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Sex Before And After by fromnigeria(m): 6:06am On Nov 17, 2020
Heard one reason men go out for other ladies aside their wife is that after the first child and onward, sex with their woman (wife), is no longer as enjoyable as before child bearing. So they move out, in order to get satisfaction elsewhere.

How true is this?.

I'm just curious, as an unmarried, I want to prepare the mind ahead, since I really don't believe in cheating on myself... angry

Thanks to all married men here for your sincere input.

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Re: Sex Before And After by Nobody: 6:17am On Nov 17, 2020
Your focus should be on God, every other thing will fall in place. Shalom

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Re: Sex Before And After by fati2001(m): 6:19am On Nov 17, 2020
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DON'T MARRY SO THAT YOU CAN SEX FREELY, SINCE THAT'S YOUR AIM.

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Re: Sex Before And After by Godada(m): 6:21am On Nov 17, 2020
By now you should have gotten to the point where you can understand that not everything you hear can be admissible as the truth.


A man disposed to cheat will do so regardless of being married or not.

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Re: Sex Before And After by asdfjklhaha(f): 6:26am On Nov 17, 2020
fati2001:
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DON'T MARRY SO THAT YOU CAN SEX FREELY, SINCE THAT'S YOUR AIM.
Best advice so far. Tell him sis. Most dogs and goats are becoming better than many Nigerian men

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Re: Sex Before And After by fromnigeria(m): 6:27am On Nov 17, 2020
Zzor:
Your focus should be on God, every other thing will fall in place. Shalom

Focus sure...

Just want to know... Beforehand
Re: Sex Before And After by fromnigeria(m): 6:29am On Nov 17, 2020
fati2001:
Advice



DON'T MARRY SO THAT YOU CAN SEX FREELY, SINCE THAT'S YOUR AIM.
Sure, my first reason and foremost is COMPANIONSHIP
Re: Sex Before And After by Sundrus: 6:29am On Nov 17, 2020
cheesy what of men wey marry single mothers. U wan say them no dey enjoy the sex. Na mindset thing Oga.

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Re: Sex Before And After by fromnigeria(m): 6:31am On Nov 17, 2020
Godada:
By now you should have gotten to the point where you can understand that not everything you hear can be admissible as the truth.


A man disposed to cheat will do so regardless of being married or not.

You're right, but what's it (sex) like, before and after marriage.
Re: Sex Before And After by fati2001(m): 6:31am On Nov 17, 2020
fromnigeria:

Sure, my first reason and foremost is COMPANIONSHIP


SINCE YOUR FIRST REASON IS COMPANIONSHIP, I SHOULD NOT BE TALKING ABOUT SEX NOW ...JUST FOCUS.
Re: Sex Before And After by tyup(m): 6:34am On Nov 17, 2020
Zzor:
Your focus should be on God, every other thing will fall in place. Shalom

Better be careful mai u no go collect 2by4 early morning for mouth angry

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Re: Sex Before And After by Godada(m): 6:34am On Nov 17, 2020
fromnigeria:


You're right, but what's it (sex) like, before and after marriage.


It doesn't change. It's the passion that you have for each other you work on. Love is not what you see in movies. It's different.

About that issue you raised. It's up to you to communicate with your woman to up her game. Challenges of life and raising kids sometimes takes the buzz out of the woman and she just wants you to do your thing and be off.

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Re: Sex Before And After by fromnigeria(m): 6:35am On Nov 17, 2020
Sundrus:
cheesy what of men wey marry single mothers. U wan say them no dey enjoy the sex. Na mindset thing Oga.

For mind set, That's true, but are they also faithful to the single mother?

Is there any practical diff as such?

You know my fiance and I got into a discussion and she reveal she wants to enjoy her self first oo. Before child bearing should begin.
This is what even put it on my mind at all...

So I just want to know if
Re: Sex Before And After by tyup(m): 6:38am On Nov 17, 2020
fromnigeria:
Heard one reason men go out for other ladies aside their wife is that after the first child and onward, sex with their woman (wife), is no longer as enjoyable as before child bearing. So they move out, in order to get satisfaction elsewhere.

How true is this?.

I'm just curious, as an unmarried, I want to prepare the mind ahead, since I really don't believe in cheating on myself... angry

Thanks to all married men here for your sincere input.

It's not that the sex don't get enjoyable no more but the nigga man is simply tired of fucking same pvssy over n over again

just like eating beans everyday for one year. n me eating Rice for same one year. while I'll like to eat/have the bean you've been eating daily for a Year long in exchange for the rice I've been eating for a Year. no matter how many kids a woman has born she'd surely be fresh to a new guy and that's how it works man cool

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Re: Sex Before And After by fromnigeria(m): 6:38am On Nov 17, 2020
Godada:



It doesn't change. It's the passion that you have for each other you work on. Love is not what you see in movies. It's different.

