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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by pansophist(m): 5:33pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
And the mod will not push this to the frontpage. Seems like nairaland mods needs to put people in bondage with their selective spotlighting of awesome post. Nice one ubunja. Respect! 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Keskyramirez: 5:34pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
UNBJA your works have opened my eyes to d simphood i have put myself in , this is my time of commenting here , am tired of dis simphood ,hw do i get out and regain my respect again 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by CaveAdullam: 5:39pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Some persons are having glitches with these "miseducation", because they have erroneously alluded it to mean zombeism on the part of the woman. I think the choice of word here cause these glitches: control vs lead. Glitch fixed! Alright, women want to be led under a dominant and masculine man who knows his onions and what it takes to be masculine as the author of the thread has made us known.(Please, take note of the social vices and habits common among male which in the long run are detrimental to their health e.g smoking). Women share the chromosome(X allele) and the hormones(dopamine, prolactin, oxytocin) that are also peculiar to men. And a brain also. For this reason, both sexes will exhibit the recessive traits of the other even though the polarity between them is enormous. Therefore, men do not seek absolute zombeism in women, but women who at least display a reasonable amount of logic; for handling controversial matters, independence; to carry out work within her femininity and household, smartness; to maneuver her way around difficult hedges, boldness; to face her fears, and intelligence;to proffer solutions to any problem in the relationship. The media, government, bad economy, technology has decrepit femininity and masculinity, and the corollary effect is what we all are experiencing presently. A great misnomer indeed! Ubunja has done a nice work here, and I know that if this information enters a wider scale, it will go a long way in restoring femininity and masculinity. Thanks. God bless. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 5:41pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
mename:and only you will reap the benefits. Stay feminine, stay happy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by stanliwise(m): 5:46pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
pansophist:Research and post not backed up by research references. All is make believe and mass generalization 3 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Akinbahm(m): 5:47pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Theslumflower: No offence bro, despite Ubunja explaination from simple to complex you still went ahead and quote the whole thing out of context. You mentioned we should raise our daughters that way or so, even my unborn daughter(s) knows I wont raise her up to be competing with men out there but rather men competing to marry her off... You as a man in all honesty do you want your wife to take charge over your duties at home, she bossing the house and you dancing to her rules & regulations. No man is feeling insecure here unless you have agenda towards nature cause that's ow nature wired both parties to operate not the other way round... Lemme drop this as a case study. I have a girl in custody which I wouldn't mind her to be the mother of my kids do you know why am having a rethink over it is because her femininity side is drying up all because she doesn't want one man to be bossing her around on top financial issues. I repeat no man want a woman to retain his role in a relationship nd no woman want a man to retain her role in relationship that's why no matter ow successful/rich a woman is to find a loyal man who's below her financial status is hard cause the woman has ruined her feminine of receiving not giving also, it's hard for a man to stay loyal to a woman giving him because he has ruined his masculine of giving not receiving. At Theslumflower 5 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Akinbahm(m): 6:01pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
stanliwise: The creator who created them when he was describing them he compared their nature as that of an egg that analogy shows how fragile they are nd ow they should be treated. Who I am to be twisting the word of God? Now because we human are superior over egg does that mean we should handle them carelessly? NO and who even dare handle egg carelessly? we being superior to women doesnt give us the room to maltreat them bro deep it. Note: 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by stanliwise(m): 6:08pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Akinbahm:Where is the part God said the male gender is superior? I think you’re confusing “value” with “role” 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Akinbahm(m): 6:17pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
stanliwise: |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by stanliwise(m): 6:19pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Akinbahm:Oh Allah, that is your own religion 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Akinbahm(m): 6:22pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
stanliwise: Yeah, and have gave you the evidence u seeked for so, let it slide. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 6:48pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
DontBullshitMe:if women knew what men are ready to do for them they would keep quiet, sit back and simply enjoy. Too bad women have been trained to compete against men. And they're failing miserably. Men are are smarter, stronger and faster and any woman trying to top that will exhaust herself. But for all their gifts, men are ready to use these in the service of that woman who doesn't seek to compete with them. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by BigDick70inch(m): 6:54pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
