stop listening to women...those creature will cut their hair and put wig, cut their nails Nd fix artificial long nails, tell u to go and shoot u for moving....pls guys, do wetin dey Una mind

Let you friend make this decision himself, don't tell him what to do

Mumu women and their wahala

SmartProf:
The desperation being shown by the lady your friend is about to be married to has surpassed boiling point temperature. At this point nothing makes sense to her beyond receiving that marriage certificate on the first agreed date. It's as though she has cooked the rice already and the guests are already seated. Infact if she is aware you introduced that business to your friend, she will roast you with insults without listening to your explanations. Since your friend seems too weak to justify his reasons for investing his own money, then allow him to crawl out with his money and please his woman. Don't forget to attend the wedding and eat their rice cos it will be sweet. It's usually said that love your neighbor as yourself, not more than yourself. Even if you cash out, don't rub it on his face before he goes into depression. When it comes to marriage, most women will defy all logical advise that suggests postponement even if it's coming directly from heaven. If I were your friend, I will pretend to allow her walk away as she is threatening because I know she wouldn't be still married after I cash out..the best she will achieve in the period is to be a pained motivational speaker trying to console herself on social media. She has emotionally blackmailed your friend and your friend fell for it, so let it slide.

While I agree with whatever crap you wrote up there (bashing women is not a new thing), I believe you're ultimately forgetting one thing.

At this stage in their relationship, making that kind of decision without her input shows he doesn't care about her. She should be more worried about the kind of family they were planning to build than the wedding itself.

thesicilian:

Ideally, the man should have discussed with his fiancée before using that money for the business, but no worldly woman will ever agree to invest the little they have now for the chance of future financial stability. And judging from her reaction, I think he made the right decision not telling her. I wish more men had his balls.

If he had discussed it, it might have gone differently than not saying anything at all. Even the Op said he invested twice what is expected of him. And because he knows he did it without her counsel, he's wavering on what to do now.

xcommando:
Why is she so desperate? If your guy should start cashing out won’t she be happy?

Hnmmm... Wetin i sabi. Make I no talk

Just the way my ex Dey desperate, not knowing say she don born two for village. Thank God say I stubborn sha.. but my I see not be small

And if the investment fails and the guy doesn't cash out, do you think this relationship would still be what it is now?

She should just break up with him but not because the guy was wrong but because they are not compatible. The guy is future oriented but it does not seem like the girl is. If they were meant to be then they would stay together no matter what the guy has done.

Hope the business won't crash before then?