About that issue you raised. It's up to you to communicate with your woman to up her game. Challenges of life and raising kids sometimes takes the buzz out of the woman and she just wants you to do your thing and be off.

This is brotherly, I appreciate

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Re: Sex Before And After by fromnigeria(m): 6:42am On Nov 17, 2020
tyup:


It's not that the sex don't get enjoyable no more but the nigga man is simply tired of fucking same pvssy over n over again

just like eating beans everyday for one year. while I'll like to eat/have the bean you've been for a Year long in exchange for the rice I've been eating for a Year stretch to. that's how it works man cool
Thanks so much for the info in the first paragraph. But second para. is not very clear to me...

But if I got something at all, I think looking at first paragraph, I will be able to eat that same beans daily for as long

THANKS much much
Re: Sex Before And After by Sundrus: 6:43am On Nov 17, 2020
fromnigeria:


For mind set, That's true, but are they also faithful to the single mother?

Is there any practical diff as such?

You know my fiance and I got into a discussion and she reveal she wants to enjoy her self first oo. Before child bearing should begin.
This is what even put it on my mind at all...

So I just want to know if
to dey faithful na still part of mindset. Some men dey marry olosho, but them no dey cheat. Even some ladies dey aware say their husbands na playboys but them go still remain faithful. Funny thing be say this life no balance. People need to work on themselves before them enter into any form of commitment.

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Re: Sex Before And After by youngvikthor(m): 6:45am On Nov 17, 2020
is too early to talk about sex na haba
Re: Sex Before And After by BabbanBura(m): 6:47am On Nov 17, 2020
asdfjklhaha:

Best advice so far. Tell him sis. Most dogs and goats are becoming better than many Nigerian men

Who did this to you hanty? Kpele!!!
Re: Sex Before And After by nairaman66(m): 7:40am On Nov 17, 2020
asdfjklhaha:

Best advice so far. Tell him sis. Most dogs and goats are becoming better than many Nigerian men

I guess the men are doing it with themselves! The ladies are on the sidelines cheering the men!! Go, go, go!! grin
Re: Sex Before And After by femi4: 8:21am On Nov 17, 2020
fromnigeria:
Heard one reason men go out for other ladies aside their wife is that after the first child and onward, sex with their woman (wife), is no longer as enjoyable as before child bearing. So they move out, in order to get satisfaction elsewhere.

How true is this?.

I'm just curious, as an unmarried, I want to prepare the mind ahead, since I really don't believe in cheating on myself... angry

Thanks to all married men here for your sincere input.
Not true, they just want variety
Re: Sex Before And After by LagosAirport: 9:05am On Nov 17, 2020
Zzor:
Your focus should be on God, every other thing will fall in place. Shalom
God doesn't give good sex, tight and right puzzy does
Re: Sex Before And After by SILENTandSMART2: 9:07am On Nov 17, 2020
OP you're a fool that's all



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Re: Sex Before And After by Benekkk: 9:16am On Nov 17, 2020
Not true at all. If you've seen one, you've seen all. Staying with the one you love is unbeatable! Even 30 years after. Love making is not plain sex.

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Re: Sex Before And After by Nobody: 9:26am On Nov 17, 2020
Zzor:
Your focus should be on God, every other thing will fall in place. Shalom
not taking anything from God almighty.. but you've absolutely contributed nothing as regard to this thread..
Re: Sex Before And After by EmmySparky(m): 10:15am On Nov 17, 2020
asdfjklhaha:

Best advice so far. Tell him sis. Most dogs and goats are becoming better than many Nigerian men
lol them don teach this one lesson...sorry ooo...add cat join
Re: Sex Before And After by AKWATGOLD1: 12:09pm On Nov 17, 2020
Let your time come and you will come a share your experience on this platform.
Re: Sex Before And After by 444crop: 12:44pm On Nov 17, 2020
Not that am willing to share but I have good list of girls who also don't wish to marry but have kids... U know, baby mama
Re: Sex Before And After by MickzyDonald: 2:10pm On Nov 17, 2020
Zzor:
Your focus should be on God, every other thing will fall in place. Shalom
I'll see u one day sha
Re: Sex Before And After by PlsBanMe: 6:17pm On Nov 17, 2020
Child bearing does not stop the enjoyment of sex. What stop sex enjoyment is that fact that most women feel relax after marriage and stop dressing well. They cannot entice their husband again.

Men are attracted to sights and when this stops, they look out for attraction.
Re: Sex Before And After by fromnigeria(m): 9:33am On Nov 19, 2020
PlsBanMe:
Child bearing does not stop the enjoyment of sex. What stop sex enjoyment is that fact that most women feel relax after marriage and stop dressing well. They cannot entice their husband again.

Men are attracted to sights and when this stops, they look out for attraction.
Thanks
Re: Sex Before And After by ezechi24(m): 9:37am On Nov 19, 2020
Zzor:
Your focus should be on God, every other thing will fall in place. Shalom


is this really u...wow

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