ubunja: U can never go wrong bro!!! We need more of dis biko!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 7:15pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
luwiizy:luwiizy that poverty mindset is a monster that has to be defeated. Too many people are not benefitting from the blessings before them because mentally they are not ready to receive. It even applies to women and sex. Too many men are used to struggling to get women, and when they meet that woman who wants them automatically without making them struggle first, they can't accept it because they have told themselves the only things of value are those you have to sweat and struggle for. And so these men let perfectly good chances go. But men must learn to love themselves first. I have a writeup on my phone from almost two years ago on how men must first date themselves for a while before looking for a woman. I will have to update and post it one of these days. Men need to fall in love with themselves first. Then they'll appreciate it when another person falls in love with them. 19 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Degrezhaa: 7:30pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
ubunja:Please do boss it will be of great help to many guys unplugging from the matrix |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 7:32pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
kurupt1:yes. Women will submit depending on the man. That's why I never want to debate people too much on this submission topic because a woman will naturally submit to the man she respects WITHOUT even the man asking for it. If your GF is not submitting you're not the One for her. Dont even ask her to submit because if you have to ask already you're not worthy in her eyes. These things will happen automatically. You can't ask, demand or force a woman to submit. The right ONE will submit without you even saying anything. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Martinez39s(m): 7:39pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Nice! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Nobody: 7:46pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Martinez39s:i hate you |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by HolySword: 7:46pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 7:54pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Theslumflower:these writeups are usually very long and I have to cut out paragraphs for brevity because NL has a limit on words. Here is one of the paragraphs I edited out: A WORKING GIRL'S GUIDE TO FEMININITY. If you're a working woman, your road to femininity is by finding a man who thinks you're too pretty to work, who'll allow you to stop working but continue to pay you your salary in the form of an allowance. Which is not as impossible as it sounds. This will make you a "kept woman". This road, if you stay on it, ends blissfully with you being the all-feminine stay-at-home wife who's paid to stay at home while other women leave their children every morning to waste their youth slaving 9 to 5 for some BossMan whose wife is also a stay-at-home wife like you. Bliss. -------------------------------------------- Now listen Slumflower, there's a wrong way of doing a right thing. And stay at home wives do the right thing the wrong way. Staying at home is not a problem if your husband pays you a salary. Actually many women have this arrangement with their man. And it works wonders for the woman by keeping her provided for. Bonus points if she has a maid or two to do the housework. Then she has all the time to stay fresh for her man. You guys don't understand the game or how best you can keep your woman happy and rested and ready to nurture you. You just need hustlers and career women who bring nothing to the table cause they can't even do anything for you because they are exhausted just like you after a long day at work. I pity you. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by drLammy(m): 7:54pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
ubunja: Abeg I don't get this bruh |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Oldoinyolengai(m): 8:20pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
ubunja:Why don't you set your daughter to become masculine woman as masculine women are projected to dominate many aspects of life. Secondly, your original post is about femininity, energy which you said it occurs in both genders, mostly in females. Share a little bit of it in males, why is it in male, how does it get increased or decreased in males. Apart from the environmental and social factors, is genetics not responsible for masculine and feminine energies in both genders? Thanks. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 8:34pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Oldoinyolengai:I can't raise my daughter masculine because it will kill her. There's a reason modern progressive women have all kinds of mental disorders and are largely depressed. Masculinity in women is not healthy, it's Plan B, when all else has failed and she has to save herself. My girl will grow up a feminine lady. The only time I'll talk about male femininity will be in the context of gold digging. Because that's the only angle that matters as far as the miseducations are concerned. I'll write on it because men who want to live off women have to be in the right state to achieve that. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Theslumflower: 8:52pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
