nwaezeemmanuel:
You didn't read my previous comments where i talked about masturbation and other alternatives.

Most Nairalanders read halfway and jump to their keypads.

SAMBARRY:
I read it.its better she gets addicted to dildos than addicted to adultery

Which one destroys sex life faster?

Selfish much

You travel and expect her to be celibate?

nwaezeemmanuel:
Then you didn't read it well. I'm not kicking against intimacy gadgets.

SAMBARRY:
so your point is?

Petyprincess:
I ain't married but i have noticed countless thread of men complaining their wife deny them sex while i have never seen a post of a woman lamenting the same problem which makes me wonder maybe these men aren't doing something right that made their wife loose interest in sex.

Nd also typical working class nigerian wife gets stressed coupled with responsibility of taking care of the house nd family hw will she have appetite for sex? Nigerian horseband husband needs to be considerate! Help her with house chores!

Petyprincess:
I ain't married but i have noticed countless thread of men complaining their wife deny them sex while i have never seen a post of a woman lamenting the same problem which makes me wonder maybe these men aren't doing something right that made their wife loose interest in sex.

Nd also typical working class nigerian wife gets stressed coupled with responsibility of taking care of the house nd family hw will she have appetite for sex? Nigerian horseband husband needs to be considerate! Help her with house chores!

Petyprincess:
I ain't married but i have noticed countless thread of men complaining their wife deny them sex while i have never seen a post of a woman lamenting the same problem which makes me wonder maybe these men aren't doing something right that made their wife loose interest in sex.

Nd also typical working class nigerian wife gets stressed coupled with responsibility of taking care of the house nd family hw will she have appetite for sex? Nigerian horseband husband needs to be considerate! Help her with house chores!

nwaezeemmanuel:
To be fair, there are also some women that don't know they are depriving their husbands of sex. They often blame it on mood, and want a perfect alignment before they can consent to it.

In this case, such a woman can try to go out of her way because sometimes the desire for sex comes after arousal and not before.

Mutual understanding is still needed though. Beating a partner, verbal abuse, cheating. These are destructive options for a sex-starved marriage

Oizee:
my sister, it's not about chores, once children start coming everything tends to change with women but, if they can just be a little patience, things can still get normal with time.

Petyprincess:

Yeah but let's not forget mood is an important factor to get intimate! Please who even gets Hot with situation in Nigeria?

Married men needs to be understanding, i have older married friend whom is always busy nd it makes me understand average married woman living in Nigeria

lilyheaven:

He said wife , not girl friend.
Stop the spread of fornication

Back to Op
It’s two months already, he has been out of town due to business.
What should I do?
I need it badly this night.

lilyheaven:

The more I sexchat, the more I feel Hot.
I don masturbate tire
Good morning

Nuttella:
Masturbation invites sexual demons into your marriage. Stop it.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Hmm, what if she can't hold it in?!

Nuttella:
She can if she wants to.

nwaezeemmanuel:
I know, but it can be hard for most people.

Nuttella:
Masturbation invites sexual demons into your marriage. Stop it.

Nuttella:
A person that can control their sexual urge is a dangerous person.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Of course, i understand.

These are the tests that come with marriage, if it gets too serious talk it out with him - he needs to know.

If you want to consider masturbating just to ease yourself, carry him along as well.

lilyheaven:

I’m waiting patiently

lilyheaven:

Only two months ooo.
Those that have stayed longer I remove cap for them.

But the urge is something that comes and goes,
It is not like I spend the whole day thinking about it.

Mostly on my luteal phase

nwaezeemmanuel:
Of course! I understand. Men get busy too.

At some point in marriage, couples learn to have routine sex. Especially during those busy and tough times, just to keep their sex life going.

It may not have the best of orgasms but it's scheduled and there is mutual agreement.

Petyprincess:

You not average nairaland guy so i ain't surprised you understanding

Mutual understanding nd agreement is the deal

Nuttella:
Sorry to ask but are you a housewife?

nwaezeemmanuel:
Most Nairalanders read halfway and jump to their keypads.

nwaezeemmanuel:
I was just adding by the side that married women should strike a balance and be careful not to get too attached to intimacy gadgets or masturbation.

ceeceeuwa:
Life of a married woman with kids is not easy abeg!
It's usually a routine.Back home from work or Hustle, do dishes, make dinner, help the kids with home work, bath them and put them to bed, make preparations for the next day before you retire to bed... it will take lots of pre-intimacy and cajoling to get the woman in the right mood for sex. A mind blowing sex that will subsequently lead to a climax is also a stress relief!

Petyprincess:
I ain't married but i have noticed countless thread of men complaining their wife deny them sex while i have never seen a post of a woman lamenting the same problem which makes me wonder maybe these men aren't doing something right that made their wife loose interest in sex.

Nd also typical working class nigerian wife gets stressed coupled with responsibility of taking care of the house nd family hw will she have appetite for sex? Nigerian horseband husband needs to be considerate! Help her with house chores!

Petyprincess:
I ain't married but i have noticed countless thread of men complaining their wife deny them sex while i have never seen a post of a woman lamenting the same problem which makes me wonder maybe these men aren't doing something right that made their wife loose interest in sex.

Nd also typical working class nigerian wife gets stressed coupled with responsibility of taking care of the house nd family hw will she have appetite for sex? Nigerian horseband husband needs to be considerate! Help her with house chores!