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UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by ubunja(m): 6:56pm On Nov 26, 2020
How Commitment From Men Creates Orgasms For A Woman.


LET'S START AT THE VERY BEGINNING.
Women control sex. Men control commitment. Because women have the pussy and men have the money.

Women are choosy with the men they sleep with. While men are choosy with the women they commit to.

Men are choosy in commitment because a man's commitment is costly to him in that he bears the financial costs of the relationship so who he commits to is a carefully made decision.

Women, on the other hand, are choosy with who they sleep with because sex carries so many physical, biological, psychological and societal risks for them. Everytime a woman sleeps with a man she risks Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) which tend to be more aggressive towards women and some of which can destroy her womb, she risks pregnancy which can go wrong if she gets an STI that can pass to her unborn baby, she risks physical harm on her delicate organs from sex with aggressive partners and she also risks dickmatization if the dick proves too good, driving her nuts and messing her up mentally.
A woman also risks socially when she has sex because sex with the wrong men - men who are judgemental and talk too much - will ruin her reputation in her community, church, school or workplace and bring her ratings down as far as marriage is concerned. So who a woman has sex with is a carefully made decision.

WOMEN AND COMMITMENT.
In sex women are invested and they have a lot to lose because their bodies are on the line, but in commitment they are not invested because they don't bring much to the table financially (the table being the relationship or the marriage), hence women initiate the most divorces.

Because they came empty-handed women don't lose anything by walking away anytime. A woman's power in a relationship is that she can walk away anytime, because she's not invested the way men are.

No matter how irresponsible and careless a married woman is, she's never the one who has to watch her life savings go down the drain as the marriage breaks down. It's the men who invest their life savings into a marriage. It's them who lose the most when relationships break down.

Most often men are irreversibly ruined financially by a divorce while a woman can simple marry another man.

MEN AND SEX.
When a man and a woman start a relationship all the financial costs, by default, fall on the man. He's the one expected to pay for the dates, buy the gifts, pay bride price, fund the wedding, organize a home, put food on the table and make sure the woman is provided for. Which means for men relationships costs money. And since a relationship can only happen if a man is committed to a woman, then commitment costs a man money. And because money is something a man works hard for, he has to choose his girlfriend and wife carefully or risk losing it all if he commits to the wrong woman who'll abandon him.

But on the other hand, men are not invested in sex because their money and their bodies are not on the line, and all they stand to lose during sex is some pocket change (since sex is as cheap as a loaf of bread), some sweat and maybe a tablespoon of sperm - hence men screw anything in a skirt and it is virtually impossible to get a man to take contraception seriously because he can't get pregnant no matter how careless he is with sex.

No matter how irresponsible a man is with his dick, he's never the one left carrying a baby. And STIs are generally kinder to men than they're to women. And even if an STI was to be so aggressive as to destroy a man's fertility, a barren man is less a catastrophe than a barren woman.

So men are careless with sex, while women are careless with commitment.

And men are careful with commitment, while women are careful with sex.

WHAT SEX MEANS TO MEN AND WOMEN.
For men sex offers maximum benefits (orgasms are always guaranteed and their bodies don't get ruined) while offering minimum risks - but sex is hard to get for them.

For women sex offers minimum benefits (many don't even orgasm) and maximum risks (pregnancy, disease, bonding issues with future men and it ruins women's bodies) but is easy to get.

Men go through life begging for sex. Women go through life turning down sex.

Men come from a place of sexual scarcity. Women come from a place of sexual abundance.

Men come from a place of sex without fear and without concerns because in sex men are not risking much. But women come from a place of sex filled with anxiety and concerns - due to the risks sex presents to them.

WHAT BLOCKS A WOMAN'S PLEASURE?
Although women get sex easy, the sex act itself is very dis-empowering for them. A woman is powerful out there when she's teasing men with her scanty clothing and tempting attire. But the moment the bedroom door closes behind her and the clothes come off and that dick slides into her pussy, the man has all the power. Never is a woman more vulnerable, more defenseless, more exposed and more overpowered, than when she has a dick buried inside her. Her pussy, heart and mind have all been penetrated and taken captive by the man - someone with so little to lose from the sex.

The man, hardly invested in the sex, controls the sex. The woman, she who has everything to lose, has zero control of the moment. If the man decides against condoms he'll most certainly get his way. If his dick is too big for her hole - too bad, she's going to walk funny and sit funny for the next couple of days. If the woman changes her mind and wants the sex to stop - too late, this train doesn't stop till ejaculation! If the man desires to come inside her, there's nothing to stop him.

When a woman is having sex with a man who doesn't love her and who's not committed to her in any way, she shoulders all the risks of the sex all on her own. Whatever the outcome of the sex - pregnancy or disease - she's on her own. She may use contraception but she knows no contraception is 100%. She may have the option to abort any unwanted pregnancy but most women don't feel okay with murdering unborn babies plus abortions carry their own risks. So whatever safety nets and measures exist to minimize the risk of sex for women they still feel exposed to many dangers.