ubunja:I totally understand your point. But never forget this is 21st century. Everything works hand in hand right now, how many men have enough money to live this kind of lifestyle, that is paying their wife allowances to just stay at home and be pretty and feminine for them. How many men? Without disrespecting the woman The problem is not women losing their femininity but men losing their masculinity because a high number of men do not have enough money or are not rich enough to have a "kept woman". Men you have in mind have money, I mean real money which most young men these days don't have but you won't blame them; life is hard. And you know being a feminine woman is expensive and the said men are supposed to fund it, which is unfortunate because most men these days don't have that kind of money. And that's why most men these days want a supportive wife, a.k.a wife that works so she can help out. Trust me I get you, being feminine as a woman is beautiful but all these things work hand in hand. You can't be a "kept woman" without a very rich man. Unfortunately, we don't have a lot of them these days that can comfortably finance a feminine woman without turning her a liability. So the problem is not women. P.s I'm not talking about feminists. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Oldoinyolengai(m): 9:01pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
ubunja:Got you very well, especially on the first paragraph. I once lived in a town full of tourists activities. I witnessed the way European (white) women were behaving like men, smoking excessively, drinking hard liquor, talk less of the way they dressed and their whole lives in general. And I think the more women are entering men's domain, the same rate they encounter with men's challenges. Very soon the gap between genders lifespans will be balanced, meaning women could be dying at the same rate as men. 3 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Theslumflower: 9:03pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Akinbahm:Bossing you around because of financial issues lol If you have money, no woman will boss you around because of financial issues. That's why you are the man. So go get the money and see her feminine side Ubunja said it clearly, when u as a man plays your masculine role, then her femininity comes out naturally. P.s I'm a lady 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Akinbahm(m): 9:45pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Theslumflower: She's not bossing me av modified the comment biko re visit it. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ichidodo: 10:43pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
This has to qualify as miseducation for the ladies...Yeah?..Teaching them how to snag guys especially unsuspecting simps, No?.. 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 11:34pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Theslumflower:it doesn't need like a very rich man to enable a stay-at-home wife. Anything middle income can do. But I get you because that's the point I made when I said femininity is costly. If a man can't afford a stay-at-home wife then he must accept that his wife won't be very feminine. Because when a woman contributes 50/50 into a relationship it's no longer a masculine/feminine relationship. But a man has become feminine a lot just as the woman has become masculine to a great extent. And a man loses a lot of the respect due him. The easiest way for many men to have a feminine woman would be to date way below their class. Which many men will never do. 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 11:51pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Oldoinyolengai:the laws of health we break in our youths we pay for as we grow older. Many people were marveling at how Biden, separated by only 3 years from Trump, looks a whole lot aged like they have a 15 year difference or something. But Trump lives a healthy lifestyle so he's much younger looking. These women will pay the price for living like men and will go down the grave earlier than women of past generations. Already the incessant 9-5 work life is playing havoc with women's health, it will get worse. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Regex: 11:58pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
Theslumflower: Boy if you do not have issues with the words BROKE, CANNOT FINANCE. Any who, when a woman is being feminine, she's just being selfish in a subtle, cute way that instead of reprimanding her, you just wanna cuddle her and fuvk her brains out. From the examples ubunja gave, nothing really stops a woman from calling a plumber to fix the pipe before her husband comes back. But she decided to wait for her husband to be back and make the call. She just achieved a lot with one stone. This is how it goes. Pipe spoils, she waits, pauses everything for husby to be back, husby comes back, either fixes it or calls the plumber, she looks so grateful like that pipe was her life and husby just saved her from drowning. She rewards husby with sex, doesn't have to be mind blowing, but it just have to be special for you know, fixing the pipe (mind you, kitchen is still messy), tell me after the sex, what request will she make and her husband will not fulfill? The husband will do her request, not because of the sex(heck it's like every other day sex) but because she recognized he's the man of the house. She got all she wanted with one stone! And as for those too broke to manage a home (men), like I pointed out earlier, being selfish in a subtle and cute way yet so ruthless. There are families where the man hasn't got much going for him financially, but the wife ain't working, yet the man isn't complaining. Check such homes, you'd notice that, the house isn't kept at all the time. It's all a game. And it's best played by women who know what they truly are. Forget about finances on the man... A woman who wants to get married to an average man and not work herself will do it. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Martinez39s(m): 12:02am On Nov 10, 2020 |
ichidodo:Ubunja is not teaching anyone how to snag guys even though such can be obtained in the OP. His primary focuses are to discuss the following: (1) What femininity is all about, (2) Its relationship with masculinity, (3) The conditions that fosters both "energies" (masculinity and femininity) in females, (4) The power of femininity, and (5) How a woman can be feminine. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
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