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What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by Factfinder1(m): 1:18pm On Oct 18
What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage?
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by dorin27(f): 1:20pm On Oct 18
Who wants to know?

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by mariahAngel: 1:20pm On Oct 18
Are you kidding?
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by 2special(m): 1:24pm On Oct 18
hmmmm
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by fati2001(f): 1:27pm On Oct 18
MANY THINGS BASED ON THE TYPE OF MAN HE IS.

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by Blackmoran(m): 1:34pm On Oct 18
how many times are we going to talk about this topic?

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by ibechris(m): 3:24pm On Oct 18
If u take good of ur family,u dont need to think of the gains but true be told men usually gain.

Statistically, men tend to gain if they are married and stick to their wife's than men with side chicks and men who are divorced or single.
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by Deicide: 3:29pm On Oct 18
ibechris:
If u take good of ur family,u dont need to think of the gains but true be told men usually gain.
Gain what?

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by Peemonny(m): 3:31pm On Oct 18
A man stands to gain a family, the fulfillment of being responsible

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by virginprincess(f): 4:03pm On Oct 18
Since men have nothing to gain in marriage, then why do they get married? undecided
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by Quality20(m): 4:06pm On Oct 18
D gain is that they won't be gossiped, and slandered the way single folks are
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by adegbenga80592: 4:37pm On Oct 18
:If u take good of ur family,u dont need to think of the gains but true be told men usually gain.Gain what?
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by CosmicPhoenix: 4:38pm On Oct 18
NOTHING

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by Truvel(m): 4:39pm On Oct 18
Dsame Things Ur Parents Gained When Dey Got Married, B4 & After Giving Birth To U.

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by Oracleforce: 5:36pm On Oct 18
virginprincess:
Since men have nothing to gain in marriage, then why do they get married? undecided

They get married it is economical to formalize the eating of one lady puna than to be paying 10k for ashewo or 50k for runs girls for just one hour fucking...

Think am now....if you give your wife 10k, you go chop inside the soup or food wey she go cook and you go still chop her ponmo after eating her food but if you give ashewo 10k or 50k....the money is just for the good service rendered....

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by NobleDeSage001: 5:56pm On Oct 18
A lot.
The list of things men gain in marriage are plenty.
See this article: http://vismuene.com/3myD
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by U1(m): 6:45pm On Oct 18
^^^La click la bend.
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by PhillipPHD: 6:53pm On Oct 18
Following. In need to know
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by dederocs(m): 6:54pm On Oct 18
Oracleforce:


They get married it is economical to formalize the eating of one lady puna than to be paying 10k for ashewo or 50k for runs girls for just one hour fucking...

Think am now....if you give your wife 10k, you go chop inside the soup or food wey she go cook and you go still chop her ponmo after eating her food but if you give ashewo 10k or 50k....the money is just for the good service rendered....
most reasonable answer angry
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by yomi007k(m): 7:56pm On Oct 18
Quality20:
D gain is that they won't be gossiped, and slandered the way single folks are

Who cares what people think or say?

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by GLYCOLYSISS(m): 8:16pm On Oct 18
Oracleforce:


They get married it is economical to formalize the eating of one lady puna than to be paying 10k for ashewo or 50k for runs girls for just one hour fucking...

Think am now....if you give your wife 10k, you go chop inside the soup or food wey she go cook and you go still chop her ponmo after eating her food but if you give ashewo 10k or 50k....the money is just for the good service rendered....
Why do people have these erroneous believe that married couple gets down anytime they like ?
Like, the sex in marriage is mindblowing .
Let me burst your bubble, married men most cases, have the most unsatisfactory sex than their single conterparts.
Nothing kills sexual urges and seduction
like familiarity, and that's exactly what marriage offers your nonstop.
I know they may not tell you these, but never sell marriage to people because of the false dream of constant sex, you will be disappointed.

Are you actually being serious that married couples spend lesser money on feeding compare to single guys ?
Because, to any reasonable person, these certainly a joke.
You're just inflating figures on the money single guys spend on women, even those patronizing street hoes don't spend such amount on a daily bases, even if they do, it's insignificant compare to the amount married guys spend daily to run family stuffs.
The only reasons that's conceivable why guys decide to go down the aisle is to raise
a family [which actually can be build in today's society without marriage ] and companionship [ which you can still get without marriage ].

