Yes! I got your attention, so i will try to make it worthwhile.

I'm not a doctor, but have about 5years of research put into sexual matters - so, i can still say a couple of things.

Here is a question i have once thought about and sure you may have asked yourself

Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm?

The answer is

NO

In fact, not every sexual activity has to lead to a climax - and it is not always the fault of the man or woman.

When this happens, orgasm should not be faked or forced - instead, pre-intimacy and communication should be encouraged.

It is for this reason some married couples practise a routine-like MAINTENANCE SEX.

They do not dwell on having the craziest of orgasms and have sex for other reasons like:

- keeping their sexual drive stable
- reducing chances of infidelity
- child bearing
- to strengthen relationship etc


So, whenever you decide to get intimate with that someone - relax and understand that it's normal if you don't orgasm !

Do you agree with me? Or have any addition, subtraction

Drop it here

Well, without orgasms there's no satisfaction. So sex must always lead to orgasm.

For me though, I have lots of sex and lots of orgasms but I don't ejaculate; and that's because I've mastered the tantric technique for non-ejaculatory orgasm

Orgasm is usually the peak of sexual satisfaction and not the baseline.

A simple caressing alone can bring some level of satisfaction - although, we all have different sexual appetites.

PS: your technique needs to be studied

ReluctantAdult:
Well, without orgasms there's no satisfaction. So sex must always lead to orgasm.

For me though, I have lots of sex and lots of orgasms but I don't ejaculate; and that's because I've mastered the tantra technique for non-ejaculatory orgasm

nwaezeemmanuel:
Orgasm is usually the peak of sexual satisfaction and not the baseline.

A simple caressing alone can bring some level of satisfaction - although, we all have different sexual appetites.

PS: your technique needs to be studied

I agree. We all have different sexual appetites and some of us are starving lions

It is worth it though

Cumming after organism is a great gain

exactly!

ReluctantAdult:
I agree. We all have different sexual appetites and some of us are starving lions

It is worth it though

Definitely, it may happen before or without orgasm though

Liposure:
Cumming after organism is a great gain

Getting responses from guys so far

Let me also add that women orgasm too, would love to get a comment from a lady

Yes but I'll rather stick to whatever StacyO thinks about this

ReluctantAdult:
Well, without orgasms there's no satisfaction. So sex must always lead to orgasm.

For me though, I have lots of sex and lots of orgasms but I don't ejaculate; and that's because I've mastered the tantric technique for non-ejaculatory orgasm

wait you said wah What's your technique?

I can understand, thanks for speaking up

PS: who's StacyO?

ThreeEyedRaven:
Yes but I'll rather stick to whatever StacyO thinks about this

wait you said wah What's your technique?

nwaezeemmanuel:

PS: who's StacyO?

An extremely wise, intelligent and beautiful creature from another planet
You'd love to meet her I guarantee more than GTBank

Warning : on no account are you allowed to even crush on her, she's taken !!

If I no orgasm wetin I gain...?..I dey orgasm by just watching her remove her pant...

Women orgasm too..

Definitely

Omowunmikay:
Women orgasm too..

Lol, orgasm is usually the peak of sexual pleasure

Watching a lady remove her pant may give some sort of pleasure, but not a climax!

Ever8090:
If I no orgasm wetin I gain...?..I dey orgasm by just watching her remove her pant...

ReluctantAdult:
Well, without orgasms there's no satisfaction. So sex must always lead to orgasm.

For me though, I have lots of sex and lots of orgasms but I don't ejaculate; and that's because I've mastered the tantric technique for non-ejaculatory orgasm

You orgasm but you don't ejaculate? Isn't ejaculation the same as orgasm for men?


I'm confused.

Sixfeetbelle:


You orgasm but you don't ejaculate? Isn't ejaculation the same as orgasm for men?


I'm confused.

Orgasm in males kind of go with ejaculation, but you can have orgasms without ejaculating and it takes training and technique to be able to separate the two.

When you master the technique, you can orgasm as many times as you want without ejaculating. I do it every time and I last like, forever during sex.

ReluctantAdult:

Orgasm in males kind of go with ejaculation, but you can have orgasms without ejaculating and it takes training and technique to be able to separate the two.