And so, during the sex, while the man is lost in the bliss of intercourse enjoying the ecstasy of copulation, the woman's mind is restless with worry: "What if something goes wrong?", "What if the condom breaks?", "What if he doesn't pull out?", "What if I get pregnant?", "What if I get sick? Who will help me? Will this guy help me? But he doesn't even love me! Yes he gave me money to fvck me, but if I get a baby or a disease that money is peanuts".

Now, these thoughts are very distracting for a woman. They draw her mind away from the act she's participating in.

Instead of focusing on the action between her legs and savoring the sensations, the woman's mind is all over the place. On things that can go wrong. She's wondering what she'll do if things go sideways. Knowing fully well the man fvcking her won't be there for her should the worst happen.
All this brainwork drains the magic out of the sex. It negatively impacts on the woman's experience. It blocks her pleasure. She's too preoccupied analysing worst case scenarios to mentally relax and enjoy herself. She can't reach the highest highs of pleasure with these worries weighing on her mind. And so the sex ultimately never quite fulfill or satisfy her. Her mind is not present in the moment. She's too worried to enjoy anything. And days and weeks after the sex, she'll still worry about other consequences of the sex that may yet surface.

UNLOCKING A WOMAN'S ORGASMS THROUGH COMMITMENT.
NOW, when a woman is having sex with a man committed to her, who loves and cares for her, who values her and who has abundantly made it clear he is willing to shoulder the risks of sex together with her and has sufficiently invested in her as proof, it reassures her and gives her the confidence to cast her worries to the side. This casting away of worries, this alleviation of concerns, this neutralising of fears, this building of trust and confidence, this relief from anxiety - all this puts a woman in a safe and secure mental space. A good place. A happy place. This mental space, this good place, this happy place, is where a woman's orgasms come from.

The difference between committed, loving sex and uncommitted, casual sex, for a woman, is the STATE OF MIND she's in during the sex which in turn affects the amount of pleasure she can derive from the sex. Committed loving sex yields more pleasure.

Because sex, enjoyable as it is, has the potential to ruin a woman's life in so many ways, it is when a woman fully trusts her man to co-shoulder with her any undesirable outcomes, that sex becomes amazing for her. When a woman fully believes that a man will stand by her in dealing with whatever might happen to her because of the sex, her mind is free to let go of all worries and to focus on actually enjoying the sex - it is then that the orgasms will hit. And they'll hit more and more frequently for her.

When there are safety nets, a woman soars and touches the sky.

Inside a relationship, when it comes to sex, It's not so much the size of a man's dick or his sexual prowess that makes sex amazing for a woman, but it's what the relationship represents to her: security - courtesy of the man's commitment.

Her man's commitment to her enables the woman to cast her cares upon him, freeing her mind to fully partake of the moment.

"MONEY MAKES ME WET".
And it's not just the vanquishing of worries specific to sex that makes sex great for women. Women are historically poor and many struggle financially even though they have a job.
The worries that come with not having enough money - worrying about the bills, about food, about the cost of beauty products, clothing, her future, etc, all these are pleasure blockers in that they keep a woman's mind preoccupied - even during sex.

When a woman is a married virtually ALL these fears are allayed. She's at peace and her mind is free. This is fertile ground for women's orgasms.

Men think safe sex is condoms. And that's true. But for women safe sex goes further than just condoms. It includes financial aspects. Aspects that have NOTHING to do with sex. But aspects that, for women, have an immediate and direct effect on the sex.

And on condoms, if a woman has to use condoms to have sex with you already she views the sex as risky and already her pleasure has been blocked. Women hate condoms. And not because they enjoy less with the rubber on or they're allergic, but because of what the rubber symbolizes: "I don't trust you and we shouldn't be doing this, so let's keep our flesh from touching". Which makes the sex cold, detached, unromantic and mechanical - like sex between a man and a prostitute.
Women don't get joy from this kind of sex because it's not intimate. Because there is no skin to skin touch and no exchange of bodily fluids that build that connection and that bond where two become one.

Safe sex for women is sex where they don't have to use condoms because everything is safe . Sex that is happening at the right time with the right man in the right environment for the right reasons.

A slut who has given sex to many men for many years without getting so much as one orgasm can have her first orgasm in marriage with her VIRGIN HUSBAND. Not because virgin husband has superior skills. But because of the circumstances of the sex. The environment. The reasons. That in turn determine the quality of the sex.

QUANTITY VS QUALITY.
For a woman - as far as sex is concerned - the choice between being a hoe and being in a loving relationship with one man is the choice between QUANTITY and QUALITY. Where hoering offers high quantity sex, but a loving one-man relationship offers high quality sex.

