Hello ma,

Hide my identity. I have been married for 8 years and I have never experienced what is called Orgasm. Before I married my husband, I was in a 4 year relationship that was assumed to lead to marriage and I experienced intense sexual satisfaction in the relationship. But the relationship was filled with alot of issues and we broke up.

I then made a vow to remain celibate until marriage. It was hard but I made up my mind not to open my legs again for any man that is not my husband. When I married my husband, making love with him was surprising for me. He never used to last long enough for me to orgasm.

This really bothered me. He would come all eager and before I say jack,he is done. I tried to speak to him about it,he was like, am I serious? It now became that I was dry and coming was impossible.

So instead of him to focus on making me come, he would say...something is wrong with me. That I am dry. And that made me stop talking about it. Many times, I would fake my orgasm. I began to dislike making love and he too began to loose interest.

That is how we have been for almost 8 years of marriage. Until this year, he totally stop making love to me. I did not ask him for a month but it became so bad, I had to ask him. He said, he is tired of making love to a stick. That hurt me really bad.

I got angry and told him that he is the one at fault. That he does not know how to handle a woman...that he has quick ejaculation problem. Instead of him to go and look for solution, he is busy insulting me of being.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/10/08/married-for-8-years-without-orgasm-my-husband-says-i-am-dry-pls-advise/

Over to the elders

Hmmm

Auntie , u not getting wet has nothing to do with quick ejaculation

1, engage in enough pre-intimacy
2, u have to love or at least like the man before u talk about him satisfying u
3, 8 yrs of marriage go don produce some kids abi ? Allow him give u some heads , maybe it will kick start your engine

For a man to last long , I have clues for that but I can't say it here , let's start with u getting ready to receive first

talk to any of is family members maybe he will listen

,he should be ashamed of himself not be able to satisfy his wife

pre-intimacy +++

The two of you need to meet therapist or learn from others

byinks:
pre-intimacy +++

sup byinks

Why not try some intimate cool lubricants, u can also try being so naughty with yourselves and see if dirty talks and actions can revive ur sex lives

youngvikthor:


sup byinks

IM ok ... Sup ?

byinks:

IM ok ... Sup ?

cool how was ur day?

youngvikthor:


cool how was ur day?

Too hot.

Wahala for who no Sabi pre-intimacy

Pre-intimacy and MouthAction is a very quick way of getting there.

Seems to me that this couple are too serious and don't want to experiment.

If a man ejaculates fast, he can opt for his wife to try to get him hard again or have pre-intimacy to reboot.

Please women, an average man does not spend hours in bed - many don't go past 4 minutes

It is quite normal

:
IM ok ... Sup ?
rad how was ur week?

Hmnnnn