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Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 9:56pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Yes! I got your attention, so i will try to make it worthwhile. I'm not a doctor, but have about 5years of research put into sexual matters - so, i can still say a couple of things. Here is a question i have once thought about and sure you may have asked yourself Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm? The answer is NO In fact, not every sexual activity has to lead to a climax - and it is not always the fault of the man or woman. When this happens, orgasm should not be faked or forced - instead, pre-intimacy and communication should be encouraged. It is for this reason some married couples practise a routine-like MAINTENANCE SEX. They do not dwell on having the craziest of orgasms and have sex for other reasons like: - keeping their sexual drive stable - reducing chances of infidelity - child bearing - to strengthen relationship etc So, whenever you decide to get intimate with that someone - relax and understand that it's normal if you don't orgasm ! |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 9:59pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Do you agree with me? Or have any addition, subtraction Drop it here |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by ReluctantAdult(m): 9:59pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Well, without orgasms there's no satisfaction. So sex must always lead to orgasm. For me though, I have lots of sex and lots of orgasms but I don't ejaculate; and that's because I've mastered the tantric technique for non-ejaculatory orgasm 1 Like |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:04pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Orgasm is usually the peak of sexual satisfaction and not the baseline. A simple caressing alone can bring some level of satisfaction - although, we all have different sexual appetites. PS: your technique needs to be studied ReluctantAdult: |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by ReluctantAdult(m): 10:08pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel:I agree. We all have different sexual appetites and some of us are starving lions It is worth it though 2 Likes |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Liposure: 10:23pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Cumming after organism is a great gain 1 Like |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:26pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
exactly! ReluctantAdult: |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:32pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Definitely, it may happen before or without orgasm though Liposure: |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:35pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Getting responses from guys so far Let me also add that women orgasm too, would love to get a comment from a lady |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by ThreeEyedRaven: 10:37pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Yes but I'll rather stick to whatever StacyO thinks about this ReluctantAdult:wait you said wah What's your technique? 2 Likes |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:39pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
I can understand, thanks for speaking up PS: who's StacyO? ThreeEyedRaven: |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by ThreeEyedRaven: 11:12pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel:An extremely wise, intelligent and beautiful creature from another planet You'd love to meet her I guarantee more than GTBank Warning : on no account are you allowed to even crush on her, she's taken !! 2 Likes |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Ever8090: 12:12am On Oct 03, 2020 |
If I no orgasm wetin I gain...?..I dey orgasm by just watching her remove her pant... 2 Likes
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Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Omowunmikay(f): 7:17am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Women orgasm too.. 2 Likes |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 9:30am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 9:33am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Lol, orgasm is usually the peak of sexual pleasure Watching a lady remove her pant may give some sort of pleasure, but not a climax! Ever8090: 1 Like |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Sixfeetbelle: 9:50am On Oct 03, 2020 |
ReluctantAdult: You orgasm but you don't ejaculate? Isn't ejaculation the same as orgasm for men? I'm confused. 1 Like |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by ReluctantAdult(m): 10:07am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Orgasm in males kind of go with ejaculation, but you can have orgasms without ejaculating and it takes training and technique to be able to separate the two. When you master the technique, you can orgasm as many times as you want without ejaculating. I do it every time and I last like, forever during sex. |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Sixfeetbelle: 10:08am On Oct 03, 2020 |
ReluctantAdult: Wow. I'm surprised by this information. Never knew they were separate events. You learn new things everyday. 1 Like |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by ReluctantAdult(m): 10:09am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:It's not common knowledge though and not many men can do it. But it's something that's been done since a long time ago in Tantric sex. |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Sixfeetbelle: 10:12am On Oct 03, 2020 |
ReluctantAdult: I see. So let me ask, does cum/precum come out when you orgasm but don't ejaculate, thus meaning you can still get a woman pregnant without ejaculating or am I just confusing myself further? 2 Likes |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:14am On Oct 03, 2020 |
There is a way a guy can orgasm without ejaculating - but that is usually not needed. Sometimes it may indicate a health problem - and may not be safe to practise voluntarily. Some men are able to retain semen and not pass it out, but this may cause it to leak into the bladder and come out in urine. Sixfeetbelle: 1 Like |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Sixfeetbelle: 10:18am On Oct 03, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel: Consider my mind officially blown. 3 Likes |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:19am On Oct 03, 2020 |
This tantric method is best practised alone, and more common during masturbation. If you wish to have sex with someone, it is very risky to trust your 'orgasm without ejaculating' technique. This is because you can release semen without reaching an orgasm - it can come before you get to a climax! More reasons why pull out method is a silly birth control method. Sixfeetbelle: 2 Likes |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by ReluctantAdult(m): 10:21am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Yeah, precums for sure. No cums if you are really good at it but a little drop if you're just starting out; mostly when your PC muscles aren't tight enough. Precums have like a 0.0000001 spermatozoa content. Like precums are supposed to clear the way for the real cum so very little chances of containing spermatozoa. 1 Like |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:27am On Oct 03, 2020 |
To everyone viewing, please note that if you're a guy - ejaculating before orgasm is not always abnormal. Orgasm is simply the peak of sexual pleasure and not all sexual activity must get to a climax! The following can reduce your chances of intense orgasm during sex. - Having very frequent sex (this gives your body less time to recover and get to that easy-to-stimulate state) - Mood (if you're tired or sad, don't count on having orgasmic sex, it may not happen) - Lack of communication (people orgasm for different reasons, not talking to your partner means you're most likely going to force or fake an orgasm) 1 Like |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Mrscarter(f): 10:44am On Oct 03, 2020 |
ThreeEyedRaven: Lol 2 Likes |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Mrscarter(f): 10:44am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Ever8090: 1 Like |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Mrscarter(f): 10:47am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Omowunmikay: Yeah. Our orgasm lasts longer than a males does. And we can orgasm repeatedly without a rest in between whereas men need that rest to get hard again. I think sex can still be enjoyable if it's done right even without having an orgasm. But the orgasm is the cherry on top of the ice cream lol 1 Like |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:49am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Very well said I urge everyone to take note of this brilliant lady's input - spot on! Mrscarter: |
Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Nobody: 1:55pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
ThreeEyedRaven: I'm flattered 2 Likes |
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