A woman who has chosen sexual quantity is an insatiable black hole that consumes and consumes and can never have enough because unrestrained female sexual appetite is bottomless. Also a woman who, in general, orgasms easily during sex is likely to choose to be a hoe. Because she doesn't need that safe and secure mental space (which a relationship creates) to get the most out of sex.

THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN.
But, as with all things sex and romance, men and women live in different realities. Opposing realities. And sex and commitment is yet another area of opposites: while sex with commitment is the best sex for women, sex WITHOUT commitment is the best sex for men.

A man enjoys sex best when he has no regard, no respect and no care for the woman he's screwing. The woman the man holds in high regard whom he respects and cares about, sex with her doesn't quite blow his mind. It's that whole Madonna-Wh0re thing. Where the respected girlfriend or wife is loved but the debased hoe is lusted.


# MGTOW
# TheRedPill

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by KAPOVee: 6:59pm On Nov 26, 2020
Ubunja, the great philosopher..l greet you

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by PinkPill(f): 7:17pm On Nov 26, 2020
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Kalatium(m): 7:22pm On Nov 26, 2020
Ununja and his long epistles

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Prymestrr(m): 7:27pm On Nov 26, 2020
Ubunja on the beatz grin

More knowledge to your brain for the betterment of mankind sir.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Daniiel: 8:08pm On Nov 26, 2020
ubunja:
How Commitment From Men Creates Orgasms For A Woman.


LET'S START AT THE VERY BEGINNING.
Women control sex. Men control commitment. Because women have the pussy and men have the money.

Women are choosy with the men they sleep with. While men are choosy with the women they commit to.

Men are choosy in commitment because a man's commitment is costly to him in that he bears the financial costs of the relationship so who he commits to is a carefully made decision.

Women, on the other hand, are choosy with who they sleep with because sex carries so many physical, biological, psychological and societal risks for them. Everytime a woman sleeps with a man she risks Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) which tend to be more aggressive towards women and some of which can destroy her womb, she risks pregnancy which can go wrong if she gets an STI that can pass to her unborn baby, she risks physical harm on her delicate organs from sex with aggressive partners and she also risks dickmatization if the dick proves too good, driving her nuts and messing her up mentally.
A woman also risks socially when she has sex because sex with the wrong men - men who are judgemental and talk too much - will ruin her reputation in her community, church, school or workplace and bring her ratings down as far as marriage is concerned. So who a woman has sex with is a carefully made decision.

WOMEN AND COMMITMENT.
In sex women are invested and they have a lot to lose because their bodies are on the line, but in commitment they are not invested because they don't bring much to the table financially (the table being the relationship or the marriage), hence women initiate the most divorces.

Because they came empty-handed women don't lose anything by walking away anytime. A woman's power in a relationship is that she can walk away anytime, because she's not invested the way men are.

No matter how irresponsible and careless a married woman is, she's never the one who has to watch her life savings go down the drain as the marriage breaks down. It's the men who invest their life savings into a marriage. It's them who lose the most when relationships break down.

Most often men are irreversibly ruined financially by a divorce while a woman can simple marry another man.

MEN AND SEX.
When a man and a woman start a relationship all the financial costs, by default, fall on the man. He's the one expected to pay for the dates, buy the gifts, pay bride price, fund the wedding, organize a home, put food on the table and make sure the woman is provided for. Which means for men relationships costs money. And since a relationship can only happen if a man is committed to a woman, then commitment costs a man money. And because money is something a man works hard for, he has to choose his girlfriend and wife carefully or risk losing it all if he commits to the wrong woman who'll abandon him.

But on the other hand, men are not invested in sex because their money and their bodies are not on the line, and all they stand to lose during sex is some pocket change (since sex is as cheap as a loaf of bread), some sweat and maybe a tablespoon of sperm - hence men screw anything in a skirt and it is virtually impossible to get a man to take contraception seriously because he can't get pregnant no matter how careless he is with sex.

No matter how irresponsible a man is with his dick, he's never the one left carrying a baby. And STIs are generally kinder to men than they're to women. And even if an STI was to be so aggressive as to destroy a man's fertility, a barren man is less a catastrophe than a barren woman.

So men are careless with sex, while women are careless with commitment.

And men are careful with commitment, while women are careful with sex.

WHAT SEX MEANS TO MEN AND WOMEN.
For men sex offers maximum benefits (orgasms are always guaranteed and their bodies don't get ruined) while offering minimum risks - but sex is hard to get for them.

For women sex offers minimum benefits (many don't even orgasm) and maximum risks (pregnancy, disease, bonding issues with future men and it ruins women's bodies) but is easy to get.

Men go through life begging for sex. Women go through life turning down sex.

Men come from a place of sexual scarcity. Women come from a place of sexual abundance.