When you master the technique, you can orgasm as many times as you want without ejaculating. I do it every time and I last forever.

Wow. I'm surprised by this information. Never knew they were separate events.

You learn new things everyday.

Sixfeetbelle:


Wow. I'm surprised by this information. Never knew they were separate events.

You learn new thing everyday.

It's not common knowledge though and not many men can do it. But it's something that's been done since a long time ago in Tantric sex.

ReluctantAdult:
It's not common knowledge though and not many men can do it. But it's something that's been done since a long time ago in Tantric sex.

I see.

So let me ask, does cum/precum come out when you orgasm but don't ejaculate, thus meaning you can still get a woman pregnant without ejaculating or am I just confusing myself further?

There is a way a guy can orgasm without ejaculating - but that is usually not needed.

Sometimes it may indicate a health problem - and may not be safe to practise voluntarily.

Some men are able to retain semen and not pass it out, but this may cause it to leak into the bladder and come out in urine.

Sixfeetbelle:


You orgasm but you don't ejaculate? Isn't ejaculation the same as orgasm for men?


I'm confused.

nwaezeemmanuel:
There is a way a guy can orgasm without ejaculating - but that is usually not needed.

Sometimes it may indicate a health problem - and may not be safe to practise voluntarily.

Some men are able to retain semen and not pass it out, but this may cause it to leak into the bladder and come out in urine.

Consider my mind officially blown.

This tantric method is best practised alone, and more common during masturbation.

If you wish to have sex with someone, it is very risky to trust your 'orgasm without ejaculating' technique.

This is because you can release semen without reaching an orgasm - it can come before you get to a climax!

More reasons why pull out method is a silly birth control method.

Sixfeetbelle:


I see.

So let me ask, does cum/precum come out when you orgasm but don't ejaculate, thus meaning you can still get a woman pregnant without ejaculating or am I just confusing myself further?

Sixfeetbelle:


I see.

So let me ask, does cum/precum come out when you orgasm but don't ejaculate, thus meaning you can still get a woman pregnant without ejaculating or am I just confusing myself further?

Yeah, precums for sure. No cums if you are really good at it but a little drop if you're just starting out; mostly when your PC muscles aren't tight enough.

Precums have like a 0.0000001 spermatozoa content. Like precums are supposed to clear the way for the real cum so very little chances of containing spermatozoa.

To everyone viewing, please note that if you're a guy - ejaculating before orgasm is not always abnormal.

Orgasm is simply the peak of sexual pleasure and not all sexual activity must get to a climax!

The following can reduce your chances of intense orgasm during sex.

- Having very frequent sex (this gives your body less time to recover and get to that easy-to-stimulate state)

- Mood (if you're tired or sad, don't count on having orgasmic sex, it may not happen)

- Lack of communication (people orgasm for different reasons, not talking to your partner means you're most likely going to force or fake an orgasm)

ThreeEyedRaven:

An extremely wise, intelligent and beautiful creature from another planet
You'd love to meet her I guarantee more than GTBank

Warning : on no account are you allowed to even crush on her, she's taken !!

Lol

Ever8090:
If I no orgasm wetin I gain...?..I dey orgasm by just watching her remove her pant...

Omowunmikay:
Women orgasm too..

Yeah. Our orgasm lasts longer than a males does. And we can orgasm repeatedly without a rest in between whereas men need that rest to get hard again.
I think sex can still be enjoyable if it's done right even without having an orgasm.
But the orgasm is the cherry on top of the ice cream lol

Very well said

I urge everyone to take note of this brilliant lady's input - spot on!

Mrscarter:


Yeah. Our orgasm lasts longer than a males does. And we can orgasm repeatedly without a rest in between whereas men need that rest to get hard again.
I think sex can still be enjoyable if it's done right even without having an orgasm.
But the orgasm is the cherry on top of the ice cream lol

ThreeEyedRaven:

An extremely wise, intelligent and beautiful creature from another planet
You'd love to meet her I guarantee more than GTBank

Warning : on no account are you allowed to even crush on her, she's taken !!

I'm flattered