Some actually do it for religious purpose [ like to "legally" get the sex, to appear responsible,reduce risk of venereal diseases etc].
I'm in no way kicking against marriage, only highlighting some reality points in these conversation.

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by iRepNaija1: 2:37am On Oct 19
1) Children (if they choose to have children) who bare their last name, who come from their village/town/state.
2) The opportunity to be emotionally vulnerable with a significant other. Men are taught from a very young age that displaying emotion is wrong, unsightly, and unmanly when in fact conveying emotion is just a human thing. Being with a woman, who is not usually looked down upon for displaying emotion, gives some men the chance to express themselves emotionally without being judged.
3) Usually, the responsibility of childrearing does not fall on husbands/fathers but wives/mothers. A number of people believe a man's responsibility toward his children is just providing money for clothing, food, and housing. Men are not to participate beyond those basic needs so some men would see that as a benefit.
4) Men who are unfaithful in their marriages are more accepted in Nigerian society than the other way. (Note: please don't take this point as me saying women don't cheat. That's not what I said).
5) Wife usually bears the husband's last name while sacrificing her own.
6) You're seen as more responsible and family-oriented

OP, I could go on and list more and you can either accept them or not. At the end of the day, seeing the benefit of marriage depends on your mindset. If you view it negatively, then nothing can disuade you from mentality. If you view marriage from positive standpoint, then you'll focus more on the positive aspects of it.

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by nigeriansamurai(m): 3:25am On Oct 19
iRepNaija1:
1) Children (if they choose to have children) who bare their last name, who come from their village/town/state.
2) The opportunity to be emotionally vulnerable with a significant other. Men are taught from a very young age that displaying emotion is wrong, unsightly, and unmanly when in fact conveying emotion is just a human thing. Being with a woman, who is not usually looked down upon for displaying emotion, gives some men the chance to express themselves emotionally without being judged.
3) Usually, the responsibility of childrearing does not fall on husbands/fathers but wives/mothers. A number of people believe a man's responsibility toward his children is just providing money for clothing, food, and housing. Men are not to participate beyond those basic needs so some men would see that as a benefit.
4) Men who are unfaithful in their marriages are more accepted in Nigerian society than the other way. (Note: please don't take this point as me saying women don't cheat. That's not what I said).
5) Wife usually bears the husband's last name while sacrificing her own.
6) You're seen as more responsible and family-oriented

OP, I could go on and list more and you can either accept them or not. At the end of the day, seeing the benefit of marriage depends on your mindset. If you view it negatively, then nothing can disuade you from mentality. If you view marriage from positive standpoint, then you'll focus more on the positive aspects of it.

Honestly you still haven't made a point your only making marriage sound like a duty
sha ill like you to continue with the list...

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by AstroG: 3:35am On Oct 19
Factfinder1:
What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage?


The only thing Men gains are physical disturbance,too much stress and emotional distortment

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by iRepNaija1: 11:52pm On Oct 19
nigeriansamurai:


Honestly you still haven't made a point your only making marriage sound like a duty
sha ill like you to continue with the list...

Wow. That's your takeaway? No wahala. Continue thinking whatever you want to. No one can convince you except yourself.
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by Cholls(m): 11:59pm On Oct 19
my brother a lot. Lord almighty please help me make the right choice with the woman I will marry amen. I love you God.
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by Liposure(m): 12:22am
Free sex, companionship, long life, happiness, prosperity and all other good things that comes with marriage

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by ednut1(m): 12:25am
sex, food, kids, no laundry and house chores grin

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Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by nigeriansamurai(m): 6:33am
iRepNaija1:


Wow. That's your takeaway? No wahala. Continue thinking whatever you want to. No one can convince you except yourself.

Im not against marriage sir but your points won't convince someone who is
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by J111333(m): 6:57am
virginprincess:
Since men have nothing to gain in marriage, then why do they get married? undecided
Dude is asking a question and simply needs answers, please neither put words in his mouth nor crucify anybody yet.

Me too, I'll like to learn the answers because the ones I supposedly have in mind may be wrong.
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 7:02am
fati2001:
MANY THINGS BASED ON THE TYPE OF MAN HE IS.

make a list
Re: What Do Men Stand To Gain In Marriage? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 7:05am
virginprincess:
Since men have nothing to gain in marriage, then why do they get married? undecided
Men want baby mama, females want marriage.

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