Men come from a place of sex without fear and without concerns because in sex men are not risking much. But women come from a place of sex filled with anxiety and concerns - due to the risks sex presents to them.

WHAT BLOCKS A WOMAN'S PLEASURE?
Although women get sex easy, the sex act itself is very dis-empowering for them. A woman is powerful out there when she's teasing men with her scanty clothing and tempting attire. But the moment the bedroom door closes behind her and the clothes come off and that dick slides into her pussy, the man has all the power. Never is a woman more vulnerable, more defenseless, more exposed and more overpowered, than when she has a dick buried inside her. Her pussy, heart and mind have all been penetrated and taken captive by the man - someone with so little to lose from the sex.

The man, hardly invested in the sex, controls the sex. The woman, she who has everything to lose, has zero control of the moment. If the man decides against condoms he'll most certainly get his way. If his dick is too big for her hole - too bad, she's going to walk funny and sit funny for the next couple of days. If the woman changes her mind and wants the sex to stop - too late, this train doesn't stop till ejaculation! If the man desires to come inside her, there's nothing to stop him.

When a woman is having sex with a man who doesn't love her and who's not committed to her in any way, she shoulders all the risks of the sex all on her own. Whatever the outcome of the sex - pregnancy or disease - she's on her own. She may use contraception but she knows no contraception is 100%. She may have the option to abort any unwanted pregnancy but most women don't feel okay with murdering unborn babies plus abortions carry their own risks. So whatever safety nets and measures exist to minimize the risk of sex for women they still feel exposed to many dangers.

And so, during the sex, while the man is lost in the bliss of intercourse enjoying the ecstasy of copulation, the woman's mind is restless with worry: "What if something goes wrong?", "What if the condom breaks?", "What if he doesn't pull out?", "What if I get pregnant?", "What if I get sick? Who will help me? Will this guy help me? But he doesn't even love me! Yes he gave me money to fvck me, but if I get a baby or a disease that money is peanuts".

Now, these thoughts are very distracting for a woman. They draw her mind away from the act she's participating in.

Instead of focusing on the action between her legs and savoring the sensations, the woman's mind is all over the place. On things that can go wrong. She's wondering what she'll do if things go sideways. Knowing fully well the man fvcking her won't be there for her should the worst happen.
All this brainwork drains the magic out of the sex. It negatively impacts on the woman's experience. It blocks her pleasure. She's too preoccupied analysing worst case scenarios to mentally relax and enjoy herself. She can't reach the highest highs of pleasure with these worries weighing on her mind. And so the sex ultimately never quite fulfill or satisfy her. Her mind is not present in the moment. She's too worried to enjoy anything. And days and weeks after the sex, she'll still worry about other consequences of the sex that may yet surface.

UNLOCKING A WOMAN'S ORGASMS THROUGH COMMITMENT.
NOW, when a woman is having sex with a man committed to her, who loves and cares for her, who values her and who has abundantly made it clear he is willing to shoulder the risks of sex together with her and has sufficiently invested in her as proof, it reassures her and gives her the confidence to cast her worries to the side. This casting away of worries, this alleviation of concerns, this neutralising of fears, this building of trust and confidence, this relief from anxiety - all this puts a woman in a safe and secure mental space. A good place. A happy place. This mental space, this good place, this happy place, is where a woman's orgasms come from.

The difference between committed, loving sex and uncommitted, casual sex, for a woman, is the STATE OF MIND she's in during the sex which in turn affects the amount of pleasure she can derive from the sex. Committed loving sex yields more pleasure.

Because sex, enjoyable as it is, has the potential to ruin a woman's life in so many ways, it is when a woman fully trusts her man to co-shoulder with her any undesirable outcomes, that sex becomes amazing for her. When a woman fully believes that a man will stand by her in dealing with whatever might happen to her because of the sex, her mind is free to let go of all worries and to focus on actually enjoying the sex - it is then that the orgasms will hit. And they'll hit more and more frequently for her.

When there are safety nets, a woman soars and touches the sky.

Inside a relationship, when it comes to sex, It's not so much the size of a man's dick or his sexual prowess that makes sex amazing for a woman, but it's what the relationship represents to her: security - courtesy of the man's commitment.

Her man's commitment to her enables the woman to cast her cares upon him, freeing her mind to fully partake of the moment.

"MONEY MAKES ME WET".
And it's not just the vanquishing of worries specific to sex that makes sex great for women. Women are historically poor and many struggle financially even though they have a job.
The worries that come with not having enough money - worrying about the bills, about food, about the cost of beauty products, clothing, her future, etc, all these are pleasure blockers in that they keep a woman's mind preoccupied - even during sex.

When a woman is a married virtually ALL these fears are allayed. She's at peace and her mind is free. This is fertile ground for women's orgasms.

