Don't try it. Abstain from premarital sex. It may ruin your entire life. Be careful with social media relationship so that it will not end in premium tears.
positivevibez: Guy run o she's HIV positive and wants to spread it to any naive guy out there happened to someone I know 5 mins pleasure can put you in an early grave be wise tufiakwa.
This was what I was about to say. You better run away from her. She wants to dash you HIV free of charge.
Uthman122: Some ladies are truly allergic to latex, I've met one before, if you don't trust her simply do test to ensure you guys are safe then go ahead to do whatever you want to do or don't have sex with her at all, it's as simple as that. I don't see how this is a big issue
Even if the test comes out negative, what if the HIV is incubating in the window period?
Tallino25: This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point. So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves. Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.
My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so) I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though As the thread continues I can give more insights though Pls your take ??
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Please go ahead and have sex with her since you don't want to have sense. Your concern is not if she might rope you with pregnancy gotten from outside or a deadly disease. I feel most stories like this are usually fake just to keep the youths busy with arguments or to keep this site running.
Tallino25: This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point. So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves. Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.
My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so) I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though As the thread continues I can give more insights though Pls your take ??
If u love each , simply wait until u marry her , sex no d finish
Goan run a test for HIV and STDs if negative, give her what she wants, some girls love it raw. I remember the day I bleeped Nkechi and used withdrawal method, she didn't talk 2me tru out that day. They believe in that fluid so well
Tallino25: This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point. So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves. Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.
My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so) I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though As the thread continues I can give more insights though Pls your take ??
Please go ahead and have sex with her since you don't want to have sense. Your concern is not if she might rope you with pregnancy gotten from outside or a deadly disease. I feel most stories like this are usually fake just to keep the youths busy with arguments or to keep this site running.
no bro it's not fake, this shit happened to me and I barely escaped with My life
Ebenezer202I: no bro it's not fake, this shit happened to me and I barely escaped with My life
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Good you escaped. People can be very deceptive. The young lady is cooking up something. My only worries is the rate at which fake stories flies around on nairaland. Let the guy keep asking funny questions, he should go ahead and have sex, since he doesn't know what to do.
Don't fall for it. If she's allergic, she might be latex sensitive and you can find latex-free condoms.
If you cant, abeg just back down. Don't play around with unprotected sex.
Tallino25: This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point. So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves. Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.
My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so) I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though As the thread continues I can give more insights though Pls your take ??
Tallino25: This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point. So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves. Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.
My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so) I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though As the thread continues I can give more insights though Pls your take ??
You guys met online and fell in love?! Wawu! Wondafu! Lucky you, anyways, I've never heard of allergies arising as a result of using CDs, look it up, ask a doctor or Google it! Ensure you both go to the hospital when she's around to have tests done (you both) so as to ensure you're both free, also know your genotypes should you wish to go on with the relationship after you must have met.
Op. Buy pampers, baby's milk, baby's clothes, call ur mum to visit u around august september for omugo, tell ur homecell fellowship about the naming ceremony and thanksgiving service. Then go and collect list from the gals pepu. Shikenan! No stress marriage don start. Or buy vaseline and forget all this processes. You re welcom
Most people get into a relationship just because they are now of age and do not have a reason to be in love or fall out of love. Being responsible in a relationship/marriage as a man or being the icing of the relationship on a steady is what a lady should be on the lookout for. You cannot just be all about sex and styles and how lasting you can be on bed or what you can receive on bed alone. There are values that makes the world a better place for both families and friends. Start by asking the right questions and you will do your self a gigantic favor in your relationship. Lets kick it off with these simple questions, shall we.....comment below if you have a question you think should be added and hit me up if you need anything at all, monetry wise or relationship wise
U dey count ur chicken when dem never hash the egg, make she come first, carry go lab run test both HIV, STDs after that u can decide what next to according the result.
Tallino25: This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point. So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves. Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.
My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so) I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though As the thread continues I can give more insights though Pls your take ??
How do know she is faithful? Is it because she said so, Do you have access to her Facebook and WhatsApp? You will be surprised if you see her chats. The way she toast you is the way she flirts with others guys. Never trust a girl (especially long distance relationship).
Tallino25: This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point. So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves. Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.
My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so) I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though As the thread continues I can give more insights though Pls your take ??