don love with my strength and might, another guy has done it to me during the love hunting days so I am not even surprised, you only relate better with what you've experienced, some do it for long throat in our present age , things are hard.
Sometimes, I don't blame them still , we are revelations of our government, all they do is steadily fuc:kkkkkk us in the ars! se and still milk us hard to rub insult to injury, no Joy on the streets no more, we are the monsters they made, as my Guy Odogwu said.
If you want to know women, try being the side Guy for an eye opener, she would tell you stuffs to make the Main Guy look weak no matter how much of a man he thinks he is, tell and would do things with you she wouldn't with the Main Guy, in plain terms a Saint before the Main guy and her real self with the Side Guy.
I don't even want to date, I love my peace and calm, when I finally meet her and its right I'll marry, the more wait the more value I add to my life, gives you more time to keep doing better but heaven knows I am not going to in the name of 'we are dating' shoulder any woman's responsibilities, a broke woman has no business dating, before you kill someone's son with
"Baby, I have not eaten since morning"
E no balance, I have my shit together and for me to be better and to take you serious you have to have your shit together too, nothing personal but if sex is all that's in it for me, something we both enjoy, I'll pass cos it's the cheapest thing to get, if it's all about the pus#sy then she's a total drag back, if not, I'll never take anyone serious.
It has to go both ways, I want to be spoiled and pampered too, I can't buy you a wrist watch of 30k on your birthday and I get a boxers, white singlet and handkerchief on mine, I am not a cultural or atilogo dancer.
And yea, S.K?, yeah I smoke herbs, its my therapy and the realest women I have met are herb � smokers, they come with a whole new vibe.
Please don't take it the wrong way, I am straight as a ruler so I love women, before someone tags me a mysogionist or Gaybriel!.
Just a clean heart venting.
I rest my case.
D'amnnnnn! I miss writing. I hope to be back soonest. Meanwhile check out www.waywardpikin.com
Waywardpikin, Ubanja, pansophist, CaveAdullam, Martinez38
The floor is open.
9 Likes 1 Share
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by operAhdam: 7:34am On Sep 26, 2020|
More words to your pen bro
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by stare: 7:37am On Sep 26, 2020|
Moneysoldier007:I wish there is a way to put love reactions on a post❤️♥️
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by Rossonero: 7:47am On Sep 26, 2020|
Wow! If you see the way I take dey read this masterpiece slowly make e no just end. I don't know why this write-up just dey sweet me for body or maybe cos it's a life of a single guy who is enjoying peace at the moment cos am also enjoying mine here menh. Ladies please just understand what some of want please i beg of you and to my future wife I hope u see this. Thanks OP you will not run out of SK
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by dmgr(m): 8:20am On Sep 26, 2020|
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by Okika123(m): 8:21am On Sep 26, 2020|
why by say people that smoke see people that don't smoke as fools. you made nice post ur last statement spoiled it
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by Moneysoldier007(m): 8:33am On Sep 26, 2020|
Thank you, you like supply me more?, but on a real, Na real matters.
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by Moneysoldier007(m): 8:34am On Sep 26, 2020|
Kindly point out where I said that, ayam confused.
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by LedRock: 8:34am On Sep 26, 2020|
Okika123:It is actually the other way round. As for the OP, women don't even offer sex.
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by Moneysoldier007(m): 8:48am On Sep 26, 2020|
My Nigga, speak what you know. They do, they don't have to spell it out to you sometimes, it's her actions you should focus on, not the things she says.
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by Sonoyom(m): 9:04am On Sep 26, 2020|
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by mosdii(m): 9:14am On Sep 26, 2020|
What a way to start the day.
SK in the morning
AZ in the noon
MJ in the night.
Herbs is life, big ups OP
Na abobi wey loseguard nai Dem go pour dirty water
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by Themainboy22: 9:43am On Sep 26, 2020|
Nice one coming from MS, who was once a lover boy, always ready to die for Women . Guys listen to him.
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by CaveAdullam: 5:33pm On Sep 26, 2020|
No woman, no cry.
|Re: The Days When Love Use To Be Priority No1 by Angelacruz: 5:45pm On Sep 26, 2020|
Pls someone should summarize for me.Too lazy to read it
|Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health |
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket
Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2023 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 146