Men think safe sex is condoms. And that's true. But for women safe sex goes further than just condoms. It includes financial aspects. Aspects that have NOTHING to do with sex. But aspects that, for women, have an immediate and direct effect on the sex.

And on condoms, if a woman has to use condoms to have sex with you already she views the sex as risky and already her pleasure has been blocked. Women hate condoms. And not because they enjoy less with the rubber on or they're allergic, but because of what the rubber symbolizes: "I don't trust you and we shouldn't be doing this, so let's keep our flesh from touching". Which makes the sex cold, detached, unromantic and mechanical - like sex between a man and a prostitute.
Women don't get joy from this kind of sex because it's not intimate. Because there is no skin to skin touch and no exchange of bodily fluids that build that connection and that bond where two become one.

Safe sex for women is sex where they don't have to use condoms because everything is safe . Sex that is happening at the right time with the right man in the right environment for the right reasons.

A slut who has given sex to many men for many years without getting so much as one orgasm can have her first orgasm in marriage with her VIRGIN HUSBAND. Not because virgin husband has superior skills. But because of the circumstances of the sex. The environment. The reasons. That in turn determine the quality of the sex.

QUANTITY VS QUALITY.
For a woman - as far as sex is concerned - the choice between being a hoe and being in a loving relationship with one man is the choice between QUANTITY and QUALITY. Where hoering offers high quantity sex, but a loving one-man relationship offers high quality sex.

A woman who has chosen sexual quantity is an insatiable black hole that consumes and consumes and can never have enough because unrestrained female sexual appetite is bottomless. Also a woman who, in general, orgasms easily during sex is likely to choose to be a hoe. Because she doesn't need that safe and secure mental space (which a relationship creates) to get the most out of sex.

THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN.
But, as with all things sex and romance, men and women live in different realities. Opposing realities. And sex and commitment is yet another area of opposites: while sex with commitment is the best sex for women, sex WITHOUT commitment is the best sex for men.

A man enjoys sex best when he has no regard, no respect and no care for the woman he's screwing. The woman the man holds in high regard whom he respects and cares about, sex with her doesn't quite blow his mind. It's that whole Madonna-Wh0re thing. Where the respected girlfriend or wife is loved but the debased hoe is lusted.


# MGTOW
# TheRedPill

just form a religion u go get followers ... I read ur previous write ups and you are really blessed with knowledge and understanding.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Sulele04(m): 8:10pm On Nov 26, 2020
Another masterpiece.
ubunja i hail oh cool.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Snow02: 8:18pm On Nov 26, 2020
Vhh

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by kurupt1: 8:28pm On Nov 26, 2020
Ubunja abeg I no agree with this article
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Nobody: 8:31pm On Nov 26, 2020
A man's commitment is what older women crave for, but sadly they find it hard to get at that stage. Most young women make a mockery of guys who are into them. For me, I don't see any reason to stay committed to one lady, not in the foreseeable future, men in such relationships nowadays always end up with regrets.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by SILENTandSMART2: 8:36pm On Nov 26, 2020
Another eleribuu OP,


You're nothing but eleribuu,


What daa forkk nigga angry



People juss over hype this guy aswear he gat nothing in his brain ,



The werey boys go juss dey shout his name up and down, aswear this guy nah confirm eleribuu OP,


Imagine the shit he wrote, you go sit down with your android 5.1 or probably 6.1 android phone with the werey 2g wey dey your area to dey post eleribuu man principle,



Are you mad or something ?


Though i didn't read your epistles but the eleribuu sentence in the early part of your post turn me off,


Eleribuu man please stop all this eleribuu post dat you like posting,


Werey juss dey disguise angry

Useless principle


To the rest of my real nigga god nogo shame us smiley ✌️✊

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by tobechi74: 8:45pm On Nov 26, 2020
Economics of sex

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Climax07(m): 8:47pm On Nov 26, 2020
Hmm, this is amazing, where does he get inspiration from?

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by rahztafari(m): 8:48pm On Nov 26, 2020
The way you define the connection between a man and a woman is out of this world.

Once again, we are waiting for the book. Abeg!!!

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Reex12(m): 8:51pm On Nov 26, 2020
the redpill is that truth

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by konkonbilo(m): 8:53pm On Nov 26, 2020
Daniiel:


just form a religion u go get followers ... I read ur previous write ups and you are really blessed with knowledge and understanding.
But why are you quoting the whole write up na Haba! Save us the stress of scrolling down before reading the next comment. Change your ways bro. If the write up is too long just mention the OP or the writer..

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Firstorderwizard(m): 8:55pm On Nov 26, 2020
Daniiel:


just form a religion u go get followers ... I read ur previous write ups and you are really blessed with knowledge and understanding.

Must you quote all the write up
Behave

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Twelfthman: 9:12pm On Nov 26, 2020
Great article bro...
Sadly society won't teach you these...


