Many gals have faced a lot of disappointment from the opposite when they are promise marriage. While some guys run away after she gets pregnant and others use that as a strategy to have their way in. How many guys have promise to marry their gal and keep to it or will keep to it? In America, it is a crime to promise to marry a gal and not fulfill it.

xynerise:

Many gals have faced a lot of disappointment from the opposite when they are promise marriage. While some guys run away after she gets pregnant and others use that as a strategy to have their way in. How many guys have promise to marry their gal and keep to it or will keep to it? In America, it is a crime to promise to marry a gal and not fulfill it.

are you saying people in US are fined or taken to court breaking after the engangement ?

I am saying you dont promise to marry a gal and you jilted her without reason.

xynerise:

I am saying you dont promise to marry a gal and you jilted her without reason.

as far as i know marriage is not forced, the reason mustnt make sense to jilted person but to the one giving it

Who dey promise who marriage? Mehn that's crap. Anyway, we no dey America so nothing spoil. Make girls wise up dey sharpen ears.

Onchedu:

Who dey promise who marriage? Mehn that's crap. Anyway, we no dey America so nothing spoil. Make girls wise up dey sharpen ears.

Or maybe men should wise up and stop making fake promises as they will later bite them for nyansh. Very lucky say some Naija girls no be like akata. Horror stories dey of men making promises after getting women pregnant. Some akata women chase their men, destroy their belongings, burn their houses, cars, you name it. Maybe that's what Naija girls should do. Problem solved.

ogugua88:

Or maybe men should wise up and stop making fake promises as they will later bite them for nyansh. Very lucky say some Naija girls no be like akata. Horror stories dey of men making promises after getting women pregnant. Some akata women chase their men, destroy their belongings, burn their houses, cars, you name it. [b]Maybe that's what Naija girls should do. Problem solved.

[/b]They can't try that in Naija.

Maka ki?

xynerise:

Many gals have faced a lot of disappointment from the opposite when they are promise marriage. While some guys run away after she gets pregnant and others use that as a strategy to have their way in. How many guys have promise to marry their gal and keep to it or will keep to it? In America, it is a crime to promise to marry a gal and not fulfill it.

ha!, Its a Crime asin against the law Crime??, lol, I never jam o, that's a new development! I thought a marriage proposal was supposedly verbal, never knew you had to sign a contract, pfftt.
@Poster, Love, pls get your facts right

^ you are surely living in the brooklyn.

xynerise:

^ you are surely living in the brooklyn.

But she's right nah, is it she or do they sign a contract for it?

Any man who impregnate a woman and runs away the moment she informs him is a not a man at all. I find those kind of batty boys to be cowards and immature. If you can’t step up to take care of your children then you are nothing/zilch/zero.

It’s not good to take broad view @ OP. Lots of men keep their promises. But those who don’t keep their promises, the least punishment a girl can do is let him go – because chances are if he’s gonna step on such a big vow (like not keeping the marriage underway) he may cheat in the long run.

Hmmm.

xynerise:

Many gals have faced a lot of disappointment from the opposite when they are promise marriage. While some guys run away after she gets pregnant and others use that as a strategy to have their way in. How many guys have promise to marry their gal and keep to it or will keep to it? In America, it is a crime to promise to marry a gal and not fulfill it.

Now, thats something Bogus!

^ hope you are catching?

i really frown at guys who promise marriage. Marriage is a contract between two people and should not be carried out as a way of showing favour to the other party.

xynerise:

^ you are surely living in the brooklyn.

I don't live in Brooklyn,

Mr, Cork:

My belief: A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband.

Lol. There is some truth to that


Seriously though. . . it is pretty fvcked up to promise marriage and then bail out. Especially the way Nigerian girls are. . . they'll pretty much do anything you want if they think you are serious With that said, women need to stop being fools too. Shine your eyes well well

190:

^^ Who are u

I leave Nairaland for a week and come back and see someone named BABE WITH SWOLLEN EYES!!

do you sell garri in the market!!

Judging from the reply you had for the topic alone, any special comeback line(s) for you is an absolute waste of time.

Advocator:

Any man who impregnate a woman and runs away the moment she informs him is a not a man at all. I find those kind of batty boys to be cowards and immature. If you can’t step up to take care of your children then you are nothing/zilch/zero.

It’s not good to take broad view @ OP. Lots of men keep their promises. But those who don’t keep their promises, the least punishment a girl can do is let him go – because chances are if he’s gonna step on such a big vow (like not keeping the marriage underway) he may cheat in the long run.

True.

Hnmmm a crime to promise and fail,na wa o that must be something.

That is if she knows her right and sues him.