Nelbless:

Am in love to a girl a year younger than my self, my main aim of posting this[b] massage [/b] in this forum is because am a bit confuse, by His grace, i acquired a sound education in and out of Nigeria and presently a distance student of university of shelfield, but suddenly i found my self in love with this girl, yes she loves me so dearly, and i love her too
but to be honest her level of education to mine is very low, due to the situations of things in her family, she did accounting in a polythecnic (ond). though one quality in her that made me so comfortable with her is her understanding, she's enconomical, petient and every other thing a man desires, but she can't SPEAK GOOD ENGLISH AND CAN NOT HAVE ANY SOUND ADVICE OR IDEAS ON WHAT ONE CAN DO TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE.i have tried my able best to know if i will get her, inlove with reading, engaging her in things that wil brush her knowledge and make her sharp in thinking and presentable to the caliber of my friends, but she is the type that dont have any hunger in learning.
recently i met a fresh graduate, very young but match the exact girl am looking for (intelligence), Am always swept off my feet when ever i interact with this second girl, plz advice me plz

justwise:

That girl will be better of without you, do you think you are educated? Think again.

Basildon1:

LMAO!

At the same time, bear in mind that there are many people that cant speak good english but are very well educated. But i get the point here, pot calling kettle black!

Ranoscky:

Well, I think Alagha & just wise have said it all. OP, do you stil need my advice? Then I wil advice you to stay glued to your 1st love!  

SA Goddess:

Very true but funny nonetheless

Basildon1:

LMAO!  

At the same time, bear in mind that there are many people that cant speak good english but are very well educated. But i get the point here, pot calling kettle black!

SA Goddess:



Don't talk about education and have tons of errors in your write up, it is funny!

alagha:

education is not the real thing in marriage ,pls concentrate with your heart fill love and make her yours.

@ Alagha Who told you education is no big deal in marriage except if you are an illiterate
thats when you wont bother your head with such issue,
Are you limiting the poster or who told you he wont be a public figure in future
or are you advising him to keep his wife at home whenever he is going to a public
function Alagha you are wrong with that your claim  

Odunnu:

What a post!
@Justwise, easy mahn

justwise:

Education is not only about the paper qualification, its the whole 'you', that include the way you treat others and your view on things. Yes mistakes are bound to be made but i don't think he is the best person to teach the gf English language.

justwise:

Education is not only about the paper qualification, its the whole 'you', that include the way you treat others and your view on things. Yes mistakes are bound to be made but i don't think he is the best person to teach the gf English language.

Well I dont think English language is as difficult as Latin or Arabic language so whats stopping him from teaching her if he genuinely loves her  

alagha:

education is not the real thing in marriage

Nelbless:

You are Blessed Kay Money, That is exactly what i'm pinpointing, i've always struggled to limit her from knowing some of my friends, yes she've got all the elegant and poise but, communication is one big huddle (i mean in accurate english) she's having, but i must confess, " i love this girl so dearly" but she ain't learning not even with all my efforts. i wouldn't want to see my future disapear b4 my very eyes, plz comment more Naira landers

If you truelly love her the bulk of the job resides with you,
Since she can count ABC, Z correctly
the  job is simple,
Start with parts of speech to singular and plural etc
but bros e no go easy ooo , Since love conquers all the battle will be won sha

kay-money:

Well I dont think English language is as difficult as Latin or Arabic language so whats stopping him from teaching her if he genuinely loves her  

SA Goddess:

Kwawkakwakwakwak, stop it already, you are going to make me choke on my lunch

Nelbless:

You are Blessed Kay Money, That is exactly what i'm pinpointing, i've always struggled to limit her from knowing some of my friends, yes she've got all the elegant and poise but, communication is one big huddle (i mean in accurate english) she's having, but i must confess, " i love this girl so dearly" but she ain't learning not even with all my efforts. i wouldn't want to see my future disapear b4 my very eyes, plz comment more Naira landers

SA Goddess:

Just make sure you teach her the right things dude, otherwise you two will have problems!

@Sa Goddess you are fuelling the situation here
God is your witness

kay-money:

@Sa Goddess you are fuelling the situation here
God is your witness

justwise:

Trust me its hard to learn from somebody who puts u down. She need to learn from a friendly environment, a place she will feel free to make mistakes and laugh it over. not with some highly 'educated professor'

But mind you when you call a girl your girlfriend I dont think the issue of putting her down
or making her feel inferior  should come in here The more reason he must be sure if he
truelly loves this babe in question,  But to me its very simple I can take it upon myself
and polish that aspect that is rough in her Yes i can

kay-money:

@Sa Goddess you are fuelling the situation here
God is your witness

justwise:

SA Goddess  is a bad  influence

SA Goddess:

   

I swear I am not trying to cause trouble but "Operation Rescue" is doomed before it even begins by the look of things but like everybody else, I believe love overcomes all      

Hahaha @ Operetional rescue  
Do you forsee a Tsunami coming