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| Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by KBORN(m): 8:41pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Good evening nairalanders, This lady i intended to marry and we love each other reasonably. The father of the lady approved but the mother said over her dead body that she is not in support .The father told me again not to worry. My girl and her mum attend a white -garment church.So she told me that her mum did not approve because she got a "message" that we cannot marry;that there will not be child between us.Now my girl is pregnant and i wonder how possible.The mum sent her packing to my place and refused to change her mind.What could be happening somewhere that i don't know? #Advice me. #nobodyisallknowing 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by Nobody: 8:45pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Just curious why are you wondering. |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by olamide0147: 8:46pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Bro no kwem just dey look her, as for your pregnant girlfriend take her in and take good care of her and the unborn child immediately she put to bed send her back to her family. Am sure they will come begging you to marry her for free. 5 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by KBORN(m): 8:47pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
uruba23:Is that an advice? |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by SmileDance(f): 8:48pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
KBORN:well your girl is pregnant already and she’s with you, you can go ahead and get married since you have her father’s support, it’s a risk you should take only if you are willing, if the girl wasn’t pregnant already I would have advised that you stay away from the family because it can be frustrating to marry someone who believes in all those prophets and seers. What is left for you now is to be prayerful and ask your girl what she wants: does she also believe in the ‘message’ from the white garment church? Does she love you enough to stay through thick and thin? Wish you all the best 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by Nobody: 8:49pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
KBORN:I need to understand your wondering perhaps you are doubting the paternity of your kids just want clarification before any advice. |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by KBORN(m): 8:52pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
uruba23:Exactly.i cant spend a dime on another man's child.Have done blood test but i dont trust that because her mother said we cant have a child toger.so how come? |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by Brandonx(m): 8:54pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
 your woman has probably gone to check it's very common amongst ladies.Op if you both love yourselves you can go ahead but if she's very close to the mother just move on and make sure you take care of your child. If you go ahead with the marriage  na 1 scatter candle the woman go burn on your picture with your full name  |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by KBORN(m): 8:54pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
olamide0147:Am already thinking in that direction except that am not sure. |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by Nobody: 8:56pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
KBORN:It is difficult for me to give advice with regard to this. If it you were sure it is your child I would have simply say you should go ahead since it is the father that gives out a child but with this additional information permit me to keep quiet. Which one is blood test you need a DNA test I believe that can happen only when the child is born, but I stand to be corrected. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by lomprico(m): 8:56pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
KBORN: marry your girl joo! the winch plan don already fail. Aramide don Carry belle |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by KBORN(m): 9:08pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
SmileDance:Thanks.my girl told me that it was her mum that planned all those 'messages' but what if the message is true,then i cant be the one responsible for the pregnancy.Hope U get it now? |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by thesicilian: 9:10pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
That you even believe all those 'messages' is a wonder to me. |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by KBORN(m): 9:19pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
thesicilian: 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by Daniiel: 9:19pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
KBORN: just keep mute concerning the marriage issue ... after delivery send her back to her mum ... that your own prophet saw a vision that the child is not yours. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by donbachi(m): 9:32pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Ur girl don go carry belle for another guy..just to prove her mum wrong..athink na here i dey. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by zyzxx(m): 9:36pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
much is on the kind of person the lady is... That will determine how far she will go with you After all, for her being pregnant, she is your property already. |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by Sawzer(m): 9:37pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
KBORN:Being unreasonably religious is the first five problem we have in Nigeria Statistically speaking ( ). |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by Sheina(f): 9:46pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
zyzxx:What what why My head is paining me na Read your last paragraph 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by Sawzer(m): 9:59pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Sheina: |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by zyzxx(m): 10:12pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by Sheina(f): 10:28pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
zyzxx:Thank you 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by SavageResponse(m): 12:22am On Nov 13, 2020 |
KBORN: Why did you get her pregnant when you knew that her mother was not in support of the relationship?  |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by SmileDance(f): 10:25am On Nov 13, 2020 |
KBORN:I personally don’t believe those messages, but then who knows Only your girl can answer if you are the one responsible for the pregnancy or not and I think you should talk to your girl and her father concerning your worries, some of these white garment people can be something else, it’s always best to avoid their wahala 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by SILENTandSMART2: 10:46am On Nov 13, 2020 |
I don't know why most of you guys usually do as if girls no dey again, dem tell you not to do something you still go ahead, The mummy know what she's saying, it might be another thing self, People love to risk things alot Anyway God nogo shame us |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by jasman1: 11:18am On Nov 13, 2020 |
You obviously got her pregnant to prove her wrong, that could be your worst mistake. Since her reason was pregnancy, go back and ask her to pray for both of you and tell her that the pregnancy was not planned. Don’t just cut her off because it’s not going to be to your advantage along the line. Help her save face and seek her blessing too. Not sure what your girl friend sees in you, I’m glad she’s not related to me, you sound very manipulative, just a bad person |
| Re: Should I Go Ahead With This Marriage?(advice) by KBORN(m): 12:05pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
donbachi:Am reasoning along that line but i need to be sure first. |
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