Daniiel:


just form a religion u go get followers ... I read ur previous write ups and you are really blessed with knowledge and understanding.

You can actually edit or quote part of the write up.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by luwiizy(m): 10:51pm On Nov 26, 2020
UBUNJA ANOTHER BANGER.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Pstarogood0100: 11:00pm On Nov 26, 2020
Nice one

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by ashewoboy(m): 11:16pm On Nov 26, 2020
ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery.


Ride on. the feminists are in troublecheesy.


that girl that went to the beach because she wanted to show us her thighs is in troublecheesy.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Maxxim: 11:38pm On Nov 26, 2020
Oil dey there

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Elxandre(m): 1:40am On Nov 27, 2020
So brilliant.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by DEMZEE(m): 6:00am On Nov 27, 2020
SILENTandSMART2:
Another eleribuu OP,


You're nothing but eleribuu,


What daa forkk nigga angry



People juss over hype this guy aswear he gat nothing in his brain ,



The werey boys go juss dey shout his name up and down, aswear this guy nah confirm eleribuu OP,


Imagine the shit he wrote, you go sit down with your android 5.1 or probably 6.1 android phone with the werey 2g wey dey your area to dey post eleribuu man principle,



Are you mad or something ?


Though i didn't read your epistles but the eleribuu sentence in the early part of your post turn me off,


Eleribuu man please stop all this eleribuu post dat you like posting,


Werey juss dey disguise angry

Useless principle


To the rest of my real nigga god nogo shame us smiley ✌️✊

Ubunja epistles are not for snowflakes

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by DontBullshitMe: 6:02am On Nov 27, 2020
Overdose.

Ubunja, please start spacing the release of miseducation updates.

I'm fast becoming a redpill junkie. grin

100% fam.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Jmk9292(m): 6:54am On Nov 27, 2020
Superb..... Ride on..
ubunja:
How Commitment From Men Creates Orgasms For A Woman.


LET'S START AT THE VERY BEGINNING.
Women control sex. Men control commitment. Because women have the pussy and men have the money.

Women are choosy with the men they sleep with. While men are choosy with the women they commit to.

Men are choosy in commitment because a man's commitment is costly to him in that he bears the financial costs of the relationship so who he commits to is a carefully made decision.

Women, on the other hand, are choosy with who they sleep with because sex carries so many physical, biological, psychological and societal risks for them. Everytime a woman sleeps with a man she risks Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) which tend to be more aggressive towards women and some of which can destroy her womb, she risks pregnancy which can go wrong if she gets an STI that can pass to her unborn baby, she risks physical harm on her delicate organs from sex with aggressive partners and she also risks dickmatization if the dick proves too good, driving her nuts and messing her up mentally.
A woman also risks socially when she has sex because sex with the wrong men - men who are judgemental and talk too much - will ruin her reputation in her community, church, school or workplace and bring her ratings down as far as marriage is concerned. So who a woman has sex with is a carefully made decision.

WOMEN AND COMMITMENT.
In sex women are invested and they have a lot to lose because their bodies are on the line, but in commitment they are not invested because they don't bring much to the table financially (the table being the relationship or the marriage), hence women initiate the most divorces.

Because they came empty-handed women don't lose anything by walking away anytime. A woman's power in a relationship is that she can walk away anytime, because she's not invested the way men are.

No matter how irresponsible and careless a married woman is, she's never the one who has to watch her life savings go down the drain as the marriage breaks down. It's the men who invest their life savings into a marriage. It's them who lose the most when relationships break down.

Most often men are irreversibly ruined financially by a divorce while a woman can simple marry another man.

MEN AND SEX.
When a man and a woman start a relationship all the financial costs, by default, fall on the man. He's the one expected to pay for the dates, buy the gifts, pay bride price, fund the wedding, organize a home, put food on the table and make sure the woman is provided for. Which means for men relationships costs money. And since a relationship can only happen if a man is committed to a woman, then commitment costs a man money. And because money is something a man works hard for, he has to choose his girlfriend and wife carefully or risk losing it all if he commits to the wrong woman who'll abandon him.

But on the other hand, men are not invested in sex because their money and their bodies are not on the line, and all they stand to lose during sex is some pocket change (since sex is as cheap as a loaf of bread), some sweat and maybe a tablespoon of sperm - hence men screw anything in a skirt and it is virtually impossible to get a man to take contraception seriously because he can't get pregnant no matter how careless he is with sex.

No matter how irresponsible a man is with his dick, he's never the one left carrying a baby. And STIs are generally kinder to men than they're to women. And even if an STI was to be so aggressive as to destroy a man's fertility, a barren man is less a catastrophe than a barren woman.

So men are careless with sex, while women are careless with commitment.

And men are careful with commitment, while women are careful with sex.

