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Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by efficiencie(m): 10:13pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
Only a fool marries to fulfil a norm...if you don't need a spouse stay single. Any attempt to get married without seeing the need for marriage will result in a catastrophe! |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Nov 10, 2020 |
Do what makes you happy. You're in control of your life and have the freewill to live it as you wish. |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by Anonnn: 1:12pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Ayaaz: I really appreciate your input... I really do... You have got very valid points here. But I have actually tried speaking to a few older people and honestly, all the answers I'm getting after any long discussion is always along the lines of - "It's ideal to have a companion", "Why putting yourself through troubles by not settling down?", "You are not even supposed to be heard saying such", "Are you called to serve in the Religious line? If not, don't stress yourself trying to stay alone", "This is strange coming from a lady when others are fighting to marry, are you sure this is not spiritual?" and so many others. I've finally concluded that the society has a huge hand in why they say this and so seeking advice from such people is not a good idea. Or wat do you think? |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by Anonnn: 1:13pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
efficiencie:Bless you... I really appreciate this openness. |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by Anonnn: 1:14pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
DimplesLikeWow:Thank you for this... I appreciate 1 Like |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by Nobody: 3:27pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Anonnn: The institution of marriage has beeen devalued today because most of the benefits it secures are easily gotten without it nowadays, alas, with much dysfunction accompanying them You clearly believe you don't need marriage to achieve your set goals, inversely, if marriage would help you achieve them, you would be for it It seems you're focusing on what you want and not the big picture, this is one of the effects of the prevailing individualism of the times Marriage is important to society because it's the bedrock of it, any balanced society is pro-marriage. The fact that people close to you advocate for it shows you're from a good background Marriage is about the good of everyone, i.e you, your spouse and all concerned. You've lived a single life all your life and you know what it entails and what you could achieve, married life would open up a whole new world of possibilities to you and unlock a side of you that only it can It's not just about society, marriage has primary importance on an individual level also Note that i'm also someone just buying into the idea of marriage myself, hence, i understand you |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by Nwaotu10(m): 4:23pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Dear, I don't know you, but Providence wouldn't forgive me if I didn't tell you this: There's absolutely nothing wrong in wanting to stay alone. Forget about the perception the society has or will have about you, and do what makes you happy, what you drive tremendous joy in. Remember, death is coming. So, forget about what people would say and do the thing(s) that you derive joy from. My love for promiscuity will make me to be single all through my life, and I don't care what society deems about it so long am happy. |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by Womanizer(m): 4:37pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Shortyy: Rev sisters don't get married but they get freaky with the Rev fathers under the sheets if you know what I mean |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by BronzeMajik(f): 6:58am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:I can see you don't know anything Mr Charles.. |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by Uzomacharles: 7:04am On Nov 12, 2020 |
BronzeMajik: I can see you know everything |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by BronzeMajik(f): 7:17am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:thanks sir.. enjoy your day |
Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by Uzomacharles: 7:19am On Nov 12, 2020 |
BronzeMajik:Wish you same
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Re: Anything Wrong In Me (a Female) Deciding Not To Have A Partner? by fati2001(m): 7:30am On Nov 12, 2020 |
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