Every now and then I hear a section of single and married men say that they can't be faithful to one wife with the argument that sticking to one woman for a lifetime is like condemning oneself to eating only one diet or delicacy for life. Although that belief sounds funny to the ears, however, it's not really laughable. It's not!

Honestly, many men don't understand what marriage means and its implications. I am never surprised when some men say that anyway. To me, it's simply a sign of ignorance and godlessness.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment to one's spouse. We don't marry to "taste" and "test" other people sexually. Marriage signals or heralds the end of "sexual indiscipline". In fact, according to God's standard, we are supposed to enter marriage in a state of virginity. And those who lost their virginity, well God doesn't throw you away, alright? However, He commands you to lead a godly life in the area of sex henceforth.

Sex is very sweet. However, as spouses you are the ones to spice up your sex life by making it interesting, sweet, adventurous and romantic to both of you. Sex life shouldn't be boring, tiring or unappealing. It must be something that both of you should always be looking forward to.

There's nothing "sweet" or "sexy" about a married man having sex with different ladies. It's simply a sign of gross sexual irresponsibility and godlessness.

There's nothing sexual that a husband can't get from one wife. One wife has all the variety of "soups" or "delicacies", be it ogbono, onugbo, oha, nsala, eforiro, edikang ikong, ewedu, bongo tchobi, ndole, nkwui, okasi, fried, white or jollof rice, moin-moin, beans, plantains, fufu, eba, semo, etc. If you are looking at sex as a delicacy, then your wife has all the delicacies you like. Just change your mindset and attitude towards her.

I have been married for years. As a man, I also face sexual temptations like every other man out there. But I won't succumb to any of them for anything. My wife is enough, more than enough for me. To enjoy your marriage with your wife alone, you must be contented with her vagina. That's the raw truth many men don't want to come to terms with.

I will be blunt here: no woman is sweeter than the other woman. They all have the same thing. The only difference between your marriage and the marriages of those who are not cheating on their wives is contentment and the fear of God. No man who has the fear of God will be saying that he can't settle for just one woman in marriage. Truth be told: men who go after other women, generally have LUST issues but they won't admit it.

Now, let me stike the balance here:

Dear men, I would like you to know that women have sexual urge also. Don't think that women can't also say that they wish to try other men's penis just as you are always trying other women's vagina out there. Who told you that sexual indiscipline is MALE only? Whether men or women, we all feel the same way. But for the sake of contentment, respect of one's marital vows and most importantly the fear of God, many of those wives won't behave the wrong way. Dear men, please don't take the sexual discipline of your wives for granted. Because if they start doing what you do, please don't blame them. Cheating is wrong no matter who commits it. Cheating husbands should never be excused for their sexual misconduct.

Dear men, please cherish your wives with all your heart. Treat them like the queens they're. Sexual indiscipline is recklessness, wickedness, insensitivity, gross direspect to one's spouse and most importantly, godlessness. Like many men out there, I am proudly a happy married man to one wife. Together with my wife we are happy with ourselves, not because we have everything going on well for us, but because we're satisfied and contented with whom we are and what we have down there. That's the way to be happy in one's marriage.

Dear ladies one man should be enough for you, stop jumping from dick to dick

Ur write up is weird
The heading ..one wife shld be enough
One wife is Enough
But then again,men are not looking to marry two
They have one but keep mistress
Those that are into such, repent now
The ones that are thinking it, repent and leave fire alone

HRHQueenPhil:
Ur write up is weird The heading ..one wife shld be enough One wife is Enough But then again,men are not looking to marry two They have one but keep mistress Those that are into such, repent now The ones that are thinking it, repent and leave fire alone

but at least you got the message the writer is trying to pass across.

Very good write up.

This is the result of not smoking weed harder,,,,,,,,,


Wetin OP write abeg?


Me that i go marry like 7 to 9 wifes,,,,,,


Let us smoke weed harder,,,it give someone sense,,,,,,,,,,,

nice one

I like to see this

Allsingles:
Every now and then I hear a section of single and married men say that they can't be faithful to one wife with the argument that sticking to one woman for a lifetime is like condemning oneself to eating only one diet or delicacy for life. Although that belief sounds funny to the ears, however, it's not really laughable. It's not!

Honestly, many men don't understand what marriage means and its implications. I am never surprised when some men say that anyway. To me, it's simply a sign of ignorance and godlessness.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment to one's spouse. We don't marry to "taste" and "test" other people sexually. Marriage signals or heralds the end of "sexual indiscipline". In fact, according to God's standard, we are supposed to enter marriage in a state of virginity. And those who lost their virginity, well God doesn't throw you away, alright? However, He commands you to lead a godly life in the area of sex henceforth.

Sex is very sweet. However, as spouses you are the ones to spice up your sex life by making it interesting, sweet, adventurous and romantic to both of you. Sex life shouldn't be boring, tiring or unappealing. It must be something that both of you should always be looking forward to.

There's nothing "sweet" or "sexy" about a married man having sex with different ladies. It's simply a sign of gross sexual irresponsibility and godlessness.

There's nothing sexual that a husband can't get from one wife. One wife has all the variety of "soups" or "delicacies", be it ogbono, onugbo, oha, nsala, eforiro, edikang ikong, ewedu, bongo tchobi, ndole, nkwui, okasi, fried, white or jollof rice, moin-moin, beans, plantains, fufu, eba, semo, etc. If you are looking at sex as a delicacy, then your wife has all the delicacies you like. Just change your mindset and attitude towards her.

I have been married for years. As a man, I also face sexual temptations like every other man out there. But I won't succumb to any of them for anything. My wife is enough, more than enough for me. To enjoy your marriage with your wife alone, you must be contented with her vagina. That's the raw truth many men don't want to come to terms with.

I will be blunt here: no woman is sweeter than the other woman. They all have the same thing. The only difference between your marriage and the marriages of those who are not cheating on their wives is contentment and the fear of God. No man who has the fear of God will be saying that he can't settle for just one woman in marriage. Truth be told: men who go after other women, generally have LUST issues but they won't admit it.

Now, let me stike the balance here:

Dear men, I would like you to know that women have sexual urge also. Don't think that women can't also say that they wish to try other men's penis just as you are always trying other women's vagina out there. Who told you that sexual indiscipline is MALE only? Whether men or women, we all feel the same way. But for the sake of contentment, respect of one's marital vows and most importantly the fear of God, many of those wives won't behave the wrong way. Dear men, please don't take the sexual discipline of your wives for granted. Because if they start doing what you do, please don't blame them. Cheating is wrong no matter who commits it. Cheating husbands should never be excused for their sexual misconduct.

Dear men, please cherish your wives with all your heart. Treat them like the queens they're. Sexual indiscipline is recklessness, wickedness, insensitivity, gross direspect to one's spouse and most importantly, godlessness. Like many men out there, I am proudly a happy married man to one wife. Together with my wife we are happy with ourselves, not because we have everything going on well for us, but because we're satisfied and contented with whom we are and what we have down there. That's the way to be happy in one's marriage.

Bennysam:
Dear ladies one man should be enough for you, stop jumping from dick to dick

Sexual indiscipline is a common act among married men and women in this present age,even single on both sides are not left out.

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv


This one is confused and misguided..
Come to the north and tell a core muslim this trash.. They marry four.. and once a new lady court their attention .. they divorce one and bring her in..
Christians allow what the read in New testament to confuse them..
I trust Dem Alhaji's .. No time.

Even half is okay for me..

Starz825:

but at least you got the message the writer is trying to pass across.

I do. Thanks