WHAT SEX MEANS TO MEN AND WOMEN.
For men sex offers maximum benefits (orgasms are always guaranteed and their bodies don't get ruined) while offering minimum risks - but sex is hard to get for them.

For women sex offers minimum benefits (many don't even orgasm) and maximum risks (pregnancy, disease, bonding issues with future men and it ruins women's bodies) but is easy to get.

Men go through life begging for sex. Women go through life turning down sex.

Men come from a place of sexual scarcity. Women come from a place of sexual abundance.

Men come from a place of sex without fear and without concerns because in sex men are not risking much. But women come from a place of sex filled with anxiety and concerns - due to the risks sex presents to them.

WHAT BLOCKS A WOMAN'S PLEASURE?
Although women get sex easy, the sex act itself is very dis-empowering for them. A woman is powerful out there when she's teasing men with her scanty clothing and tempting attire. But the moment the bedroom door closes behind her and the clothes come off and that dick slides into her pussy, the man has all the power. Never is a woman more vulnerable, more defenseless, more exposed and more overpowered, than when she has a dick buried inside her. Her pussy, heart and mind have all been penetrated and taken captive by the man - someone with so little to lose from the sex.

The man, hardly invested in the sex, controls the sex. The woman, she who has everything to lose, has zero control of the moment. If the man decides against condoms he'll most certainly get his way. If his dick is too big for her hole - too bad, she's going to walk funny and sit funny for the next couple of days. If the woman changes her mind and wants the sex to stop - too late, this train doesn't stop till ejaculation! If the man desires to come inside her, there's nothing to stop him.

When a woman is having sex with a man who doesn't love her and who's not committed to her in any way, she shoulders all the risks of the sex all on her own. Whatever the outcome of the sex - pregnancy or disease - she's on her own. She may use contraception but she knows no contraception is 100%. She may have the option to abort any unwanted pregnancy but most women don't feel okay with murdering unborn babies plus abortions carry their own risks. So whatever safety nets and measures exist to minimize the risk of sex for women they still feel exposed to many dangers.

And so, during the sex, while the man is lost in the bliss of intercourse enjoying the ecstasy of copulation, the woman's mind is restless with worry: "What if something goes wrong?", "What if the condom breaks?", "What if he doesn't pull out?", "What if I get pregnant?", "What if I get sick? Who will help me? Will this guy help me? But he doesn't even love me! Yes he gave me money to fvck me, but if I get a baby or a disease that money is peanuts".

Now, these thoughts are very distracting for a woman. They draw her mind away from the act she's participating in.

Instead of focusing on the action between her legs and savoring the sensations, the woman's mind is all over the place. On things that can go wrong. She's wondering what she'll do if things go sideways. Knowing fully well the man fvcking her won't be there for her should the worst happen.
All this brainwork drains the magic out of the sex. It negatively impacts on the woman's experience. It blocks her pleasure. She's too preoccupied analysing worst case scenarios to mentally relax and enjoy herself. She can't reach the highest highs of pleasure with these worries weighing on her mind. And so the sex ultimately never quite fulfill or satisfy her. Her mind is not present in the moment. She's too worried to enjoy anything. And days and weeks after the sex, she'll still worry about other consequences of the sex that may yet surface.

UNLOCKING A WOMAN'S ORGASMS THROUGH COMMITMENT.
NOW, when a woman is having sex with a man committed to her, who loves and cares for her, who values her and who has abundantly made it clear he is willing to shoulder the risks of sex together with her and has sufficiently invested in her as proof, it reassures her and gives her the confidence to cast her worries to the side. This casting away of worries, this alleviation of concerns, this neutralising of fears, this building of trust and confidence, this relief from anxiety - all this puts a woman in a safe and secure mental space. A good place. A happy place. This mental space, this good place, this happy place, is where a woman's orgasms come from.

The difference between committed, loving sex and uncommitted, casual sex, for a woman, is the STATE OF MIND she's in during the sex which in turn affects the amount of pleasure she can derive from the sex. Committed loving sex yields more pleasure.

Because sex, enjoyable as it is, has the potential to ruin a woman's life in so many ways, it is when a woman fully trusts her man to co-shoulder with her any undesirable outcomes, that sex becomes amazing for her. When a woman fully believes that a man will stand by her in dealing with whatever might happen to her because of the sex, her mind is free to let go of all worries and to focus on actually enjoying the sex - it is then that the orgasms will hit. And they'll hit more and more frequently for her.

When there are safety nets, a woman soars and touches the sky.

Inside a relationship, when it comes to sex, It's not so much the size of a man's dick or his sexual prowess that makes sex amazing for a woman, but it's what the relationship represents to her: security - courtesy of the man's commitment.

Her man's commitment to her enables the woman to cast her cares upon him, freeing her mind to fully partake of the moment.

