Dear ma,

My name is Judith (not real name). I am 29 years old. I have been in a relationship with my fiancé for 2 years plus. He is the only son of his mother who is widowed. He has two sisters, both are married.

Since we been dating, we been planning our wedding cos he told me that he wants to get married quickly to bear children and keep the father’s name alive. The only reason we did not get married sooner is because we sometimes have disagreements that make me fear that our marriage may not work out.

Like I said, been an only child, the pressure is a bit much. I feel I will be put under the same pressure once we get married. He may want a male child very strongly. Even though he says he does not mind the gender of our children but his mother sometimes asks me when are we getting married, when are you giving me a grand son?

Most importantly, we argue a lot and I feel he is.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/09/my-fiance-i-argue-a-lot-will-our-marriage-be-a-happy-one/

Yes, that is when both of you are learning each other, many successful marriages passed through this phase.

Chicagoesontop:
Yes, that is when both of you are learning each other, many successful marriages passed through this phase.

Maturity is key.
Maturity is learning to give way even when you know you are right.
Acting foolish, even when you are wise.


Its hard to learn but easy to do.

We are all learning

Not really good

If there is no understanding, then it is a potential disaster

Rabbi4real:
Dear ma,

My name is Judith (not real name). I am 29 years old. I have been in a relationship with my fiancé for 2 years plus. He is the only son of his mother who is widowed. He has two sisters, both are married.

Since we been dating, we been planning our wedding cos he told me that he wants to get married quickly to bear children and keep the father’s name alive. The only reason we did not get married sooner is because we sometimes have disagreements that make me fear that our marriage may not work out.

Like I said, been an only child, the pressure is a bit much. I feel I will be put under the same pressure once we get married. He may want a male child very strongly. Even though he says he does not mind the gender of our children but his mother sometimes asks me when are we getting married, when are you giving me a grand son?

Most importantly, we argue a lot and I feel he is.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/09/my-fiance-i-argue-a-lot-will-our-marriage-be-a-happy-one/

Just allowed him talk does not mean your a fool simple you both need to fvvk to have kids like seriously...

Anytime you're angry don't talk at all because things go spoil,


Just do what I always do fly like a monkey to parlour to watch any program dat you like

No. Quit it.

Did you not notice these attitudes before accepting his proposal?

lian555:
Did you not notice these attitudes before accepting his proposal?

hmnnnn