"MONEY MAKES ME WET".
And it's not just the vanquishing of worries specific to sex that makes sex great for women. Women are historically poor and many struggle financially even though they have a job.
The worries that come with not having enough money - worrying about the bills, about food, about the cost of beauty products, clothing, her future, etc, all these are pleasure blockers in that they keep a woman's mind preoccupied - even during sex.

When a woman is a married virtually ALL these fears are allayed. She's at peace and her mind is free. This is fertile ground for women's orgasms.

Men think safe sex is condoms. And that's true. But for women safe sex goes further than just condoms. It includes financial aspects. Aspects that have NOTHING to do with sex. But aspects that, for women, have an immediate and direct effect on the sex.

And on condoms, if a woman has to use condoms to have sex with you already she views the sex as risky and already her pleasure has been blocked. Women hate condoms. And not because they enjoy less with the rubber on or they're allergic, but because of what the rubber symbolizes: "I don't trust you and we shouldn't be doing this, so let's keep our flesh from touching". Which makes the sex cold, detached, unromantic and mechanical - like sex between a man and a prostitute.
Women don't get joy from this kind of sex because it's not intimate. Because there is no skin to skin touch and no exchange of bodily fluids that build that connection and that bond where two become one.

Safe sex for women is sex where they don't have to use condoms because everything is safe . Sex that is happening at the right time with the right man in the right environment for the right reasons.

A slut who has given sex to many men for many years without getting so much as one orgasm can have her first orgasm in marriage with her VIRGIN HUSBAND. Not because virgin husband has superior skills. But because of the circumstances of the sex. The environment. The reasons. That in turn determine the quality of the sex.

QUANTITY VS QUALITY.
For a woman - as far as sex is concerned - the choice between being a hoe and being in a loving relationship with one man is the choice between QUANTITY and QUALITY. Where hoering offers high quantity sex, but a loving one-man relationship offers high quality sex.

A woman who has chosen sexual quantity is an insatiable black hole that consumes and consumes and can never have enough because unrestrained female sexual appetite is bottomless. Also a woman who, in general, orgasms easily during sex is likely to choose to be a hoe. Because she doesn't need that safe and secure mental space (which a relationship creates) to get the most out of sex.

THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN.
But, as with all things sex and romance, men and women live in different realities. Opposing realities. And sex and commitment is yet another area of opposites: while sex with commitment is the best sex for women, sex WITHOUT commitment is the best sex for men.

A man enjoys sex best when he has no regard, no respect and no care for the woman he's screwing. The woman the man holds in high regard whom he respects and cares about, sex with her doesn't quite blow his mind. It's that whole Madonna-Wh0re thing. Where the respected girlfriend or wife is loved but the debased hoe is lusted.


# MGTOW
# TheRedPill
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by JasperVII(m): 7:01am On Nov 27, 2020
Well written. More feathers to your cap

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Nkwobi042: 7:30am On Nov 27, 2020
Lol.

Omo no matter wetin you write, Nigerian guys mumu pass Nigerian girls.

Them go still give out urgent 2k to a girl wey no be amaka or Deborah.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by CovenHighPriest: 7:44am On Nov 27, 2020
tobechi74:
Economics of sex

Perfect name for the thread

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by CaveAdullam: 7:57am On Nov 27, 2020
In long or short term sexual relationship, men are always on the losing side. No matter his commitment, hypergamy is a bastard. The brains of women has been wired neurologically to seek dominant males outside their marriage. So, a woman clinging to a man for a very long time is not because he provides for her solely but because;
1. he is dominant and very masculine.

2. he has the control knob of the relationship.

3. he has a high sexual market value.

4. he has other women flocking around him.

5. his woman is highly invested in the relationship.

The only reasonable benefits of commitment for a man is the furthering of his gene by reproducing children, and raising these children to become mature adults under the auspices of a matured(masculine) father and (feminine) mother, that they may not be labeled among the degenerates in town.

The divorce industry is a booming one, and men must be careful to whom they commit to. Even though he is not sure how long the relationship will last, he must at least make sure the woman he commits to is highly invested in the relationship(she must have gone to hell and back for him or something similar to that), highly vetted, purely conservative with an abundance of femininity.

Women have a larger benefits in any relationship regardless of the risks they are predispose to. Their benefits is always larger than the risks. If not for the sake of civilization and society at large, commitment to a woman is more risky than an escape from hell.

Thanks Ubunja.

God bless.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by SILENTandSMART2: 8:34am On Nov 27, 2020
DEMZEE:


Ubunja epistles are not for snowflakes

Okay we have notice you sir smiley


And mumunja also don see the mention smiley

No problem sir smiley


God nogo shame us my brother ❤️✊

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) A Man's Commitment Gives Women Orgasms. by Mandela27: 8:55am On Nov 27, 2020
This a banger! ubunja be dropping it hot hot

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